{"id":127710,"date":"2021-03-20T00:47:51","date_gmt":"2021-03-20T00:47:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=127710"},"modified":"2022-03-28T23:26:58","modified_gmt":"2022-03-28T23:26:58","slug":"a-sua-linguagem-corporal-diz-algo-sobre-ele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-sua-linguagem-corporal-diz-algo-sobre-ele\/","title":{"rendered":"Isto \u00e9 o que a sua linguagem corporal diz sobre ele"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I used to be a woman who solely relied on a man\u2019s words. If a man said that he genuinely liked me, I wouldn\u2019t question it. If he said those three words, I wouldn\u2019t question his \u201cultimate affection\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps, I didn\u2019t want to complicate things by entering an overthinking realm, so I subconsciously decided to just go with the flow and listen to their words instead of paying attention to their actions and, most importantly, their BODY LANGUAGE.<\/p>\n<p><b>Coloquei os termos em mai\u00fasculas <\/b><b><i>linguagem corporal<\/i><\/b><b> com o objetivo de acentuar a sua import\u00e2ncia que \u00e9 frequentemente subestimada.<\/b> I\u2019ve learned this the hard way.<\/p>\n<p>If I had paid more attention to what their bodies were telling me, I wouldn\u2019t have experienced so many plot twists, the disappointment of fleeting romances, and unnecessary suffering due to modern dating.<\/p>\n<p>Sorte a minha que sei transformar os meus erros em valiosas li\u00e7\u00f5es de vida e hist\u00f3rias que ajudar\u00e3o outros (tu) a evitar passar pelas mesmas coisas.<\/p>\n<h2>\u201cBody language is more powerful than words.\u201d \u2013 Ricky Gervais<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-127712 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-flirting-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-flirting-in-nature.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-flirting-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-flirting-in-nature-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-flirting-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-flirting-in-nature-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-flirting-in-nature-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-flirting-in-nature-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-flirting-in-nature-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Muitas vezes esquecemo-nos que a linguagem corporal tamb\u00e9m faz parte da nossa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o e da nossa forma de trocar pensamentos e sentimentos. As nossas express\u00f5es faciais podem dizer muito aos outros sobre como nos sentimos num determinado momento, sem precisarmos de dizer uma \u00fanica palavra.<\/p>\n<p>Our body movements can tell others if we\u2019re feeling uncomfortable, disappointed, vulnerable, happy, in love, or not in love.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u201cBody language is a very powerful tool. We had body language before we had speech, and apparently, 80% of what you understand in a conversation is read through the body, not the words.\u201d <\/b><b>\u2013 <\/b><b>Deborah Bull<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The funny thing is that we often don\u2019t pay attention to other people\u2019s body movements, even though they make up 80% of what we understand in conversations.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez eu deva reformular a frase para o seguinte:<\/p>\n<p><b>We either don\u2019t know what a certain body language sign says about other people\u2019s feelings and intentions or we subconsciously decide to ignore it and rely on other communication aspects such as words.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>E \u00e9 assim, minhas senhoras, que acabamos por pensar demasiado: <i> He seemed a little bit reserved yesterday, but he said that he liked me a few days ago. When we\u2019re together, he barely ever looks me in the eyes, but he texts me every day how much he cares about me. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re really into that one guy, chances are you will unwittingly decide to ignore all of his negative body language signs. By doing that, you end up living in an illusion, convincing yourself that everything is going smoothly.<\/p>\n<p>E depois, passado algum tempo, apercebemo-nos de que nos engan\u00e1mos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios, fazendo-nos acreditar que este homem gostava genuinamente de n\u00f3s quando, na realidade, sent\u00edamos exatamente o contr\u00e1rio. A linguagem corporal dele estava a tentar desesperadamente dizer-lhe isso, mas voc\u00ea recusou-se a reconhec\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n<p>RELACIONADO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-diz-que-a-ama-mas-e-assim-que-se-sabe-se-ele-esta-a-falar-a-serio\/\">Ele diz que te ama, mas \u00e9 assim que se sabe se ele est\u00e1 a falar a s\u00e9rio<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Se ele gosta mesmo de si, a sua linguagem corporal confirmar\u00e1 isso mesmo!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-127713 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-sitting-and-flirting-in-the-park.jpg\" alt=\"um jovem casal sentado e a namoriscar no parque\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-sitting-and-flirting-in-the-park.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-sitting-and-flirting-in-the-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-sitting-and-flirting-in-the-park-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-sitting-and-flirting-in-the-park-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-sitting-and-flirting-in-the-park-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-sitting-and-flirting-in-the-park-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-sitting-and-flirting-in-the-park-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-young-couple-sitting-and-flirting-in-the-park-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando um homem gosta genuinamente de si e a acha atraente, tamb\u00e9m o faz:<\/p>\n<p>a) Dizer-lhe isso aberta e honestamente, o mais depressa poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>b) Diz-lhe ao fim de algum tempo.<\/p>\n<p>c) <b>DOESN\u2019T tell you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Lord knows that those guys under the a) category are in the minority. The only time a guy would say exactly what he means and how he feels at the most reasonable time possible is when he knows exactly what he wants and when he\u2019s not afraid of expressing his feelings.<\/p>\n<p>The chances for that to happen are extremely rare, if not non-existent. That\u2019s why we have the second category of guys who decide to tell you how they feel about you after some time, which is, in a way, okay.<\/p>\n<p><b>A categoria mais dif\u00edcil de todas \u00e9 a \u00faltima. <\/b> When a guy doesn\u2019t tell you anything about how he feels about you, there\u2019s nothing you can do about it but rely on the oldest \u201cromance method\u201d called overthinking.<\/p>\n<p>You can waste tons of your time trying to figure out what exactly is going on in his head and how you can help him open up to you. There\u2019s nothing worse in the universe than falling for someone who is obviously not on the same page as you.<\/p>\n<p>Well, you can either do all that OR you can pay attention to what his body language says about him. When his words fail to express his feelings, his body certainly won\u2019t.<\/p>\n<h3>Eis alguns dos mais \u00f3bvios <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele\/inside-his-mind\/17-sinais-de-linguagem-corporal-de-que-ele-gosta-secretamente-de-si-e-esta-interessado-em-si\/\"> sinais de linguagem corporal que ele gosta de si em segredo<\/a>:<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><b> He can\u2019t help but smile whenever he looks at you. <\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>It\u2019s one of those stupid smiles when he nor you have any idea why he is in a smile mode all the time. Don\u2019t get irritated by it because this is a good thing. His body language is telling you that he can\u2019t help himself but feel energetic and exude positive vibes in your company.<\/p>\n<p>RELACIONADO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/12-sinais-de-que-ele-te-quer-beijar\/\">13 Sinais inconfund\u00edveis de que ele quer te beijar<\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b> Ele arranja a sua apar\u00eancia.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Why would he do that if he wasn\u2019t interested in you, right? Obviously, he wants to impress you with his looks, and that\u2019s why he has to make sure to fix his hair and outfit.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b> As pernas e as m\u00e3os tremem-lhe. <\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Well, that\u2019s really embarrassing, but it can happen to anyone who really likes the person they\u2019re hanging out with. His legs and hands will evidently shake, and you might think he\u2019s having a seizure. Don\u2019t worry, he isn\u2019t. Nervousness is one of the biggest <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-saber-se-um-rapaz-gosta-de-si\/\"> signs he\u2019s totally into you<\/a>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b> Ele toca-te subtilmente. <\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Nunca subestime o poder de um toque subtil. A raz\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-um-homem-toca-na-tua-cintura-todos-os-significados-explicados-e-muito-mais\/\">porque \u00e9 que um homem te toca subtilmente<\/a> \u00e9 porque o seu c\u00e9rebro lhe ordena que o fa\u00e7a. Ele tem este forte desejo de estar o mais pr\u00f3ximo poss\u00edvel de si, por isso mesmo um toque subtil ir\u00e1 proporcionar-lhe a satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o desejada.<\/p>\n<h2>If he\u2019s not into you, his body language won\u2019t deny it<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-127718 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-has-relationship-problems.jpg\" alt=\"um casal que se ama tem problemas de relacionamento\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-has-relationship-problems.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-has-relationship-problems-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-has-relationship-problems-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-has-relationship-problems-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-has-relationship-problems-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-has-relationship-problems-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-has-relationship-problems-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-has-relationship-problems-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If a man is not into you, the first signs you\u2019ll notice are the following: making lame excuses, acting super weird, sending mixed signals, waiting too long to text you back, annoying you in every possible way.<\/p>\n<p>Even though we\u2019re perfectly aware of all these things when they happen, we still can\u2019t help ourselves but start making excuses for his behavior like: Oh, he\u2019s probably too busy, and that\u2019s why he didn\u2019t text me. He has probably had a bad day, and that\u2019s why he\u2019s acting weird.<\/p>\n<p><b>N\u00c3O HOMEM<\/b> est\u00e1 sempre demasiado ocupado para te enviar uma mensagem. Tudo o resto s\u00e3o desculpas.<\/p>\n<p><b>N\u00c3O HOMEM<\/b> pode ter um dia t\u00e3o mau que o far\u00e1 sentir-se estranho durante as pr\u00f3ximas semanas. Tudo o resto s\u00e3o apenas desculpas.<\/p>\n<p>Tem aqui uma escolha. Pode acreditar no que ele lhe diz e continuar a arranjar desculpas para o seu comportamento OU pode concentrar-se no que a linguagem corporal dele diz sobre ele. Recomendo que fa\u00e7a a segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h3>Aqui est\u00e3o alguns <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-sinais-de-linguagem-corporal-reveladores-de-que-ele-nao-esta-interessado-em-si\/\"> revealing body language signs he\u2019s not into you<\/a>:<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><b> Ele evita o contacto visual como se fosse a peste.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Se reparar que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-um-homem-evita-o-contacto-visual-com-uma-mulher\/\">um homem evita o contacto visual<\/a>, this is a huge red flag. He\u2019s doing that because he\u2019s obviously not interested in what you have to say to him. He just pretends to listen to you while his mind wanders to other spheres, such as thinking about drinking with his buddies later.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b> Ele tornou-se um profissional em fingir o seu sorriso.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If there\u2019s anything I hate most in life, it is fake laughter. Why in the world would you fake your smile? To make others feel good about themselves? Or, to hide some sneaky intentions of yours? I bet the latter is the case, so that\u2019s how you know he\u2019s not worthy of your time or attention.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b> Tem os bra\u00e7os cruzados.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If his arms are crossed when he\u2019s with you (assuming that it\u2019s not cold), it means the following: <i> Woman, I\u2019m trying to create some kind of barrier between you and me. Don\u2019t you see it? <\/i><\/p>\n<p>He\u2019ll do that when he doesn\u2019t feel comfortable in your company, and obviously, isn\u2019t on the same page as you.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b> He\u2019s scratching his hair.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you see a man scratching his hair while talking to you, know that he\u2019s TOTALLY confused and he\u2019s probably not that into you, but has no idea how to tell you that. Yup.<\/p>\n<h2>A linguagem corporal \u00e9 a sua melhor amiga porque as palavras s\u00e3o sobrevalorizadas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-127719 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-in-a-cafe-laughing.jpg\" alt=\"um casal apaixonado num caf\u00e9 a rir\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-in-a-cafe-laughing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-in-a-cafe-laughing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-in-a-cafe-laughing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-in-a-cafe-laughing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-in-a-cafe-laughing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-in-a-cafe-laughing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-in-a-cafe-laughing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-loving-couple-in-a-cafe-laughing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be honest. Men can tell us anything they want&#8230; they can pretend to be something they\u2019re not, and they can keep hiding things from us. But, they will never know that one thing is not in their control, and that is their body language.<\/p>\n<p><b>We live in times when words have never been more overrated, so it\u2019s time to step up your game and implement body language signs into your romantic endeavors. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Protect yourself from the cruelty of unrequited love, commitment-phobes, players, narcissists, and other types of men who aren\u2019t worthy of your overthinking and tears, let alone, your affection.<\/p>\n<p>So, when in doubt, don\u2019t make excuses for his shitty behavior, but check his body language signs and you\u2019ll know exactly what\u2019s going on inside his mind.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I used to be a woman who solely relied on a man\u2019s words. If a man said that he genuinely liked me, I wouldn\u2019t question it. If he said those three words, I wouldn\u2019t question his \u201cultimate affection\u201d. Perhaps, I didn\u2019t want to complicate things by entering an overthinking realm, so I subconsciously decided to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":127711,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-127710","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/This-Is-What-His-Body-Language-Says-About-Him-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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