{"id":131044,"date":"2021-09-02T21:37:05","date_gmt":"2021-09-02T21:37:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=131044"},"modified":"2022-01-07T12:22:51","modified_gmt":"2022-01-07T12:22:51","slug":"o-amor-e-real","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-amor-e-real\/","title":{"rendered":"O amor \u00e9 real? Os segredos do amor verdadeiro revelados"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9 <\/i>amor verdadeiro<\/i>? <\/i>Ser\u00e1 que alguma vez vou encontrar o amor<\/i><\/a>? Ser\u00e1 que todos esses poemas rom\u00e2nticos e <\/i>cita\u00e7\u00f5es de amor profundo<\/i><\/a> inspirado por <\/i>amor verdadeiro,<\/i> ou s\u00e3o apenas uma ilus\u00e3o de algo inating\u00edvel?<\/i><\/p>\n

S\u00e3o <\/i>seres humanos<\/i> capaz de viver o amor em toda a sua gl\u00f3ria e os desafios que o acompanham? Espera, <\/i>o que \u00e9 o amor<\/i><\/a>e como \u00e9 que sabemos que ela existe?<\/i><\/p>\n

Love is a complex concept that words can\u2019t really define, but it has to be recognized and felt by our hearts and souls. That\u2019s how you know it\u2019s real.<\/b><\/p>\n

O amor \u00e9 o sentimento que se tem quando se espera impacientemente pelo seu <\/i>ente querido<\/i>\u2019s reply or when <\/i>um beijo na testa<\/i><\/a> multiplies those butterflies in your stomach. Love is also feeling confused and not knowing if it\u2019s real or not.<\/i><\/p>\n

Love is so powerful that there aren\u2019t simply enough paragraphs in the world to define its essence.<\/b> Today, we\u2019ll try to fix that. The following paragraphs are written in an attempt to simplify love and celebrate its divine complexity.<\/p>\n

O amor \u00e9 real ou uma ilus\u00e3o?<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

We’ve all witnessed the lavishness of love portrayed in movies. Once two souls fall in love with each other, their worlds become brighter and more colorful. Of course, before they’re ready to indulge in the essence of pure love, they need to overcome a few challenges.<\/p>\n

After that, they usually reach the happy-ever-after stage, and we’re all happy for them. Inspired by their romance, we start contemplating the definition of love in real life.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que somos capazes de viver o amor como ele \u00e9 retratado nos filmes, ou tudo isso n\u00e3o passa de uma grande mentira que nos \u00e9 vendida para nos fazer sentir menos miser\u00e1veis?<\/b><\/p>\n

(Perdoem-me a digress\u00e3o que se segue).<\/p>\n

The other day, when I was in a cab, Hillsong Young & Free’s \u201cReal Love\u201d made the awkward silence extremely bearable. The Isto \u00e9 <\/i>amor verdadeiro<\/i> A letra ainda est\u00e1 a soar nos meus ouvidos:<\/p>\n

“Yeah, this love is for real<\/i><\/p>\n

Nunca mais me largar\u00e1s<\/i><\/p>\n

Nunca me deixes ir, oh<\/i><\/p>\n

And it’s more than just words<\/i><\/p>\n

Amor fora do meu controlo<\/i><\/p>\n

Fora de controlo<\/i><\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 <\/i>amor verdadeiro<\/i><\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 <\/i>amor verdadeiro<\/i>…”<\/i><\/p>\n

Quando a can\u00e7\u00e3o terminou, v\u00e1rias perguntas ocuparam o meu c\u00e9rebro,<\/b> como as seguintes:<\/b><\/p>\n

O amor \u00e9 falso? Ser\u00e1 que <\/i>amor verdadeiro real<\/i>? Ser\u00e1 que <\/i>amor verdadeiro<\/i> existem? Espera, <\/i>ele \u00e9 meu <\/i>alma g\u00e9mea<\/i><\/a>? Como \u00e9 que eu sei o <\/i>diferen\u00e7a entre amor e <\/i>paix\u00e3o<\/i><\/a>?<\/i><\/p>\n

Suddenly, Lady Gaga\u2019s \u201cPerfect Illusion\u201d lyrics started to mix with Hillsong Young & Free’s: \u201cIt wasn\u2019t love, it wasn\u2019t love. It was a perfect illusion (Perfect illusion)\u2026\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

So, I decided to do my research. Here\u2019s what I found out based on my personal experience (and of people close to me) and data I found on the internet:<\/p>\n

Love is real, but it can\u2019t really be defined. You either experience the <\/b>sentimentos intensos de amor,<\/b> or you don’t. You either know it\u2019s <\/b>amor verdadeiro,<\/b> or you don\u2019t.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you ask me, there\u2019s no gray area here. Things are actually pretty simple: We fall in love, and we either stay in love with that person, or we fall out of love, and that\u2019s the reality.<\/p>\n

Se conseguir exprimir <\/b>sentimentos de amor<\/b>, then you know it\u2019s real.<\/b><\/p>\n

O amor \u00e0 primeira vista \u00e9 real?<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

\u00c9 <\/i>amor verdadeiro<\/i>? Sim, \u00e9 verdade. Mas, <\/i>\u00e9 o amor em <\/i>primeira vista<\/i> real<\/i><\/a>, e porque \u00e9 que isso acontece?<\/i><\/p>\n

Sempre que tento imaginar o conceito de se apaixonar em <\/b>primeira vista<\/b>Penso nisto:<\/b> A man and a woman on the street (or at a bar) looking each other in the eye. Then comes the moment of sudden realization that they know each other even though it\u2019s their first encounter.<\/p>\n

O tempo p\u00e1ra. Todas as pessoas \u00e0 sua volta tornam-se invis\u00edveis, e parece uma cena de um filme da vida real. almas g\u00e9meas que se ligam atrav\u00e9s dos olhos<\/a>. But, is it really like this? Let\u2019s find out.<\/p>\n

There aren\u2019t many studies on love at <\/b>primeira vista<\/b>, but here\u2019s an interesting <\/b>investiga\u00e7\u00e3o emp\u00edrica da Universidade de Groningen, nos Pa\u00edses Baixos<\/b><\/a>.<\/b> O investigador Florian Zsok e a sua equipa descobriram que o amor \u00e0 <\/b>primeira vista<\/b> acontece raramente.<\/b><\/p>\n

No seu estudo, esse amor baseou-se principalmente em sinais de atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica entre duas pessoas<\/a>. Basicamente, o que estas duas pessoas est\u00e3o a experimentar \u00e9 lux\u00faria e n\u00e3o amor \u00e0 primeira vista.<\/p>\n

However, through time, this lust turns into something more meaningful, and that\u2019s when we can officially call it \u2018love at first sight.\u2019<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, o amor \u00e0 primeira vista \u00e9 real? Sim, \u00e9 real, mas baseia-se na atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica, e cada um de n\u00f3s tem uma experi\u00eancia diferente.<\/p>\n

In case you\u2019re not sure whether you\u2019re experiencing it or not, here are a few <\/b>sinais de amor em <\/b>primeira vista<\/b><\/a>:<\/b><\/p>\n