{"id":12833,"date":"2020-05-04T11:48:37","date_gmt":"2020-05-04T11:48:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12833"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:42:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:42:19","slug":"como-deixar-de-ser-obcecado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-deixar-de-ser-obcecado\/","title":{"rendered":"Como parar de ficar obcecado por algu\u00e9m: 10 maneiras \u00e0 prova de bala para tir\u00e1-lo do seu sistema"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 alguma vez esteve numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que n\u00e3o consegue parar de pensar dia e noite numa pessoa, que \u00e9 simplesmente um residente permanente na sua mente?<\/p>\n

They are there 24\/7, never wanting to leave. You know you are obsessing in vain and it\u2019s not making you happy but you just don\u2019t know how to stop obcecado<\/a> sobre algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Independentemente de ter tido algo mais \u00edntimo com uma pessoa ou de estar simplesmente apaixonado por ela sem qualquer motivo, o padr\u00e3o \u00e9 o mesmo; pensa nela a toda a hora, onde quer que v\u00e1, o que quer que fa\u00e7a, ela est\u00e1 sempre algures no fundo da sua mente.<\/p>\n

Talvez j\u00e1 tenha tido a oportunidade de seguir em frente<\/a> com outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

But your obsession is holding you hostage, and you hope that someday something might change, you just hold on to them so stubbornly that you can\u2019t give somebody else a chance.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sometimes you don\u2019t see that there is somebody else out there because your obsession is blocking your view. The worst part is when you don\u2019t see yourself either.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t see that life gives you new opportunities every day, if you would just get out of your own mind and grab them.<\/p>\n

You realize it\u2019s time to change. Not necessarily move on but just to move. To take some steps forward because you feel like you have been stuck in the same place for a long time.<\/p>\n

The worst thing to do is to do nothing at all. But if you don\u2019t know where to start, here are some bulletproof ways to get your obsession out of your system:<\/p>\n

1. Perceber que est\u00e1 a ficar obcecado.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Por vezes, a pessoa a quem mais mentimos \u00e9 aquela que est\u00e1 a olhar para n\u00f3s ao espelho.<\/p>\n

There is no one in this world who we can so easily deceive as we can ourself. That\u2019s why we need to take a step back and ser realista<\/a>.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the hardest part, admitting to ourselves that we have a problem.<\/p>\n

I know that sounds like we are in a sort of a rehab but that\u2019s just it, the person we are obsessing over is our drug of choice and the sooner we realize that we have a problem, the sooner we\u2019ll be able to move on.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: Como deixar de gostar de algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o se pode ter: 10 maneiras de ter sucesso<\/a><\/p>\n

2. Chegar \u00e0 causa do problema.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It\u2019s never about the other person, it\u2019s always about you.<\/p>\n

Deve haver alguma raz\u00e3o que nos fez entrar neste estado de obsess\u00e3o. Talvez tenhamos tido demasiados momentos maus na nossa vida.<\/p>\n

Talvez todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es anteriores tenham sido com um homem t\u00f3xico e indigno e o nosso homem de sonho seja como uma lufada de ar fresco.<\/p>\n

Maybe we are just a bit lonely (though that\u2019s the hardest thing to admit) and we created something out of this guy that made him more into a dream than reality.<\/p>\n

Seja o que for, quanto mais cedo soubermos a causa, a imagem perfeita dele come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a desaparecer da nossa mente.<\/p>\n

3. Banir-se das redes sociais.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

As redes sociais s\u00e3o uma maldi\u00e7\u00e3o e uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o, tudo ao mesmo tempo.<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o \u00f3ptimas formas de comunicar, de aprender coisas novas e de nos divertirmos. Por outro lado, d\u00e3o-nos privil\u00e9gios de persegui\u00e7\u00e3o que nunca pens\u00e1mos serem poss\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

Assim, passamos os dias a investigar onde \u00e9 que ele esteve, com quem, olhamos para as suas fotografias, ficamos obcecados com os seus posts.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s making us crazy because we have him on our screen but don\u2019t have him in our life. So the best thing to do is deactivate your social media accounts for a while or simply unfriend him.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s one of the most helpful steps, otherwise we are just falling deeper by stalking their social media accounts.<\/p>\n

4. Estabelecer uma dist\u00e2ncia f\u00edsica.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The saying \u2018fora da vista, fora da mente<\/a>\u2019 isn\u2019t there for no reason.<\/p>\n

When you are not spending time near them constantly, it\u2019s easier to get them out of your mind. Every time you see them, your obsession is just growing.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se sair com as mesmas pessoas ou visitar os mesmos s\u00edtios, n\u00e3o o fa\u00e7a. No in\u00edcio ser\u00e1 dif\u00edcil, mas com o tempo tornar-se-\u00e1 mais f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n

5. Evitar o contacto com eles.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se estiverem numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que enviam mensagens de texto ou telefonam um ao outro de vez em quando ou com regularidade, est\u00e3o apenas a aprofundar as feridas. Mantenham a dist\u00e2ncia.<\/p>\n

Tell him you are busy with work, studies or with anything you can think of and you just don\u2019t have time for texting.<\/p>\n

Esta forma \u00e9 provavelmente a mais dif\u00edcil, mas fingir uma amizade nunca trouxe nada de bom para ningu\u00e9m envolvido.<\/p>\n

6. Concentre-se em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 imensas coisas que podia ou devia estar a fazer agora em vez de estar obcecada com ele. Concentra-te nelas.<\/p>\n

Melhore a sua vida. Trabalhe em si para si. Daqui a alguns anos, sentir-se-\u00e1 grato por ter escolhido faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 coisas melhores para fazer, por isso tira o rabo do sof\u00e1 e vai. O mundo inteiro est\u00e1 l\u00e1 fora.<\/p>\n

O tempo \u00e9 precioso e est\u00e1 a desperdi\u00e7\u00e1-lo. Pode fazer melhor.<\/p>\n

7. Socializar mais.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

You probably don\u2019t have much time for your friends because you are too busy obsessing. You see the problem.<\/p>\n

Chamada os seus amigos<\/a>, sair com eles e falar com eles sobre tudo menos sobre o seu sonhador obcecado.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitos temas por onde escolher. E o tempo bem passado com os amigos \u00e9 a melhor terapia para si.<\/p>\n

8. Ser aventureiro.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

Do something you\u2019ve never done before.<\/p>\n

Algo que quer fazer mas que pode estar um pouco fora da sua zona de conforto.<\/p>\n

You can do anything, like jump out of an airplane with a parachute, zip lining, ride a horse, bicycle rides, anything really; it\u2019s all up to your own preferences.<\/p>\n

In any case, change is the best medicine. Even consider traveling to somewhere you\u2019ve never been before.<\/p>\n

A change of scenery changes perspective so you might realize that things aren\u2019t all that you made them out to be.<\/p>\n

9. Reconhecer que ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o perfeito.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 perfeito<\/a>que acabaste de fazer com que ele fosse.<\/p>\n

He might have a lot of qualities and you can really feel like there\u2019s no one in this world quite like him but that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s simplesmente apaixonada por ele e criaste uma imagem na tua cabe\u00e7a que n\u00e3o tem qualquer liga\u00e7\u00e3o com o verdadeiro homem. N\u00e3o est\u00e1 apaixonada, est\u00e1 obcecada.<\/p>\n

10. Don\u2019t try to stop thinking about him.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the best answer on \u2018How to stop obsessing over someone?\u2019\u2014simply don\u2019t try.<\/p>\n

Quanto mais tenta, mais ele est\u00e1 na sua mente. Repare que a maioria destes passos n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com ele, mas tem tudo a ver consigo.<\/p>\n

O essencial \u00e9 que se concentre em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

You just do \u2018you\u2019 for a change. Live your life to the fullest and he will simply fade away from your thoughts without you even putting any effort into not thinking about him.<\/p>\n

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Have you ever been in a situation where you can\u2019t stop thinking day and night about somebody, they are simply permanent residents inside your mind? They are there 24\/7, never wanting to leave. You know you are obsessing in vain and it\u2019s not making you happy but you just don\u2019t know how to stop obsessing…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":68752,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12833","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/How-To-Stop-Obsessing-Over-Someone-10-Bulletproof-Ways-To-Get-Him-Out-Of-Your-System.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12833","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12833"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12833\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/68752"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12833"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12833"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12833"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}