{"id":13611,"date":"2020-04-01T08:01:21","date_gmt":"2020-04-01T08:01:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13611"},"modified":"2022-01-24T13:56:22","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T13:56:22","slug":"acontece-que-a-boa-rapariga-e-enganada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/acontece-que-a-boa-rapariga-e-enganada\/","title":{"rendered":"Isto \u00e9 o que acontece quando uma boa rapariga \u00e9 enganada"},"content":{"rendered":"

She\u2019s generous and kind and caring and always there for those who need her. Even though she has a lot going on in her life, she\u2019s manages to be there for the people whom she loves no matter what.<\/p>\n

She never gives up on people and no matter what happens or how low someone falls, she\u2019ll be there, still, like the light at the end of the tunnel.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s special, you know? She\u2019s one of those who love wholeheartedly. When she falls in love, she falls with her body, mind, and soul. She gives herself completely to the person she loves.<\/p>\n

Even though she\u2019s aware of the little imperfections and flaws, she always chooses to see the good in people and love them just the way they are.<\/p>\n

Ser como ela \u00e9, ser uma boa rapariga<\/a>A sua vida \u00e9 natural para ela.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

It\u2019s in her blood and it\u2019s something very hard to get rid of. It\u2019s not like she ever planned. But people often take it for granted.<\/p>\n

They use her kindness as if it will never get worn out. They call her in their lives when they need her, and they leave her alone when they no longer have any use of her\u2014until the next time.<\/p>\n

It didn\u2019t happen only once. People keep taking and taking without ever giving anything in return to her. And she doesn\u2019t mind because she\u2019s selfless. And because she\u2019s used to it.<\/p>\n

Ela pode suportar muitas coisas. Mas algumas dessas pessoas, pouco a pouco, partem-lhe peda\u00e7os do cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

She can\u2019t bear having someone brincar com ela<\/a> heart. She can\u2019t bear being someone\u2019s last resort<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t used to being let down by people she loves. She isn\u2019t used to hearing promises someone has no intentions to keep.<\/p>\n

There are people who aren\u2019t good to her no matter how much she gives to them.<\/p>\n

There are people who only use her and play with her and her feelings. And she can\u2019t draw the line between them\u2014, actually she\u2019s unable to do so because of the way she is.<\/p>\n

So they continue playing with her. They continue stretching her to the breaking point. And once they\u2019ve played her, everyone is at a loss.<\/p>\n

Quando uma boa rapariga \u00e9 enganada, os seus sentimentos tamb\u00e9m o s\u00e3o.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Tudo o que ela sentia torna-se t\u00e3o estranho para ela. O que quer que fosse ou quem quer que fosse que ela tivesse no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o torna-se demasiado doloroso para manter e ela come\u00e7a a apagar tudo.<\/p>\n

Ela come\u00e7a a fechar os seus sentimentos porque sentir qualquer coisa significa sentir tudo, incluindo a dor. Ela simplesmente desliga tudo.<\/p>\n

A sua confian\u00e7a quebra-se.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Esta ideia de que as pessoas ser\u00e3o boas para ela porque ela n\u00e3o lhes quer mal come\u00e7a a abandon\u00e1-la lentamente.<\/p>\n

Esta ideia de que h\u00e1 bondade em toda a gente come\u00e7a a desvanecer-se.<\/p>\n

And when she decides to welcome someone new, to give that someone her trust, she can\u2019t.<\/p>\n

A sua bondade \u00e9-lhe roubada.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not like she wanted to lose it. It\u2019s not like she had problems being the way she is. But obviously someone else did.<\/p>\n

Someone else didn\u2019t care how she feels or what happens to and with her.<\/p>\n

Eles manipularam-na ao ponto de a fazerem perder todo o bem que tinha dentro de si.<\/p>\n

Ela muda.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Everything in her shifts. She realizes she can\u2019t always be the one who ends up pulling the shorter end of the stick.<\/p>\n

She can\u2019t always be the one giving and not getting anything in return.<\/p>\n

She can\u2019t always be the one getting broken, and used and played in a relationship just because she\u2019s a good person.<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7a a construir muros \u00e0 sua volta.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Depois de tudo o que lhe aconteceu, fica um pouco insegura em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a quem pode confiar.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t know whom she can let in her life and she\u2019s scared to make the same mistakes she did before.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why she starts pushing everyone away. That\u2019s why she lifts her walls high and never lets anyone in.<\/p>\n

Ela torna-se inacess\u00edvel.<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Because of all the pain she\u2019s going through, she doesn\u2019t think straight. She hates herself for being so naive and for allowing people to use her as it pleases them.<\/p>\n

Com toda esta confus\u00e3o a acontecer, torna-se dif\u00edcil falar com ela.<\/p>\n

Her kind words are replaced with sarcastic comments and she just doesn\u2019t listen. Even those who try to approach her with their hearts in their hands can\u2019t come close to her.<\/p>\n

Toda a gente a perde.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Even those who were good to her lose her because she doesn\u2019t know who\u2019s good and who\u2019s bad.<\/p>\n

Ela acreditava que toda a gente era boa e isso custou-lhe muito.<\/p>\n

Por isso, para se afastar dos maus, sacrifica tamb\u00e9m aqueles que realmente gostam dela.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/strong>7 coisas que acontecem quando se perde uma boa rapariga<\/a><\/p>\n

Ela come\u00e7a a ser a sua pr\u00f3pria hero\u00edna.<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Antes, ela corria sempre para ajudar os outros. Estava sempre l\u00e1 para salvar os necessitados e agora que os riscou da sua vida, n\u00e3o tem ningu\u00e9m para salvar.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not like she could save anyone when she\u2019s feels broken, too. She needs to save herself first.<\/p>\n

Toda a bondade que d\u00e1 aos outros come\u00e7a a guardar para si.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Instead of giving it to those who\u2019d just use it and dar por garantido<\/a>A partir de ent\u00e3o, decide ser boa para si pr\u00f3pria. Decide fazer coisas para si pr\u00f3pria, coisas que a fa\u00e7am feliz e que a ajudem a crescer.<\/p>\n

Pouco a pouco, ela come\u00e7a a aprender a ser boa para si pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n

Ela aprende algumas li\u00e7\u00f5es da maneira mais dif\u00edcil.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Even though she didn\u2019t sign up for these life classes, even though she didn\u2019t want to know, life showed her how life can be hard sometimes and how not all people are good.<\/p>\n

Talvez tenha sido ensinada da forma mais dif\u00edcil, mas pelo menos as li\u00e7\u00f5es que aprendeu ser\u00e3o bem recordadas.<\/p>\n

Aprende que agradar a toda a gente n\u00e3o lhe serve de nada.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ser boa f\u00ea-la feliz, mas agradar a toda a gente no final s\u00f3 a esgota f\u00edsica e emocionalmente.<\/p>\n

Porque as pessoas nunca param de receber e ela nunca sabe quando deve parar de dar. Finalmente aprende que agradar a toda a gente n\u00e3o lhe d\u00e1 tempo para agradar a si pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n

Aprende que tem de se defender a si pr\u00f3pria.<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Those people won\u2019t be as good for her as she is for them.<\/p>\n

Que, por vezes, precisa de tomar conta de si pr\u00f3pria antes de tomar conta dos outros.<\/p>\n

She learns that it\u2019s okay to have an opinion that doesn\u2019t agree with everyone else\u2019s and that it\u2019s okay to say it out loud.<\/p>\n

Ela aprende que nem toda a gente \u00e9 boa.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Just because she wouldn\u2019t play with other people\u2019s feelings, it doesn\u2019t mean that they wouldn\u2019t play with hers.<\/p>\n

Just because she\u2019d never hurt anyone deliberately, it doesn\u2019t mean they wouldn\u2019t hurt her.<\/p>\n

Nem toda a gente \u00e9 boa e ela demorou algum tempo a aceitar isso.<\/p>\n

\"Isto<\/p>\n

\"Isto<\/p>\n

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