{"id":13557,"date":"2020-08-31T12:40:45","date_gmt":"2020-08-31T12:40:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13557"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:04:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:04:06","slug":"pode-estragar-alguem-vai-adorar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/pode-estragar-alguem-vai-adorar\/","title":{"rendered":"Podes ser um desastre, mas algu\u00e9m te vai amar por isso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Provavelmente tem o h\u00e1bito de se olhar ao espelho e perguntar-se se merece ser amado.<\/p>\n

Provavelmente, faz este tipo de coisas a toda a hora.<\/p>\n

Provavelmente diz a si pr\u00f3prio como you\u2019re not good enough<\/a>, how everyone else is doing well and you can\u2019t seem to get out of your own mess.<\/p>\n

All you see when you look at yourself are your flaws. All you see are the reasons why you don\u2019t deserve to be loved.<\/p>\n

It started with some small imperfections and now it\u2019s so widespread that you can\u2019t get rid of it.<\/p>\n

God knows when the last time was that you looked at yourself in the mirror and told yourself how pretty you are or how well you\u2019re doing in life.<\/p>\n

Diz you\u2019re a mess<\/a> and how you’re lost and I say: \u201cSo what?\u201d <\/strong>E depois?<\/em><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t stay a mess forever. You won’t be lost forever. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Even though you feel like you can\u2019t get your head straight now, even if you feel stuck and that everyone is ahead of you, it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re a lost cause. Because you\u2019re not.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You might think you don\u2019t deserve to be loved. You might think that nobody will ever love you the way you are now.<\/p>\n

Que ningu\u00e9m se dar\u00e1 ao trabalho de olhar para al\u00e9m da sua confus\u00e3o ou de tentar v\u00ea-lo como realmente \u00e9.<\/p>\n

That nobody will care to see that you can be better than you are or think that you have a bright future. But you\u2019re wrong once again.<\/p>\n

See, the truth is you\u2019re only capable of seeing yourself as a mess now. You only see your flaws and you have this feeling like everyone is doing better than you are. <\/strong><\/p>\n

But the truth is we are all a bit of a mess. We\u2019re all a bit messed up, too. And we\u2019re all destined to find love despite this.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Haver\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que querer\u00e1 ouvir as coisas que se passam na sua cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

There will be someone who will want to listen to all the stories about why you\u2019re a mess and what\u2019s going on with you.<\/p>\n

There will be someone who\u2019ll see you like everything that person was looking for. Mark these words.<\/p>\n

When you look in the mirror, you think: \u201cWho will ever fall for me?\u201d You keep wondering how come you had to turn out that way.<\/p>\n

How is it possible that it\u2019s you that has to fight for everything and how is it that you never got anything easy in life?<\/p>\n

Often you feel like losing it, you feel like you\u2019ve had enough and how you can\u2019t do it anymore.<\/p>\n

But be that as it may, you\u2019re are n\u00e3o \u00e9 um desistente.<\/a> \u00c9s um lutador. De que outra forma terias chegado t\u00e3o longe na vida?<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Some days you thought you were done. That you can\u2019t do it anymore and how you\u2019re going to lose it.<\/p>\n

But yet, here you are. Well and alive\u2014in your messy life, with your messy head but standing firmly on the ground.<\/p>\n

A melhor parte \u00e9 que algu\u00e9m vir\u00e1 e ver\u00e1 tudo isto. Algu\u00e9m ver\u00e1 todas as tuas batalhas, todas as tuas lutas e todas as vezes que ca\u00edste, mas te levantaste.<\/p>\n

Someone won\u2019t see you as a disaster but as someone who fights with all her strength to keep her head above the water.<\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m o vai admirar<\/a> do fundo do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. Algu\u00e9m vai amar tudo o que odeia em si mesmo.<\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m ver\u00e1 as tuas cicatrizes e decidir\u00e1 beij\u00e1-las. Algu\u00e9m ver\u00e1 toda a tua confus\u00e3o e decidir\u00e1 ficar.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t try to change you. He won\u2019t try to unmess you or solve your problems. He won\u2019t try to save you.<\/p>\n

He will  just be there to hold your hand, to show you he loves you despite what you think, to show you that you\u2019re an amazing human being despite the things you keep telling yourself.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m entrar\u00e1 na sua vida, ver\u00e1 a sua confus\u00e3o e ficar\u00e1. Veja a sua bagun\u00e7a e agrade\u00e7a a Deus por t\u00ea-lo enviado do jeito que voc\u00ea \u00e9. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m gostar\u00e1 mais da sua confus\u00e3o do que algumas pessoas gostariam das suas perfei\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Esse algu\u00e9m esperar\u00e1 at\u00e9 que te desmascares. Ele aceitar\u00e1 os seus lados feios t\u00e3o alegremente como aceita os seus lados bonitos.<\/p>\n

And it doesn\u2019t matter if it takes you a lifetime to unmess yourself. It doesn\u2019t matter if you never unmess yourself.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll sign up for it, for all of it. He\u2019ll love you for it, for all of it.<\/p>\n

You will be loved just the way you are\u2014the lost you, the messy you, the you that even you don\u2019t love.<\/p>\n

Todos os teus defeitos ser\u00e3o amados, todas as tuas cicatrizes ser\u00e3o beijadas, todas as tuas batalhas ser\u00e3o admiradas.<\/p>\n

Because that\u2019s how we all deserve to be loved. You too, even if you have a hard time believing it at the moment.<\/p>\n

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