{"id":13534,"date":"2020-01-31T11:53:56","date_gmt":"2020-01-31T11:53:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13534"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:54:40","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:54:40","slug":"homem-7-coisas-agressor-domestico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/homem-7-coisas-agressor-domestico\/","title":{"rendered":"Se o seu homem faz estas 7 coisas, ele \u00e9 um agressor dom\u00e9stico"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9 um facto conhecido que muitas rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00eam altos e baixos e que, por vezes, os parceiros discutem. Mas \u00e9 preciso distinguir uma discuss\u00e3o normal de comportamento abusivo<\/a> e se vires que isso te est\u00e1 a acontecer, deves sair o mais depressa poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

You need to know that life with an abuser is not easy and that as long as you are with him, you won\u2019t be able to shine like you deserve. In fact, your life might be in danger if he decides to make a living hell out of your life.<\/p>\n

In case you have kids with a man like that, you should leave so they don\u2019t see and hear all the fighting because it can leave some serious marks on their emotions.<\/p>\n

For all those who are not quite sure if their relationship is abusive or for those who don\u2019t have the courage the leave a man like this, here are some things that could change your mind.<\/p>\n

1. Amea\u00e7a-o<\/span><\/h2>\n

Um homem que est\u00e1 apaixonado nunca amea\u00e7ar\u00e1 a mulher que ama. Em vez disso, ele acarinh\u00e1-la-\u00e1 e ela ser\u00e1 a menina dos seus olhos. Por outro lado, o agressor \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que tornar\u00e1 a sua vida pior do que era antes de o conhecer.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t like something that you do, he will be rough, calling you names and making you feel bad about yourself.<\/p>\n

Se tiveres filhos com ele, ele amea\u00e7ar\u00e1 tir\u00e1-los, porque sabe que, ao faz\u00ea-lo, te magoar\u00e1 mais.<\/p>\n

2. Est\u00e1 a bater com as portas e a partir pratos<\/span><\/h2>\n

Isto \u00e9 algo que todos os agressores dom\u00e9sticos fazem para a fazer sentir medo e obrig\u00e1-la a fazer tudo o que ele lhe diz para fazer.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t do something the way he wants, he will get mad and start slamming doors to show you that he won\u2019t tolerate that kind of behavior anymore and that you might be someone he will hit next time he gets mad. He wants to freak you out totally and to brainwash you to do things that he wants you to do.<\/p>\n

Se apanhar o seu homem a fazer algo deste g\u00e9nero, \u00e9 um sinal de que ele se est\u00e1 a transformar num agressor.<\/p>\n

3. Ele aceita o seu dinheiro e quer que lhe pe\u00e7a algum<\/span><\/h2>\n

In this way, he wants to belittle you and even if you earn much more than him, he won\u2019t admit that.<\/p>\n

Ele vai pedir-lhe o dinheiro do seu sal\u00e1rio e depois vai obrig\u00e1-lo a ir ter com ele e pedir-lhe algum.<\/p>\n

Desta forma, ele quer que fique dependente dele e que seja ele a decidir o que vai fazer e quando. Este \u00e9 mais um sinal de viol\u00eancia dom\u00e9stica<\/a> e se tiveres a oportunidade de o deixar, por favor, f\u00e1-lo para te salvares da agonia.<\/p>\n

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4. Intimida-o com facas ou armas<\/span><\/h2>\n

Quando um agressor dom\u00e9stico v\u00ea que a v\u00edtima pode fugir, recorre a todos os meios necess\u00e1rios para a manter por perto. Isso inclui o uso de armas ou facas para a intimidar a ficar com ele ou dizer que a vai matar e depois a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 apenas a fazer jogos mentais consigo e sabe que vai ficar porque est\u00e1 preocupada com a sua vida.<\/p>\n

If you have kids with a man like this, make sure that they don\u2019t see or hear all that fighting because it can make them go through serious trauma.<\/p>\n

5. Ele d\u00e1-te uma bofetada ou bate-te<\/span><\/h2>\n

Se ele estiver a fazer algo que a possa magoar fisicamente, pode ter a certeza de que o que est\u00e1 a passar n\u00e3o \u00e9 apenas uma fase m\u00e1, mas que ele \u00e9 um verdadeiro agressor dom\u00e9stico.<\/p>\n

This is the worst thing that a man can do to a woman whom he loves, knowing that she can\u2019t do anything to defend herself. Also, don\u2019t trust him when he says that he won\u2019t do that again and that he made a mistake because if he hits you once, he will do it again.<\/p>\n

A man like this doesn\u2019t deserve your love, so don\u2019t be afraid to leave him because that is the only way you will find the right path.<\/p>\n

6. Desempenha um papel de v\u00edtima<\/span><\/h2>\n

If he has a bad day or any other problem, he will blame you. As time passes by, his life expectations will be so high and you won\u2019t be able to fulfill them.<\/p>\n

And again, he will blame you but this time it won\u2019t stay only on that, but he will abuse you emotionally or even physically. He doesn\u2019t understand that you can\u2019t meet all his needs and that you have your needs as well.<\/p>\n

7. Ele diz que se vai matar se o deixares<\/span><\/h2>\n

Esta \u00e9 uma das mais \u00f3bvias sinais de viol\u00eancia dom\u00e9stica<\/a>. Ao dizer isto, o teu agressor quer que fiques perto dele para poder continuar a control\u00e1-lo<\/a> e de fazer as coisas da maneira que funciona melhor para ele.<\/p>\n

So, in this case you are stuck between two fires\u2014on one side there is a man who wants to kill himself if you leave and on the other hand we are talking about your own life that will be destroyed if you stay with him.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de que deve sempre escolher a sua vida antes da dele, porque ele gosta demasiado de si pr\u00f3prio para se magoar.<\/p>\n

Isso \u00e9 apenas um truque sorrateiro que ele est\u00e1 a usar para te trazer de volta.<\/p>\n

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