{"id":13108,"date":"2019-11-24T14:44:13","date_gmt":"2019-11-24T14:44:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13108"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:27:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:27:42","slug":"querida-nao-me-deixes-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/querida-nao-me-deixes-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Querida, se n\u00e3o deixares ir, s\u00f3 vai doer mais"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando nos perdemos na nossa mente, temos tend\u00eancia a ver pessoas que ainda l\u00e1 est\u00e3o, que nunca se v\u00e3o embora, que est\u00e3o sempre \u00e0 espreita nos cantos mais escuros, \u00e0 espera que as procuremos para nos engolirem.<\/p>\n

Andam por a\u00ed, a tentar manter-nos nas suas vidas, a tentar mostrar-nos que nunca encontraremos algu\u00e9m como eles.<\/p>\n

Thank God we won’t.<\/p>\n

Por causa dessas pessoas, esquecemo-nos do que \u00e9 a felicidade e do que \u00e9 o verdadeiro amor. Esquecemo-nos que n\u00e3o pode haver felicidade no sofrimento e que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 luz no abismo escuro das suas mentiras.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Parece estranho quando o digo assim, eu sei. Mas, minha querida, senta-te um pouco e deixa-nos falar sobre ele.<\/p>\n

Conheceram-se, como? Ele entrou na sua vida fazendo com que o amor parecesse f\u00e1cil e como se nada pudesse correr mal entre voc\u00eas os dois, porque ele parecia pronto a comprometer-se com algu\u00e9m t\u00e3o bonita como voc\u00ea.<\/p>\n

So you went for it. You went all in. You didn’t leave anything for yourself, am I right? Everything that was you, was now his.<\/strong><\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que ele fez com os peda\u00e7os de si que guardou? Cuidou bem de ti? Ele fez-te sentir segura e amada<\/a>? No. No, he didn’t.<\/p>\n

He made you cry yourself to sleep at night because you didn’t know where he was for days, just for you to find out that he was with other women, having his fun.<\/p>\n

Ele estava a divertir-se imenso enquanto tu estavas deitada na tua cama, devastada e desesperada, sem saber o que fazer com as l\u00e1grimas que n\u00e3o paravam de correr.<\/strong> You didn’t know what to do to make it all stop.<\/p>\n

He made you feel like you didn’t deserve the love and affection he gave you at the beginning, although you gave him all of the love you could, you gave him everything he could ever ask for.<\/p>\n

But it still wasn’t enough. There was nothing you could do to make him believe that loving you was the right choice.<\/p>\n

Mas a verdadeira quest\u00e3o \u00e9: porque \u00e9 que est\u00e1 a tentar?<\/strong> Porque est\u00e1s a tentar convenc\u00ea-lo de que amar-te seria t\u00e3o bonito? N\u00e3o. P\u00e1ra com isso agora mesmo.<\/p>\n

As pessoas nas nossas vidas que nos apreciam e nos respeitam merecem estar presentes. N\u00e3o as pessoas com quem temos de lutar s\u00f3 para que vejam que somos preciosos e carinhosos.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de andar atr\u00e1s de algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 sempre a fugir de si.<\/p>\n

Parar. Dar a volta. Partir.<\/p>\n

Continuar a avan\u00e7ar na sua vida<\/a> on your own two feet and don’t ever look back. I know that leaving will hurt. Trying to forget everything will hurt even more.<\/p>\n

But it can’t compare to the suffering that is going to occur if you stay even a minute longer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He doesn’t deserve you in his life. The miserable life of him chasing other women just so he could satisfy his immature self isn’t something you should be paying attention to right now.<\/p>\n

But rather, pay yourself that attention. Find a way to be the center of your own little universe and stop staying with him, because you know he won’t change.<\/p>\n

He can’t change. He doesn’t want to change.<\/p>\n

He didn’t just break promises, he broke you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ele quebrou-te ao ponto de n\u00e3o saberes que existe uma vida fora do alcance de algu\u00e9m t\u00e3o t\u00f3xico como ele. Ele fez-te acreditar que nunca ser\u00e1s feliz sem ele.<\/p>\n

Mas a verdade \u00e9 que s\u00f3 quando o deixares \u00e9 que encontrar\u00e1s a verdadeira alegria.<\/p>\n

That’s why you need to pack your stuff, take everything you have with you. Recolha os seus peda\u00e7os e comece a seguir em frente. Se ficar, s\u00f3 vai doer mais.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Querida,<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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