{"id":130978,"date":"2021-06-30T21:39:25","date_gmt":"2021-06-30T21:39:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=130978"},"modified":"2022-02-10T12:14:25","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T12:14:25","slug":"como-acabar-com-alguem-que-se-ama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-acabar-com-alguem-que-se-ama\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando e como acabar com algu\u00e9m que ama: 10 coisas a fazer e a n\u00e3o fazer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Letting go of the person you love is definitely the most difficult, heartbreaking thing to do. You&#8217;re aware that you&#8217;re about to do something that will break your heart into a million pieces, but you&#8217;re also aware that it&#8217;s the right thing to do.<\/p>\n<p>Agora, a quest\u00e3o \u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-acabar-com-alguem\/\">como acabar com algu\u00e9m<\/a> que amas? Como \u00e9 que se deixa ir algu\u00e9m de quem ainda se gosta muito? \u00c9 poss\u00edvel terminar com uma pessoa por quem ainda se tem sentimentos fortes?<\/p>\n<p>Yes, it&#8217;s possible but, to be honest, it&#8217;s going to be a hell of a job.<\/p>\n<p><b>It&#8217;ll be a constant battle between your heart and your mind. <\/b>Por um lado, o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o dir-lhe-\u00e1 para continuar a lutar pelo seu amor e, por outro lado, a sua mente insistir\u00e1 para que deixe tudo para tr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><i>Os seus sentimentos estar\u00e3o em todo o lado. As suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e <\/i><i>sa\u00fade mental<\/i><i> ser\u00e1 uma verdadeira confus\u00e3o.<\/i> You&#8217;ll try not to hurt your partner&#8217;s feelings while you&#8217;ll be going through <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/eis-como-recuperei-do-desgosto-que-quase-me-matou\/\">desgosto<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>So, if you&#8217;re about to sail on this kind of journey, you need to arm yourself with patience and strength because you&#8217;ll definitely need it.<\/p>\n<h2>How To Break Up With Someone You Love: 10 Important Dos And Don&#8217;ts <b><\/b><b><\/b><\/h2>\n<p>There are some things you need to do if you want to end things the right way and have a clean break with your significant other. On the other hand, there are some things you should never, but really never, do if you don&#8217;t want to hurt your partner&#8217;s feelings.<\/p>\n<p>\u200bI decided to make these two lists of dos and don&#8217;ts for<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/afastar-se-de-alguem-e-mais-do-que-simplesmente-acabar-com-essa-pessoa\/\"> romper com algu\u00e9m<\/a> you love, and I hope it&#8217;ll be helpful to you.<\/p>\n<h3>Os Dos de Acabar com Algu\u00e9m que Ama<\/h3>\n<p>Por isso, se quiser fazer o seu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/colecao-de-citacoes-de-empowering\/\">separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> o mais indolor poss\u00edvel para si e para o seu parceiro rom\u00e2ntico, eis o que tem de fazer:<\/p>\n<h4 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Ter uma conversa s\u00e9ria com a pessoa amada<b><\/b><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130981 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher sentam-se \u00e0 mesa e conversam\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><b>Honesto e aberto<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-comunicar-com-os-homens\/\"><b> a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9<\/b><\/a><b>sem d\u00favida, a parte mais significativa de cada <\/b><b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/b><b>. <\/b>A primeira vez que come\u00e7ar a pensar numa separa\u00e7\u00e3o, deve partilhar esses pensamentos com a sua cara-metade.<\/p>\n<p>Se o fizer a tempo, pode haver uma hip\u00f3tese de salvar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you&#8217;ve already decided to end things, and you&#8217;re one hundred percent sure that it&#8217;s the only right thing to do, you should sit down and have a serious conversation with your SO.<\/p>\n<h4 class=\"numbered-headline\">Fale sobre todos os aspectos que o levaram a tomar esta decis\u00e3o em primeiro lugar<b><\/b><\/h4>\n<p>Seja completamente honesto com eles. Explique todas as raz\u00f5es pelas quais <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/leia-isto-se-acha-que-a-relacao-acabou-por-sua-causa\/\">decidiu terminar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You can admit that you still love them, but don&#8217;t give them<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-coisas-a-fazer-quando-a-falsa-esperanca-o-mantem-numa-relacao-abusiva\/\"> falsa esperan\u00e7a<\/a> if you&#8217;ve already made up your mind and firmly decided to end things with them. They probably won&#8217;t understand and accept it, but try to explain that it&#8217;s really for the best.<\/p>\n<h4 class=\"numbered-headline\">Fazer o contacto direto<b><\/b><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130982 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-watches-the-man-as-they-talk.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher observa o homem enquanto conversam\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-watches-the-man-as-they-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-watches-the-man-as-they-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-watches-the-man-as-they-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-watches-the-man-as-they-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-watches-the-man-as-they-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-watches-the-man-as-they-talk-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-watches-the-man-as-they-talk-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-watches-the-man-as-they-talk-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-watches-the-man-as-they-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-watches-the-man-as-they-talk-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-watches-the-man-as-they-talk-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-watches-the-man-as-they-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-watches-the-man-as-they-talk-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><i>Isto \u00e9 absolutamente necess\u00e1rio. Se o fizer atrav\u00e9s de texto ou de um <\/i><i>chamada telef\u00f3nica<\/i><i>, it&#8217;ll only hurt them more, and you&#8217;ll show that you&#8217;re nothing but a huge coward.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Just because you&#8217;re breaking up with your partner doesn&#8217;t give you the right to treat them any less than how you treated them while you were in a romantic relationship.<\/p>\n<p><b>Esta pessoa fez parte da vossa vida durante algum tempo e criaram juntos mem\u00f3rias t\u00e3o bonitas. O m\u00ednimo que pode fazer \u00e9 dar-lhe <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/quando-se-sente-que-e-altura-de-dizer-adeus\/\"><b>a propriamente dito, <\/b><b>cara a cara<\/b><b> despedida<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<h4 class=\"numbered-headline\">Take your partner&#8217;s feelings into consideration<\/h4>\n<p>If you still love your soon-to-be ex-partner, I&#8217;m sure that the last thing you want to do is break their heart. That&#8217;s why you need to break up with them in the least painful way possible.<\/p>\n<p>You need to pay attention to the time and place when you tell them about your decision. However, you shouldn&#8217;t beat around the bush too much because it definitely won&#8217;t make the breakup any easier for them.<\/p>\n<p>Be upfront about your decision. Be honest and admit that you still love them but that it&#8217;s not the same kind of love you felt for them at the beginning.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, se ainda assim optar por faz\u00ea-lo atrav\u00e9s de texto, poder\u00e1 encontrar estes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/textos-de-despedida\/\">mensagens de texto de separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> \u00fatil.<\/p>\n<h4 class=\"numbered-headline\">Escolher um intervalo limpo<b><\/b><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130983 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher est\u00e1 deitada na praia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-the-beach-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-the-beach-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-the-beach-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-the-beach-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-the-beach-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><i>Don&#8217;t offer them &#8216;let&#8217;s stay friends&#8217; or &#8216;you&#8217;ll always have a true friend in me&#8217; or the most clich\u00e9 one of all, the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-significa-realmente\/\">&#8216;it&#8217;s not you, it&#8217;s me&#8217;<\/a> bullshit. You can only stay as those &#8220;friends&#8221; who never call to check up, and you&#8217;ll only end up hating each other for real.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Quando decidem separar-se, t\u00eam de separar os vossos caminhos e cada um de v\u00f3s tem de seguir o caminho que escolheu para si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, it would be nice to promise each other that you&#8217;ll always respect and cherish the time you spent together, but that&#8217;s all. If you really want to leave it all and move on with your life as soon as possible, you should really try to make a clean break.<\/p>\n<h3>Major Don&#8217;ts When It Comes To Leaving Your Loved One<\/h3>\n<p>\u200bKeep scrolling down if you want to find out what the biggest no-nos are when it comes to breaking up with a person you still have strong feelings for.<\/p>\n<h4 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">O Ghosting \u00e9 absolutamente proibido<\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130984 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-argue.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher sentam-se \u00e0 mesa e discutem\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-argue.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-argue-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-argue-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-argue-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-argue-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-argue-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-argue-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-argue-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-argue-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-argue-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-argue-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-argue-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-argue-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-maneiras-infaliveis-de-lidar-com-o-ghosting\/\">Fantasma<\/a> \u00e9 a pior coisa que se pode fazer a algu\u00e9m que foi uma grande parte da nossa vida durante algum tempo. Isso s\u00f3 mostraria a essa pessoa que nunca a amou realmente e transformaria todo o amor que ela sente por si em \u00f3dio.<\/p>\n<p>I know it&#8217;s not easy to end things with someone who still means so much to you, but as much as you need to take care of your feelings, you should pay attention to your partner&#8217;s feelings too.<\/p>\n<p>They will be hurt no matter how you break up with them \u2013 it&#8217;s inevitable. But, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/as-verdadeiras-razoes-pelas-quais-os-homens-optam-pelo-ato-cobarde-de-se-esconderem\/\">fantasma<\/a> them would only show that you don&#8217;t respect them enough to give them proper closure.<\/p>\n<p>Also, it would mean that you aren&#8217;t brave enough to stand behind your actions and that you don&#8217;t have the dignity to<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/textos-de-despedida\/\"> terminar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> cara a cara.<\/p>\n<h4 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t even think about taking some time apart first<\/h4>\n<p>O seu parceiro ir\u00e1 provavelmente sugerir que tome <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/fazer-uma-pausa-equivale-ao-fim-de-uma-relacao\/\">uma rutura de rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> e pensar na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o antes de tomar uma decis\u00e3o definitiva.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you accept this, it&#8217;ll only give them false hope. They will start thinking that you aren&#8217;t completely sure about your decision and that there is still hope <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/9-coisas-que-podem-ajudar-a-salvar-a-sua-relacao\/\">para salvar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> ou para come\u00e7ar de novo.<\/p>\n<p>I think this wouldn&#8217;t be fair to do to a person you love, right? So, if your SO suggests a relationship break, you should gently reject their offer and explain that your decision is final and that you don&#8217;t plan to change it, no matter what.<\/p>\n<h4 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t break up in a public place<b><\/b><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130985 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-in-the-house.jpg\" alt=\"um homem a falar com uma mulher dentro de casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-in-the-house.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-in-the-house-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-in-the-house-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-in-the-house-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-in-the-house-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-in-the-house-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-in-the-house-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-in-the-house-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-in-the-house-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-in-the-house-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-in-the-house-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-in-the-house-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-in-the-house-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>The first reason why you shouldn&#8217;t do it in a public place is that it might make the situation even worse for your partner.<\/p>\n<p>They might think that you were afraid to do it in private and that you&#8217;re using those people around you to make the breakup as fast as possible.<\/p>\n<p>I know it would be nice to avoid creating a scene in front of other people, but I&#8217;m sure your partner would like for you to do it while you two are alone. You don&#8217;t know what their reaction will be, but you must be ready to handle it the best way possible.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/e-dificil-acabar-com-uma-relacao-2\/\"><i>Separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/i><\/a><i> em privado e a faz\u00ea-lo <\/i><i>cara a cara<\/i><i> tamb\u00e9m lhes mostrar\u00e1 que ainda os respeita e se preocupa com eles e com os seus sentimentos.<\/i><\/p>\n<h4 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t give them false hope<\/h4>\n<p>J\u00e1 referi isto acima, mas tenho mesmo de o sublinhar novamente. Quando se toma a decis\u00e3o de se separar, \u00e9 preciso manter essa decis\u00e3o e enfrentar tudo o que vem a seguir.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re interested in <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/dar-outra-oportunidade-ler\/\">dar outra oportunidade \u00e0 vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>, then you should suggest a relationship break. You shouldn&#8217;t tell them that you&#8217;re ending things for good with them.<\/p>\n<h4 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t even think about breakup sex<b><\/b><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130986 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-kisses-a-half-naked-woman.jpg\" alt=\"um homem beija uma mulher seminua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-kisses-a-half-naked-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-kisses-a-half-naked-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-kisses-a-half-naked-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-kisses-a-half-naked-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-kisses-a-half-naked-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-kisses-a-half-naked-woman-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-kisses-a-half-naked-woman-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-kisses-a-half-naked-woman-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-kisses-a-half-naked-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-kisses-a-half-naked-woman-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-kisses-a-half-naked-woman-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-kisses-a-half-naked-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-kisses-a-half-naked-woman-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>As crazy as it sounds, most couples practice breakup sex nowadays. I don&#8217;t know if it\u2019s because they want to have fun one last time (right before <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fases-da-rutura\/\">fases da separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> kick in) or because they think it&#8217;ll make them change their mind, but, in my opinion, it&#8217;s absolutely freaking crazy.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ent\u00e3o, <\/b><b>sexo na separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><b> est\u00e1 fora de quest\u00e3o. <\/b>It can only confuse you and make you think that you&#8217;ve made a hasty decision and that you should try <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/resolver-as-coisas-com-o-seu-parceiro\/\">para resolver as coisas<\/a> em vez de se separarem.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t care if your partner is a model or they&#8217;re begging you on their knees to do it one last time; you have to hold your horses and control your desires.<\/p>\n<h2>Como saber quando terminar com algu\u00e9m que ama? 10 grandes sinais de alerta<\/h2>\n<p>I know it&#8217;s difficult to make the decision<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sera-que-acabou-mesmo-10-sinais-que-indicam-que-esta-na-altura-de-acabar\/\"> para romper<\/a> com algu\u00e9m que ainda ama, mas por vezes, infelizmente, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio faz\u00ea-lo para preservar a sua sa\u00fade emocional e mental.<\/p>\n<p>There are a few red flags that it&#8217;s time to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/citacoes-de-fim-de-relacao\/\">terminar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>, and I have listed the major ones below. So, keep reading&#8230;<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">You&#8217;ve tried couple&#8217;s therapy, but&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130987 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-to-a-psychiatrist.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher falam com um psiquiatra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-to-a-psychiatrist.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-to-a-psychiatrist-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-to-a-psychiatrist-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-to-a-psychiatrist-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-to-a-psychiatrist-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-to-a-psychiatrist-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-to-a-psychiatrist-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-to-a-psychiatrist-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-to-a-psychiatrist-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-to-a-psychiatrist-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-to-a-psychiatrist-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-to-a-psychiatrist-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-to-a-psychiatrist-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>It didn&#8217;t work. No matter how much you try and try&#8230; No matter how much effort you&#8217;re putting into <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/e-assim-que-vao-resolver-a-vossa-relacao-depois-de-uma-luta-brutal\/\">consertar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>, things just don&#8217;t get better.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve tried many different couple&#8217;s therapies, and you&#8217;ve followed all the relationship expert advice you get, but nothing has helped to make your relationship better.<\/p>\n<p>Then, you know what you have to do&#8230; You need to prevent your relationship from draining you.<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mensagens\/historias\/dont-expect-save-save\/\"> Salve-se quem puder <\/a>e deix\u00e1-lo no seu passado de uma vez por todas e seguir em frente.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Est\u00e3o sempre a acabar e a voltar a juntar-se<\/h3>\n<p><i>If you two are stuck in the awful cycle of breaking up and getting back together, it&#8217;s obvious that you still share strong feelings for each other that won&#8217;t allow you to separate forever.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>No entanto, tamb\u00e9m deve saber que <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/por-vezes-o-amor-nao-e-suficiente\/\"><b>o amor nunca \u00e9 suficiente<\/b><\/a><b> para fazer uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcionar.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sooner or later, you&#8217;ll understand that it doesn&#8217;t lead anywhere. You&#8217;ll realize that you will never be able to maintain <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mensagens\/citacoes-de-relacoes-saudaveis\/\">uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>, and it&#8217;ll make you break up once again. But this time, it&#8217;ll be for real and for good. <b><\/b><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re the one making all the effort<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130988 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-walks-away-from-the-man.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher afasta-se do homem\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-walks-away-from-the-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-walks-away-from-the-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-walks-away-from-the-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-walks-away-from-the-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-walks-away-from-the-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-walks-away-from-the-man-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-walks-away-from-the-man-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-walks-away-from-the-man-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-walks-away-from-the-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-walks-away-from-the-man-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-walks-away-from-the-man-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-walks-away-from-the-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-walks-away-from-the-man-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><b>Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 e deve ser sempre uma via de dois sentidos.<\/b> <i>The respect, your feelings, and all the effort you&#8217;re putting into making your relationship work must be reciprocated.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>If that&#8217;s not the case, if you feel that you&#8217;re the only one who is trying to maintain the relationship, it&#8217;s a clear sign that the other side <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-10-coisas-nao-ama-o-suficiente\/\">doesn&#8217;t love you <\/a>da mesma forma que tu os amas.<\/p>\n<p>One day, you&#8217;ll get tired of it all, and you&#8217;ll make a definite and final decision. You&#8217;ll<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-boas-razoes-para-se-ir-embora\/\"> afastar-se<\/a>, and you&#8217;ll never even want to look back.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">J\u00e1 n\u00e3o h\u00e1 confian\u00e7a ou respeito na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n<p>Suponho que todos n\u00f3s conhecemos o<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/principais-regras-de-relacionamento\/\"> base fundamental de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>. Bem, a confian\u00e7a e o respeito s\u00e3o essa base.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel that you&#8217;re being disrespected or that you can&#8217;t trust your partner anymore, it&#8217;s a very clear red flag that you need to<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nunca-olhe-para-o-seu-ex-afaste-se-e-deixe-o-ver-o-que-perdeu\/\"> afastar-se dessa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Your loved ones aren&#8217;t supportive of your relationship<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130989 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/daughter-talking-to-mom-arguing.jpg\" alt=\"filha a falar com a m\u00e3e a discutir\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/daughter-talking-to-mom-arguing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/daughter-talking-to-mom-arguing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/daughter-talking-to-mom-arguing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/daughter-talking-to-mom-arguing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/daughter-talking-to-mom-arguing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/daughter-talking-to-mom-arguing-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/daughter-talking-to-mom-arguing-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/daughter-talking-to-mom-arguing-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/daughter-talking-to-mom-arguing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/daughter-talking-to-mom-arguing-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/daughter-talking-to-mom-arguing-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/daughter-talking-to-mom-arguing-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/daughter-talking-to-mom-arguing-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><i>&#8220;If nobody in the community supports your relationship, that\u2019s a red flag<\/i>,<i>&#8220;<\/i> diz a especialista em rela\u00e7\u00f5es Lindsay Chrisler, de Nova Iorque.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this doesn&#8217;t have to be a definite sign that you should end things with your romantic partner, but I&#8217;m sure there is a good reason why those close to you don&#8217;t support your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s probably because they think your partner doesn&#8217;t deserve you. <b>O facto \u00e9 que o seu <\/b><b>entes queridos<\/b><b> s\u00f3 querem o melhor para si e deve, sem d\u00favida, ter em considera\u00e7\u00e3o a sua opini\u00e3o sobre a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">There&#8217;s a rift between you<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/citacoes-de-pessoas-que-mudam-a-lista-definitiva\/\">As pessoas mudam<\/a>. Feelings fade away&#8230; You start growing apart from your partner without even being aware of it.<\/p>\n<p><b>One day, you just wake up and realize that nothing is the way it used to be. You know that your partner isn&#8217;t making you happy like they did before.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You realize that your relationship isn&#8217;t as close as it was before. And no matter how much you try, it just seems that it&#8217;s impossible <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/reatar-a-ligacao-com-um-ex\/\">para restabelecer a liga\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> e voltar a crescer junto com o seu par.<\/p>\n<p>Drifting apart is one of the clearest signs that you should rethink your relationship and decide whether you should continue dating a person you don&#8217;t feel all that close to anymore.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re experiencing any form of abuse<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130990 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"um homem grita com uma mulher\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>Por muito que se ame algu\u00e9m, nunca se deve tolerar uma atitude desrespeitosa ou <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/padroes-de-comportamento-passivo-agressivo\/\">comportamento abusivo<\/a>. Lembre-se de que uma pessoa que o ama sinceramente nunca o magoaria continuamente e de prop\u00f3sito.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn&#8217;t have to explain yourself to anyone because you&#8217;re the only one who is truly important. <b>Ponha um ponto final enorme no seu<\/b> <b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o abusiva<\/b><b> e encerrar esse cap\u00edtulo da vossa vida para sempre.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">As discuss\u00f5es tornaram-se uma parte normal da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n<p>Para que fique claro, todos os casais discutem. Pequenos desentendimentos de vez em quando s\u00e3o uma parte completamente normal <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/15-caracteristicas-de-uma-relacao-saudavel\/\">de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>However, once those &#8216;occasional fights&#8217; become &#8216;contact fights,&#8217; it&#8217;s really time to walk away from your relationship. Otherwise, it&#8217;ll only result in making your relationship toxic and ruining your mental health.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Por outro lado, a paix\u00e3o j\u00e1 a abandonou h\u00e1 muito tempo<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130991 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-leaves-the-loved-one.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher deixa o ente querido\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-leaves-the-loved-one.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-leaves-the-loved-one-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-leaves-the-loved-one-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-leaves-the-loved-one-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-leaves-the-loved-one-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-leaves-the-loved-one-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-leaves-the-loved-one-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-leaves-the-loved-one-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-leaves-the-loved-one-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-leaves-the-loved-one-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-leaves-the-loved-one-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-leaves-the-loved-one-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-leaves-the-loved-one-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>Quando a fa\u00edsca deixa a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, tenham a certeza de que o amor se seguir\u00e1. \u00c9 claro que a fa\u00edsca nunca poder\u00e1 ser t\u00e3o forte como era quando come\u00e7aram a namorar, mas tamb\u00e9m nunca dever\u00e1 desaparecer completamente.<\/p>\n<p>A minha melhor amiga terminou recentemente a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. E sabem o que ela me disse quando lhe perguntei o que tinha acontecido? Tenho mesmo de a citar porque essa frase ficou-me muito gravada na mem\u00f3ria.<\/p>\n<p>Disse ela, <i>&#8220;Trust and passion left the relationship many moons ago. Now it&#8217;s time I left it too.&#8221;<\/i><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re thinking about the breakup all the time<\/h3>\n<p>If you&#8217;re constantly thinking about ending your relationship, it&#8217;s probably because you have more than one reason to do so.<\/p>\n<p>You aren&#8217;t happy in that relationship, and you see breaking up as your only salvation. And you know what? You have every right to do so. You have every right to let go of anything that doesn&#8217;t make you happy.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/a-vida-e-demasiado-curta-para-perder-tempo-com-aldraboes\/\"><b>A vida \u00e9 demasiado curta<\/b><\/a><b> to waste your precious time on the wrong people and things that can&#8217;t make you happy.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2>Como ultrapassar uma rutura com algu\u00e9m que ama: 10 passos importantes<\/h2>\n<p>So, if you&#8217;re interested in this part, I assume you have already finished with the breakup conversation.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quando um <\/b><b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica<\/b><b> comes to an end, one side will always end up hurt, and, unfortunately, it&#8217;s inevitable.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>Se ainda tem sentimentos rom\u00e2nticos intensos pelo seu <\/i><i>ex-companheiro<\/i><i>, it&#8217;s perfectly normal that you&#8217;ll suffer <\/i><i>ap\u00f3s o <\/i><i>separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/i><i>. However, that doesn&#8217;t mean that you&#8217;ll never be able to recover from it and move on with your life.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Luto e cura depois de um<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/citacoes-de-separacao-que-o-vao-inspirar\/\"> separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> is a long and exhausting process. But, unfortunately, you have to go through that process if you want to move on. I\u2019ve prepared a few pieces of relationship expert advice for you below that will help you get through it all a bit faster.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">D\u00ea a si pr\u00f3prio algum tempo para descansar<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130992 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-a-deck-chair.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher est\u00e1 deitada numa espregui\u00e7adeira\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-a-deck-chair.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-a-deck-chair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-a-deck-chair-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-a-deck-chair-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-a-deck-chair-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-a-deck-chair-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-a-deck-chair-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-a-deck-chair-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-a-deck-chair-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-a-deck-chair-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-a-deck-chair-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-a-deck-chair-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-is-lying-on-a-deck-chair-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>Now you&#8217;ve got time to do all the things you wanted to do before, but the only thing you should do right now is take a very deep breath and relax.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/de-a-si-proprio-algum-tempo\/\">Dar tempo a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a>. Take a rest. Let both your mind and heart take a rest from everything and everyone else. It&#8217;s something that you owe yourself. Have some alone time and don&#8217;t think about your relationship, your ex-partner, or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fases-da-rutura\/\">fases da separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> de todo.<\/p>\n<p>Just try to relax and imagine that you&#8217;re the only person left in the world. Because the truth is, no one else actually matters besides you.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cortar o contacto ap\u00f3s a separa\u00e7\u00e3o<b><\/b><\/h3>\n<p>I suppose you&#8217;ve heard of the famous <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/regra-de-nao-contacto-o-poder-do-silencio\/\">regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/a> after the breakup. Now, you need to put that rule into practice immediately after you&#8217;ve finished with the breakup conversation.<\/p>\n<p>So, this means no texts or phone calls to your ex-romantic partner. You really need to cut off communication after you&#8217;ve decided to end things.<\/p>\n<p><b>A maioria <\/b><b>especialistas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/b><b> concordar que <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/8-razoes-pelas-quais-e-importante-seguir-a-regra-do-nao-contacto\/\"><b>a regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/b><\/a><b> \u00e9 a \u00daNICA forma eficaz de ultrapassar uma <\/b><b>separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><b> e seguir em frente com a sua vida.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Os melhores amigos s\u00e3o sempre a melhor terapia<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130993 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/two-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"dois amigos est\u00e3o sentados num caf\u00e9 e conversam durante o caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/two-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/two-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/two-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/two-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/two-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/two-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/two-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/two-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/two-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/two-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/two-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/two-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/two-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><b>If you&#8217;re feeling <\/b><b>de cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/b><b>, I know a cure that will definitely help you feel better. That incredible cure is called &#8216;<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/friendship\/8-agradecimentos-que-devemos-dizer-aos-nossos-melhores-amigos-antes-do-fim-do-ano\/\"><b>melhores amigos<\/b><\/a><b>.&#8217;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>They are the people who love you the most and who will do just about anything to make you feel better. They&#8217;ll help you collect and glue each and every part of your broken heart back together, and they&#8217;ll stand right beside you at every step of your grieving and healing process.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Afastar-se das redes sociais durante algum tempo<\/h3>\n<p>O melhor para si seria tomar um pequeno <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/tempo-para-uma-desintoxicacao-das-redes-sociais\/\">desintoxica\u00e7\u00e3o das redes sociais<\/a>. It&#8217;s just so you don&#8217;t check if your ex is online or what they are sharing all the time.<\/p>\n<p>Procure outra coisa que o mantenha ocupado. Leia livros, o seu hor\u00f3scopo, ou tente aprender uma nova compet\u00eancia \u00fatil, uma nova l\u00edngua, por exemplo.<b> Se continuas a espiar a tua ex no <\/b><b>redes sociais<\/b><b>, it&#8217;ll be an enormous <\/b><b>quebra-galho<\/b><b> para o vosso processo de cura e de mudan\u00e7a.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Aceitar a sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130994 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-on-the-beach-and-looks-out-to-sea.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher com longos cabelos castanhos senta-se na praia e olha para o mar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-on-the-beach-and-looks-out-to-sea.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-on-the-beach-and-looks-out-to-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-on-the-beach-and-looks-out-to-sea-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-on-the-beach-and-looks-out-to-sea-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-on-the-beach-and-looks-out-to-sea-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-on-the-beach-and-looks-out-to-sea-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-on-the-beach-and-looks-out-to-sea-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-on-the-beach-and-looks-out-to-sea-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-on-the-beach-and-looks-out-to-sea-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-on-the-beach-and-looks-out-to-sea-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-on-the-beach-and-looks-out-to-sea-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-on-the-beach-and-looks-out-to-sea-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-sits-on-the-beach-and-looks-out-to-sea-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>Your situation isn&#8217;t actually that good and clear, right? So, what? There are so many people in a similar or even the same situation as you are.<\/p>\n<p>Suck it up. You&#8217;ve made the decision, and now all you can do is stand behind it. <i>Aceite tudo isto como uma enorme li\u00e7\u00e3o que a sua vida est\u00e1 a tentar ensinar-lhe.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Aceitar e abra\u00e7ar os seus sentimentos<\/h3>\n<p><b>Don&#8217;t ever fight your feelings. <\/b>Of course, I get you. It&#8217;s hard to come to terms with the fact that you need to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-maneiras-de-deixar-ir-alguem-que-ja-o-deixou-ir\/\">deixar algu\u00e9m para tr\u00e1s<\/a> you&#8217;re still deeply in love with.<\/p>\n<p>Mas a verdade \u00e9 que algumas pessoas ficar\u00e3o para sempre no nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o e n\u00e3o podemos fazer absolutamente nada para mudar isso. Podemos apenas aceit\u00e1-lo e esperar que o tempo esteja do nosso lado e fa\u00e7a com que esses sentimentos se desvane\u00e7am.<\/p>\n<p>A \u00faltima coisa que precisa de fazer neste momento \u00e9 reprimir os seus sentimentos. Isso pode afetar a sua sa\u00fade mental da pior maneira poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Confiar num membro da fam\u00edlia<b><\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130995 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-back-and-talk.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher sentam-se no banco de tr\u00e1s e conversam\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-back-and-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-back-and-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-back-and-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-back-and-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-back-and-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-back-and-talk-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-back-and-talk-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-back-and-talk-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-back-and-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-back-and-talk-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-back-and-talk-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-back-and-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-back-and-talk-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>After you decide to part ways with your significant other, the only thing you shouldn&#8217;t do is shut yourself off from your loved ones.<\/p>\n<p><b>I know you&#8217;re riding on a real emotional rollercoaster, but, trust me, you&#8217;ll feel much better if you share your sorrows with someone else.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Open up to someone you trust the most, whether it&#8217;s your best friend or a family member. Who knows, they may even give you some good advice and help you get over it all faster.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t jump into a new relationship<b><\/b><\/h3>\n<p>When you&#8217;re in <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-beneficios-quebra-da-regra-de-nao-contacto\/\">o per\u00edodo sem contacto<\/a> after the breakup, it&#8217;s a huge no-no for you to start dating other people.<\/p>\n<p><i>You&#8217;re currently in a period of your life where you need to put all your focus and attention on yourself.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>You&#8217;re in a period of your life when it&#8217;s high time to<\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/a-todas-as-raparigas-apaixonem-se-primeiro-por-voces-proprias\/\"><i> apaixonar-se por si pr\u00f3prio <\/i><\/a><i>e come\u00e7ar a sair com aquela pessoa fant\u00e1stica que v\u00eas no teu espelho todas as manh\u00e3s.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>You may think that dating other people will help you forget about your ex-partner faster, but the fact is that it&#8217;s such tomfoolery. You can&#8217;t fall in love with someone else as long as your ex is still firmly settled in your heart.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tratar-se<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130996 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-in-soping-chooses-clothes.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher com roupa de dormir escolhe a roupa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-in-soping-chooses-clothes.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-in-soping-chooses-clothes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-in-soping-chooses-clothes-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-in-soping-chooses-clothes-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-in-soping-chooses-clothes-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-in-soping-chooses-clothes-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-in-soping-chooses-clothes-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-in-soping-chooses-clothes-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-in-soping-chooses-clothes-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-in-soping-chooses-clothes-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-in-soping-chooses-clothes-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-in-soping-chooses-clothes-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/a-woman-in-soping-chooses-clothes-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>Dito de forma simples, agora \u00e9 a altura certa para se concentrar em si pr\u00f3prio. Precisa de se mimar ao m\u00e1ximo porque simplesmente o merece.<\/p>\n<p>Do things you always wanted but didn&#8217;t have the opportunity to do before. Take a wellness day. Fill up the online shopping cart and buy yourself everything you want. <b>Um pouco de terapia de retalho nunca matou ningu\u00e9m, certo?<\/b><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Acreditar no poder do tempo<\/h3>\n<p><b>Confia em mim, <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/o-tempo-cura-todas-as-feridas-ou-sera-que-cura-mesmo\/\"><b>o tempo cura<\/b><\/a><b>. It has no magical power to make your feelings for someone disappear, but it&#8217;ll definitely help you recover from your emotional wounds.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The first time you give yourself time to grieve and heal in peace, you&#8217;ll understand what I&#8217;m talking about. <i>Don&#8217;t put the &#8220;I&#8217;m okay, I&#8217;ve moved on&#8221; mask on because by doing that, you&#8217;ll only be <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/7-sinais-de-que-esta-a-reprimir-as-suas-emocoes-e-porque-e-perigoso\/\"><i>suprimir os seus sentimentos<\/i><\/a><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Tem de ser suficientemente forte para aceitar todas as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, as positivas mas tamb\u00e9m as negativas. Caso contr\u00e1rio, pode ter a certeza de que, mais cedo ou mais tarde, todos esses sentimentos reprimidos vir\u00e3o \u00e0 superf\u00edcie e causar\u00e3o danos ainda maiores.<\/p>\n<h2>Para concluir<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-130997 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-sits-on-a-bench-and-looks-out-at-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher senta-se num banco e olha para o lago\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-sits-on-a-bench-and-looks-out-at-the-lake.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-sits-on-a-bench-and-looks-out-at-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-sits-on-a-bench-and-looks-out-at-the-lake-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-sits-on-a-bench-and-looks-out-at-the-lake-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-sits-on-a-bench-and-looks-out-at-the-lake-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-sits-on-a-bench-and-looks-out-at-the-lake-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-sits-on-a-bench-and-looks-out-at-the-lake-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-sits-on-a-bench-and-looks-out-at-the-lake-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-sits-on-a-bench-and-looks-out-at-the-lake-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-sits-on-a-bench-and-looks-out-at-the-lake-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-sits-on-a-bench-and-looks-out-at-the-lake-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-sits-on-a-bench-and-looks-out-at-the-lake-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/the-woman-sits-on-a-bench-and-looks-out-at-the-lake-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>Quero tamb\u00e9m avisar-vos de uma \u00faltima coisa. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/amor-incondicional-sentimentos-fortes-alguem\/\">O amor \u00e9<\/a> a very complex emotion. It&#8217;s one that can never be controlled.<\/p>\n<p><b>There is no switch when it comes to love. You can&#8217;t turn your emotions on or off how and when you want.<\/b> <i>Assim, mesmo depois de <\/i><i>coisas finais<\/i><i> with the person you truly love, it doesn&#8217;t mean that the love you feel for them will disappear overnight.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll need time. A lot of time, actually. To suffer, to recover, to heal, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-tirar-alguem-da-sua-cabeca\/\">para seguir em frente<\/a>&#8230; You&#8217;ll need time to get your life back on track.<\/p>\n<p>However, the most important thing is to think about your own well-being. If you think you deserve more than your soon-to-be ex-partner is giving you, no matter how painful it&#8217;ll be, you need to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/135-citacoes-inspiradoras-para-ajudar-a-curar-o-seu-coracao-partido\/\">romper<\/a> com eles e torn\u00e1-los parte do seu passado.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this doesn&#8217;t mean that you should completely neglect your partner&#8217;s feelings. I&#8217;m sure that breaking their heart is the last thing you want to do.<\/p>\n<p>Este guia eficiente sobre como acabar com algu\u00e9m que ama ir\u00e1 ajud\u00e1-lo a terminar as coisas com o seu parceiro da forma menos dolorosa poss\u00edvel para ambos.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s nice to take care of other people&#8217;s feelings, but remember, you should always be your primary focus and biggest priority in life.<\/p>\n<p><i>Nothing in this life is worth it if you aren&#8217;t happy&#8230; Not even such a beautiful emotion like love.<\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Letting go of the person you love is definitely the most difficult, heartbreaking thing to do. You&#8217;re aware that you&#8217;re about to do something that will break your heart into a million pieces, but you&#8217;re also aware that it&#8217;s the right thing to do. 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