At the beginning everything is easy. You are blinded by infatuation and the sexual chemistry is too strong to see what is really going on or what your partner is truly like. We all give the best of ourselves to impress whoever we are dating. Most of us hide our imperfections, but that is completely understandable if you don\u2019t have anything serious to hide.<\/p>\n
O verdadeiro problema surge quando nos cruzamos com algu\u00e9m que \u00e9 t\u00f3xico. \u00c9 claro que ele vai esconder esse lado dele porque quer atra\u00ed-la. Apresentar-se-\u00e1 como perfeito e sem falhas at\u00e9 que se solte um pouco e comece a confiar nele.<\/p>\n
When the honeymoon phase is over, the masks drop and you are finally able to see the true face of your loved one. The problem is that most of us get comfortable and we put down our guards. That\u2019s when the toxic behaviors start emerging.<\/p>\n
There doesn\u2019t have to be anything big at first. Actually, there never is. Toxic behaviors are disclosed bit by bit until they cause a great explosion of emotions and finally a catastrophe.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n To prevent becoming a victim of toxic behavior, it\u2019s best not to give in to the passion completely at the beginning. Try to look at things with a different pair of eyes, like it\u2019s happening to someone else.<\/p>\n Tente ser objetivo e cauteloso. Talvez assim consiga ver todos os alertas vermelhos que lhe est\u00e3o a gritar para sair desse ambiente t\u00f3xico.<\/p>\n Estes s\u00e3o os comportamentos t\u00f3xicos que ele apresenta e que far\u00e3o com que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o se afunde em chamas:<\/p>\n Sempre que h\u00e1 um problema na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o que vos deixa infelizes e quando o confrontam sobre isso, ele passa-se. Diga o que disser, seja qual for a cr\u00edtica que lhe fa\u00e7a, ele reage de forma exagerada.<\/p>\n You think that after some time you\u2019ve been together, he will realize that you don\u2019t want to put him down but help him become better by showing him his mistakes and things he did that hurt you. But, he doesn\u2019t get it that way.<\/p>\n He thinks you are out to get him and humiliate him. Therefore, any overreaction by him as feedback on something you\u2019ve got to say is clearly showing disrespect to you.<\/p>\n By doing this, he is telling you he doesn\u2019t want to hear what you\u2019ve got to say. He doesn\u2019t respect you.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t let this happen to you. No one has the right to control your life or to see you submissive to him. If you are feeling unhappy, you have the right to talk about it.<\/p>\n If he denies you this, then it\u2019s better to leave than to deal with much greater consequences that will follow.<\/p>\n Your self-respect is highly important and if he doesn\u2019t respect you, it\u2019s only a matter of time when you will stop respeitar-se a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/a> E ent\u00e3o, temos um problema.<\/p>\n Trust is the most important ingredient of a successful relationship. It\u2019s the ground on which you build your future life with the one you love. If you are not honest with each other, your relationship will fail sooner or later.<\/p>\n You won\u2019t know if he is lying to you at the beginning, but he won\u2019t be able to withhold the truth for so long. It will eventually come out in the open.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t deserve to be treated like this. Just remember that there are plenty of guys out there who would treat you like their princess, who would never lie to you because they simply trust you.<\/p>\n Eles sabem que os vai ajudar e compreender sem os julgar.<\/p>\n This is pretty much the same as ignoring someone. He won\u2019t even acknowledge your presence.<\/p>\n Se estiver a falar com ele e a tentar explicar-lhe o que sente ou a tentar resolver algum problema, ele ignora-a completamente e fica a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel ou simplesmente abandona a conversa sem o anunciar.<\/p>\n Why? Simply, because he doesn\u2019t give a damn. This is not healthy behavior. By stonewalling your partner, the two of you can only grow more apart even if there was a chance to solve your problems.<\/p>\n Tens o direito de ser ouvido. A tua voz tem de ser ouvida. Mesmo que n\u00e3o tenhas raz\u00e3o, tens o direito de dizer o que queres. Ningu\u00e9m pode ou deve impedir-te de o fazeres.<\/p>\n1. He can\u2019t stand criticism<\/span><\/h2>\n
2. Ele est\u00e1 a esconder coisas de ti<\/span><\/h2>\n
3. Ele est\u00e1 a bloquear-te<\/span><\/h2>\n