{"id":136021,"date":"2021-09-30T06:06:03","date_gmt":"2021-09-30T06:06:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=136021"},"modified":"2022-01-03T18:20:58","modified_gmt":"2022-01-03T18:20:58","slug":"segundo-encontro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/segundo-encontro\/","title":{"rendered":"A import\u00e2ncia do segundo encontro e 10 dicas para o conseguir"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you’re about to go on a second date with someone you really like, I can already imagine what you’re currently doing…<\/p>\n

You’re pacing the room, trying to figure out <\/i>sobre o que falar com a sua paix\u00e3o<\/i><\/a>e preocupar-se com o facto de causar uma boa impress\u00e3o.<\/i><\/p>\n

Concordo que <\/b>primeiros encontros<\/b> can be really stressful because you feel like you’re on a test the whole time. <\/b>No entanto, depois de passar o teste e conseguir o segundo <\/i>encontro<\/i>, \u00e9 melhor relaxar porque \u00e9 \u00f3bvio que se foi embora <\/i>uma boa primeira impress\u00e3o<\/i><\/a> e deixou-os de rastos.<\/i><\/p>\n

Even if the first meeting didn’t go well, and you think that you didn’t quite impress your potential partner, you still got the second chance to repair the damage. You should embrace that opportunity and make the best out of it.<\/p>\n

Ou, como diz a treinadora de encontros Annie Mayo: “As long as you haven\u2019t encountered any big deal-breakers during that <\/b>primeiro encontro<\/b>e o encontro correu bastante bem, ent\u00e3o deve estar disposto a ir a um <\/b>segundo encontro<\/b> even if the proverbial \u2018sparks\u2019 didn\u2019t fly.”<\/b><\/p>\n

To calm you down and help you land the very important third date, I\u2019ve compiled a profound guide on the second date that will help you avoid some of the most dangerous pitfalls. So, let’s get started.<\/p>\n

O que deve acontecer num segundo encontro?<\/h2>\n

\"umA \u00fanica coisa que vos posso dizer com certeza \u00e9 que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 regras quando se trata deste ponto. Basicamente, podem apaixonar-se, ou podem acabar por se odiar at\u00e9 ao fim da vossa vida. <\/b>segundo encontro<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Psicoterapeuta e life coach Alyson Cohen, <\/i>ASSISTENTE SOCIAL<\/i>, diz que o <\/i>segundo encontro<\/i> \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m a oportunidade perfeita para criar mais atractivos. <\/i>Se houve uma centelha de atra\u00e7\u00e3o no primeiro encontro, um segundo encontro pode refor\u00e7ar essa atra\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, o <\/b>segundo encontro<\/b> \u00e9 uma oportunidade perfeita para nos conhecermos melhor.<\/b> You probably didn’t even talk too much on your first date because you’d just met, and both of you were a bit shy and closed off.<\/p>\n

I know how it goes. You’re thinking about <\/i>deixar uma boa primeira impress\u00e3o<\/i><\/a> all the time, and you’re afraid to make any first move because you don’t want to mess things up on your <\/i>primeira noite de encontro<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

And now you probably feel even more nervous because you’re a step closer to winning over the person you like. However, there is truly nothing to feel nervous about.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 passou o <\/b>primeiro encontro<\/b> test… And even if you didn’t, even if you failed to leave a good first impression, you obviously got a <\/b>segunda oportunidade<\/b> para resolver as coisas e conquist\u00e1-los.<\/b><\/p>\n

Beija-se no segundo encontro?<\/h2>\n

\"umI’m sure you’ve heard the saying ‘<\/i>segundo encontro<\/i> significa segunda base<\/i>,‘<\/i> MAS se queres mesmo chegar ao terceiro encontro, deves esquecer isso imediatamente.<\/p>\n

Beijar no <\/b>segundo encontro<\/b><\/a> is not a must, but it also isn’t a no-go zone. <\/b>The most important thing is that both partners want it and that both of them are giving clear signals they’re actually okay with it.<\/i><\/p>\n

Por isso, se quiser dar esse passo, tem de prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o a<\/b> your partner’s <\/b>linguagem corporal<\/b><\/a>. <\/b>They’ll be giving you non-verbal signals through their behavior, and if you pay close attention to it, you’ll be able to pick them up and figure out when it’s okay to make the first move.<\/p>\n

If the other side likes you, you’ll notice that they have open <\/b>linguagem corporal<\/b>.<\/b> They’ll laugh at your jokes (even the lousy ones), lean in toward you while you’re speaking, maintain deep eye contact, and start mirroring your behavior or facial expressions.<\/i><\/p>\n

Se notar algum destes sinais, significa que o outro lado est\u00e1 a dar-lhe luz verde para beijo<\/a> eles.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, deve <\/i>confie no seu instinto<\/i><\/a>. If your inner voice is telling you that it’s okay to make the first move, you should definitely listen to it.<\/i> Don’t overthink it at all, and just go for it without thinking about the possible consequences.<\/p>\n

10 Second Date Tips To Leave A Great Impression (Dos & Don’ts)<\/h2>\n

\"umHere’s some interesting data: according to an SIA study, 61% of single guys and 70% of <\/b>mulheres solteiras<\/b> sentir-se mais entusiasmado com o <\/b>segundo encontro<\/b> do que sobre o <\/b>primeiro encontro<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Se tamb\u00e9m se sente assim, aqui ficam algumas dicas para ser bem sucedido no seu segundo encontro. I’m sure these tips will help your <\/i>vida amorosa<\/i> florescer.<\/i><\/p>\n

Abrir-se com o seu par<\/h3>\n

Esta data \u00e9 a oportunidade perfeita para <\/i>conhecer melhor o seu parceiro<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

And by this, I don’t mean that you should ask them tons of questions and make them feel like they\u2019ve been brought in for questioning. <\/b>Deve simplesmente come\u00e7ar a abrir-se com eles, o que far\u00e1 com que eles comecem tamb\u00e9m a falar sobre si pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

DON’T reveal too much<\/h3>\n

Deixem essa pequena dose de mist\u00e9rio porque h\u00e1 uma verdadeira beleza escondida nela. <\/b>If you reveal everything about yourself during your second meeting, then your potential partner won’t have a reason to see you again.<\/p>\n

ESTAR aberto a diferentes ideias de encontros<\/h3>\n

Mesmo que o seu parceiro sugira experimentar algo novo e diferente na sua <\/i>segundo encontro<\/i>Se o seu objetivo \u00e9 fazer algo que est\u00e1 muito fora da sua zona de conforto, deve aceitar e ir em frente.<\/i><\/p>\n

Show them how flexible and adaptable you are. After all, what’s the worst thing that could happen?<\/p>\n

DON’T overcomplicate it<\/h3>\n

If you aren’t sure about their ideia de noite de encontro<\/a>, don’t start unnecessarily complicating things. It was their idea, so just relax and let them lead.<\/p>\n

vestir-se bem<\/h3>\n

A apar\u00eancia f\u00edsica desempenha um papel importante (mas n\u00e3o o mais importante) na constru\u00e7\u00e3o de uma imagem inicial. <\/b>atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica<\/b><\/a>. <\/b>Se quer que o seu par goste de si, ent\u00e3o deve vestir-se e parecer ainda melhor do que no primeiro encontro.<\/p>\n

DON’T overdo it<\/h3>\n

However, that doesn’t mean that you should stress out over what to wear on your date. After all, you should remember that the most important thing is to wear something you’ll feel comfortable in.<\/p>\n

Escutem-nos com aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n

If you listen carefully and without interrupting your partner while they talk, you’ll show them that you respect them. And also, it’ll show them that you’re interested in what they have to say.<\/p>\n

DON’T psychoanalyze them<\/h3>\n

Quando o seu potencial parceiro come\u00e7ar a partilhar hist\u00f3rias da sua vida pessoal consigo, a \u00fanica coisa que tem de fazer \u00e9 ouvi-las.<\/i> Don’t make your own conclusions about them too soon.<\/p>\n

I know you’re curious to find out everything about the person you like, but you’ll find it all out with time. A pior coisa que se pode fazer \u00e9 tentar entrar na sua mente e tirar conclus\u00f5es (provavelmente muito erradas) sobre a sua personalidade e natureza.<\/b><\/p>\n

Falar sobre a sua vida amorosa<\/b><\/h3>\n

Talking about your past relationships and things you look for in a romantic relationship is perfectly fine. It’s how you’ll encourage your partner to talk about their <\/i>vida amorosa,<\/i> tamb\u00e9m, e descobrir as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es <\/i>acessibilidade<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

DON’T talk about your ex<\/h3>\n

I’m really serious about this one. Don’t talk about your previous relationship and partner, especially if things have just ended between you.<\/i><\/p>\n

You’ll sound either nostalgic or resentful. Either way, it won’t do you any good. O seu parceiro pode apenas concluir que ainda tem sentimentos pelo seu ex, o que faria com que o seu <\/b>segundo encontro<\/b> o \u00faltimo tamb\u00e9m.<\/b><\/p>\n

O que fazer num segundo encontro: 7 boas ideias para um segundo encontro<\/b><\/h2>\n

\"umIf you’ve read our article about <\/i>ideias para o primeiro encontro<\/i><\/a>, then it’s no wonder you’ve landed this second meeting. Now, it’s time to take your potential relationship to the <\/i>n\u00edvel seguinte<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

We’ll prepare you for your next date with these interesting second date ideas that will ensure you get o terceiro encontro<\/a> tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Settle in for a movie marathon<\/h3>\n

All you need to know for this kind of date is what your partner’s favorite movie genre is and their favorite snacks. If you’ve met on Tinder or some other dating site, you’ve probably already talked about these kinds of things.<\/p>\n

Noite de encontro<\/i> movies really sound like lots of fun, and it’s also a promising one. This intimate atmosphere is the perfect opportunity to snuggle up to your partner and make the first move.<\/i><\/p>\n

\u2022 A game night sounds fun<\/h3>\n

If you have met your partner on a dating app, you should check their profile once again before choosing your perfect second date idea. If they’ve put playing fun games in their interests and hobbies list, then this is the perfect way to spend your second date night.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 imensos jogos de casais interessantes e extremamente divertidos que pode escolher para organizar o encontro mais emocionante de sempre.<\/b><\/p>\n

Jogar <\/i>curiosidades<\/i> jogos de perguntas, <\/i>Verdade ou desafio<\/i><\/a>, <\/i>Nunca estive<\/i><\/a>ou, se quiser realmente conhecer o seu par a um n\u00edvel mais profundo, basta escolher a op\u00e7\u00e3o <\/i>Jogo das 21 perguntas.<\/i><\/a><\/i><\/p>\n

\u2022 Tarot reading \u2013 A useful and quite unique date idea<\/b><\/h3>\n

Se voc\u00ea e o seu potencial parceiro acreditam na astrologia, ent\u00e3o esta ideia de encontro parece ser a escolha perfeita para voc\u00eas.<\/b> E tamb\u00e9m pode ser \u00fatil antes de descobrirem a vossa compatibilidade e o potencial que t\u00eam para construir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Get your Zen on with a yoga class<\/h3>\n

Ok, este \u00e9 o <\/i>segunda vez<\/i> you guys are meeting, and you should feel more relaxed around each other, but it’s perfectly normal if you still feel as nervous as the <\/i>primeira vez<\/i> que conheceste.<\/i><\/p>\n

Nesse caso, deve definitivamente escolher uma aula de ioga ou de medita\u00e7\u00e3o para o seu segundo encontro. Para aumentar o calor, pode organizar um ioga rom\u00e2ntico em casa <\/b>noite de encontro<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Love goes through the stomach, so go with a picnic in a botanical garden<\/b><\/h3>\n

Dar um passeio e explorar um <\/i>jardim bot\u00e2nico<\/i> \u00e9 definitivamente um <\/i>\u00f3ptima ideia para um segundo encontro<\/i>. And if you add a small blanket and a picnic basket filled with delicious food, it’s definitely a win-win combination.<\/i><\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m seria \u00f3timo se pudesse ser voc\u00ea a preparar o cesto de piquenique. If you show your good cooking skills, you’re definitely getting a <\/b>telefonar de volta<\/b>. ?<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Music has the power to make you fall in love, take your date to a concert<\/h3>\n

A maioria dos especialistas em relacionamentos concorda que a m\u00fasica aproxima as pessoas. E esta afirma\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9, de facto, apoiada pela ci\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

The fact is that listening to music releases dopamine (the ‘happy hormone’) in the brain, which gives us the feeling of excitement and happiness.<\/b> The magic of music is in lightening up people’s moods, and that’s why it should be important to all of us.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Get your adrenaline pumping with a zip-line course<\/h3>\n

Por muito que esta ideia pare\u00e7a louca para um segundo encontro, seria sem d\u00favida uma experi\u00eancia perfeita para criar la\u00e7os. Isto, claro, apenas se a outra parte estiver disposta a sentir a adrenalina.<\/p>\n

30 perguntas interessantes para um segundo encontro para animar a conversa<\/h2>\n

\"umThere are probably so many things you want to know about your potential partner but simply don’t know how to ask, or you’re just afraid that it may go wrong.<\/i><\/p>\n

And that’s when the awkward silence happens.<\/b> Para evitar esse tipo de situa\u00e7\u00f5es e aumentar as probabilidades de um terceiro encontro, eis uma lista de perguntas a fazer num segundo encontro:<\/a><\/p>\n

1. O que faz geralmente nos seus tempos livres?<\/p>\n

2. Gostavas de ser famoso? De que forma?<\/p>\n

3. Que assunto ou atividade o faz perder a no\u00e7\u00e3o do tempo?<\/b><\/p>\n

4. Como narrarias o teu percurso de vida em menos de 2 minutos?<\/p>\n

5. Se pudesses aprender qualquer coisa, o que escolherias e porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n

6. Est\u00e1 satisfeito com a sua vida profissional e pessoal atual?<\/p>\n

7. Quais s\u00e3o os teus sonhos para o futuro?<\/p>\n

8. What would constitute a \u201cperfect\u201d day for you?<\/b><\/p>\n

9. Se pudesse mudar alguma coisa em si, o que \u00e9 que mudaria?<\/p>\n

10. O que \u00e9 que v\u00ea como pontos comuns entre n\u00f3s?<\/p>\n

11. O que \u00e9 que mais temes?<\/b><\/p>\n

12. Por que \u00e9 que se sente mais grato na sua vida?<\/p>\n

13. Quais s\u00e3o os tr\u00eas momentos mais marcantes da sua vida?<\/p>\n

14. Qual foi o teu pior desgosto?<\/b><\/p>\n

15. De quem \u00e9s mais pr\u00f3ximo na tua fam\u00edlia?<\/p>\n

16. Qual foi a tua primeira impress\u00e3o de mim?\"um17. Se pudesses acordar amanh\u00e3 com uma qualidade ou capacidade que tivesses adquirido, qual seria?<\/p>\n

18. Se pudesses voltar atr\u00e1s e fazer qualquer coisa na tua vida de novo, o que seria?<\/b><\/p>\n

19. O que \u00e9 que procura numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

20. Gostas de cozinhar?<\/p>\n

21. Qual \u00e9 a tua piada mais <\/b>primeiro encontro<\/b> experi\u00eancia?<\/b><\/p>\n

22. Se uma bola de cristal lhe pudesse dizer a verdade sobre si, a sua vida, o futuro ou qualquer outra coisa, o que \u00e9 que gostaria de saber?<\/p>\n

23. What is the scariest thing you\u2019ve ever done?<\/p>\n

24. Para onde sempre quiseste viajar?<\/p>\n

25. H\u00e1 quanto tempo vive nesta cidade e o que \u00e9 que gosta nela?<\/b><\/p>\n

26. Is there something that you\u2019ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven\u2019t you done it?<\/p>\n

27. Qual \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa que lamentas ter perdido?<\/p>\n

28. Tem algum animal de estima\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

29. Se soubesses que daqui a um ano morrerias de repente, mudarias alguma coisa na forma como vives agora? Porqu\u00ea?<\/b><\/p>\n

30. Tem alguma experi\u00eancia engra\u00e7ada ou estranha de encontros em linha?<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se sabe se um segundo encontro correu bem?<\/h2>\n

\"umaBem, claro, o sinal mais \u00f3bvio de que o encontro correu bem \u00e9 um convite para outro encontro.<\/b> However, if you didn’t get the invitation, it’s still not a reason to start panicking. Maybe the other side is waiting for you to take that step and invite them on a third date.<\/p>\n

If you feel happy after your date has finished and think your partner had a great time, too, then it’s the best proof your date was successful.<\/i><\/p>\n

O teu par provavelmente deu-te alguns sinais de que gostam de si<\/a> e estamos ansiosos por vos voltar a ver em breve. Esses sinais incluem <\/b>contacto visual prolongado<\/b><\/a>, provoca\u00e7\u00e3o, riso e toque f\u00edsico.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ah, e o \u00faltimo mas n\u00e3o menos importante sinal de que o seu par j\u00e1 se apaixonou por si \u00e9 se ele o deixar dar-lhe boleia para casa. <\/b>And if you got a goodbye kiss when they were leaving the car, don’t worry, the <\/i>terceiro encontro<\/i> \u00e9 garantido.<\/i><\/p>\n

Encerramento<\/h2>\n

\"umO resultado final \u00e9 que o segundo encontro<\/a> is more significant than the first, but it’s also less important than date number three. However, to get to the third date, you need to pass the second one successfully.<\/p>\n

If you stick to these rules and tips, you have nothing to worry about. You’ll <\/b>pregar nessa segunda reuni\u00e3o<\/b><\/a> e conseguir o terceiro facilmente.<\/b><\/p>\n

Just don’t stress over unimportant things and don’t overthink things too much. If your heart or gut says that you should say or do something, just go for it.<\/p>\n

The point is to get them to like the real you. Your inner voice represents exactly that, the real you, and by shushing it, you’re only ruining your own chances of finding true love.<\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If you’re about to go on a second date with someone you really like, I can already imagine what you’re currently doing… You’re pacing the room, trying to figure out what to talk about with your crush, and worrying about whether you will make a good impression. I do agree that first dates can be…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":136023,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-136021","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/The-Importance-Of-The-Second-Date-And-10-Tips-To-Get-It-Right-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/136021","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=136021"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/136021\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/136023"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=136021"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=136021"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=136021"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}

No entanto, o facto \u00e9 que ambos os parceiros esperam mais afeto f\u00edsico e liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional no <\/b>segundo encontro<\/b>. In other words, the second date is an appropriate time for a first kiss, of course, if you didn’t kiss after o primeiro encontro<\/a>.<\/p>\n