{"id":13062,"date":"2020-09-13T08:41:19","date_gmt":"2020-09-13T08:41:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13062"},"modified":"2022-02-26T22:05:28","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T22:05:28","slug":"um-percebeu-que-amar-significava-deixar-ir-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/um-percebeu-que-amar-significava-deixar-ir-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Para aquela que percebeu que amar a si mesma significava deix\u00e1-lo ir"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s hard, I understand. Letting go of someone you love, letting go of someone you want to spend your life with. But you had to do it. To save yourself, to save your sanity and heart, you had to. Because his love was t\u00f3xico.<\/a><\/p>\n

O seu amor era um veneno que te estava a matar lentamente por dentro. O amor dele era \u00e1cido que derretia as paredes da tua alma, at\u00e9 te perderes completamente. Para te amares a ti pr\u00f3pria, tinhas de o deixar ir.<\/p>\n

O seu amor custou-lhe o seu valor.<\/strong> His words, his toxic behavior took away the smile off your face. His darkness took away the spark from your eyes\u2014that beautiful spark you had.<\/p>\n

The life in you, the passion of your soul. His unfaithful behavior cost you your sleep. You started doubting yourself, started thinking you\u2019re not enough.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not good enough, worthy enough. Oh, but you are, darling. You are more than enough and that\u2019s what frightened him. He\u2019s not worthy of you, so he destroyed you instead.<\/p>\n

He wasn\u2019t ready to face the love, so he turned it against you. He used your love to break you, but not anymore. This time, you\u2019re giving your love to yourself. This time your love is going to heal you.<\/p>\n

His love cost you your confidence. His words still sting. They still burn under your skin. His words about how you\u2019re not pretty enough, how that woman over there is hot, how this woman over here is perfect.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Mas n\u00e3o tu. Nunca foste tu. Nunca foste a perfeita, nunca foste a bonita. Ele era t\u00e3o inseguro que a manipulou para que pensasse que ele era uma d\u00e1diva do c\u00e9u.<\/p>\n

That you\u2019re blessed to have him. But, darling, it\u2019s other way around. He should be thanking heaven and all the gods that you came into his life.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not you who\u2019s not good enough\u2014it\u2019s him who is too blind to see past his insecurities and fears. It\u2019s not you who is unlovable\u2014it\u2019s him who is incapable of loving.<\/p>\n

O seu amor custou-vos os vossos sonhos.<\/strong> You can still hear his laugh, his voice telling you you\u2019re not capable enough of making your dreams come true.<\/p>\n

His voice demanding that you give up on them, so you can accompany him while he makes his come true. His voice making you doubt your abilities, making you think that you\u2019ll never make it. But who says you won\u2019t?<\/p>\n

Who gets to decide that you\u2019re not good enough? Who gets to decide that you\u2019re not strong enough? It\u2019s you, and you only.<\/p>\n

O seu amor custou-lhe a sua sanidade.<\/strong> His manipulations, guilt tripping and poison beautifully wrapped up in sweet words made you think that it\u2019s all in your head.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

That he really loves you, that you\u2019re to blame. That he\u2019s the One<\/a>, and you should try harder. That he\u2019s faithful and you should work harder to earn his trust.<\/p>\n

Love, no matter how hard you try, no matter how hard you love him, it\u2019ll never be enough. But you see that now. That\u2019s why you\u2019re here.<\/p>\n

V\u00eas que nunca foste tu. You see that it was his past that defined him and there\u2019s no reason it should define you too.<\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u00ea que o amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim, embora ele se tenha esfor\u00e7ado muito para a fazer acreditar que \u00e9. Finalmente v\u00ea o seu valor, depois de ele ter tentado tanto tir\u00e1-lo de si.<\/p>\n

E tu finalmente percebeu que amar<\/a> voc\u00ea mesmo significava deix\u00e1-lo ir.<\/p>\n

\"Para<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s hard, I understand. Letting go of someone you love, letting go of someone you want to spend your life with. But you had to do it. To save yourself, to save your sanity and heart, you had to. Because his love was toxic. His love was poison that was slowly killing you from the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":117522,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13062","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/To-The-One-Who-Realized-Loving-Herself-Meant-Letting-Him-Go-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13062","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13062"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13062\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/117522"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13062"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13062"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13062"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}