{"id":13122,"date":"2019-01-24T15:15:05","date_gmt":"2019-01-24T15:15:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13122"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:28:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:28:01","slug":"a-pior-parte-sabia-que-o-passado-ainda-doia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-pior-parte-sabia-que-o-passado-ainda-doia\/","title":{"rendered":"O pior \u00e9 que sabias do passado dela e mesmo assim magoaste-a"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ela j\u00e1 foi magoada demasiadas vezes. Foi partida, manipulada e magoada. Construiu muros t\u00e3o altos que nem o sol conseguia atravess\u00e1-los.<\/p>\n<p>Mas, de alguma forma, conseguiste. Passaste por aquelas paredes como se elas nunca l\u00e1 estivessem. Puseste um sorriso na cara dela como se nunca tivesse havido l\u00e1grimas. Mostraste-lhe que h\u00e1 esperan\u00e7a e assustaste-a como o diabo.<\/p>\n<p>Mas ela ainda confiava em ti. Ela escolheu-o; ela escolheu lutar por si. E tu desiludiste-a.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sabia que<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/screw-making-think-shes-unlovable-one\/\"> sentia-se pouco am\u00e1vel.<\/a><\/strong> And you showed her that she\u2019s not. You showed her that she\u2019s still amazing, that there\u2019s still fire in her eyes and that you want to play with it.<\/p>\n<p>You showed her that she\u2019s worth it and just when she felt like trusting you, you left. You got her hopes high only to let them crash, breaking the silence of her emptied heart once you left.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You knew what she\u2019s been through and you decided to let her go through it again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sabias como ela tinha medo.<\/strong> Como ela estava a tremer na primeira vez que foram a um encontro. Como ela andava aos saltos pelo apartamento, a dan\u00e7ar \u00e0 volta do telefone, quando admitiu pela primeira vez o que sentia por si.<\/p>\n<p>Sabia-se que ela tinha medo de olhar para o telem\u00f3vel como se fosse uma bomba detonada pronta a explodir e a mat\u00e1-la. E foi o que aconteceu. Amaste-a apenas enquanto te era conveniente e, quando j\u00e1 n\u00e3o era, afastaste-te como se estivesses a sair de um programa de televis\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Something that occupied you for a while, but you\u2019re bored now. <strong>Sabias como ela tinha medo e tudo o que fizeste foi aprofundar esse medo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sabias o quanto ela duvidava de si pr\u00f3pria.<\/strong> How much she doubted your love. She believed that no one can love her. She believed that she\u2019s too broken, too bruised, that she\u2019s too much.<\/p>\n<p>And when she found you is just when she realized that you were the missing piece of her. That maybe she\u2019s not too much, others were just too little, you left.<\/p>\n<p>Partiu-a mais uma vez, sem lhe dar uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o. Sem lhe dar a hip\u00f3tese de fazer alguma coisa para salvar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o gentil.<strong> You knew, but you just didn\u2019t care.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Conhecias o seu passado. Sabias que ela queria que fosses o seu futuro.<\/strong> And not even that was enough for you to stop it in time\u2014before she fell for you, before she faced her fears to let you in.<\/p>\n<p>Querias divertir-te; querias ter algu\u00e9m e querias que esse algu\u00e9m fosse ela. Ela era apenas um jogo para ti, enquanto tu eras muito mais para ela.<\/p>\n<p>Deixa-a olhar para o ecr\u00e3 vazio. Deixa-a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/signs-he-loves-you-deeply\/\">apaixonar-se profunda e loucamente<\/a>para a afogar nesse amor. Deixaste-a acreditar que tamb\u00e9m a amavas, mas nunca o fizeste.<\/p>\n<p>And now you expect that she will be there once you realize what you\u2019ve lost. You expect her to wait for you until you\u2019ve had enough of the single life. You expect her to forgive you after you apologize.<\/p>\n<p>But, honey, no apology can mend a broken heart. No \u2018I\u2019m sorry\u2019 is stronger than \u2018I\u2019m leaving you\u2019. <strong>Nenhuma can\u00e7\u00e3o de amor \u00e9 mais forte do que o sil\u00eancio em que a deixaste.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t act <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/rania-naim\/2017\/12\/dont-be-surprised-when-she-no-longer-needs-you-you-taught-her-how-to-be-alone\/\" rel=\"noopener\">todos surpreendidos quando ela j\u00e1 n\u00e3o precisa de si<\/a>; you taught her to be alone. Don\u2019t act surprised once she turns cold on you; you froze her to death a long time ago.<\/p>\n<p>You were the lesson she will never forget. You taught her to build walls higher than ever before. You taught her to love herself the way you never knew. You taught her to be strong because she\u2019s no longer crying for you.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s no longer scared of love\u2014she conquered it. She\u2019s no longer broken\u2014she built herself up.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So, don\u2019t you dare act surprised once she cuts you off for good. You taught her how to do it.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She\u2019s been hurt one too many times. She\u2019s been broken, manipulated and bruised. She built walls so damn high that not even the sun could shine through. But somehow, you did. You walked passed those walls like they were never there. You put a smile on her face like there were never tears on it&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":13124,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13122","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/pexels-photo-206557.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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