{"id":13441,"date":"2020-09-30T09:34:44","date_gmt":"2020-09-30T09:34:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13441"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:56:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:56:17","slug":"prioridade-e-nao-opcao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/prioridade-e-nao-opcao\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela deve ser a sua prioridade, n\u00e3o uma op\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o vamos estar com rodeios e vamos admitir que acontece em muitos casos que, quando um homem encontra uma boa mulher, n\u00e3o faz ideia do que fazer com ela.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t know how to treat her, what to think or how to behave even to begin with.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, quando um homem conhece uma boa mulher, sabe imediatamente que a quer na sua vida, mas de alguma forma estraga tudo.<\/p>\n

Muitas vezes acontece que ele come\u00e7a a pensar e a analisar tudo em excesso, desde a mais pequena situa\u00e7\u00e3o da sua vida, e simplesmente acaba por ser t\u00f3xico<\/a> para si pr\u00f3prio e para a mulher.<\/p>\n

At some point, it appears to him that it\u2019s too early to become serious about life, he is not ready or he is unwilling to settle down or to commit to a single woman, but he also doesn\u2019t want to miss out on this opportunity to tie an amazing woman to himself.<\/p>\n

Assim, ele arrasta esta boa mulher para algo que pode ser uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas que tamb\u00e9m pode n\u00e3o ser uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s just wrong. It\u2019s wrong on so many levels.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando se conhece uma boa mulher e h\u00e1 uma confus\u00e3o na cabe\u00e7a, h\u00e1 uma de duas coisas que se deve fazer: ou melhorar o jogo ou deix\u00e1-la ir. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You either tell yourself, \u201cThis is what I\u2019ve been waiting for my whole life,\u201d or you say, \u201cShe\u2019s amazing, but I\u2019m not on the same page, so I\u2019ll just let it go.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you\u2019re unsure whether you want to commit or not, you don\u2019t make empty promises, you don\u2019t talk to her about the future and you don\u2019t plan things if you aren\u2019t ready to make them happen.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t drag a good woman into something that you yourself have no idea what it is.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t confuse her and you don\u2019t hold her next to you and make her wait until you\u2019re ready to commit.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, a vida apimenta as coisas para n\u00f3s, mas outras vezes, as coisas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o assim t\u00e3o complicadas<\/a>, sabes?<\/p>\n

A vida \u00e9 mais f\u00e1cil quando a felicidade e a tristeza s\u00e3o partilhadas com a pessoa certa.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

So when you meet the right woman, you don\u2019t come up with excuses of how you\u2019re not ready or how now is not the time or God knows what. You either make it happen or you let her go.<\/p>\n

There are women who love wholeheartedly, laugh from the bottom of their hearts, cry out loud, don\u2019t play games and always tell the truth.<\/p>\n

There are women who make things happen for themselves, women who don\u2019t need men to complete them in life and who aren\u2019t scared to live their lives to the fullest; you know, the kind of women who your mother talked to you about and your father told you to marry?<\/p>\n

These kinds of women aren\u2019t afraid to commit to a single man.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o t\u00eam medo de passar o resto das suas vidas com um homem solteiro ou de construir uma fam\u00edlia com ele, para investir nele e na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

They aren\u2019t afraid to say, \u201cNo\u201d to other men and all the other possibilities.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de mulher deve ser a sua prioridade, n\u00e3o uma op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This kind of a woman shouldn\u2019t be lied to, shouldn\u2019t be played or led to believe she has a future with you when you yourself are confused about what you want from your life.<\/p>\n

Mereces este tipo de mulher quando, e s\u00f3 quando, souberes exatamente o que queres dela.<\/p>\n

When you meet a good woman, you forget all about why it couldn\u2019t work and you start thinking about what you could do to make it work.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t come up with excuses, but you step up your game and make it happen. You tell yourself this is a once in a lifetime opportunity and you don\u2019t let yourself miss it.<\/p>\n

Quando conhecemos uma boa mulher, colocamo-la no topo da nossa lista de prioridades. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 \"mas\", n\u00e3o h\u00e1 outras op\u00e7\u00f5es, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 jogos.<\/p>\n

Quando se conhece uma boa mulher, \u00e9 s\u00f3 fazer-se homem.<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7amos a construir a nossa vida, come\u00e7amos a construir-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios e come\u00e7amos a perceber o que significa comprometer-se verdadeiramente com algu\u00e9m.<\/a><\/p>\n

You finally realize that you weren\u2019t born to wander through this life, but to find your other half and be happy.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Lembro-me das palavras que a minha m\u00e3e disse ao meu irm\u00e3o quando ele estava com a cabe\u00e7a desfeita: \u201cIf she respects you, if she’s loyal and generous, kind and smart, don\u2019t let her see any other man but you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If she\u2019s a good woman, don\u2019t let her wait for you or give her space to doubt your intentions.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You take her hand, you tell her how much she means to you and you put her at the top of your priority list.\u201d<\/p>\n

If this isn\u2019t golden philosophy on how to treat women, I don\u2019t know what is.<\/p>\n

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