{"id":12759,"date":"2020-05-19T11:46:48","date_gmt":"2020-05-19T11:46:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12759"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:08:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:08:19","slug":"carta-aberta-a-pessoa-ama-o-proximo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-aberta-a-pessoa-ama-o-proximo\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta aberta para a pessoa que a ama A seguir"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Querido Quem quer que a ame a seguir,<\/p>\n<p>Antes de a fazeres apaixonar-se por ti, tens de saber algumas coisas. E tamb\u00e9m precisa de estar pronto para fazer algumas coisas. Tamb\u00e9m precisas de te preparar para algumas coisas, uma vez que ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 como as outras.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/why-im-not-like-other-girls-is-harmful\" rel=\"noopener\">She\u2019s not like other girls<\/a> and loving her won\u2019t be like anything you\u2019ve experienced so far. Someone needs to prepare you for this\u2014it might as well be me.<\/p>\n<p>See, this girl you want, she\u2019s been through a lot in her life. She\u2019s been bruised too many times. She\u2019s been taken for granted. She\u2019s been broken as well.<\/p>\n<p>Continuou a dar tudo de si em cada tentativa seguinte, na esperan\u00e7a de que, desta vez, as coisas tomassem o rumo certo. Mas, de cada vez, sofria um novo desgosto.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97027\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-woman-in-sweatshirt-sitting-on-stairs-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada, de camisola, sentada nas escadas, no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-woman-in-sweatshirt-sitting-on-stairs-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-woman-in-sweatshirt-sitting-on-stairs-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-woman-in-sweatshirt-sitting-on-stairs-outside-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-woman-in-sweatshirt-sitting-on-stairs-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-woman-in-sweatshirt-sitting-on-stairs-outside-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As pessoas que a deviam ter amado quebraram-na. As pessoas que deveriam ter estado presentes abandonaram-na. Aqueles que deveriam ter estado l\u00e1 escolheram n\u00e3o o fazer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She\u2019s been disappointed one too many times.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nunca esperou das pessoas coisas extraordin\u00e1rias. S\u00f3 esperava coisas que merecia. Na sua vida, ela esperava receber pelo menos tanto quanto dava. Mas, aparentemente, isso era pedir demasiado.<\/p>\n<p>One would think that after too many disappointments she\u2019d start losing hope in everything. But she didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>She never allowed herself to change just because some people didn\u2019t bother to love her right. Instead, she always held on the hope that one day, someone will know. I pray you\u2019ll be that someone to her.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She\u2019s guarded now.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ela costumava usar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o na manga. Mas o seu passado ensinou-a a n\u00e3o fazer mais isso. Ensinou-lhe que <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/liane-clores\/2015\/02\/the-kind-of-love-that-every-person-deserves\/\" rel=\"noopener\">n\u00e3o <\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/liane-clores\/2015\/02\/the-kind-of-love-that-every-person-deserves\/\" rel=\"noopener\">todos merecem o seu amor<\/a> e que nem toda a gente a amar\u00e1 de volta s\u00f3 porque ela lhes d\u00e1 o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97028\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-white-shell-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher com concha branca ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-white-shell-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-white-shell-outdoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-white-shell-outdoors-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-white-shell-outdoors-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-white-shell-outdoors-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Assim, em vez de dar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o a quem o queria, decidiu d\u00e1-lo a quem realmente o merecia.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She\u2019s been let down so many times.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Others made promises that they had no intentions of keeping. They just wanted to use her kindness and made her believe that they\u2019re willing to do everything for her like she was willing to do for them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But even that didn\u2019t change her.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ela nunca deixou de ser gentil ou carinhosa. Ela nunca deixou de ser quem ela \u00e9. Ela tem um cora\u00e7\u00e3o maior do que o espa\u00e7o que tem para ele e nada de mau que alguma vez lhe tenha acontecido a poder\u00e1 transformar em algu\u00e9m novo.<\/p>\n<p>She knew that everything she\u2019s been through in her life was a lesson and she always watches for the signs carefully, trying to read what the universe is trying to teach her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97029\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-red-and-black-gingham-shirt-sitting-on-cliff-with-hat-at-his-side-1.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher com camisa de ging\u00e3o vermelha e preta sentada numa fal\u00e9sia com chap\u00e9u ao lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-red-and-black-gingham-shirt-sitting-on-cliff-with-hat-at-his-side-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-red-and-black-gingham-shirt-sitting-on-cliff-with-hat-at-his-side-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-red-and-black-gingham-shirt-sitting-on-cliff-with-hat-at-his-side-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-red-and-black-gingham-shirt-sitting-on-cliff-with-hat-at-his-side-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-red-and-black-gingham-shirt-sitting-on-cliff-with-hat-at-his-side-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She never gave up on love or on loving. She never got tired of the love she felt deep within and she\u2019s been walking on this Earth hoping to find someone who\u2019s going to love her right.<\/p>\n<p>Mas ela jurou n\u00e3o dar o seu amor sem mais nem menos. Jurou guard\u00e1-lo para quem realmente o merecesse.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ela adora a direita.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In her loving, there is no such thing as half-assed love. Whenever she loves, she gives it all in. She doesn\u2019t hold back and she\u2019s always honest. With her, you\u2019ll always know where you stand.<\/p>\n<p>Com ela, o amor adquire um significado totalmente novo e conseguir o seu amor far\u00e1 com que sinta que todos os amores anteriores n\u00e3o eram verdadeiros.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mas chegar l\u00e1 com ela \u00e9 dif\u00edcil.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not going to be easy. You need to understand that you won\u2019t only need to prove your worth, but you\u2019ll also need to fight her past. She\u2019s been through much and she just wants to stop being so naive.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97030\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"casal preocupado a olhar um para o outro num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ela construiu as suas muralhas para que s\u00f3 aqueles que realmente querem tentar com ela sejam capazes de as derrubar.<\/p>\n<p>She isn\u2019t afraid of pain or taking another hit for love, but this time it needs to be right. It needs to be <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/10-undeniable-signs-hes-truly-madly-deeply-love\/\">amor verdadeiro<\/a>. Desta vez, tem de ser correto.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E mesmo que n\u00e3o seja f\u00e1cil, valer\u00e1 a pena.<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;So it&#8217;s not gonna be easy. It&#8217;s going to be really hard; we&#8217;re gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me&#8230;every day.&#8221; -Nicholas Sparks<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Perhaps you\u2019ll need to try harder than you\u2019ve ever tried. Perhaps you\u2019ll want to give up on winning her over at times. But don\u2019t do it. You\u2019ll be glad you stuck by her side later.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97031\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-and-woman-hugging.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher tristes a abra\u00e7arem-se\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-and-woman-hugging.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-and-woman-hugging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-and-woman-hugging-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-and-woman-hugging-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-and-woman-hugging-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Because if you stay and choose to fit, if you choose to be the one to knock her walls down and if you show her you\u2019ll be there even in the darkest days, she\u2019ll also choose to love you.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll choose to let go and to stop seeing you through the prism of those who hurt her before.<\/p>\n<p>And once she does that, she\u2019ll accept you the way you are. She\u2019ll choose to love you unconditionally and she\u2019ll choose to make you feel like you\u2019re the only man in this world.<\/p>\n<p>Once she lets go, you\u2019ll see what it means to have a good girl fall for you. You\u2019ll see how it feels to be accepted completely by another human being and you\u2019ll see what it feels to be loved just the way you are. And you\u2019ll never want to lose that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-97026 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Uma carta aberta para a pessoa que a ama A seguir\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Whoever loves her next, Before you make her fall for you, you need to know a few things. And you need to be ready to do a few things as well. You also need to prepare yourself for some things since she is not like others. She\u2019s not like other girls and loving her&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":97025,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12759","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12759","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12759"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12759\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97025"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12759"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12759"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12759"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}