We’ve been taught through media, movies and the stories we’ve heard our whole lives that ‘the one’ will come and that all we need to do is be ready to receive love.<\/p>\n
Everyone has their ‘one’ and that’s what is so wrong about it because no relationship advice should sound like ‘just be patient, the one will come’.<\/p>\n
What? Does he really fly right out of the sky to be your one and only true love? I’d like to tell you that you’ve probably met someone who was a potential life partner for you.<\/p>\n
You must be thinking that I’m going out of my mind, but it’s the truth.<\/p>\n
When we look for the right guy, we think that that position could only be taken by one person in particular, but the truth is that there a lot of guys out there to whom you’re attracted and have the right behavior that you’d like to see in your husband to be.<\/p>\n
H\u00e1 uma hist\u00f3ria que nos baralha a cabe\u00e7a sobre a forma como vamos conhecer algu\u00e9m: um dia, damos de caras com ele e o tempo p\u00e1ra. Pensamos que seremos imediatamente invadidos por sentimentos.<\/p>\n
It’ll be like we’re the only two people in the entire world. But that’s so wrong. As rela\u00e7\u00f5es d\u00e3o muito trabalho<\/a>O compromisso e a confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n Because of that, we’re giving you 7 things that you need to know before finding your right guy:<\/p>\n No in\u00edcio da rela\u00e7\u00e3o, sentir-se-\u00e1 invadido por sentimentos espantosos de alegria e felicidade, como se n\u00e3o houvesse nada que pudesse separar-vos.<\/p>\n Mas quantas vezes j\u00e1 passaste por isso? Conhece-lo e tudo corre lindamente, mas mais \u00e0 frente na rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ele come\u00e7a a ser um idiota e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 mais nada a fazer sen\u00e3o acabar com tudo.<\/p>\n A fase do amor de cachorrinho \u00e9 o tipo de amor mais superficial durante os primeiros meses, quando tudo est\u00e1 a correr bem, mas \u00e9 preciso ter consci\u00eancia de que v\u00e3o surgir momentos dif\u00edceis e que os dois precisam de encontrar formas de os ultrapassar.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, this one I’ve learned the hard way. I would get into a fight with my boyfriend and in an instant, I would break up the relationship because I thought that there was nothing I could do.<\/p>\n I thought that I would never fight with my true love and I’ve been suffering because of that\u2014a lot. I am not telling you that insulting your partner or screaming and yelling is OK.<\/p>\n But arguments that happen along the way aren’t worthy of throwing in the towel.<\/p>\n Meaning passion and lust. Lust isn’t something that creates a lasting and loving relationship. It’s just an explosion of chemistry between you two.<\/p>\n That doesn’t bring long-term happiness. Healthy relationships aren’t built on that but rather on communication and deep connection.<\/p>\n Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel tamb\u00e9m tem sexo apaixonado, mas este \u00e9 acompanhado por uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional e mental.<\/p>\n This goes together with the past point. I’m not telling you that you need to discuss the origin of the Universe but talking about your emotions and thoughts is very important.<\/p>\n Abrir-se com o seu parceiro \u00e9 a coisa mais importante aqui (ainda mais importante do que o sexo). Falar sobre o vosso futuro juntos \u00e9 como criar um caminho que vos conduza a um rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida e saud\u00e1vel<\/a>.<\/p>\n I mean, if he doesn’t want kids and you do and there is quite a chance that none of you want to change your mind, so why would you want to spend your energy on that. But how would you know if you didn’t talk it through?<\/p>\n If you’ve been through a lot in your past relationships, if you’ve been unappreciated by your parents, there is a chance that you are now trying to make it all better by putting all your broken pieces into someone else’s hands and expecting them to rebuild you.<\/p>\n That’s not really effective and it can cause you too much pain if your expectations aren’t met. Rather, put in some time and effort to fix your own self before you start a new relationship.<\/p>\n S\u00f3 tu sabes como colar as tuas pe\u00e7as.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ao contr\u00e1rio do tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel, a saud\u00e1vel come\u00e7a lentamente, com interesses e atra\u00e7\u00e3o m\u00fatuos em vez de lux\u00faria e uma explos\u00e3o de emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n As rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis levam tempo a construir. Tente ir devagar e use a cabe\u00e7a. Sei que pode ser dif\u00edcil, mas tente usar a sua cabe\u00e7a antes do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, pelo menos no in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n Your mind doesn’t operate according to reason and rationality. So, try to understand your thought process that goes with the relationship and take your time.<\/p>\n Women come to me complaining about how they’re treated in a relationship, about how the man isn’t the right one for them or how they simply don’t feel loved anymore.<\/p>\n1. The puppy love stage can’t last forever<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
2. A fight doesn’t equal a break up<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
3. Recognize the ‘unhealthy’ connection<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
4. As conversas profundas s\u00e3o cruciais<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
5. Don’t expect him to heal you<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
6. As rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis constroem-se com o tempo<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
7. Observe as qualidades que fazem dele um homem de confian\u00e7a<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n