{"id":12795,"date":"2020-06-19T14:44:38","date_gmt":"2020-06-19T14:44:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12795"},"modified":"2022-01-11T00:33:32","modified_gmt":"2022-01-11T00:33:32","slug":"15-caracteristicas-dos-homens-emocionalmente-indisponiveis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/15-caracteristicas-dos-homens-emocionalmente-indisponiveis\/","title":{"rendered":"15 caracter\u00edsticas dos homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019ve ever been in a relationship with someone evasive, who constantly makes excuses or simply never talks about their feelings, you know the pain of loving someone emotionally unavailable.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Alguns deles usam a cr\u00edtica, a manipula\u00e7\u00e3o ou a raiva para criar uma dist\u00e2ncia entre os dois, o que o leva a ficar destro\u00e7ado, deprimido ou rejeitado.<\/p>\n

Falamos frequentemente de homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis<\/a>mas, infelizmente, cada vez mais mais mulheres tamb\u00e9m est\u00e3o a ficar emocionalmente distantes<\/a>, whether it\u2019s because of a past abusive relationship with their parents, a significant other or a friend.<\/p>\n

There are two types of unavailability\u2014there\u2019s the chronic one and the temporary one.<\/p>\n

A indisponibilidade cr\u00f3nica \u00e9 causada por uma doen\u00e7a mental, uma depend\u00eancia ou uma inf\u00e2ncia conturbada, enquanto a tempor\u00e1ria resulta do facto de se dar mais prioridade a algo do que a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Pode ser a sua carreira, liberdade, educa\u00e7\u00e3o ou sa\u00fade.<\/p>\n

Algumas pessoas t\u00eam apenas medo de se apaixonar e de se magoarem novamente, tornando-se assim emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Sometimes it\u2019s almost impossible to tell if it\u2019s something temporary that can be solved with time, or if it\u2019s chronic.<\/p>\n

If you have found yourself in a relationship where you feel like a constant giver, like you\u2019re screaming at the wall and no matter what you do, you just can\u2019t get through, you could be in a relationship com um homem emocionalmente distante<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ainda se lembra de quando se conheceram, de como ficou extasiada e de como acreditou que ele poderia realmente tornar-se o Escolhido.<\/p>\n

Mas, com o passar do tempo, apercebeu-se que estava apaixonada por um completo estranho e que n\u00e3o havia nada que pudesse fazer para o mudar.<\/p>\n

Para a ajudar a compreender melhor a quest\u00e3o e as caracter\u00edsticas dos homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis, fizemos uma lista dos mais comuns.<\/p>\n

If you recognize more than three characteristics in this list and you\u2019re hoping to have a stable relationship with the person in mind, maybe it\u2019s better to walk away before it\u2019s too late and you end up broken.<\/p>\n

Cheio de desculpas<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Parece-lhe que ele tem sempre uma desculpa perfeita para qualquer problema que surja.<\/p>\n

Whether it\u2019s him canceling your date night, him vanishing from the face of the earth or him n\u00e3o est\u00e1 pronto para se comprometer<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you ask him out, he\u2019s busy. If you want him to talk about your future, he\u2019s so exhausted from a long day at work.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not even sure if he\u2019s shy, uncomfortable or just a dickhead. And that\u2019s the catch; he needs you to stay as long as he wants you around.<\/p>\n

Comunica\u00e7\u00e3o deficiente<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no way that he will tell you something intimate about himself unless he can benefit from it.<\/p>\n

If he tells you some sad story, if he shows you that he\u2019s vulnerable, that\u2019s because he knows he can catch you that way.<\/p>\n

Mas se notar que ele nunca se abre, que nunca tiveram uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o profunda ou conversas profundas que a acompanhassem, preste muita aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s suas outras caracter\u00edsticas.<\/p>\n

Ele pode ser t\u00edmido e ainda n\u00e3o se sentir \u00e0 vontade para se abrir consigo, mas se o tempo passar e nada mudar, tem a sua resposta.<\/p>\n

Se ele tende a desaparecer depois do que parece ser um fim de semana muito \u00edntimo, tem a sua resposta.<\/p>\n

Emotionally unavailable men are by nature commitment-phobes, so he\u2019s not capable of maintaining a healthy relationship and good communication.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s arrogant<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Pay attention to the way he behaves toward other people when you\u2019re out in public.<\/p>\n

If he disrespects waiters or anyone he believes he has power over, that\u2019s a sign of pent-up anger that someday he could turn toward you.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s cocky and arrogant because he lacks self-esteem. He\u2019s showing himself that he\u2019s better than them, that they serve him, not the other way around.<\/p>\n

Ele precisa de se sentir mais poderoso e mais em controlo do que ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Mais cedo ou mais tarde, come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a trat\u00e1-la da mesma forma, a control\u00e1-la e a comportar-se como se fosse sua dona.<\/p>\n

Mas no momento em que ele se aborrece ou no momento em que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o satisfaz as suas necessidades, ele vai procurar uma nova v\u00edtima.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se, \u00e9 preciso confian\u00e7a para ser \u00edntimo e empenhado.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s nothing but talk<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Men like this enjoy talking about themselves, about their success and everything they\u2019re proud of (which does not include any personal info).<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing wrong with being proud of your own work and sharing that with someone you like but pay attention to the way he does it.<\/p>\n

For example, there\u2019s a huge difference between, \u201cThe web app I\u2019ve been working on is now one of the top three apps they\u2019re considering launching next month.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m so thrilled and really hope it will work out,\u201d and the other version being, \u201cThey finally realized that I\u2019m the best out there, my app is going to break all the records.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know why they even considered the other apps, they\u2019re so bad it hurts my skills just looking at them.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ele tem a necessidade n\u00e3o s\u00f3 de se gabar de si pr\u00f3prio, mas tamb\u00e9m de gozar com os outros.<\/p>\n

Muitas vezes, gaba-se de coisas materiais, como o seu ordenado, o dinheiro que gastou em f\u00e9rias ou em bebidas, ou qualquer outra coisa que seja realmente materialista.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s his way or no way<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Este tipo de homem detesta compromissos. Ele acredita que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o (e o mundo inteiro) deve girar em torno dele e de mais ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

If he wants to stay home and you really want to go out to dinner somewhere, you\u2019ll stay home.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t even realize that you simply gave in to him, because he\u2019s t\u00e3o bom a manipular<\/a> e distorce as coisas em seu benef\u00edcio, que n\u00e3o tem outra escolha sen\u00e3o obedecer-lhe.<\/p>\n

Once he sees that you\u2019re not easy to manipulate, that you\u2019re as strong as him mentally, don\u2019t think that he will try to fight it.<\/p>\n

He knows that he can find another victim in a matter of days, so he won\u2019t lose anymore precious time on you, because you no longer benefit him that much.<\/p>\n

Your strong-will makes him nervous and that\u2019s not good for him. Remember, this kind of a man only cares about himself.<\/p>\n

Atitude vaga<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Outra carater\u00edstica dos homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis \u00e9 uma atitude evasiva.<\/p>\n

Foge de falar dos seus sentimentos, pensamentos, sonhos e planos.<\/p>\n

Ou muda completamente de assunto quando lhe perguntamos ou d\u00e1-nos uma resposta pouco clara, s\u00f3 para n\u00e3o insistirmos.<\/p>\n

Mas tenha cuidado com este sinal; muitos homens precisam de tempo para se abrirem com algu\u00e9m, para se sentirem confort\u00e1veis a discutir as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es consigo, ou mesmo para admitirem que t\u00eam algumas.<\/p>\n

But if you notice that this pattern keeps repeating, that you keep getting vague answers or not getting answers at all, even if months go by, then you\u2019re dealing with an emotionally unavailable man.<\/p>\n

He will also be vague about small things, such as explaining why he canceled your date last minute, why he was one hour late to it or why he doesn\u2019t want to spend time with your friends or sometimes even with you.<\/p>\n

This kind of a man tends to avoid any explanations and conflicts on emotional issues and this is because he doesn\u2019t plan on staying around long enough so they would matter to him.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 se v\u00eaem nos termos dele<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

He is only around when he feels like it. You go out when he calls you, and you spend time together when he decides he\u2019s ready.<\/p>\n

Aparece frequentemente em tua casa, mas nunca quando o convidas.<\/p>\n

If you initiate a date, he will be busy, he won\u2019t feel like it or he already has some other plans.<\/p>\n

If it happens that you need to talk to him about your feelings, that you need him when you\u2019re sad, he won\u2019t be there.<\/p>\n

Emotionally unavailable men are takers, not givers. He\u2019s not interested in you, your feelings or anything that can\u2019t benefit him in any way.<\/p>\n

Quando ele precisar de ajuda, quando precisar do seu apoio e do seu amor, n\u00e3o tenha d\u00favidas de que ele aparecer\u00e1 \u00e0 sua porta.<\/p>\n

But when it\u2019s the other way around, he will vanish from the face of the earth.<\/p>\n

Puta de aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He just loves the spotlight. When it comes to him, there\u2019s no such thing as being modest or taking a step back and allowing someone else to be the center of attention.<\/p>\n

To be clear, there\u2019s nothing wrong with being confident and comfortable in certain social situations but his o ego \u00e9 muitas vezes t\u00e3o grande<\/a> que o impede de ser modesto, nem que seja por um segundo.<\/p>\n

Revelar\u00e1 uma enorme arrog\u00e2ncia, ci\u00fame, narcisismo e baixa auto-confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s not happy with himself and is constantly looking for validation, he won\u2019t be happy with you either.<\/p>\n

Keep in mind that when man a measures his worth by the number of compliments he gets, that\u2019s a sure-fire sign he\u2019s not emocionalmente maduro<\/a> and there\u2019s no way he can give you the emotional stability you need.<\/p>\n

Ele procurar\u00e1 constantemente os seus defeitos e certificar-se-\u00e1 de que sabe que os encontrou.<\/p>\n

Ele acabar\u00e1 por encontrar uma forma de o quebrar e de lhe retirar a confian\u00e7a, e tudo o que costumava gostar em si pr\u00f3prio passar\u00e1 a ser coisas que o incomodam.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, nunca falar\u00e1 sobre o que sente; em vez disso, s\u00f3 ter\u00e1 em conta os seus pr\u00f3prios desejos.<\/p>\n

Aos olhos dele, o mundo gira \u00e0 volta dele, n\u00e3o de si ou de qualquer outra pessoa. Se vir este padr\u00e3o na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, em que ele n\u00e3o mostra interesse nos seus problemas ou sentimentos, o seu homem pode estar emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Procura da perfei\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Ele procurar\u00e1 qualquer falha sua ou defeito de car\u00e1cter que lhe possa dar uma raz\u00e3o para a deixar e avan\u00e7ar para a pr\u00f3xima rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow yourself to raise his hopes that you\u2019ll be different than any other of his partners, because he\u2019s trapped in a pit of self-criticism and a fear of commitment that he will only look for an excuse to walk away.<\/p>\n

Mesmo que se enquadre nos seus padr\u00f5es de perfei\u00e7\u00e3o, a sua ansiedade aumentar\u00e1 porque o medo de ser rejeitado est\u00e1 a lev\u00e1-lo a encontrar qualquer coisa que possa virar contra si.<\/p>\n

It will be the way you\u2019re being too pushy, too much, too sensitive; eventually, he will turn your own love against you, just so he can escape it.<\/p>\n

Ele evita rotular a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t even count how many times you\u2019ve asked him at what stage the two of you are, but you never got a clear answer.<\/p>\n

Was it ten times? Twenty? More? He\u2019s avoiding telling you what he thinks and the way he feels because he\u2019s not ready to commit.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t want to label your relationship because he wants you around as long as it suits him, and the moment he has had enough, that\u2019s the moment he will end it.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o importa o que fa\u00e7a, o quanto se esforce ou o quanto se preocupe com ele, ele simplesmente s\u00f3 se preocupa consigo pr\u00f3prio e com as suas necessidades.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him drag you along, because nothing is going to change. If he hasn\u2019t shown you a single sign that he truly cares about you, besides having you around for sex or boosting his ego, he\u2019s just not worth it.<\/p>\n

Hist\u00f3ria obscura<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Uma das principais caracter\u00edsticas do homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis<\/a> \u00e9 o seu historial obscuro.<\/p>\n

Poder\u00e3o existir certos traumas e experi\u00eancias no seu passado que o tornaram assim.<\/p>\n

Nas primeiras semanas de rela\u00e7\u00e3o, j\u00e1 se pode notar esta carater\u00edstica, especialmente quando se trata das suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas.<\/p>\n

Saber porqu\u00ea e como ele era solteiro quando a conheceu pode mostrar-lhe a diferen\u00e7a entre ele estar emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel e simplesmente magoado.<\/p>\n

If his past partner cheated on him, broke him or was the one who abused him and now he\u2019s taking things slowly with you, appreciate that and give him time (but be careful with that one if there are more than three signs on this list that apply to him).<\/p>\n

Mas se descobrir que foi ele que a traiu, que foi ele que fez tudo isso, fa\u00e7a as malas e v\u00e1-se embora.<\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m deve ser julgado com base no seu passado, mas se ele fez batota uma vez, pode voltar a faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re looking for an emotionally stable relationship, for someone who is ready to commit, who is not afraid of loving you, I\u2019m afraid that he\u2019s not the guy for you.<\/p>\n

Pr\u00edncipe Encantado<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Look out for the men who are flirting with flattery. He\u2019s not being charming, he\u2019s simply \u2018doing\u2019 it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a well-rehearsed act, a way to seduce you. His focus is on short-term intimacy, because he prefers the chase to the catch.<\/p>\n

He may seem open, vulnerable and revealing, but you\u2019ll soon find yourself knowing basically nothing about him and wondering who the hell you\u2019re dating.<\/p>\n

Se mostrar interesse em conhec\u00ea-lo, ele mudar\u00e1 de assunto com a mesma facilidade com que a seduziu, porque \u00e9 um mestre da manipula\u00e7\u00e3o e do controlo.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s so afraid of opening up that he will do anything to prevent it. If he runs out of options, he will simply walk away.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not interested in getting to know you<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Um homem emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel v\u00ea as pessoas como objectos e tenta manipul\u00e1-las para se beneficiar na vida.<\/p>\n

He will only show interest in the sexual side of the relationship and won\u2019t do anything about getting to know you better.<\/p>\n

He sees everyone as a pawn in their own game, and pawns don\u2019t have faces or feelings for him.<\/p>\n

Ele s\u00f3 falar\u00e1 de coisas que lhe interessam e, infelizmente, a sua personalidade, a sua hist\u00f3ria e a sua hist\u00f3ria n\u00e3o s\u00e3o nenhuma delas.<\/p>\n

Mesmo como amigo, um homem emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel n\u00e3o mostrar\u00e1 qualquer interesse em si e s\u00f3 falar\u00e1 de coisas b\u00e1sicas consigo.<\/p>\n

Desonestidade<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ele simplesmente esconder\u00e1 a verdade de ti, incluindo algumas coisas que s\u00e3o muito importantes.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o s\u00f3 lhe esconde o amor, como lhe esconde informa\u00e7\u00f5es importantes.<\/p>\n

He may think that he\u2019s doing this for your own good, for his good or for whatever reason, thinking that he\u2019s protecting you from the harsh truth but what\u2019s really going on is that he\u2019s afraid of your reaction, of rejection or any potential conflict this could cause.<\/p>\n

Ele pode estar a esconder algo importante, como outra rela\u00e7\u00e3o, uma doen\u00e7a ou um passado obscuro<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But he could simply be embarrassed by the way he was treated and that he did nothing about, or he could have had a tough upbringing where he was taught that no woman should know any of a man’s business.<\/p>\n

He might not see this as an issue, but you can sure help him with that. With one good ol\u2019 kick in the ass.<\/p>\n

Explos\u00e3o sexual<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Cuidado com os homens que querem tornar-se sexualmente familiares logo ap\u00f3s o vosso encontro.<\/p>\n

Muitas vezes, os homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis est\u00e3o apenas \u00e0 procura de outra coisa para conquistar, mas assim que a tiverem e a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o se tornar mais \u00edntima, ele vai-se embora.<\/p>\n

Ou talvez tudo o que ele lhe d\u00ea seja sexo e a \u00fanica coisa que lhe interessa \u00e9 rebolar nos len\u00e7\u00f3is.<\/p>\n

They often do this either because they feel they have nothing else to offer or they\u2019re afraid of getting close to someone.<\/p>\n

Emotional unavailability appears after someone had a traumatic experience with a close person in their life, whether it\u2019s one of their parents or a past partner who was abusive in some kind of way.<\/p>\n

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