Eu sei que sim, e n\u00e3o tem nada de que se envergonhar porque esse tipo de pensamento \u00e9 completamente normal na sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
And I know you’re expecting me to say that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you and that love is waiting for you somewhere around the corner. But, I’m not here to give you that kind of comfort.<\/strong><\/p>\n Let’s just cut the crap and call this what it is. Hey, don’t get me wrong here. I’m not saying that something is really wrong with you or that you’re damaged in any way.<\/p>\n Okay, there is nothing wrong with you, but it’s obvious that something is que o impede<\/a>. And I’m here just to help you understand what’s keeping you from finding love.<\/p>\n Even though I’m sure most people don’t think so, vida de solteiro<\/a> nem sempre \u00e9 s\u00f3 sol e arco-\u00edris.<\/strong><\/p>\n Okay, sometimes it’s good to do all the things you want without having to pay attention to whether it’s going to hurt your partner or not.<\/p>\n But the truth is that it hurts like hell when you’re going through a difficult period in your life and have no one to share your sorrows with.<\/p>\n Bem, falando por experi\u00eancia pr\u00f3pria, \u00e0s vezes d\u00f3i imenso chegar a casa vazia depois de um dia de trabalho muito dif\u00edcil e n\u00e3o ter ningu\u00e9m com quem falar sobre o assunto.<\/p>\n Por vezes, n\u00e3o ter aquela pessoa especial para enviar um texto de boa noite <\/a>\u00e9 de partir o cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/em><\/p>\n So without any further ado… Let’s find out why are you still \u00fanico<\/a> and what’s stopping you from letting someone into your heart.<\/p>\n You’re probably asking o que \u00e9 a filofobia<\/a> is now, right? Well, it’s not actually some kind of health condition \u2013 it’s a phobia or fear of falling in love.<\/p>\n It occurs mostly when people have been hurt in past relationships and are afraid that it might happen again. They know what they had to go through because of that, and they don’t want to go through the same thing ever again.<\/p>\n The thing is that they aren’t actually happy because they’re single, but they think it’s for the best.<\/p>\n They don’t want to start a relationship with someone because they think they will fall madly in love with them and give them the power to control them and their life.<\/p>\n If you are afraid of falling in love, then you’re definitely philophobic. Here’s a little guide on how to deal with it and superar o seu medo de se apaixonar<\/a>.<\/p>\n \u00c9 muito semelhante \u00e0 filofobia. S\u00f3 que esta fobia \u00e9 um medo da dor emocional e f\u00edsica.<\/p>\n So, as I already said, they’re afraid of being hurt. And people who have this kind of phobia don’t even want to give others a chance because they don’t want to risk it.<\/p>\n They simply think that their heart isn’t able to take and lidar com outro desgosto<\/a>. Para eles, ser solteiro<\/a> \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma de se protegerem e salvarem.<\/p>\n I think this is a pretty clear one. If you’re com medo de compromissos<\/a>, then the answer to your question “Why am I still single?” is all too obvious.<\/p>\n It’s because you don’t want to commit to another person. You’re used to one-night stands, and you probably don’t go any further than a first date.<\/p>\n Se quiser saber mais sobre esta fobia, consulte este artigo do nosso treinador de rela\u00e7\u00f5es e descubra tudo sobre fobia de compromisso e como lidar com ela<\/a>.<\/p>\n I just want to say another thing and close this phobia topic: the only phobia you should have is monophobia \u2013 the fear of being alone.<\/strong><\/p>\n Trust me, that’s the worst. You can live with all the others and find a way to cope with them, but this phobia will break your heart every day, piece by piece.<\/em><\/p>\n Please stop with the “what ifs.” What will happen, what God meant for you to happen, will happen, and you can do absolutely nothing about it.<\/p>\n Portanto, n\u00e3o vale a pena ficar obcecado com isso, certo?<\/p>\n Sometimes you have to take risks in life. It’s always better to take a risk and be hurt than to waste your life struggling with the medo do desconhecido<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n I know this is the reason why am I still single, and I’m working on it. It’s just so hard for me to let someone get too close to me. I’m so afraid of that closeness.<\/p>\n Tento evit\u00e1-lo o mais poss\u00edvel e, mais cedo ou mais tarde, acabo por afastar o meu potencial parceiro.<\/p>\n A maioria dos especialistas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es concorda que medo da intimidade<\/a> \u00e9 o pior obst\u00e1culo para manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>. \u200b<\/strong><\/p>\n Actually, we all know that it’s a way we form and strengthen the bond between our partner and us.<\/p>\n Se tiver baixa autoestima<\/a>, you should know that it’s your worst enemy. Not just when it comes to finding love but in so many other things.<\/p>\n It’s probably one of the core reasons why are you still single. So, work on boosting your self-confidence, your self-awareness, and you’ll see how it’ll increase your chances of meeting your soulmate.<\/p>\n If you’re struggling with low self-esteem, it will never allow you to take the first step. You won’t be able to live life to the max, and you’ll always doubt your own worth.<\/p>\n Remember, it’s not who you are that is holding you back \u2013 it’s actually all those things you think you aren’t and will never be.<\/p>\n If you’re struggling with depression or anxiety, it may also be a reason why you can’t build a healthy relationship with someone else.<\/p>\n No matter how big those issues are, don’t ever let them be bigger and stronger than you are.<\/p>\n It’s okay to be independent and maintain your independence even after getting into a relationship with someone. It’s actually good for the relationship.<\/p>\n However, you shouldn’t think that you’re self-sufficient and that you don’t need anyone else. Because you do, as we all do.<\/p>\n You don’t need anyone stronger or braver than you because you already are all those things. It’s just nice when you have someone to offer you a helping hand when life throws you to the bottom.<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: Uma carta para a mulher que escolhe entre o amor e a sua independ\u00eancia<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n One thing\u2019s for sure… You’ll never be ready to move on until you livrar-se do saco emocional<\/a>e que carrega das suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas.<\/strong><\/p>\n Don’t live in the past anymore. Get back to your real life. Your present and your future are important. You need to put a full stop on everything else once and for all.<\/p>\n It’s good to be careful, but there is no point in obsessing over things that are out of your control or that you simply can’t change.<\/p>\n Finding love isn’t an easy job. It’s a process that lasts a while, and you’re sure to get hurt somewhere along the way.<\/strong><\/p>\n However, don’t let it change your opinion on amor verdadeiro<\/a>. Don’t let it make you create some kind of defense mechanism that “will” keep your heart safe in the future. Because, unfortunately, that’s impossible.<\/p>\n Also, be an open book and allow everyone to read you. Open your heart to love. Don’t be afraid to let someone new in.<\/p>\n Sim, h\u00e1 sempre o risco de nos magoarem, mas tamb\u00e9m podem amar-nos incondicionalmente e melhorar a nossa vida de todas as formas poss\u00edveis.<\/p>\n I’m sure you’re like, “What the hell is this? What does nitpicky mean?”. If the people around have told you several times that you’re too picky<\/a>, that’s it. It means you ask for too much.<\/p>\n It means you have high and maybe even unrealistic expectations for your potential partner that they can not fulfill, of course, and that you eliminate them as soon as they fail to fulfill them or do something you aren’t okay with.<\/p>\n It’s okay to be, let’s say, selective when it comes to choosing your romantic partner, but it doesn’t mean that you should strive for perfection. Because the truth is that there is no such thing as a perfect person.<\/p>\n If this is the case, if you’re demasiado exigente<\/a>Ent\u00e3o, precisa mesmo de ver a realidade.<\/p>\n Don’t compromise your standards, don’t settle for less than you deserve, but also don’t be too picky because it’ll definitely lower your chances of meeting the right one.<\/strong><\/p>\n Please, say no. In my opinion, narcissists are one of the worst types of people. It’s perfectly understandable that they can’t form and maintain a relationship with another human being because they only think about themselves all the time.<\/p>\n So, if you aren’t completely sure but are doubting that you may have some narcissistic traits, you can check out this article that perfectly describes some tra\u00e7os narc\u00edsicos que pode n\u00e3o reconhecer imediatamente.<\/a><\/p>\n Narcissists are self-sufficient. They don’t need others because they think they’re so much better than everyone else.<\/strong><\/p>\n And they’ll get into a romantic relationship with someone only if it’s beneficial to them. That is, only if they can take advantage of that person.<\/p>\n Just to be clear, I won’t teach you here how to become a pro at flirting and seducing. If that’s your goal, then check out this guia completo sobre como namoriscar subtilmente como um profissional.<\/a><\/p>\n I’m here to help you open up to love. I’m here to help you attract your soulmate faster. Don’t obsess too much about finding love.<\/strong> Basta vestir-se bem, sair, divertir-se e conhecer novos amigos. Quem sabe, talvez a sua alma g\u00e9mea<\/a> est\u00e1 escondido num deles.<\/p>\n Passar tempo com os amigos e a fam\u00edlia \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m uma obriga\u00e7\u00e3o. As pessoas que nos s\u00e3o pr\u00f3ximas t\u00eam sempre um efeito positivo na nossa autoestima, o que \u00e9 muito importante se quisermos escapar \u00e0 vida de solteiro.<\/p>\n Just swim around in the dating pool for some time. And let love find you…<\/strong><\/p>\n You know how those A.A. therapies start? Everyone needs to introduce themselves and admit they have an addiction. Well, let’s just try to imagine we’re having that kind of therapy right now and start with the introduction.<\/p>\n My name is April Callaghan, and I’m a single woman who can’t build and maintain a healthy relationship with a guy because of my highly unrealistic expectations.<\/em><\/p>\n I’m sure there are many of you girls who could do the same introduction. It’s no wonder we\u2019ve been disappointed so many times by guys. E, o facto \u00e9 que expectativas irrealistas s\u00e3o uma via de m\u00e3o \u00fanica para a desilus\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n Don’t get me wrong \u2013 it’s good to have and cultivate some expectations. But the point is that you need to learn como gerir as suas expectativas numa parceria<\/a>… Learn how to be more accepting and less expecting…<\/em><\/p>\n Okay, you’ve been hurt in the past by someone you deeply loved. You were tra\u00eddo por aqueles que disseram que nunca lhe fariam isso.<\/a> The person you loved the most stabbed you in the back… I know, those are the most awful feelings.<\/p>\n No entanto, agora \u00e9 preciso deixar tudo isso para tr\u00e1s e abrir um cap\u00edtulo completamente novo na vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n O facto \u00e9 que a sua vida amorosa est\u00e1 a sofrer por causa disso bagagem de rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas<\/a>.<\/strong> And you’ll never be ready to let someone new into your life until you get rid of it first.<\/em><\/p>\n This goes for all the single people out there. It’s so wrong and deeply unhealthy to keep everything bottled up inside of you just because you’re afraid to open up to someone and show your vulnerable side.<\/p>\n Don’t think it’ll chase them away. I’m sure this will surprise you, but it’s actually the other way around.<\/p>\n It’ll make them stay and fight for you even more. It’ll make them fall in love with each and every one of your weaknesses.<\/p>\n Showing your weaknesses to others, celebrating your flaws, and embracing your vulnerability… This, my dear single friend, is the right bridge for a true connection.<\/strong><\/p>\n Quase todos os especialistas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es dir\u00e3o que \u00e9 preciso aceitar as brigas na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> porque s\u00f3 pode tornar mais forte a liga\u00e7\u00e3o entre si e a sua cara-metade.<\/em><\/p>\n Ou, como eu sempre digo, onde h\u00e1 amor verdadeiro<\/a>, existem tamb\u00e9m algumas diverg\u00eancias e conflitos.<\/p>\n So, the first time you and your potential partner get in a fight about something, don’t immediately give up and run away.<\/p>\n It’s not a healthy way to deal with those kinds of situations, and it’ll definitely lower your chances of meeting the right person.<\/p>\n We’re living in this modern world of social media, and online dating has become completely normal. There are a lot of people who’re numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura <\/a>with someone they\u2019ve never actually met in person.<\/p>\n Para ser sincero, os encontros em linha t\u00eam aspectos positivos e negativos.<\/p>\n Por exemplo, \u00e9 poss\u00edvel saber tudo sobre uma pessoa antes de a construir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/a> mas tamb\u00e9m pode apaixonar-se loucamente por eles antes mesmo de iniciar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica.<\/p>\n However, my honest advice to you is to go ahead with it. Download a dating app, create a good profile, and start swiping through the profiles. I’m sure your soulmate is waiting for you on one of those dating sites.<\/p>\n I’m sure all of you have heard about matchmaking and know how it works. You hire a matchmaker, they conduct an interview with you to find out some basic information about you and your life in general, and your job is done there.<\/p>\n That’s when they start searching for your best matches in their database, based on the information you gave them.<\/p>\n So, you need to be completely honest during the interview because it’ll help them find your potential partner faster.<\/p>\n Also, you need to understand that matchmaking is a process and, of course, it’ll require some time. But the good thing is that it’ll definitely increase your chances of meeting your soulmate.<\/strong><\/p>\n I know that you’re probably looking for someone you’ll partilham uma qu\u00edmica intensa <\/a>e compatibilidade com, mas a verdade \u00e9 que muitas pessoas t\u00eam uma vis\u00e3o distorcida da compatibilidade nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas.<\/p>\n It’s true that you should have some common interests and values. However, most people forget that our true strength lies in differences, not similarities.<\/strong><\/p>\n Para formar uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional muito profunda com outro ser humano e construir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida, \u00e9 realmente necess\u00e1rio aceitar e abra\u00e7ar as diferen\u00e7as. <\/em><\/p>\n You shouldn’t let them divide you. On the contrary, let them bring you closer to each other.<\/em><\/p>\n I hope this article has helped you to come to a conclusion and the right answer to your question, “Why am I still single?”.<\/p>\n And no matter what the reason is, you don’t have to worry about it. Just follow all the proven advice above and let it take you to a sua alma g\u00e9mea<\/a>.<\/p>\n And always remember, you shouldn’t date someone just so you can say you’re finally in a relationship. Just so you can change your relationship status on social media.<\/p>\nPorque \u00e9 que ainda sou solteiro? 12 raz\u00f5es comuns<\/h2>\n
You’re struggling with philophobia…<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nOu talvez at\u00e9 com agliofobia?!<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nE a fobia de compromisso?<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nO seu medo do que pode acontecer faz com que nada aconte\u00e7a<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nO medo \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m o maior inimigo da intimidade<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nA sua baixa autoestima sabota-o<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nOs problemas de sa\u00fade mental s\u00e3o tamb\u00e9m uma grande barragem<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nYou can’t be TOO independent for a relationship<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nA sua bagagem emocional precisa de ser esvaziada<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nAs feridas do passado tornaram-no muito defensivo<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nYou’re nitpicky<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nOr, maybe you’re a narcissist? ?<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nComo \u00e9 que deixo de ser solteiro? 8 dicas eficazes<\/h2>\n
\nNow, I don’t want to dwell on this anymore. So, let’s get you back in the dating pool.<\/p>\nSair e divertir-se<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nAfastar expectativas irrealistas<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nEncontrar algu\u00e9m que o ajude a desempacotar a sua bagagem emocional<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nVulnerabilidade n\u00e3o \u00e9 fraqueza!!!<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nDon’t run away from conflict<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nExperimentar encontros em linha<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nCasamenteiro profissional, porque n\u00e3o?<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nA verdade sobre a compatibilidade<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nNo total<\/h2>\n
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