Todos n\u00f3s sonhamos em ter aquele tipo de amor louco que nos faz sorrir sem motivo e dar gargalhadas como meninas de escola.<\/p>\n
We all want that kind of love we read about in the books\u2014the love that lasts a lifetime and that\u2019s still there when we\u2019re old and wrinkled.<\/p>\n
Mas esse tipo de amor \u00e9 imposs\u00edvel de ter com certos tipos de homens e, por muito que tentemos, continuamos a sentir que s\u00f3 os atra\u00edmos a eles.<\/p>\n
Para evitar outro desgosto e desilus\u00e3o amorosa, eis alguns tipos de indisponibilidade homens que deve evitar<\/a> como a peste.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s be honest: at some point in our lives we fell for a player. He\u2019s the type of man who is incapable of settling for just one woman and he often leaves emotional wreckage wherever he passes.<\/p>\n But we tend to fix people and once we fall for this type of man, we hope that our love will be strong enough to make him change. That maybe we\u2019re different and he will want to settle with us.<\/p>\n But there\u2019s no way you can fix a player\u2014the need for change has to come from him. There\u2019s no woman strong enough to change him; it has to be him.<\/p>\n H\u00e1 homens que preferem ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/a> because they\u2019re simply easier. He gets the best of both worlds.<\/p>\n He has a long-distance girlfriend that helps him with emotions and struggles and over there he can be a fulltime player. I\u2019m not saying every long-distance relationship is this way\u2014my best friend is proof that they do work out.<\/p>\n But if you feel like you\u2019re the only one that makes the effort into fighting that distance, he\u2019s just as unavailable as any other player.<\/p>\n Ele \u00e9 tudo o que lhe interessa. O seu comportamento \u00e9 quase narcisista, o que significa que tudo tem de girar \u00e0 volta dele. As suas necessidades estar\u00e3o sempre em segundo lugar porque ele \u00e9 uma prioridade.<\/p>\n Lembre-se de que s\u00e3o precisos dois para amar e, se der por si a ser o \u00fanico a amar e a dar, v\u00e1-se embora. Mereces mais do que isso.<\/p>\n He doesn\u2019t have to be married to fit this group. It\u2019s any man that\u2019s already committed to someone else. He could be saying that he\u2019s not happy, that they\u2019re getting a divorce and you will trust him because you have no reason not to.<\/p>\n But this type of man is a cheater. There\u2019s no guarantee that he won\u2019t do the same to you or that he won\u2019t walk away once he gets bored.<\/p>\n Este \u00e9 um tipo de homem que manter\u00e1 qualquer tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o no estatuto de quase-rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Se ele for mais longe e voc\u00eas tiverem uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o a s\u00e9rio, podem passar-se anos at\u00e9 que ele ponha um anel.<\/p>\n He\u2019s scared of commitment and he will try to avoid talking about the matter at all costs. You\u2019ll find yourself asking questions that remain unanswered and trying to explain to yourself why you\u2019re still stuck in the same places after all those months\/years.<\/p>\n Este \u00e9 um tipo de homem que est\u00e1 constantemente a inventar desculpas ou nunca fala sobre os seus sentimentos, excluindo-a da vida dele. Estes homens usam a cr\u00edtica, a manipula\u00e7\u00e3o ou o sentimento de culpa para criar uma dist\u00e2ncia entre voc\u00eas os dois.<\/p>\n He does these things because he\u2019s either afraid of letting someone in due to past traumas in his life (that could\u2019ve been caused by his parents or past girlfriends) or he\u2019s shutting you out because he is emotionally immature and he doesn\u2019t know how to cope with the commitment and love.<\/p>\n A indisponibilidade emocional apresenta-se de duas formas: cr\u00f3nica e tempor\u00e1ria. A forma cr\u00f3nica \u00e9 causada por uma doen\u00e7a mental, uma inf\u00e2ncia conturbada ou uma depend\u00eancia, enquanto a tempor\u00e1ria resulta do facto de outra pessoa dar mais prioridade do que a si.<\/p>\n1. Jogador<\/span><\/h2>\n
2. Rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span><\/h2>\n
3. Ego\u00edsta<\/span><\/h2>\n
4. O homem casado<\/span><\/h2>\n
5. Fobia de compromisso<\/span><\/h2>\n
6. Homem emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel<\/a><\/span><\/h2>\n