{"id":13515,"date":"2020-07-22T12:16:50","date_gmt":"2020-07-22T12:16:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13515"},"modified":"2021-10-28T13:42:34","modified_gmt":"2021-10-28T13:42:34","slug":"nao-deixar-para-tras-a-vida-ouvida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-deixar-para-tras-a-vida-ouvida\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o o deixes voltar a entrar na tua vida (porque j\u00e1 ouviste tudo antes)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Don’t you have that feeling that the text he is sending you right now is so similar to those you have read before? That all he says feels like it has been already said? That all he does has been done before?<\/em> <\/p>\n

That’s because he saw what works on you and he is replaying the same scenario all over again.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 a tentar amolecer o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Ele sabe que tens sentimentos fortes por ele, apesar de ele j\u00e1 te ter desiludido tantas vezes.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 a contar com a sua boa natureza para a fazer compreender, para a fazer dar-lhe mais uma oportunidade, para a fazer perdoar mais uma vez. Ele est\u00e1 a usar todo o amor que tens por ele contra ti.<\/p>\n

But what he doesn’t know is that you are farto e cansado de perdoar.<\/a> Sentimos n\u00e1useas quando vemos o seu nome no ecr\u00e3, porque j\u00e1 conseguimos adivinhar a hist\u00f3ria de meia tigela que ele criou.<\/p>\n

It’s always the same story. He didn’t mean it. He loves you. He knows you deserve more. He hopes that you can find it in your heart to forgive him.<\/p>\n

Revira os olhos, n\u00e3o acreditando em nada daquilo, mas h\u00e1 uma parte de ti que quer acreditar que talvez desta vez seja diferente. Talvez desta vez ele esteja a ser sincero. <\/strong><\/p>\n

That part of you is so strong because it loves him deeply, even though he doesn’t deserve it. But he hasn\u2019t changed. He is still the same old pitiful excuse for a human being.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

This time is no different than those millions of previous times you heard the same words. And you just can’t handle going through the heartache one more time. He broke your heart one too many times and he would do it again.<\/p>\n

He is used to having his safe harbor in you. He relies on you to be there and to take him back no matter what. But there comes a point where there is no going back. When all the love you have for him just isn’t enough.<\/p>\n

Se ele te amasse como tu o amas, nunca te magoaria repetidamente da forma como o faz. Quase toda a gente pode ter uma segunda oportunidade, mas mais do que isso \u00e9 demasiado.<\/p>\n

Sabes, porque lhe deste in\u00fameras oportunidades e ele magoava-te mais de cada vez.<\/p>\n

So, don’t take him back, because you have heard it all before. You lived through it all before and this time won’t be any different no matter what he says or how he says it.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 o mesmo homem que j\u00e1 a desiludiu tantas vezes e que agora n\u00e3o \u00e9 diferente.<\/p>\n

Em vez de lhe dar in\u00fameras oportunidades, d\u00ea uma oportunidade a si pr\u00f3pria. Uma oportunidade para come\u00e7ar de novo. Uma oportunidade para descobrir quem \u00e9 sem que ele a puxe sempre para a mesma confus\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Podes fazer muito mais. Podes ser muito mais. Podes ser feliz.<\/p>\n

Lembra-te de que mereces o mundo. Isso \u00e9s mais forte do que pensas<\/a> tu \u00e9s. Pode encontrar a for\u00e7a em si que o tranquilizar\u00e1 e que, por vezes, tem de esquecer o que sente e lembrar-se do que merece.<\/p>\n

He is not the one for you. He is just blocking the way and real love is not able to find you. And all that love you have for him would look a lot better if it was given to the right person\u2014 the one who is going to give all that love back.<\/p>\n

Por isso, quando ele te disser que desta vez \u00e9 diferente, diz-lhe que sabes isso, porque desta vez est\u00e1s a escolher-te a ti pr\u00f3pria em vez dele. Desta vez, est\u00e1 a escolher a sua pr\u00f3pria felicidade.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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