{"id":13255,"date":"2020-06-26T09:26:48","date_gmt":"2020-06-26T09:26:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13255"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:01:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:01:09","slug":"nao-tem-medo-de-se-apaixonar-tem-medo-de-se-apaixonar-pelo-homem-errado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-tem-medo-de-se-apaixonar-tem-medo-de-se-apaixonar-pelo-homem-errado\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela n\u00e3o tem medo de se apaixonar, ela tem medo de se apaixonar pelo cara errado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Por vezes, a vida ensina-nos uma li\u00e7\u00e3o para a qual n\u00e3o nos inscrevemos.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes life throws punches from all sides and even though you never fought before in such a match, you have to swing and fight back if you don\u2019t want to end up knocked down.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She didn\u2019t want to have <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/open-letter-the-girl-who-just-had-her-heart-broken\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido.<\/a> She didn\u2019t sign up for any of it, yet she found herself deep in it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tudo o que ela sempre quis foi amar e ser amada. Tudo o que ela sempre quis foi algu\u00e9m que correspondesse aos seus sentimentos e aos seus esfor\u00e7os.<\/p>\n<p>She wanted someone who would try as hard as she did, someone who would be honest and who wouldn\u2019t wish anything bad on her.<\/p>\n<p>Mas acabou por ser usada, constantemente desiludida e desapontada.<\/p>\n<p>Tudo o que recebeu foi uma m\u00e3o-cheia de promessas vazias, esperan\u00e7as e expectativas que nunca se concretizaram, um futuro que parecia um inferno e um presente do qual queria desesperadamente fugir.<\/p>\n<p>Ela apanhou o tipo errado na vida. E com ele veio o tipo errado de amor, sabes, aquele que te deixa destro\u00e7ada.<\/p>\n<p>Recebeu tudo aquilo de que tinha medo e tudo aquilo que nunca pediu. Ela ficou, ansiosa por amor, mas ao mesmo tempo com medo dele.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109943\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-pensive-woman-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem e pensativa a beber caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-pensive-woman-drinking-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-pensive-woman-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-pensive-woman-drinking-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-pensive-woman-drinking-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-pensive-woman-drinking-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-pensive-woman-drinking-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-pensive-woman-drinking-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/young-pensive-woman-drinking-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She knows what happened to her wasn\u2019t love.<\/p>\n<p>She knows that she did love, but that what she got back wasn&#8217;t love. She knows how she was treated wasn\u2019t her fault and that she didn\u2019t do anything to deserve it.<\/p>\n<p>She knows that it might be the right kind of love with someone else, it\u2019s just that she\u2019s scared. She is perfectly aware of it. But nothing she tells herself makes the fear go away.<\/p>\n<p>She isn\u2019t scared of falling in love, but she is scared of falling for the wrong guy. Her life showed her that she can easily mistake love for something else.<\/p>\n<p>E se ela volta a cometer o mesmo erro? E se ela se apaixonar novamente pelo homem errado? E se ela se inscreve para o amor e depois \u00e9 quebrada novamente?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ela merece mais do que isso na vida. Merece mais do que ser constantemente quebrada pelas pessoas que escolhe amar. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ela merece mais do que ser constantemente desiludida, ela merece mais do que um amor n\u00e3o correspondido, ela merece mais do que ser a \u00fanica a tentar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>What happened to her was something that shaped her into who she is. She isn\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/shes-thick-skinned-shes-broken-many-times\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">de pele grossa<\/a>, she\u2019s just cautious. But she deserves to be loved.<\/p>\n<p>She deserves true love, efforts that don\u2019t have any hidden intentions and she deserves the right guy.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109944\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/pensive-woman-sitting-alone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa sentada sozinha\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/pensive-woman-sitting-alone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/pensive-woman-sitting-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/pensive-woman-sitting-alone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/pensive-woman-sitting-alone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/pensive-woman-sitting-alone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/pensive-woman-sitting-alone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/pensive-woman-sitting-alone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/pensive-woman-sitting-alone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She built her walls up because of what happened to her. But they don\u2019t need to remain up.<\/p>\n<p>You can show her that there is more to her life than what she\u2019s been through in her past.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She isn\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/compassion-matters\/201401\/7-reasons-most-people-are-afraid-love\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">medo de amar<\/a>, but she needs someone who\u2019ll show her that she\u2019s worthy of it. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>That he\u2019s worth her lowering her guard, putting her walls down and allowing herself to feel again.&nbsp; <\/strong><strong>Ser esse algu\u00e9m para ela.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Show her you\u2019ll be there. Show her you\u2019re nothing like the man who broke her.<\/p>\n<p>Show her you have no intention other than loving her. And when she finally puts her walls down, don\u2019t turn your back on her. Stay true to what you showed her.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s capable of loving you in a way you have never experienced before.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s able to show you how it feels to be loved and she\u2019s able to take you to the skies with her love.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s able to make you feel like you\u2019re the only man in this world. Because she isn\u2019t scared of falling in love or loving, she\u2019s only scared of falling for the wrong guy again.<\/p>\n<p>So show her you\u2019re not the wrong guy. Show her you\u2019re worth it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110239\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/She-Isnt-Scared-Of-Falling-In-Love-Shes-Scared-Of-Falling-For-The-Wrong-Guy-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ela n\u00e3o tem medo de se apaixonar, ela tem medo de se apaixonar pelo cara errado\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/She-Isnt-Scared-Of-Falling-In-Love-Shes-Scared-Of-Falling-For-The-Wrong-Guy-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/She-Isnt-Scared-Of-Falling-In-Love-Shes-Scared-Of-Falling-For-The-Wrong-Guy-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/She-Isnt-Scared-Of-Falling-In-Love-Shes-Scared-Of-Falling-For-The-Wrong-Guy-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/She-Isnt-Scared-Of-Falling-In-Love-Shes-Scared-Of-Falling-For-The-Wrong-Guy-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/She-Isnt-Scared-Of-Falling-In-Love-Shes-Scared-Of-Falling-For-The-Wrong-Guy-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes life teaches you a lesson that you didn\u2019t sign up to attend. Sometimes life throws punches from all sides and even though you never fought before in such a match, you have to swing and fight back if you don\u2019t want to end up knocked down. She didn\u2019t want to have her heart broken&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":109942,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13255","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/She-Isnt-Scared-Of-Falling-In-Love-Shes-Scared-Of-Falling-For-The-Wrong-Guy-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13255","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13255"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13255\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/109942"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13255"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13255"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13255"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}