Tornou-se t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura nos tempos modernos porque as pessoas come\u00e7am a perder o contacto com a sua vida real e esquecemo-nos das prioridades que devemos ter numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica.<\/p>\n
O que \u00e9 que procura numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/h2>\n
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If someone would ask you right now, ‘What are you looking for in a relationship?’, what would your answer be?<\/p>\n
Please don’t say true love or chemistry because it’s such a cliche. On the other hand, if you don’t have an answer to this question at all, you should immediately have a serious and deep conversation with yourself.<\/p>\n
It’s especially important to have an answer to this question if you have a potential partner. If you leave this question unanswered, then your potential relationship is condemned to failure for sure.<\/p>\n
Eu sei que todos n\u00f3s queremos encontrar o <\/b>pessoa certa<\/b> with whom we’ll be able to be ourselves. We all want to find our <\/b>alma g\u00e9mea<\/b>, the person who’ll accept us the way we are and stay with us no matter what. <\/b><\/p>\n
No entanto, antes mesmo de come\u00e7armos a procurar a pessoa certa, temos de definir o que significa para n\u00f3s o conceito de alma g\u00e9mea. \u00c9 preciso determinar e definir o que se procura numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
It’s truly important to define it because if you don’t do it on time, you can spend your entire life in a miserable relationship with the wrong person.<\/p>\n
A lot of people think that this isn’t necessary at all because they believe that a person always knows when they encontrar a sua alma g\u00e9mea<\/a>. Este tipo de pensamento \u00e9 um enorme fator de rutura para manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e s\u00e9ria<\/a> com outra pessoa.<\/p>\n Once you dig deeper into your own heart, you’ll be able to tell what you are looking for in a relationship, which will definitely clear your path to your <\/i> alma g\u00e9mea<\/i>. <\/i><\/p>\n Also, this is precisely the purpose of first dates. It’s how we can meet our potential partners a little bit more and check out a sua compatibilidade amorosa<\/a>.<\/p>\n So, have a long and serious talk with yourself. Remember your past relationships. Try to remember what the reasons were as to why all those relationships ended. I’m sure it’ll help you figure out the answer to this very important question.<\/p>\n I’m sure that most \u2018nowadays-relationships\u2019 fail because people don’t actually know what they want in a romantic relationship. Those things differ from person to person; however, here are the most important things and values you should look for in a relationship:<\/p>\n You need that type of relationship where both you and your partner won’t be afraid to communicate your feelings openly. You need a partner who is able to manage and control their own emotions.<\/p>\n Se quiser ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria, ambas as partes precisam de ter um bom entendimento de quem s\u00e3o. Ambos os parceiros devem ser igualmente solid\u00e1rios e emp\u00e1ticos.<\/p>\n Ser emocionalmente maduro tamb\u00e9m significa que se tem sempre <\/b>assumir a responsabilidade pelos seus actos<\/b><\/a>e que sabe como \u00e9 errado culpar os outros pelos seus pr\u00f3prios fracassos.<\/b> Significa tamb\u00e9m que assumimos os nossos erros e que nunca fugimos deles.<\/p>\n Emotional maturity will also help you set some healthy boundaries that are a must for a healthy and happy relationship. It’ll truly be a lot easier to maintain a great relationship with an emotionally mature person.<\/p>\n This is definitely something we should all look for in a romantic relationship. If you allow others to disrespect you, that will only show that you don’t respect yourself either.<\/p>\n Also, a relationship without mutual respect won’t succeed for sure. Your significant other needs to understand that you have different needs, interests, and perspectives over some things in life, and they need to respect all of them.<\/p>\n It’s so easy to tell someone you have respect for them, but acting with respect is what counts, and this is much more difficult. If you share mutual respect for each other, it’ll manter a sa\u00fade da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o <\/a> and you’ll be a very happy couple for sure.<\/p>\n Isto tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 verdadeiramente importante para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e feliz. Ambos os parceiros t\u00eam de ser honestos, directos e francos quando algo os incomoda na rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n If your partner is the type of person who doesn’t have good communication skills, then you should try to make them more comfortable with you and make them open up to you.<\/p>\n One partner should never be guessing what’s happening with the other one. It’s very important to know how to express your emotions, both positive and negative, along with some other things that are bothering you, but in a healthy way. This means communicating about it and avoiding getting into unnecessary conflict.<\/p>\n Encontros online <\/i> tornou-se muito popular atualmente. A <\/i> muitas pessoas <\/i> est\u00e3o \u00e0 procura dos seus <\/i> alma g\u00e9mea <\/i> sobre <\/i> Tinder <\/i> ou outro <\/i> redes sociais<\/i>. <\/i><\/p>\n Unfortunately, most of them post fake pics and information about themselves on those dating sites because they want to appear to have better compatibility with their potential partner. It’s a fact that a lot of people are faking their personalities on their dating profiles<\/p>\n Those dating apps and all of that virtual life allow people not to be honest about themselves, and that’s the main cause of so many broken relationships nowadays. Also, that’s a reason why those relationships tend to be more short-term<\/p>\n Honesty is definitely the number one quality you should look for in a romantic partner. If you catch your significant other in a lie too many times, it’s a clear red flag they don’t have serious and sincere intentions with you.<\/p>\n Se quiser ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida, esta tem de se basear na amizade. Deve procurar uma pessoa que n\u00e3o seja apenas o seu amante, mas tamb\u00e9m o seu melhor amigo.<\/p>\n You need a person who’ll always be there for you; someone who’ll be your biggest fan and most reliable confidant. You should work on building a deep and strong emotional connection; the one only best friends have.<\/p>\n A great relationship is all about partnership. It’s about two people who help and apoiarem-se mutuamente<\/a>‘s growth.<\/p>\n No matter how tough we are, we all need someone we can always count on. We need the type of relationship where we’ll be able to rely on our significant other no matter what.<\/p>\n Life is a very challenging journey. We will all have our ups and downs, and we simply need someone we’ll share it all with.<\/p>\n Just to be clear, we don’t have that other person who will complete us because we’re perfectly whole on our own.<\/p>\n We just need someone we’ll always be able to count on and to share good as well as bad moments with. Acredite em mim, tudo \u00e9 muito mais f\u00e1cil e bonito quando se tem algu\u00e9m com quem partilhar. <\/b><\/p>\n You should look for someone who won’t be arruinar a sua sa\u00fade mental <\/a> by creating unnecessary drama. You need a partner who’ll always try to solve your conflicts and disagreements in a healthy and peaceful way.<\/p>\n All couples have some issues and disagreements, that’s a fact. However, for a healthy relationship, both partners need to find a way to stay calm during heated conversations.<\/p>\n You need to find someone with whom you’ll be able to compromise and find middle ground, someone with whom you’ll learn to solve all your conflicts in the best possible way.<\/p>\n You won’t always agree with your partner about every little thing; that’s why it’s important to find a person with whom you’ll carefully choose your battles… A person who will never allow your disagreements to harm your relationship. <\/i><\/p>\n A verdade \u00e9 que todos n\u00f3s queremos ser vistos e ouvidos. Queremos sentir-nos compreendidos pelos nossos entes queridos porque isso faz-nos sentir amados, respeitados e importantes.<\/p>\n The most beautiful feeling is when you have someone who understands you. Someone who understands even your silence… A person who understands even the most complex parts of your heart and soul. I swear it’s the most comfortable feeling in the world. <\/i><\/p>\n We can’t always explain ourselves, our thoughts, and our feelings to others. It becomes very draining over time, and we just choose to keep it all within ourselves. That’s why it’s important to look for compreens\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>; a person who’ll get you without even speaking a word.<\/p>\n If your potential partner already doesn’t show empathy towards you and some of your problems, then it’s a huge red flag that they simply don’t see your relationship going the way you see it going. The truth is that they probably don’t have serious intentions with you.<\/p>\n Ser emp\u00e1tico um com o outro \u00e9 muito importante se quiser manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel. Ambas as partes devem tentar compreender e relacionar-se uma com a outra.<\/p>\n If you truly love someone, you simply can’t turn a blind eye to their suffering and problems. If your emotional bond is strong enough, you’ll simply feel your partner’s problems as your own and sympathize with their suffering.<\/p>\n We need that one person who’ll always stand right behind us, supporting and motivating us to be better every single day.<\/p>\n If both partners support and help each other’s growth, it’ll have a very positive effect on their relationship’s growth. A supportive partner will help you achieve all your dreams and goals, along with achieving much more than you could ever achieve on your own.<\/p>\n Mutual support will benefit both partners and the relationship itself. Your relationship will hit some rough patches for sure, but with mutual support and understanding, you’ll be able to cope with those hard times.<\/p>\n You should look for a relationship that will be your ‘safe place’; your shelter when storms hit your life. You should find a partner who’ll always stand right beside you, hold your hand, and tell you that those difficult moments will pass. <\/i><\/p>\n You need a partner who’ll never give up on your relationship; someone who won’t walk away from you when hard times come. Your significant other should simply be your biggest protector; your own superman or wonder woman.<\/p>\n Com a pessoa certa<\/a>, you’ll never feel alone because you’ll know that you have someone by your side who you can always count on and that really helps you face all the challenges that life puts in your path.<\/p>\n Todos n\u00f3s queremos ser livres para mostrar o nosso lado vulner\u00e1vel <\/a> to the person we love. We hide our pain and struggles from everyone else, but we shouldn’t hide them from our significant other<\/p>\n You should simply look for someone who’ll know all your flaws and imperfections, and will still choose to embrace them all. Someone who’ll never criticize or judge you despite all of your negative traits and weaknesses.<\/p>\n Eu sei que pode ser bastante assustador mostrar todos os lados maus de si mesmo \u00e0 pessoa amada, mas a pessoa certa abra\u00e7ar\u00e1 todos esses lados n\u00e3o t\u00e3o perfeitos de si e am\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 ainda mais, apesar de todas as falhas que possa ter.<\/p>\n A little appreciation is always the best way to ensure that your relationship stays healthy and successful. When a partner starts feeling that they’ve been taken for granted, it’s a very clear red flag for them that something is off with their relationship.<\/p>\n A aprecia\u00e7\u00e3o m\u00fatua fomenta a liga\u00e7\u00e3o entre os parceiros e pode tamb\u00e9m melhorar a confian\u00e7a e o respeito numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Apreciar algu\u00e9m significa que o valoriza e respeita, o que \u00e9 uma forma de construir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria com essa pessoa.<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/b>110 Mensagens e cita\u00e7\u00f5es comoventes de agradecimento ao namorado<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n When you start a new relationship, it’s perfectly understandable that you’re enjoying spending time with your new partner and getting to know them.<\/p>\n However, as time goes on, you understand that you also need time for yourself. You need some alone time just to focus on the self-relationship. That’s also pretty normal, and actually, a healthy thing.<\/p>\n Just because you’re dating someone, it doesn’t mean that you should be doing everything together and spending 24\/7 together. You’re two different human beings with completely different interests and it’s perfectly normal that you both want to have some alone time to dedicate to your own needs.<\/p>\n Todos n\u00f3s gostamos de ouvir palavras doces e express\u00f5es de amor da nossa cara-metade. No entanto, o facto \u00e9 que as palavras puras nunca s\u00e3o suficientes.<\/p>\n O amor deve ser expresso e provado atrav\u00e9s de ac\u00e7\u00f5es. <\/b>As palavras tornam-se simplesmente sem sentido<\/b><\/a> if they aren’t backed up with actions. <\/b><\/p>\n Those simple acts of kindness will keep the spark in your relationship alive, and it’ll also make both partners feel loved, respected, and cherished.<\/p>\n It’s perfectly normal that you want to date someone you’re physically attracted to. However, you should never allow it to overshadow some other important qualities that you should be looking for in your romantic partner.<\/p>\n I agree that physical affection is a very important part of every relationship, but it’s definitely not the most essential one. As much as it’s important to connect with your partner physically, it’s also important to build an emotional connection with them.<\/p>\n Esse f\u00edsico <\/b>compatibilidade<\/b> \u00e9 um elemento importante de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas mesmo que <\/b>you aren’t compatible with someone<\/b><\/a>, it doesn’t have to be a <\/b>fator de desempate<\/b> para o futuro da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/b><\/p>\n Tanto voc\u00ea como o seu parceiro devem aprender a expressar e a falar livremente sobre as suas necessidades f\u00edsicas. \u00c9 poss\u00edvel fazer com que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o resulte, mesmo que todas as probabilidades estejam contra v\u00f3s, se gostarem o suficiente um do outro e quiserem fazer o mesmo esfor\u00e7o para que resulte.<\/p>\n RELACIONADO: <\/b>Como a falta de afeto arru\u00edna as rela\u00e7\u00f5es (+ como recuperar)<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n Humor is indeed the hottest and most compelling quality that a person can have. That’s why a sentido de humor <\/a> \u00e9 uma das primeiras caracter\u00edsticas que se deve procurar num parceiro rom\u00e2ntico.<\/p>\n A vida pode, de facto, ser bastante desafiante por vezes, e h\u00e1 tantos picos e vales que todos n\u00f3s enfrentamos todos os dias. That’s why it’s very important to have that one person who can make you laugh at the end of the day. <\/b><\/p>\n That’s actually the whole point of love and romantic relationships; to have someone you’ll laugh with and someone who’ll try hard to make your life more beautiful and cheerful every single day.<\/p>\n You should look for a partner who is aware of the importance of compromising for a healthy and happy relationship. You need to find a person who’ll try to solve all your differences by compromising on them.<\/p>\n If your potential partner or a person you’re in love with is never interested in finding the middle ground when you’re arguing about something, then it’s an obvious red flag that they don’t care for your feelings nor the future of your relationship at all.<\/p>\n A compreens\u00e3o m\u00fatua e a vontade de compromisso s\u00e3o chaves para uma boa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/i>… always try to remember this. <\/i> S\u00e3o estes os elementos que v\u00e3o refor\u00e7ar o vosso la\u00e7o afetivo e melhorar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n RELACIONADO: <\/b>9 Compromissos que nunca se deve fazer numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n Remember this… you should never look for the perfect person because that type of person doesn’t exist. You can only look for the right person; the person you’ll share great emotional and physical compatibility with<\/p>\n Deve procurar esse tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que a outra parte se esfor\u00e7a todos os dias para lhe mostrar o quanto a ama e gosta de si.<\/p>\n A conclus\u00e3o \u00e9 que deve procurar o seu <\/i> alma g\u00e9mea<\/i>. Mas, antes de ir \u00e0 ca\u00e7a de a tua pessoa para sempre<\/a>Para isso, \u00e9 preciso definir o que se procura numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e o que \u00e9 uma <\/i> alma g\u00e9mea <\/i> significa para si. <\/i><\/p>\n I truly hope these happy relationship essentials have helped you understand what you\u2019re looking for in a relationship. If your answer covers anything from the list above, I can say for sure that a great relationship is waiting for you in the future.<\/p>\nO que procurar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o: 19 coisas essenciais para um relacionamento saud\u00e1vel<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nMaturidade emocional<\/h3>\n
Ser tratado com respeito<\/h3>\n
Comunica\u00e7\u00e3o regular<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nHonestidade<\/h3>\n
Um parceiro que \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m o seu melhor amigo<\/h3>\n
Fiabilidade<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nUltrapassar conflitos sem dramas desnecess\u00e1rios<\/h3>\n
Compreens\u00e3o<\/h3>\n
Empatia<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nApoio e motiva\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n
Um abrigo em tempos de necessidade<\/h3>\n
Capacidade de ser vulner\u00e1vel<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nAprecia\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n
Tempo para si pr\u00f3prio<\/h3>\n
Actos simples de bondade<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nAtra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica e afeto<\/h3>\n
Algu\u00e9m que nos fa\u00e7a rir sempre<\/h3>\n
A arte do compromisso<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nSimplesmente, deve procurar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de alma g\u00e9mea<\/h3>\n
No encerramento<\/h2>\n
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