I hate to see you like this, all torn up because of some guy who is unworthy of someone as special as you are. If you could see what I see, you would realize that he doesn\u2019t deserve your time of day, let alone your heart.<\/p>\n
I know it\u2019s not easy to let go of him, even though deep down I know you feel you should. You invested so much time and energy into your relationship. You have given him all of you and he repaid you with all those tears rolling down your face.<\/p>\n
Odeio que ele te d\u00ea um amor med\u00edocre quando devias ter algo de outro mundo. Odeio que ele esteja sempre a deixar-te mais triste do que feliz. Odeio que cada vez que tens esperan\u00e7as quando pensas que ele mudou, ele te falhe ainda mais. Acorda, minha querida, ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 o homem certo para ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n Love shouldn\u2019t feel like torture. Love shouldn\u2019t hurt. You shouldn\u2019t settle for someone who gives you any less than you are giving him. Take a step back and see him for who he really is.<\/p>\n His words don\u2019t match his actions. He says he loves you, he cares for you and that he would do anything to make you realize that. But he never does. He stays the same. His monologues and persuasion skills are getting better and better. Pay attention to what he does, not what he says. As suas palavras s\u00e3o baratas.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ele est\u00e1 l\u00e1 quando precisa de si, mas onde \u00e9 que ele est\u00e1 quando voc\u00ea precisa dele? Ele sabe que o vai ouvir e dar-lhe conselhos \u00fateis. Ele sabe que tem a sua ajuda quando tudo est\u00e1 a ir por \u00e1gua abaixo e a sua vida se torna uma completa confus\u00e3o. Mas onde \u00e9 que ele est\u00e1 quando voc\u00ea est\u00e1 a passar pela sua dor? Ocasionalmente, pode aparecer para salvar o dia, mas na maior parte das vezes, n\u00e3o est\u00e1 em lado nenhum.<\/strong><\/p>\n He knows that you\u2019ll be there no matter what, and ele est\u00e1 a tomar-te por garantida<\/a>. No matter how bad his behavior gets, or how disrespectful and unreliable he is, he always counts on you being there. That\u2019s why he sees no risk in hurting you more and more every time. Ele sabe que, seja como for, vai encontrar no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o a possibilidade de o perdoar. Por isso, ele est\u00e1 a repetir os mesmos velhos padr\u00f5es vezes sem conta.<\/strong><\/p>\n He made you cry more times that you can count. I know relationships are hard work and not everything is rainbows and butterflies, but it doesn\u2019t have to be so hard and gloomy all the time. You used to be so happy and radiant all on your own. But I don\u2019t see that anymore. He has emotionally drained you.<\/strong><\/p>\n All of our conversations these days are revolving around what he has done this time. It\u2019s always bad and you are upset and sad all the time. I wish you could realize that you are better off without him, that ele s\u00f3 est\u00e1 a fazer da sua vida um inferno<\/a>. Acorda, minha querida, ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 o homem certo para ti.<\/p>\n Mereces algu\u00e9m melhor.<\/strong> You deserve a man who will wipe away all the tears from that beautiful face of yours and do his best to put a smile back on it. You deserve a man who will make it his life\u2019s mission to build a happy relationship with you.<\/p>\n Mereces algu\u00e9m altru\u00edsta.<\/strong> Someone who won\u2019t put his needs in front of yours. Someone who will know how to give all of him in return. Someone who will provide you with the trust, respect, and love you are giving him. Someone who knows how to reciprocate and is grateful for all you are giving him. Someone who will never take you for granted.<\/p>\n