{"id":134704,"date":"2021-09-02T08:45:15","date_gmt":"2021-09-02T08:45:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=134704"},"modified":"2021-11-03T14:42:36","modified_gmt":"2021-11-03T14:42:36","slug":"fase-de-lua-de-mel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fase-de-lua-de-mel\/","title":{"rendered":"O que \u00e9 a fase da lua de mel (e como faz\u00ea-la durar)"},"content":{"rendered":"

A fase da lua de mel \u00e9 uma das primeiras fases de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que toda a divers\u00e3o come\u00e7a.<\/strong> Esta \u00e9 a minha defini\u00e7\u00e3o pessoal do per\u00edodo de lua de mel, e aposto que tamb\u00e9m concorda comigo.<\/p>\n

It’s when you can’t get enough of each other no matter how much time you spend together. Your brain absorbs everything you hear from your new partner like a sponge.<\/em><\/p>\n

You can’t wait to hug them, kiss them, and share with them the joys and sorrows of the world.<\/em><\/p>\n

You don’t notice each other’s flaws even if they slap you in the face. In your eyes, they couldn’t be more perfect for you (and vice versa).<\/em><\/p>\n

Yes, the honeymoon phase is FANTASTIC, but you can’t honeymoon forever. Or, can you?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Here’s all you need to know about the joys of the honeymoon phase, its duration, and how (IF) you can make it last. We’ll also go through signs you’re in this phase, and what happens after it (I’m really excited about the last one).<\/p>\n

So, let’s see!<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 a fase da lua de mel?<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

A fase de lua de mel \u00e9 uma etapa que todos os casais atravessam quando iniciam uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Basically, it’s the stage when you can’t get enough of one another and everything seems idyllic.<\/strong> Acredito firmemente que esta frase \u00e9 a ess\u00eancia do significado da fase de lua de mel.<\/p>\n

If you’re interested in the origin of this term, at the turn of the 16th century, ‘the honeymoon phase’ was exclusively applied to the beginnings of marriages. It represented the idea of the first month after marriage being the sweetest.<\/p>\n

Bem, a mesma coisa pode ser aplicada \u00e0s rela\u00e7\u00f5es atualmente. At this phase, you’re convinced that you’ve hit the jackpot boyfriend <\/a>ou o namorada jackpot<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don’t bother about mant\u00ea-los interessados em si para sempre<\/a> because you’re convinced that this feeling of mutual euphoria WILL last forever, which brings us to the following question:<\/p>\n

Quanto tempo dura a fase da lua de mel?<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Quando \u00e9 que termina a fase de lua de mel? Esta fase dura geralmente cerca de 2,5 anos.<\/strong> So, no, it doesn’t last forever, BUT in a way, it does. It can last forever, but with a changed intensity.<\/p>\n

Por outras palavras, n\u00e3o estar\u00e3o loucos um pelo outro da mesma forma que estavam na fase inicial da rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ou seja, nos primeiros meses.<\/p>\n

Mas, mesmo assim, pode manter a fase de lua de mel criando aventuras e apimentando a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o mais tarde.<\/strong> It’s all about finding joy in ordinary moments and the little things!<\/p>\n

How Do You Know If You’re In The Honeymoon Phase?<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

A fase da lua de mel tem tudo a ver com a novidade que vem com uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 humores de rela\u00e7\u00f5es dif\u00edceis<\/a> (ainda), e tudo parece perfeito.<\/p>\n

A antecipa\u00e7\u00e3o da espera pela resposta da pessoa \u00e9 muito intensa e a vontade de passar todo o tempo do mundo com ela \u00e9 mais forte do que nunca.<\/em><\/p>\n

There are lots of other signs that indicate you’re in this stage of a relationship, and this is how you’ll know for sure:<\/p>\n

6 Signs You’re In The Honeymoon Phase Of A Relationship<\/h2>\n

A atra\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 INTENSA<\/h3>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

A atra\u00e7\u00e3o e o afeto que sentem um pelo outro s\u00e3o de outro mundo. A presen\u00e7a deles \u00e9 como uma droga para si e traz-lhe imensa felicidade.<\/p>\n

Um simples toque da sua m\u00e3o pode acender os fogos mais intensos dentro de n\u00f3s.<\/strong> The sound of their voice is the sweetest melody you can’t stop listening to.<\/p>\n

Everything you experience with them feels like the first time ever because now, you’re in a completely different mental state – you’re in the honeymoon phase where everything feels ten times more intense.<\/p>\n

O tempo que passaram juntos nunca \u00e9 suficiente<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Nas primeiras fases do amor rom\u00e2ntico, tornamo-nos insaci\u00e1veis um pelo outro, independentemente do tempo que passamos juntos.<\/p>\n

Coisas brilhantemente espont\u00e2neas para fazer com o seu parceiro <\/a>e noites de encontro criativas s\u00e3o provavelmente os termos mais pesquisados no Google nos seus dispositivos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por tudo isto, pode agradecer ao cocktail de hormonas (oxitocina, serotonina, dopamina e endorfinas) que desencadeia este estado de paix\u00e3o. Esta sa\u00fade mental euf\u00f3rica faz-nos sentir que podemos fazer tudo o que quisermos no mundo.<\/p>\n

Increased levels of nerve growth factor, which make your connection stronger, are also “responsible” for feeling euphoric in your new love.<\/p>\n

Aumento da energia<\/h3>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You can’t remember the last time you felt so energetic in every aspect of your life, and especially when you’re with them. You can talk all night long with your partner without getting tired at all.<\/p>\n

No, you haven’t become a superhuman, but you’re experiencing the shots of adrenaline which are connected with the brain\u2019s chemical changes when we fall in love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, you don’t even have to try to manter a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o viva <\/a>porque tudo acontece naturalmente. T\u00eam energia suficiente para fazer tudo o que quiserem juntos sem nunca se cansarem (um do outro).<\/p>\n

You can’t stop smiling around each other even if your life depended on it<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

I really don’t know what’s about all that smiling at this stage, but I have TOTALLY noticed that I’m doing it, too. Whenever I see the guy I’m dating at the moment, I can’t help myself but smile like a four-year-old girl who just got ice cream.<\/p>\n

Quando nos olhamos nos olhos, sorrio com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, com a alma e com os olhos.<\/strong> We just can’t stop smiling around each other even if nothing’s really funny.<\/p>\n

If you feel the same way, then you know you’re at this stage. You see the world from a different perspective, and with every hangout, your optimism levels grow exponentially. And yes, you never want this to end.<\/p>\n

As sess\u00f5es de amassos s\u00e3o frequentes<\/h3>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

As sess\u00f5es de beijos s\u00e3o frequentes, quentes e simplesmente inevit\u00e1veis. Quando se v\u00eaem, tudo o que querem fazer \u00e9 tocar-lhes, abra\u00e7\u00e1-los, abra\u00e7\u00e1-los e beij\u00e1-los.<\/p>\n

When you’re with them, you feel like a teddy bear who demands lots of abra\u00e7ar.<\/a> <\/strong>The same things are happening to me and the guy I’m dating. Basically, we spend the entire time being close to each other.<\/p>\n

There’s no way I could sit next to him (and vice versa) without feeling the intense urge to touch him with my hands or my lips. If you’re experiencing this at the moment, then you know it’s the best feeling in the world.<\/p>\n

O \u00fanico foco \u00e9 sobre ELES<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you’re with them, you simply don’t notice anything around you except THEM.<\/p>\n

There could be a zombie apocalypse in front of you and you wouldn’t even know it because you’re too busy locking your eyes and connecting in the most passionate ways.<\/p>\n

The sole focus is on them, and there’s no way you can deny it. Doing your chores or focusing on your job has become mission impossible.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sempre que algo lhe acontece, \u00e9 a primeira pessoa a quem tem de contar! Quer viver tudo com ela, o bom e o mau (espera, estamos a falar de casar)?<\/p>\n

Well, you’ve probably thought about that, too, because at this stage, you want to spend the rest of your life with them. However, once the honeymoon stage ends, this might change.<\/p>\n

Quando \u00e9 que a fase da lua de mel termina?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A fase da lua de mel termina quando se tornam oficialmente um casal. Esta fase \u00e9 conhecida como a fase da ilumina\u00e7\u00e3o. A vossa liga\u00e7\u00e3o torna-se mais profunda e mais forte, as vossas hormonas acalmam e a realidade entra em a\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Os casais agem com mais naturalidade e est\u00e3o totalmente descontra\u00eddos um com o outro.<\/p>\n

Weaknesses, differences, and flaws become visible and sometimes irritating. It’s important to go slowly through this stage so that you can allow yourself to completely adjust.<\/p>\n

O que acontece depois da fase da lua de mel?<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Algumas pessoas acreditam que os parceiros mudam depois da fase de lua de mel<\/a>, but this is not necessarily the truth. The fact is, people don’t really change after that phase, but it’s the setting that changes.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o se vive as coisas t\u00e3o intensamente como dantes e a realidade entra em a\u00e7\u00e3o. Ap\u00f3s a fase de lua de mel, come\u00e7a a ver o seu parceiro com mais clareza.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You’re no longer blinded by your subconscious need to idealize them, but you start seeing things as they are. You start noticing their flaws and thinking about how their lifestyle fits yours.<\/p>\n

Don’t worry, the end of the honeymoon phase is not necessarily a bad thing. It’s just a transitional phase when real life with this person settles in. Here’s how you know that you’re out of this phase:<\/p>\n

6 Signs You’re Out Of The Honeymoon Phase<\/h2>\n

As suas peculiaridades e outras pequenas coisas come\u00e7am a irritar-nos<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You suddenly notice that they have lots of quirks, which you didn’t mind at the very beginning. Now, you see things differently.<\/p>\n

Aquelas pequenas coisas que antes achava engra\u00e7adas agora irritam-no. As suas peculiaridades tornaram-se algo que gostaria de mudar na pessoa, apesar de continuarem a gostar muito um do outro.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 totalmente permitido fazer queixinhas<\/h3>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Before, you wouldn’t even dare to nag or contradict each other because you didn’t want to disrupt the feeling of euphoria. Well, now you’re in the stage when nagging about the expectativas n\u00e3o satisfeitas <\/a>\u00e9 totalmente permitido.<\/p>\n

When something doesn’t feel right, when they forget to do something, and similar, you say it to them, and vice versa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We’re not talking about the toxic type of nagging, but the type that people use on a daily basis when they become too comfy with one another.<\/p>\n

Estar no seu melhor 24 horas por dia, 7 dias por semana, deixou de ser uma prioridade<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Uma vez que o fase de lua de mel <\/a>is over, the tendency to always look flawless fades into thin air. You no longer worry about unshaved body parts or beards (if you’re a guy) because looking your best 24\/7 is no longer something you bother with.<\/p>\n

You’ve seen each other in all types of editions (including limited ones, which are my favorite) and nothing can surprise you. Seeing each other in the most casual outfits has become a routine, and you secretly enjoy the beauty of this stage.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o passam todo o vosso tempo livre juntos<\/h3>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

Voc\u00eas eram insepar\u00e1veis e agora a vossa vida social est\u00e1 equilibrada. J\u00e1 n\u00e3o passa todo o seu tempo livre com o seu parceiro, mas tamb\u00e9m o passa com os seus amigos, fam\u00edlia e a fazer outras coisas.<\/p>\n

Of course, you still miss each other when you’re not together, but this feeling is no longer as intense as it was in the beginning.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e3o (demasiado) \u00e0 vontade um com o outro<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Farting, burping, and doing other “gross” things is no longer something you’re ashamed of. You do it on a regular basis without the need to apologize for it.<\/p>\n

Truth be told, I know some people who said that they have never farted in front of their partner, even though they’ve been together for years.<\/p>\n

I’m starting to think that they skipped the after-honeymoon phase or else this is their way of prolonging the honeymoon stage by force.<\/p>\n

Entrar na zona de conforto acontece naturalmente, e tudo o que precisa de fazer \u00e9 permitir que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o se desenvolva ao seu pr\u00f3prio ritmo (incluindo os peidos e todas as coisas confort\u00e1veis que os acompanham).<\/strong><\/p>\n

A falta de afeto arru\u00edna as rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a>; farting doesn’t.<\/p>\n

You’re confident in your relationship status<\/h3>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

One of the best things about the end of the honeymoon phase is the fact that now, you’re officially confident in your relationship status.<\/p>\n

You know you’re not in uma quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> or any other ship that causes anxious feelings. You two are a legit couple who “survived” the honeymoon stage and have become even more connected with one another.<\/p>\n

Como fazer com que a fase da lua de mel perdure durante toda a rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

I’ll be honest with you. The honeymoon stage can last throughout your romantic relationship, but not with the same intensity from the beginning.<\/p>\n

Every relationship takes work. When you’re in a long-term relationship, it’s easy to fall in a rut at one point and let the fiery passion extinguish. That’s when uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o imatura<\/a> (brigas constantes, ci\u00fames) come\u00e7a a ter o seu pre\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

O que precisam de fazer \u00e9 reavivar o amor que vos uniu em primeiro lugar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pay attention to your partner’s love language, and be on the lookout for new activities and things to make each other special.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica forma de fazer com que a fase de lua de mel perdure durante toda a rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 estar disposto a fazer o outro feliz e a manter a rela\u00e7\u00e3o excitante.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 ver filmes est\u00e1 fora de quest\u00e3o. Pensem nas novas formas de se relacionarem um com o outro e levem a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o para o n\u00edvel seguinte.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Be children at heart, do something spontaneous, annoy each other, but also hug so tight like you’re hugging for the first time.<\/p>\n

Desfrute de cada fase da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o!<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Tal como a fase da lua de mel, cada fase \u00e9 especial e ajuda a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o a evoluir. Se quiser crescer, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio mudar (e seguir conselhos sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a>).<\/p>\n

Isso significa que ficar para sempre na fase inicial da lua de mel n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma boa ideia. No entanto, \u00e9 sempre poss\u00edvel manter alguns elementos desta fase ao longo da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

As long as the both of you are happy, you know you’re doing it right!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The honeymoon phase is one of the early stages of a relationship where all the FUN begins. This is my personal definition of the honeymoon period, and I bet you agree with me, too. It’s when you can’t get enough of each other no matter how much time you spend together. Your brain absorbs everything…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":134708,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-134704","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/What-Is-The-Honeymoon-Phase-And-How-To-Make-It-Last.jpg",800,543,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/134704","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=134704"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/134704\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/134708"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=134704"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=134704"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=134704"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}