{"id":134520,"date":"2021-08-30T21:27:42","date_gmt":"2021-08-30T21:27:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=134520"},"modified":"2022-12-07T11:29:33","modified_gmt":"2022-12-07T11:29:33","slug":"relacao-aberta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relacao-aberta\/","title":{"rendered":"10 sins e n\u00e3os para estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta"},"content":{"rendered":"

I saw my friend’s boyfriend with another woman a while back. I was shocked and convinced that ele estava a tra\u00ed-la<\/a>.<\/p>\n

After I weighed all the pros and cons of telling her everything, I decided to get it off my chest. But she wasn’t the shocked one here.<\/p>\n

It’s not just that she didn’t mind him kissing another girl in public \u2013 she was perfectly aware of what was going on.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, ela disse-me que h\u00e1 j\u00e1 algum tempo que t\u00eam uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta bem sucedida. Por isso, naturalmente, quis saber tudo sobre o assunto.<\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, ela disse-me para ler o livro A puta \u00e9tica<\/i>: Um guia para infinitas possibilidades sexuais<\/i> publicado em 1997, e foi o que fiz. And yes, I\u2019ve obviously heard about <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00f5es n\u00e3o-monog\u00e2micas<\/b> before (it’s not like I’m living under a rock), but I was eager to find out everything first-hand.<\/b><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que funciona? Quais s\u00e3o as <\/b>regras b\u00e1sicas<\/b>? \u00c9 poss\u00edvel que um <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/b><\/a> ser n\u00e3o-monog\u00e2mico? O que \u00e9 que <\/b>sobre o ci\u00fame<\/b><\/a>?<\/b><\/p>\n

Felizmente para mim, ela foi bastante paciente. Respondeu a todas as minhas perguntas e foi suficientemente generosa para me dar toda a informa\u00e7\u00e3o de que eu precisava. Aqui est\u00e3o todos os segredos da n\u00e3o-monogamia revelados:<\/p>\n

Being In An Open Relationship \u2013 Meaning<\/h2>\n

\"umO que \u00e9 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta? Est\u00e1 a fazer batota<\/a>? Does it mean that you\u2019re manter as suas op\u00e7\u00f5es em aberto<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Bem, de acordo com o mais simples rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta<\/b> definition, it’s a <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica<\/b> que n\u00e3o \u00e9 monog\u00e2mico.<\/b><\/p>\n

Basicamente, ambos os parceiros est\u00e3o autorizados a ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais ou a sair com outras pessoas fora da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o prim\u00e1ria. \u00c9 exatamente o oposto de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o monog\u00e2mica em que duas pessoas namorar exclusivamente um com o outro<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It’s important to diferenciar <\/b>n\u00e3o-monogamia consensual<\/b> de <\/b>ser infiel<\/b><\/a>. Neste caso, a intimidade com outras pessoas n\u00e3o \u00e9 batota porque acontece com a permiss\u00e3o do parceiro principal e n\u00e3o nas suas costas.<\/p>\n

Tipos de rela\u00e7\u00f5es abertas<\/h3>\n

Let’s make one thing clear as well: there are numerous different tipos de rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/b> que se podem enquadrar no termo geral de rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta. Eis as mais comuns:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Polygamy<\/h4>\n

Polygamy means that you’re casado com mais do que uma pessoa ao mesmo tempo<\/b>. Existem duas formas mais comuns de poligamia: poliginia<\/b> (mais mulheres casadas com um s\u00f3 marido) e poliandria<\/b> (mais maridos partilham uma mulher).<\/p>\n

\u2022 Swingers<\/h4>\n

\"umO swing \u00e9 uma atividade que inclui troca de parceiros durante o sexo<\/b>. \u00c9 normalmente realizado entre v\u00e1rios casais que praticam sexo em grupo ou apenas trocam os seus parceiros.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Polyfidelity<\/h4>\n

When you practice polyfidelity, you’re completely faithful to all the people you’re in a relationship with, and there is no fooling around outside your romance(s)<\/b>.<\/p>\n

It’s also non-monogamous because it includes a group of people (three or more), but it’s different from an open relationship because it forbids any kind of sexual or emotional connection outside the primary relationship(s).<\/p>\n

\u2022 Monogamish<\/h4>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es monog\u00e2micas distinguem entre fidelidade emocional e sexual. Basicamente, existe emocional <\/b>exclusividade,<\/b> mas ambos os parceiros podem ter sexo sem sentido com outras pessoas <\/b>\u2013 as long as they don’t develop feelings.<\/p>\n

Regras da rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta<\/h2>\n

\"umTodos uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica deve ter algumas regras<\/a> \u2013 what’s okay and what’s not acceptable under any terms.<\/p>\n

Mas isto \u00e9 ainda mais significativo numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta. Both you and your partner have to agree on things you’re ready to tolerate \u2013 that is, if you don’t want to turn this into one big mess that is doomed to fail.<\/b><\/p>\n

Apesar de cada casal ser uma hist\u00f3ria por si s\u00f3, aqui est\u00e3o algumas das regras cruciais para fazer este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcionar.<\/p>\n

Consentimento<\/h3>\n

Let’s start with the most obvious and, at the same time, most important ground rule: ambas as partes t\u00eam de estar 100% certas de que \u00e9 isso que pretendem<\/b>. Don’t worry \u2013 nobody will think that you’re a prude for not being okay with this type of relationship.<\/p>\n

Some people are perfectly happy with being monogamous, and that’s something they should always be clear about. So, if your romantic partner suggests an open relationship or estar num casamento semiaberto<\/a>, and you don’t think it’s something you could handle \u2013 please, be honest about it.<\/p>\n

If there is no mutual consent, then it’s basically cheating.<\/b> N\u00e3o vale a pena manter este tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o se uma pessoa est\u00e1 a sofrer por causa dela.<\/p>\n

Limites sexuais<\/h3>\n

\"umConsensual non-monogamy can’t be possible without both partners setting some basic boundaries regarding their sexual activities with other people. What is acceptable and what is not?<\/p>\n

Of course, you have to start with the premise that you’ll both be completely honest and stick to the deal. So if you and your partner agree that there is no, let\u2019s say, bringing other people into your bed, doing exactly that, and remaining quiet about it is not cool.<\/p>\n

Some couples agree that kissing, cuddling, or oral sex are off the table. On the other hand, some don’t allow penetration to happen at all.<\/b><\/p>\n

This all depends on what you and your partner want and can handle. What’s crucial here is to talk things through in detail before engaging in any sex practices with other people.<\/p>\n

\u200bSafe sex<\/h3>\n

Quando se tem uma vida sexual ativa (especialmente t\u00e3o ativa), o sexo seguro \u00e9 uma obriga\u00e7\u00e3o. Isto tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 algo que tem de ser discutido antes de se envolverem em quaisquer actividades fora da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Remember \u2013 you’re not responsible only for your health here \u2013 you’re also responsible for your partner’s.<\/b><\/p>\n

A primeira coisa que deve ser acordada \u00e9 a prote\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b> Algumas pessoas usam um preservativo sempre que dormem com uma terceira pessoa, enquanto outras v\u00e3o mais longe e pedem que todas as pessoas inclu\u00eddas nessa rela\u00e7\u00e3o fa\u00e7am o teste de dete\u00e7\u00e3o de infec\u00e7\u00f5es sexualmente transmiss\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

\u200bYou might think that this is too much, but if you dig a little deeper, you’ll see that the risk of STI is real, especially when you have multiple sexual partners. Either way, always put safety first, even before your sexual needs.<\/p>\n

Limites temporais<\/h3>\n

Uma das regras para as rela\u00e7\u00f5es abertas tamb\u00e9m diz respeito aos limites de tempo. It’s important to set up the amount of time you’ll both spend with your <\/b>novos parceiros<\/b> as well as the amount of time you’ll spend with each other.<\/b><\/p>\n

Keep in mind that your primary partner should always come first. Therefore, you shouldn’t, by any means, neglect them just because you like someone else more at one point.<\/p>\n

That’s why it is good to agree on regular <\/b>check-ins<\/b> com o seu SO prim\u00e1rio<\/b>. Mesmo que viaje com outra pessoa (se tal for permitido), envie uma mensagem de texto ou fale com o seu parceiro e chegue a acordo sobre a frequ\u00eancia destes controlos.<\/p>\n

Aviso-o: estas coisas v\u00e3o acontecer. Conheces um novo parceiro e tudo \u00e0 tua volta se torna excitante.<\/p>\n

You want to discover all parts of their personality, and you would spend most of your time with them rather than go back home where everything is familiar and comfortable. This doesn’t mean you don’t love your primary romantic partner<\/a> \u2013 it’s just a sign that you’re a human being.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, if this is an urge you’re unable to control, maybe you should reconsider your decision of being in an open relationship. Remember that your new relationship can never endanger your primary romantic relationship.<\/p>\n

Limites emocionais<\/h3>\n

\"umO mesmo se aplica aos limites emocionais. It might sound silly for someone to tell you if you’re allowed to fall in love with another person or not.<\/b><\/p>\n

In most cases, this is something you can’t control as much as you might like to \u2013 at least, most people don’t have that ability. These guidelines are much harder to determine in contrast to sexual or time ones.<\/p>\n

How can you decide that you’ll like someone else but <\/b>won’t fall in love<\/b><\/a>? Onde \u00e9 que est\u00e1 essa fronteira imagin\u00e1ria?<\/b><\/p>\n

Desiste da primeira vez que sente borboletas? Voc\u00ea \u00e9 emocionalmente maduro<\/a> o suficiente para admitir a si pr\u00f3prio (e ao seu parceiro) que os seus sentimentos est\u00e3o prestes a ultrapassar os limites?<\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 completamente imposs\u00edvel. That’s exactly why many couples decide whether it’s okay to have casual hookups (and how many times is one allowed to see this third person before it turns into some kind of a relationship) but put a veto on actual dating.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mais uma vez, a escolha \u00e9 toda vossa. Os dois podem estabelecer a din\u00e2mica da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de acordo com as vossas necessidades emocionais e sexuais.<\/p>\n

Privacidade<\/h3>\n

A maioria dos casais adopta uma coisa chamada “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy<\/b>. Isto significa que guardam para si as suas actividades fora da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, alguns optam por manter o parceiro atualizado<\/b> on who they’re seeing (and how often it happens). Many couples prefer this option because they feel like they have more control over what their SO is doing.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, we’re talking about basic info here only. There are no juicy details that might potentially bother the other person.<\/p>\n

Depois h\u00e1 o terceira op\u00e7\u00e3o, em que diz literalmente tudo ao seu SO<\/b>. Alguns casais acham isto sexualmente excitante e liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa: if you’re in the beginning of your <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta<\/b>, you won’t know what alternative suits you the best. <\/b>You’ll probably have to try all of them and see which one works for you.<\/p>\n

Estilo de relacionamento<\/h3>\n

\"umYou can’t have a <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta bem sucedida<\/b> at\u00e9 decidir qual <\/b>estilo de relacionamento<\/b> preferir. <\/b>Ser\u00e1 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o poliamorosa?<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 ter\u00e1 rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais fora da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o atual? \u00c9-vos permitido ter m\u00faltiplos parceiros sexuais<\/a> de cada vez?<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e3o swingers sem qualquer liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/a> envolvidos?<\/p>\n

Prazo<\/h4>\n

Depois de estudarem todos estes tipos de rela\u00e7\u00f5es e de chegarem a acordo sobre o que mais vos conv\u00e9m, devem tamb\u00e9m discutir o calend\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

Is this something you are both willing to just try out? Or is it a lifestyle you’re planning to pursue?<\/b><\/p>\n

Se tencionam dar o n\u00f3, v\u00e3o ter um casamento aberto? Ou v\u00e3o fazer experi\u00eancias at\u00e9 dizerem os vossos votos?<\/p>\n

I know that this is probably a lot to handle right now, and nobody is expecting you to have all the answers right away. Actually, I’m just trying to fill you in on every doubt and issue that will probably crop up throughout your journey.<\/p>\n

Comunica\u00e7\u00e3o aberta<\/h3>\n

A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a chave para qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> \u2013 no matter which romantic relationship we\u2019re talking about. Nevertheless, open communication is especially important for open relationships.<\/p>\n

Both you and your partner have to be 100% honest about your feelings, expectations, wishes, and demands. You have to be able to communicate everything you want and don’t want and be especially clear about your deal-breakers.<\/b><\/p>\n

Trust me \u2013 nothing will work out if you play jogos mentais t\u00f3xicos<\/a>. Al\u00e9m disso, deve evitar adivinhar, presumir e ler a mente.<\/p>\n

Your SO can’t possibly know how you feel unless you speak out, and it goes both ways.<\/p>\n

Don’t jump to conclusions. Instead, always be straight with your SO, and you can expect the best.<\/p>\n

Honestidade na terceira pessoa<\/h3>\n

\"umMesmo que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o atual seja a sua prioridade n\u00famero um, the last thing you want is to break some hearts along the way while you’re trying to achieve emotional or <\/b>satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o sexual<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que isto significa? Bem, tem de ser 100% honesto com quem quer que se envolva na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta.<\/p>\n

Of course, your opening line doesn’t have to be a speech about your situation. Nevertheless, the moment you see that the flirting is crossing the line and that something more might happen, you have to tell them everything that’s going on.<\/p>\n

Todas as pessoas envolvidas nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00eam o direito de conhecer todas as regras e circunst\u00e2ncias.<\/b> Otherwise, all hell might break loose, and I don’t even have to start about all the potential consequences.<\/p>\n

Yes, you’ll meet some people who are perfectly okay with the current setup. They’ll be content with the fact that your SO is familiar with everything and that you’re not cheating. Nothing else will bother them much.<\/p>\n

Mas aten\u00e7\u00e3o que algumas pessoas s\u00f3 gostam de monogamia e est\u00e3o \u00e0 procura de um rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/a>. In that case, move on and look for someone else who’ll be willing to participate in your adventures.<\/p>\n

As raz\u00f5es certas<\/h3>\n

H\u00e1 que perguntar a si pr\u00f3prio: Porque \u00e9 que me estou a meter neste tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o? <\/i>You see, if you do it for the wrong reasons, you can’t expect anything good to come out of it, can you?<\/p>\n

\u00c9 porque sente falta de actividades sexuais com outras pessoas? \u00c9 porque quer apimentar as coisas em casa?<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 porque voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro t\u00eam n\u00edveis de libido diferentes? Ser\u00e1 porque querem explorar a vossa sexualidade e melhorar a sua vida sexual<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Ou ser\u00e1 porque sente que \u00e9 perfeitamente capaz de amar outras pessoas sem que isso ponha em causa a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

Is it because you think that monogamy is nothing but a social concept that doesn’t suit your relationship, or maybe you consider it unnatural?<\/p>\n

Estas s\u00e3o as raz\u00f5es mais comuns pelas quais as pessoas se envolvem em <\/b>n\u00e3o-monogamia consensual<\/b>. E ningu\u00e9m pode argumentar contra nenhum deles.<\/b><\/p>\n

But if you’re engaging in non-monogamy because you want to salvar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> that\u2019s doomed to fail, fazer ci\u00fames ao seu parceiro<\/a>, or because you stopped loving them (or are no longer attracted to them), it probably won’t work out.<\/p>\n

Sentimentos de ci\u00fame<\/h3>\n

\"umFinalmente, a pergunta que todos os monog\u00e2micos fazem: Como evitar ser ciumento numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/i>rela\u00e7\u00e3o monog\u00e2mica<\/i>?<\/i><\/p>\n

Look, you’re human. It’s natural that you’ll struggle with feelings of jealousy.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, we’re not all the same. If this is something you can fight off, open relationships are right for you.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, if your jealousy starts to overwhelm you and begins to impact your relationship, it’s a red flag that this isn’t for you.<\/b><\/p>\n

Como combat\u00ea-la?<\/h4>\n

The first step in dealing with jealousy is acknowledging it. Accept it as something completely normal, and don’t accuse yourself of not being good at this right away.<\/p>\n

Depois disso, seja honesto com o seu parceiro sobre os seus sentimentos. Lembre-se: a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o aberta \u00e9 a chave.<\/p>\n

O pr\u00f3ximo passo \u00e9 fazer o seu melhor para examinar o seu ci\u00fame. Porque \u00e9 que se sente assim? Tente analis\u00e1-lo e encontrar a causa principal.<\/p>\n

Do you feel endangered by someone else in your SO’s life? Do you feel emotionally neglected?<\/p>\n

Talk things through and maybe set some new boundaries. If you’re not okay with only a few aspects of your partner’s activities, talk about the rules once again, and if necessary, change them.<\/b><\/p>\n

Poliamor versus rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta<\/h2>\n

\"umaAssim, tanto as rela\u00e7\u00f5es abertas como as poliamorosas s\u00e3o rela\u00e7\u00f5es n\u00e3o monog\u00e2micas e incluem estar com mais do que uma pessoa ao mesmo tempo. If you haven’t dug too much into the matter, you might assume that these two words are synonyms that mean practically the same thing.<\/b><\/p>\n

No entanto, s\u00e3o duas coisas diferentes <\/b>estilos de relacionamento<\/b>. <\/b>Existem algumas diferen\u00e7as entre o poliamor e um casamento ou rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta, e aqui est\u00e3o as mais importantes:<\/p>\n

Satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o sexual vs. liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/h3>\n

A primeira e mais importante diferen\u00e7a entre uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta e uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o poliamorosa est\u00e1 em the primary thing you’re looking to get out of this situation. <\/b>Na maioria dos casos, os casais em rela\u00e7\u00f5es abertas procuram apenas a satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o sexual.<\/p>\n

Significa que estas actividades fora da rela\u00e7\u00e3o se baseiam sobretudo em encontros aleat\u00f3rios (que por vezes se tornam mais do que isso<\/a>) e sexo sem sentido. Por outro lado, o poliamor inclui la\u00e7os afectivos<\/a> com outras pessoas para al\u00e9m do seu parceiro.<\/p>\n

You’re not just sleeping with other people \u2013 you’re also in relationships with these people. You date them, see them in different social contexts, and acabar por se apaixonar<\/a> com eles.<\/p>\n

Of course, it all happens with your first partner knowing and being okay with it. In fact, they’re doing the same thing.<\/p>\n

Everyone included knows what’s going on, and nobody is bothered by the situation.<\/p>\n

Sem hierarquia de rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h3>\n

\"oAnother crucial contrast is that there is no relationship hierarchy. It means that there is no primary partner and primary relationship \u2013 everyone is equal.<\/p>\n

Se tiver duas (ou mais) rela\u00e7\u00f5es separadas, trata ambas as suas GFs ou BFs praticamente da mesma forma. <\/b>None of them is a sexual fling \u2013 they’re both your romantic partners.<\/p>\n

Faz o seu melhor para lhes dar a mesma quantidade de amor, aten\u00e7\u00e3o, presentes, etc.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if there are multiple people all in one relationship, they’re all equal parts of it.<\/b><\/p>\n

In that case, you’re expected to be faithful to all the people in the relationship, and if you do something outside of it, it’s considered cheating.<\/b><\/p>\n

Let’s put it this way: if a man has two wives, he’s a polygamist. But in this scenario, these two wives are not in a relationship with each other \u2013 they’re just co-wives who share the same husband.<\/p>\n

How is polyamory different? Well, if we have three people involved, all three of them are in a relationship with each other. If a man has two GFs, they’re also in a relationship with one another, and each of them is in a relationship with the guy.<\/p>\n

Celebridades com rela\u00e7\u00f5es abertas<\/h2>\n

\"umYou’d be surprised by the fact that open relationships are actually more common than you might think \u2013 especially among famous people. Hollywood est\u00e1 cheia de casais n\u00e3o-monog\u00e2micos, e aqui est\u00e3o os mais famosos:<\/b><\/p>\n

    \n
  • Megan Fox e Brian Austin Green<\/li>\n
  • Nico Tortorella e Bethany C. Meyers<\/li>\n
  • Gwyneth Paltrow e Chris Martin<\/li>\n
  • Will Smith e Jada Pinkett Smith<\/li>\n
  • Tom Ford e Richard Buckley<\/li>\n
  • Demi Moore e Bruce Wills<\/li>\n
  • Tilda Swinton e John Byrne<\/li>\n
  • Angelina Jolie e Brad Pitt<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta funciona?<\/h2>\n

    \"umNo fim de contas, ningu\u00e9m pode dar uma resposta a esta pergunta porque cada caso \u00e9 \u00fanico. Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta pode definitivamente funcionar (afinal, h\u00e1 imensos exemplos que provam o meu ponto de vista) em determinadas condi\u00e7\u00f5es, e a maior parte delas s\u00e3o mencionadas acima.<\/p>\n

    No entanto, tudo depende das suas prefer\u00eancias. Ningu\u00e9m lhe pode dizer que esta \u00e9 a forma correcta ou incorrecta de viver a sua vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

    If it works for you, and you and your partner aren\u2019t harming anyone in the process \u2013 go for it, and forget about what other people say or think.<\/b><\/p>\n

    Meios de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o: https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=rH2td_9ckUA<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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