{"id":13148,"date":"2020-01-25T09:56:35","date_gmt":"2020-01-25T09:56:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13148"},"modified":"2022-03-23T12:16:35","modified_gmt":"2022-03-23T12:16:35","slug":"7-diferencas-entre-uma-relacao-saudavel-e-toxica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-diferencas-entre-uma-relacao-saudavel-e-toxica\/","title":{"rendered":"7 diferen\u00e7as entre uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica e uma saud\u00e1vel"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you start a romantic relationship, the last thing that is on your mind is if it will turn into a toxic one or if it will remain a healthy one. Some of us don\u2019t even see the bandeiras vermelhas<\/a>Por isso, pensamos que se trata apenas de uma crise que vai passar rapidamente.<\/p>\n

Mas, no final, acabamos por nos magoar e isso \u00e9 inevit\u00e1vel numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica. Por isso, se n\u00e3o tem a certeza do que deve tolerar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e do que deve cortar no momento em que o v\u00ea, aqui est\u00e3o algumas coisas a que deve prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

1. As pessoas com rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis t\u00eam uma enorme confian\u00e7a umas nas outras.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n

They don’t\u2019 freak out every time their partner goes out with their companions and they don\u2019t go crazy when someone hits on their partner. They know that their partner chose them and that there is nobody they would rather be with.<\/p>\n

People in toxic relationships check each other\u2019s personal stuff.<\/strong><\/em> They are so obsessed with cheating that they will probably check their partner\u2019s social media sites accounts and texts from their cell phone. The bad thing is that if they continue to act like that, they will soon burn out because that is not a good way to be in a relationship.<\/p>\n

2. As pessoas com rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis incentivam os seus parceiros a serem a melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prios.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n

They feel happy when their partners reach their goals and when things go well in their lives. They are not jealous of each other and they are happy with the lives they\u2019ve created for themselves.<\/p>\n

As pessoas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas retraem os seus parceiros.<\/strong><\/em> They are terrified of the idea that their partners succeed in their lives and that they are stuck somewhere in the middle. That\u2019s why they try to hold them back and to give them mau conselho<\/a>.<\/p>\n

3. As pessoas com rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis t\u00eam o seu pr\u00f3prio tempo livre.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n

They don\u2019t want to be stuck with their partners all the time because they cherish the time they spend alone or with their friends and family. They know how that is important and they would never sacrifice it.<\/p>\n

Pessoas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas<\/a> est\u00e3o colados uns aos outros. <\/strong><\/em>They are extremely insecure and they think that if they leave their partners alone that someone will steal them. They have low self-esteem and no matter whether they enjoy themselves in their partner\u2019s company or not, they will still be with them.<\/p>\n

4. As pessoas numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel s\u00e3o iguais.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Isso significa que ambos podem fazer o que quiserem, mas, ao mesmo tempo, t\u00eam de estar atentos para n\u00e3o magoar a pessoa amada. Respeitam-se mutuamente e tratam-se como \u00e9 suposto.<\/p>\n

People in toxic relationships don\u2019t have equal status.<\/strong><\/em> Um deles \u00e9 sempre dominante e o outro tem de lhe obedecer. Se o homem \u00e9 dominante, a rapariga deve fazer tudo o que ele quer e deve esquecer as suas aspira\u00e7\u00f5es e os seus desejos.<\/p>\n

5. As pessoas com rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis comunicam abertamente.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n

Even if there are bumps on the road, they try to handle them in a normal and civilized way. They don\u2019t want to fight with each other because they don\u2019t see the point in that so they talk openly about things that they are not comfortable with.<\/p>\n

People in toxic relationships don\u2019t communicate openly.<\/strong> <\/em>Gostam de fazer tratamentos silenciosos<\/a> whenever things get bad. That is their way of handling problems. They simply act like children and don\u2019t want to make the first move to actually solve the problem.<\/p>\n

6. As pessoas que vivem uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel aceitam-se completamente.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n

Recusam-se a mudar um ao outro porque se apaixonaram por essas pessoas apenas por serem como s\u00e3o. Por isso, seria errado mudar algo de que realmente gostamos, certo?<\/p>\n

As pessoas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas procuram uma mudan\u00e7a constante.<\/strong><\/em> The truth is that people like this can\u2019t aceitam completamente os seus parceiros.<\/a> They would prefer it if they could mold them into something they like. They would like it if their partners would behave like puppets and they would be their masters. I probably don\u2019t have to explain why this kind of relationship is sick!<\/p>\n

7. As pessoas que mant\u00eam rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis apoiam-se mutuamente.<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/h1>\n

They think that their partner is their best friend at the same time and they want to be with them whenever they need it. No matter what happens, they will be first to help and to tell them that everything will be okay. They are true friends and they don\u2019t have problems going the extra mile for their loved ones.<\/p>\n

As pessoas que vivem em rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas nunca d\u00e3o apoio aos seus parceiros.<\/strong><\/em> A reason for this might be the lack of love and respect, but they still don\u2019t want to break up because they feel much safer when they have someone they can lean on. They think it is better to be in any kind of relationship than being alone. The final result is a person who is unhappy and who lost every hope in eternal love.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you start a romantic relationship, the last thing that is on your mind is if it will turn into a toxic one or if it will remain a healthy one. Some of us don\u2019t even see the red flags, so we think that we just have a crisis that will soon pass. But in…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":13164,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13148","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/uros-jovicic-422016.jpg",800,543,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13148","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13148"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13148\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13164"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13148"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13148"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13148"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}