{"id":13417,"date":"2018-01-30T09:01:04","date_gmt":"2018-01-30T09:01:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13417"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:51:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:51:07","slug":"nao-procurando-forcas-amorosas-gentis-provar-o-seu-valor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-procurando-forcas-amorosas-gentis-provar-o-seu-valor\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o procuro o tipo de amor que me obrigue a provar o meu valor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Estava sempre a olhar para outras mulheres. Mulheres fortes. Mulheres independentes. Sempre as admirei pelos seus sorrisos simp\u00e1ticos e gargalhadas genu\u00ednas.<\/p>\n

They looked like they were complete and that they were happy with their lives. Why couldn’t I be like them?<\/p>\n

Parecia pat\u00e9tica para mim pr\u00f3pria, mas a batalha constante para ser perfeita e mostrar a toda a gente que era digna de respeito e apre\u00e7o esgotava a minha energia. Especialmente quando se tratava de ti.<\/p>\n

Eras o tipo de homem que achava que nada era suficientemente bom para ele. Nada o poderia satisfazer.<\/p>\n

Somehow, you were bitter with yourself and you didn’t know how to deal with it, except to continue spreading your dissatisfaction wherever you would go.<\/p>\n

No dia em que viste que eu era a v\u00edtima perfeita para isso, agarraste-te a mim e esse foi o meu fim. Ou pelo menos era o que eu pensava.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pensava que era forte e que podia suportar tudo o que a vida me atirasse, mas n\u00e3o tudo o que tu me atiraste.<\/p>\n

Estava constantemente a temer pela minha vida e com medo de acabar com a cabe\u00e7a entre os joelhos, implorando-lhe que parasse.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Era como se fosse um mundo novo de medo constante que eu nunca tinha visto antes. Nada do que eu fizesse seria suficientemente bom para ti e, nas tuas palavras, eu n\u00e3o valia nada.<\/p>\n

In your eyes, I wasn’t human enough for you to be humane toward me.<\/p>\n

Depois de tudo o que passei por tua causa, decidi que j\u00e1 bastava.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I am not going to endure this anymore, because my heart cannot handle any more pain. It has been shattered into little pieces and it’s not strong enough to be broken anymore.<\/p>\n

Only my mind has found the right way and it’s called: EU SOU SUFICIENTEMENTE BOM!<\/a><\/p>\n

Sou suficientemente bom e digno de ser amado, quer queiram ver isso ou n\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There is nothing that and no one who can convince me it isn’t true anymore because I have been tricked into thinking that by too many people who didn’t really matter in my life.<\/p>\n

Those people didn’t bring any kind of value to my life, they were simply there to break me, every time a bit more, because they didn’t know how to handle their own hurting hearts.<\/p>\n

But that wasn’t the way and it’ll never be the way to healing.<\/p>\n

Durante algum tempo, tive medo de me apaixonar novamente e de que tudo voltasse a ser como antes, mas o sentimento libertador que experimentei quando finalmente me considerei suficientemente boa mostrou-me que s\u00f3 preciso de esperar pela pessoa certa.<\/p>\n

I have no need to prove my worth to anyone ever again. I’m better than that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I have been asking myself constantly what possible evil in people makes them abuse someone else into thinking that they are unworthy of living and being loved and I have never come to a true conclusion, but instead to a salvation which is ‘being enough for yourself’.<\/p>\n

And all those women I admired before don’t just have that; they don’t bring others down to prove their own worth\u2014they rise by lifting others.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That’s why I won’t settle for anything less<\/a> do que mere\u00e7o e mere\u00e7o o melhor.<\/strong> Mere\u00e7o algu\u00e9m que esteja l\u00e1 para me levantar quando eu precisar dele e eu estarei l\u00e1 para ele quando ele precisar de mim.<\/p>\n

I won’t need to prove my worth to him and that’s the goal I strive to achieve. There is nothing out there I can’t do and you will not tell me otherwise.<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o me v\u00e3o calar e fazer-me sentir mal comigo pr\u00f3prio, porque a \u00fanica pessoa que tem poder sobre as minhas emo\u00e7\u00f5es sou eu pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

But thank you for showing me this strength I have, because I didn’t know it existed. I owe you one for this.<\/p>\n

Maybe you will realize one day that you have lost something precious because you weren’t able to see past your own insecurities.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I was always looking at other women. Strong women. Independent women. I have always admired them for their kind smiles and genuine laughs. They looked like they were complete and that they were happy with their lives. Why couldn’t I be like them? I sounded pathetic to my own self, but the constant battle to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":13439,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13417","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/pexels-photo-561028.jpeg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13417","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13417"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13417\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13439"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13417"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13417"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13417"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}