{"id":13519,"date":"2020-05-31T11:44:04","date_gmt":"2020-05-31T11:44:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13519"},"modified":"2021-08-30T13:58:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:58:11","slug":"apaixonar-se-a-rapariga-nao-sabe-amar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/apaixonar-se-a-rapariga-nao-sabe-amar\/","title":{"rendered":"Antes de se apaixonar pela rapariga que n\u00e3o se ama a si pr\u00f3pria, saiba isto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ela ser\u00e1 a melhor namorada que j\u00e1 tiveste. Ela ser\u00e1 tr\u00eas pessoas numa s\u00f3: a tua melhor amiga, companheira e amante.<\/p>\n<p>She will give you the love she never knew how to give herself and she will make you feel like you\u2019re the luckiest man alive. But don\u2019t take her gentle heart for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t play with her emotions because she\u2019s been through much already. Be ready to love her for both of you; to tell her every day how beautiful and amazing she is and someday, she will believe you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Every time you tell her that she\u2019s beautiful and she dismisses it<\/strong>, it\u2019s not because she wants your attention. It\u2019s because she doesn\u2019t believe you. <strong>She doesn\u2019t see the same person you do.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>She can\u2019t see the beauty in her eyes and the joy in her laugh. She sees eyes that are too small and hears a laugh that\u2019s too loud.<\/p>\n<p>She can\u2019t see her beautiful face because she sees a nose that\u2019s too big and lips that are too small.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95088\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-looking-herself-on-broken-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a olhar para si pr\u00f3pria num espelho partido\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-looking-herself-on-broken-mirror.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-looking-herself-on-broken-mirror-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-looking-herself-on-broken-mirror-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She can\u2019t see the amazing body you love because she sees stretch marks and fat where there is none.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not because she wants to\u2014it\u2019s because she doesn\u2019t know any different.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sempre que lhe disseres que ela \u00e9 fant\u00e1stica e ela corar e desviar o olhar, mostra-lhe que est\u00e1s a falar a s\u00e9rio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kiss her and prove to her that she is the best thing that has ever happened to you. Every time she laughs at your compliments like they are some kind of joke, show her that they\u2019re not.<\/p>\n<p>Show her that you mean them and don\u2019t let her turn the love you two have into a joke, only because she\u2019s afraid of it. Don\u2019t let her laugh away the truth, just because she thinks it\u2019s unbelievable.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Every time she worries that you\u2019re with someone else, it\u2019s not because she doesn\u2019t trust you. It\u2019s because she doesn\u2019t trust herself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95089\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-woman-leaning-on-her-hand-while-sitting-on-couch-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste apoiada na sua m\u00e3o enquanto est\u00e1 sentada no sof\u00e1 em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-woman-leaning-on-her-hand-while-sitting-on-couch-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-woman-leaning-on-her-hand-while-sitting-on-couch-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-woman-leaning-on-her-hand-while-sitting-on-couch-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s because she\u2019s used to <a href=\"https:\/\/tinybuddha.com\/blog\/7-things-to-remember-when-you-think-youre-not-good-enough\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">n\u00e3o ser suficiente<\/a> and she believes that you will leave as everyone else did. She believes that she has nothing worth staying for because that\u2019s what others made her believe.<\/p>\n<p>She imagines you with other women\u2014with better looking, smarter and funnier women. And she keeps on wondering why you\u2019re still here.<\/p>\n<p>Porque ela j\u00e1 teria desaparecido h\u00e1 muito tempo se fosse a ti. <strong>Sempre que ela cair, esteja l\u00e1 para a ajudar a levantar-se.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Esteja l\u00e1 para a encorajar a acreditar em si pr\u00f3pria novamente. Esteja l\u00e1 para lhe mostrar a mulher que v\u00ea quando a v\u00ea.<\/p>\n<p>Mostra-lhe a mulher incr\u00edvel, feroz e forte que ela \u00e9. Mostra-lhe a bela mulher por quem te apaixonaste, n\u00e3o a vers\u00e3o distorcida que ela v\u00ea no espelho.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95090\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/close-up-of-cute-couple-hugging-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"close up de um casal giro abra\u00e7ado no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/close-up-of-cute-couple-hugging-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/close-up-of-cute-couple-hugging-outside-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/close-up-of-cute-couple-hugging-outside-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Give her love, time and patience because learning to heal is hard, but learning to love yourself again, when you\u2019ve been told that you\u2019re unworthy all your life, is way harder.<\/p>\n<p>Fighting her past and fighting her fears is something she\u2019s doing on a daily basis and she needs your help. Because bruises come and go, but the echoing words are what haunts her.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t let her go to bed thinking she\u2019s not enough.<\/strong> Don\u2019t let her go to bed without hearing:<em> \u2018I love you\u2019<\/em> porque ela vai perguntar-se todos os dias se ainda existe amor.<\/p>\n<p>She will wonder every day what\u2019s keeping you here. What kind of miracle happened for you to choose her?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s up to you to show her that <em>ela<\/em> is that miracle\u2014<em>she\u2019s<\/em> the reason you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/choose-person-love-every-single-day-leave\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">escolhendo-a todos os dias.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>That she\u2019s the reason you love her madly. And someday, she will believe the words that come out of your mouth.<\/p>\n<p>Ela vai finalmente ver a mulher que tu v\u00eas, e n\u00e3o a mulher que ela acredita que \u00e9.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-95085 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-The-Girl-Who-Doesnt-Love-Herself-Know-This-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Antes de se apaixonar pela rapariga que n\u00e3o se ama a si pr\u00f3pria, saiba isto\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-The-Girl-Who-Doesnt-Love-Herself-Know-This-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-The-Girl-Who-Doesnt-Love-Herself-Know-This-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-The-Girl-Who-Doesnt-Love-Herself-Know-This-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-The-Girl-Who-Doesnt-Love-Herself-Know-This-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She will be the best girlfriend you ever had. She will be three people in one: your best friend, partner and lover. She will give you the love she never knew how to give herself and she will make you feel like you\u2019re the luckiest man alive. But don\u2019t take her gentle heart for granted&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":95086,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13519","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-The-Girl-Who-Doesnt-Love-Herself-Know-This.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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