{"id":13142,"date":"2018-01-25T09:26:58","date_gmt":"2018-01-25T09:26:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13142"},"modified":"2022-05-18T22:16:38","modified_gmt":"2022-05-18T22:16:38","slug":"esforcou-se-muito-arranjou-desculpas-que-talvez-pudesse-ter-arranjado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/esforcou-se-muito-arranjou-desculpas-que-talvez-pudesse-ter-arranjado\/","title":{"rendered":"Se te esfor\u00e7asses tanto como inventas desculpas, talvez pud\u00e9ssemos ter conseguido"},"content":{"rendered":"

Passei tanto tempo a desculpar-me por ti, a perdoar-te os teus erros, dar-vos uma segunda oportunidade<\/a> and hoping that one day we\u2019ll come to the same page. I hoped that one day you\u2019ll see how hard I was trying for us and that you\u2019ll try to match my efforts.<\/p>\n

De alguma forma, convenci-me de que me amas verdadeiramente e que, no fundo, queres mesmo estar comigo. Disse a mim mesma que s\u00f3 precisava de te dar tempo para nos entendermos e que as coisas acabariam por se resolver.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Amei-te com todo o meu corpo e a minha alma. Amei-te tanto como uma mulher pode amar um homem. E nunca quis tirar-te nada que<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t deserve or that I wasn\u2019t ready to give you myself. I just wanted you to love me as honestly as I loved you. And I wanted to see you trying. But, obviously, I wanted too much.<\/p>\n

Havia sempre algo de errado consigo. Havia sempre algo que te impedia de fazer as coisas que uma pessoa normal faria sem sequer pensar duas vezes.<\/p>\n

Havia sempre uma raz\u00e3o para ter de cancelar os nossos planos \u00e0 \u00faltima da hora<\/a>. There was always a reason why you couldn\u2019t pick up the phone or a perfect explanation of why it took you hours to text me back.<\/p>\n

Havia sempre algo mais importante do que estar l\u00e1 para mim quando eu mais precisava de ti. Havia sempre uma desculpa <\/a>ou uma raz\u00e3o ou algo que surgiu \u00e0 \u00faltima hora.<\/p>\n

It took me a while to see that you really had a perfect reason to not show up when you supposed to\u2014you just didn\u2019t care enough.<\/p>\n

Continuei a agarrar-me, sempre demasiado cego e ing\u00e9nuo para ver as coisas que me mostravas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A tua boca dizia-me uma coisa, mas a forma como te comportavas dizia-me algo completamente oposto. E eu estava confuso.<\/p>\n

My heart was telling me one thing and my mind something completely opposite. I should\u2019ve known that a person\u2019s effort sometimes matters more than love does.<\/p>\n

It was always easier for you to come up with excuses than it was for you to try. And I was so easily convinced. I kept saying that it doesn\u2019t matter and how it\u2019s not that big of a deal…how something must\u2019ve stopped you in your intention to be there for me.<\/p>\n

Continuei a fazer isto at\u00e9 que finalmente percebi que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada neste mundo que possa impedir-te de estares l\u00e1 para mim se realmente te importares.<\/p>\n

I always wore my heart on my sleeve and I never loved just so I\u2019d be loved back. I always gave my best and always had my purest intentions.<\/p>\n

Mas sabes, s\u00f3 podes dar a algu\u00e9m um pouco de tudo.<\/strong> H\u00e1 uma linha at\u00e9 \u00e0 qual se pode continuar a dar sem receber nada em troca. Quando se ultrapassa essa linha, quebra-se.<\/p>\n

When people ask me how is it possible we didn\u2019t make it when I loved you so much and when I tried so hard, I just remember how in love, it\u2019s impossible to make things work if there is only one person trying.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s doomed to end up sadly when there is one person bending over backwards to make things work and another one is just coming up with excuses. Love (if that was what you felt) doesn\u2019t survive without effort.<\/a><\/p>\n

Actually, I almost gave up on myself so I\u2019d make us work. I almost demolished all my values and all my beliefs to get your love.<\/p>\n

I almost deleted everything off of my priority list and decided to focus only on you. But then I realized I\u2019d just lose myself in my effort to make you love me.<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t do it. I didn\u2019t choose you to be the only important thing in my life because I realized I\u2019m not half as important to you as you are to me.<\/p>\n

Apercebi-me de que era o \u00fanico que estava realmente a tentar. A dada altura, perguntei-me o que aconteceria se deixasse de tentar. E tive a minha resposta.<\/p>\n

Quando eu recuei, you didn\u2019t fight back.<\/a> You didn\u2019t reach out to me. You didn\u2019t try to stop me. You didn\u2019t decide it\u2019s time to actually make an effort. You let me go. And it seemed to be the easiest thing you did.<\/p>\n

If it was meant to be, it would be\u2014wasn\u2019t this your ultimate excuse?<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you had tried perhaps we would\u2019ve made it. If you had put in as much effort as you made excuses, maybe it would be.<\/p>\n

But you didn\u2019t. So don\u2019t blame it on destiny or anything else. For once, be a man and say how it was your fault.<\/p>\n

Querida, esta \u00e9 por tua conta.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know that I have no sins here other than staying longer than I should have and fighting for someone who never made an actual effort for me. I tried, you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

So, I\u2019m done. I\u2019m finally done.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I spent so much time making excuses for you, forgiving you for your mistakes, giving you second chances and hoping that one day we\u2019ll come to the same page. I hoped that one day you\u2019ll see how hard I was trying for us and that you\u2019ll try to match my efforts. Somehow I convinced myself…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":13156,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13142","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/neil-fedorowycz-469549.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13142","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13142"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13142\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13156"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13142"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13142"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13142"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}