With that said, below, you’ll find some do’s and don’ts when it comes to receiving compliments, and how to respond to different types of compliments (accompanied with real-life examples). You can thank me later! ?<\/p>\n
Como \u00e9 que se responde humildemente a um elogio?<\/h2>\n
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There’s a thin line between being overly humble and cocky, and establishing balance can be challenging. So, how do you respond to a compliment in the right way that respects all the compliment-responding criteria?<\/p>\n
Here are some don’ts and do’s to keep in mind when responding to a compliment:<\/p>\n
DON’TS<\/h3>\nDon’t throw a compliment back just because you received one<\/h4>\n
Seriously, don’t. You don’t want to be seen as a person who compliments the other person just because they complimented you.<\/p>\n
Todos sabemos que esses elogios n\u00e3o s\u00e3o genu\u00ednos e s\u00f3 servem para tornar as coisas menos inc\u00f3modas.<\/b><\/p>\n
Don’t feel forced to compliment back the same second someone compliments you. Accept the praise in a humble way and keep rolling.<\/p>\n
Don’t downplay<\/h4>\n
Quando ajudamos algu\u00e9m com alguma coisa e essa pessoa nos agradece, temos a necessidade de minimizar a import\u00e2ncia do nosso gesto com algo como “Oh, it’s not a <\/i>grande coisa<\/i>, really…”<\/i><\/p>\n
Tu pr\u00f3prio sabes o significado do teu esfor\u00e7o, mas a tentativa de parecer demasiado modesto \u00e9 mais forte do que tu.<\/p>\n
Mentalmente forte<\/b><\/a> people don’t <\/b>minimizar<\/b> the importance of their actions, but they also don’t brag about it.<\/b> Reconhe\u00e7a a sua autoestima e, se algu\u00e9m o elogiar, aceite-o de uma forma genu\u00edna e n\u00e3o c\u00f3mica.<\/p>\n Ignoring the person’s compliment doesn’t make it go away, but it creates awkwardness (unless we’re talking about an insulting backhanded compliment).<\/p>\n If you ignore the compliment, the complimenter will repeat it a few times because they’ll think you didn’t hear it. Can you imagine the amount of weirdness in that scenario? I bet you can.<\/p>\n Reclama\u00e7\u00e3o:<\/b> “That’s a great dress.”<\/i><\/p>\n Tu:<\/b> “I had to wear something to hide my big stomach and compensate for my terrible makeup.”<\/i><\/p>\n If this sounds familiar to you, just don’t do that.<\/p>\n Auto-deprecia\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b> \u00e9 um tipo de comportamento auto-destrutivo que pode prejudicar gravemente a sua autoestima e fazer com que o outro <\/b>pessoa sentir<\/b> inc\u00f3moda.<\/b><\/p>\n Psicologia Hoje<\/a> explica-o da seguinte forma:<\/p>\n “Sadly, many people tend to shut down what we call the “dance of gratitude.” When we shut down the dance, we are inadvertently preventing love and praise from entering our beings. It\u2019s like closing the door on someone and stopping them from entering our home, and ultimately, our heart.”<\/i><\/p>\n Ama-te a ti pr\u00f3prio<\/a> the way you are. Work on yourself, and accept the things you can’t change about yourself. And, yes, accept the compliments without the need to humiliate yourself.<\/p>\n \u00c9 aqui que um simples <\/b>“Thank you”<\/i><\/b> entra na hist\u00f3ria.<\/b> Esta \u00e9 a forma mais f\u00e1cil de expressar a sua gratid\u00e3o sem exagerar ou minimizar.<\/p>\n So, why complicate things? (That’s something I repeat to myself on a daily basis.)<\/p>\n When receiving a compliment or responding to it, maintain eye contact because that’s the main indicator of self-confidence.<\/p>\n Preste especial aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 sua vibra\u00e7\u00e3o, <\/b>linguagem corporal<\/b>e <\/b>express\u00f5es faciais<\/b>. When you’re feeling uncomfortable and nervous, your <\/b>linguagem corporal<\/b> won’t hesitate to display it.<\/b><\/p>\n For example, you might start acting reserved (crossed arms) and the complimenter will think you’re ungrateful for a compliment and not interested in them (if they’re someone you secretly admire).<\/p>\n Se tem baixa autoestima, h\u00e1 muitas formas de aumentar a sua confian\u00e7a, e praticar afirma\u00e7\u00f5es de amor-pr\u00f3prio<\/a> \u00e9 um \u00f3timo come\u00e7o.<\/p>\n If other people are also included in a certain accomplishment, don’t forget to share the credit. Still, this doesn’t mean that you should exclude yourself completely from a compliment.<\/p>\n Mencionar o facto de que a ajuda de outras pessoas o ajudou a ter sucesso. Partilhe os louros de uma forma natural e humilde.<\/p>\n Uma das maiores quest\u00f5es de todos os tempos \u00e9 a seguinte: “What do I do after responding to a compliment?”<\/i><\/p>\n Reclama\u00e7\u00e3o:<\/b> “I love your T-shirt.”<\/i><\/p>\n Tu:<\/b> “Thank you.”<\/i><\/p>\n *PAUSA ESTRANHA*<\/b><\/p>\n During this awkward pause, you have no idea what to say or do. You just stand there and “appreciate life with all its ups and downs” including this one.<\/p>\n Should you talk about the weather, your pet, anything? If you’re one of those people who can’t endure the pain of awkward silences, then you need to manter a conversa em curso<\/a>.<\/p>\n Como \u00e9 que o v\u00e3o fazer, perguntam-se?<\/p>\n Bem, use a sua resposta a um elogio como uma transi\u00e7\u00e3o. Continue a falar sobre o local onde comprou a T-shirt, mencione que havia outras cores dessa T-shirt e assim por diante.<\/p>\n If it’s about a job accomplishment, talk about the process of it (but don’t overdo it) and you’ll survive and successfully avoid that dreaded awkward silence. Congrats!<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: Resposta de flirt a \"How are you\": 210 melhores respostas<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Lord knows how many times I made a fool out of myself because I didn’t know how to appreciate a guy’s compliment. Speaking of multiple failed romances even before they officially started.<\/p>\n Fingi que n\u00e3o me interessava por eles apenas para os fazer interessar. I used to be ‘a playing-hard-to-get girl’, but now I’m ‘a playing-it-safe girl’.<\/b> Devo dizer-vos que este \u00faltimo \u00e9 dez vezes mais produtivo (ainda assim, depende do tipo).<\/p>\n Uma vez que todos sabemos que os homens vivem para a persegui\u00e7\u00e3o, \u00e9 preciso expressar-lhes gratid\u00e3o de vez em quando para que continuem a tentar impression\u00e1-la ainda mais.<\/p>\n Se quer que ele saiba o quanto aprecia o seu elogio, ent\u00e3o tem de aprender a responder a um elogio de um homem da forma correcta. Tente as seguintes respostas, que s\u00e3o neutras mas eficazes.<\/b><\/p>\n It’s when you can’t hide the excitement due to all the oxytocin levels that kick in once your special person compliments you in a flirty way. And, then you instantly jump into the flirting mode and pray to God that you don’t ruin it by saying too much or too little.<\/p>\n Of course, if a flirty compliment is uninvited, you have every right to express your unwillingness to accept it, but make sure to do it in a modest way (perhaps with a dash of sarcasm if you’re feeling bold).<\/p>\n Below, you’ll find some examples for both situations:<\/p>\n The other person, obviously, can’t see your face once you read their compliment, and you have the freedom to express yourself (e.g., jump around from happiness or express annoyance).<\/p>\n The other person can’t see your <\/b>linguagem corporal<\/b> and, therefore, doesn’t have the luxury of looking for signs of nervousness or similar.<\/b><\/p>\n A \u00fanica coisa que eles podem analisar \u00e9 o seu texto de volta. Ent\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que lhes vai responder? Isso depende da sua tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> with them. Perhaps they’re a stranger texting you for the first time or some guy\/girl you really like.<\/p>\n Sugiro que escolha uma resposta de acordo com a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com eles.<\/b> Below you’ll find some responses to a compliment in different tones for various occasions. Also, you can add some emojis to these texts if you feel like it.<\/p>\n If you’ve ever received one from a person you like (and I’m sure you have), don’t question the validity of my statement in the previous sentence.<\/b><\/p>\n Whenever I receive a flirty compliment on social media from someone I’m crazy about, I scream from happiness and say something like:<\/p>\n “OMG is this real? I have to read it again. It is real! They are flirting with me. What should I do? I don’t want to appear too serious, but I also don’t want to overdo it. Universe, send some help, please!”<\/i><\/p>\n Depois de alguns fracassos <\/b>sedutor<\/b> compliment responses, I’ve realized that a sense of humor was the missing ingredient.<\/b> I mean, who doesn’t like to laugh?<\/p>\n If you respond in a humorous way, they will also see that you aren’t taking yourself too seriously. Rather, you’re accepting their compliment in a grateful and humble way filled with some good old humor.<\/p>\n Ent\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que se responde a um <\/b>sedutor<\/b> elogio?<\/b> Escreve-se algo engra\u00e7ado e acrescenta-se caras de emoji de flirt<\/a>.<\/p>\n Ent\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que se responde a um elogio no trabalho?<\/p>\n You definitely shouldn’t spice your response with sarcasm (regardless if you secretly like your colleague).<\/b> O que deve fazer \u00e9 mostrar-lhes como est\u00e1 genuinamente grato pelo reconhecimento das suas capacidades e esfor\u00e7os.<\/p>\n Also, if the compliment doesn’t just encompass your effort, but a team effort, make sure to mention it in your response. Otherwise, you’ll appear rude and egocentric, which is something we all want to avoid, right?<\/p>\n To help you avoid any potentially awkward situation, below, you’ll find some worthy examples for various occasions.<\/p>\n If you don’t, then you’re missing all the fun. <\/b>(But, worry not because today, I’ll help you compensate for that.)<\/p>\nDon’t ignore the compliment<\/h4>\n
Don’t humiliate yourself<\/h4>\n
DO’S<\/h3>\n
Exprimir gratid\u00e3o de uma forma simples<\/h4>\n
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If you’re an overthinker like myself, I’m sure you think of one million potential responses when someone compliments you. Complicating things in your head will (almost) always result in choosing the wrong approach.<\/p>\nUtilizar uma linguagem corporal adequada<\/h4>\n
Partilhar o cr\u00e9dito<\/h4>\n
Manter a conversa em curso (para evitar um sil\u00eancio constrangedor)<\/h4>\n
Como \u00e9 que se responde a um elogio de um homem?<\/h2>\n
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Responder a um elogio de um homem<\/a> que diz coisas boas a seu respeito pode ser um desafio (especialmente se REALMENTE gosta dele).<\/p>\nExemplos<\/h3>\n
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Como \u00e9 que se responde a um elogio de sedu\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/h2>\n
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Tenho de admitir que o flirt cumprimentos<\/a> s\u00e3o uma das minhas preferidas, principalmente porque d\u00e3o a possibilidade de responder tamb\u00e9m de uma forma sedutora. If we’re talking about someone you like, flirting with them should be your main (and favorite) hobby.<\/b><\/p>\nSe aceitares o elogio de sedu\u00e7\u00e3o:<\/h3>\n
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Se um elogio de sedu\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 convidado:<\/h3>\n
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Como \u00e9 que se responde a um texto de elogio?<\/h2>\n
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Temos de admitir uma coisa. Responder a um texto de elogio \u00e9 muito mais f\u00e1cil do que na vida real.<\/p>\nExemplos<\/h3>\n
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Como \u00e9 que se responde a uma mensagem de elogio?<\/h2>\n
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Haver\u00e1 melhor maneira de dizer a algu\u00e9m que gosta dele do que enviar-lhe uma mensagem de elogio? (Esta \u00e9 uma pergunta ret\u00f3rica.)<\/p>\nExemplos:<\/h3>\n
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Como \u00e9 que se responde a um elogio no trabalho?<\/h2>\n
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Receber palavras am\u00e1veis do seu colega de trabalho<\/a> (por exemplo, se elogiarem as suas capacidades de falar em p\u00fablico) n\u00e3o \u00e9 a mesma coisa que receber um elogio de algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 a namoriscar consigo.<\/p>\nExemplos<\/h3>\n
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Respostas engra\u00e7adas e espirituosas a elogios<\/h2>\n
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Nunca podemos exagerar na dose de humor, certo? Piadas de sedu\u00e7\u00e3o, frases de engate engra\u00e7adas e frases de efeito espirituosas<\/a> have become a lifestyle, so you either practice it or you don’t.<\/p>\n
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I just assumed that you were sending me an imaginary \u201cThank you, I appreciate your effort.\u201d<\/i>, so I named the last headline \u2018You’re welcome.\u2019 <\/i>Witty, right? Okay, I’ll stop being cocky. ?<\/p>\n