{"id":12954,"date":"2019-01-23T09:16:45","date_gmt":"2019-01-23T09:16:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12954"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:32:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:32:14","slug":"nao-desistir-de-dar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-desistir-de-dar\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu n\u00e3o sou um desistente, mas estou a desistir de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desta vez, demito-me! Desisto de tudo o que tu representas. Desisto do teu quase amor<\/a>, your messages that don\u2019t mean anything, your hugs and kisses that are fake. I have been fighting this battle for too long but I can\u2019t do this anymore.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t be brave for the both of us. I can\u2019t love for both of us and I can\u2019t be the only one trying.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Estou cansada dos teus sinais contradit\u00f3rios. Estou cansada de noites sem dormir \u00e0 espera que voltes para casa. Estou cansada de perder a minha paz interior por tua causa. Estou cansada de te p\u00f4r sempre em primeiro lugar e de nunca receber o amor que mere\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o sou o tipo de pessoa que costuma desistir, mas desta vez, desisto de ti. Desisto de n\u00f3s.<\/strong><\/em> Desisto do amor que um dia tivemos, se \u00e9 que se pode chamar amor.<\/p>\n

Estou cansada de n\u00e3o me fazeres a tua prioridade. Estou cansada de n\u00e3o me pores em primeiro lugar e de pensares que sou boa apenas por um determinado per\u00edodo de tempo, mas n\u00e3o para sempre.<\/p>\n

I am tired of you thinking that I am not a perfect woman and most of all, I am tired of your attempts to change me. Can\u2019t you see that I am not ready to change?<\/p>\n

Can\u2019t you see that I am not a hot mess but a beautiful disaster? And for your information, I will remain like this for as long as I want to.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to listen to my friends telling me that I am making a huge erro ao escolher-vos.<\/a> I don\u2019t want them to tell me that they saw you with another woman even though you told me that you were working overtime.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want them to tell me anymore what kind of a man you are and that I had just made a chaos out of my life with you.<\/p>\n

Estou farta das suas hist\u00f3rias de que estar contigo \u00e9 uma perda de tempo e que eu mere\u00e7o muito mais do que tu me podes dar.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you see that I am tired? Don\u2019t you see that my heart doesn\u2019t beat stronger when you are around anymore? <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you see that your hugs and kisses don\u2019t mean anything to me?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t feel love anymore. What I feel now is indifference and I must admit that it hurts.<\/p>\n

It hurts to spend so much time with someone thinking that he is the man of your dreams but in the end, when you can\u2019t move from under his claws, realizing that all that he sold you in the name of love, was anything but that.<\/p>\n

Recuso-me a acreditar que sou dif\u00edcil de amar. Sei que sou a mulher mais f\u00e1cil de amar, mas s\u00f3 se tiver o homem certo ao meu lado.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

I refuse to change for a man who never made me feel good enough. I don\u2019t want to change for someone who always thought that I was not worthy and the one who would always hit on other girls just to have someone in case he lost me.<\/p>\n

It really doesn\u2019t make any sense to lutar pelo amor que s\u00f3 um de n\u00f3s sente.<\/a><\/strong><\/em> Deixei de lutar pelo homem que me ignora sempre que lhe mostro o meu amor.<\/p>\n

That is not what I deserve. I deserve so much more than that and I won\u2019t settle for less than I deserve ever again.<\/p>\n

One of the worst parts of this relationship was holding onto something that I couldn\u2019t hold onto anymore.<\/p>\n

E o pior \u00e9 que eu pensava que, contigo, tinha acertado na lotaria, mas a dolorosa verdade \u00e9 que bati no fundo do po\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

And if I hadn\u2019t,maybe I would still be out there, fighting for you and the remains of our love.<\/p>\n

Mas agora, mais do que nunca, tenho a certeza de que estou a tomar a decis\u00e3o certa ao deixar-te ir. Estou finalmente a libertar-me desse fardo que tenho carregado nos meus ombros h\u00e1 tanto tempo.<\/p>\n

Desta vez, estou a desistir de ti porque tu j\u00e1 desististe de mim h\u00e1 muito tempo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This time I quit! I quit everything that you represent. I quit your almost love, your messages that don\u2019t mean anything, your hugs and kisses that are fake. I have been fighting this battle for too long but I can\u2019t do this anymore. I can\u2019t be brave for the both of us. I can\u2019t love…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":12980,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12954","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/etienne-boulanger-305128.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12954","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12954"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12954\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12980"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12954"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12954"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12954"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}