{"id":13675,"date":"2020-12-01T13:59:41","date_gmt":"2020-12-01T13:59:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13675"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:01:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:01:28","slug":"5-razoes-para-nao-encontrar-o-amor-por-mais-que-se-tente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-razoes-para-nao-encontrar-o-amor-por-mais-que-se-tente\/","title":{"rendered":"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais n\u00e3o consegues encontrar o amor (por mais que tentes)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Embora ser solteiro tenha os seus benef\u00edcios e possa ser muito estimulante, n\u00e3o fomos feitos para passar a vida sozinhos. Fomos feitos para ter algu\u00e9m ao nosso lado para nos ajudar quando nos sentimos em baixo ou para partilhar os nossos momentos felizes.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-razoes-pelas-quais-namorar-uma-rapariga-que-ficou-solteira-vai-escolher-a-vida\/\">Ser solteiro<\/a> \u00e9 \u00f3timo porque se pode usar esse tempo para se dedicar a si pr\u00f3prio. Todos n\u00f3s temos de passar um determinado per\u00edodo da nossa vida sozinhos. Durante esse tempo, veremos quem somos verdadeiramente e o que queremos verdadeiramente.<\/p>\n<p>But if you\u2019re really trying to find love and it\u2019s not going the way you want, maybe there is something more to it. It\u2019s not you, you don\u2019t have to worry about that. You are lovable and you deserve to be loved, no matter what.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t think that if you can\u2019t find love you will always be unable to find it. There is someone out there for you,waiting to be found. Maybe it just takes more time because you\u2019re doing something wrong.<\/p>\n<p><em>Take a look at why it\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/kelly-benamati\/why-is-true-love-so-hard-_b_9155466.html\" rel=\"noopener\">\u00e9 dif\u00edcil para ti encontrar o amor<\/a> por muito que se tente:<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019re needy<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122482\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Young-Woman-Sitting-On-Sofa-Using-Smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher jovem sentada num sof\u00e1 a utilizar um smartphone\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Young-Woman-Sitting-On-Sofa-Using-Smartphone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Young-Woman-Sitting-On-Sofa-Using-Smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Young-Woman-Sitting-On-Sofa-Using-Smartphone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Young-Woman-Sitting-On-Sofa-Using-Smartphone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Young-Woman-Sitting-On-Sofa-Using-Smartphone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Young-Woman-Sitting-On-Sofa-Using-Smartphone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Young-Woman-Sitting-On-Sofa-Using-Smartphone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Young-Woman-Sitting-On-Sofa-Using-Smartphone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>V\u00ea um homem como algo de que realmente precisa e os homens adoram ser necess\u00e1rios porque isso lhes d\u00e1 uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de import\u00e2ncia. Querem ser cuidadores, mas quando essa necessidade ultrapassa os limites, torna-se excessiva.<\/p>\n<p>You have to want a man and not need one. You\u2019re perfectly capable of being on your own and taking care of yourself and you don\u2019t have to have a man to fill that void you feel.<\/p>\n<p>A man will sense that and run away because he won\u2019t want to be tied down and restricted like that.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso respeitar-se mais e ter mais autoestima. Tens de saber que tudo come\u00e7a em ti. Se nos sentirmos mal, emitiremos esse sinal e transferi-lo-emos para os outros \u00e0 nossa volta e eles evitar-nos-\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Se te sentires menos digno, vais <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/validar-saber-sentir-real\/\">procurar valida\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> Se a sua vida for feita de necessidades, os homens fugir\u00e3o de si. Tente ser a melhor vers\u00e3o de si mesma e o resto vai-se encaixar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You fall for the ones you can\u2019t have<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122483\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/thoughtful-woman-alone-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa sozinha na rua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/thoughtful-woman-alone-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/thoughtful-woman-alone-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/thoughtful-woman-alone-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/thoughtful-woman-alone-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/thoughtful-woman-alone-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/thoughtful-woman-alone-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/thoughtful-woman-alone-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/thoughtful-woman-alone-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that you can\u2019t have them, it\u2019s that they are unavailable to you. Maybe they want to be with you, but something is in the way and the situation is far from ideal.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe they are still married, or they live far away from you. Whatever it is, don\u2019t force those kinds of relationships because you\u2019re going to end up hurt and alone.<\/p>\n<p>These kinds of men are the ones you can\u2019t have, so you might as well give up on them right now and save time. Focus on yourself and happiness will come knocking on your door.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c9 inseguro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122484\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-lying-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada deitada na cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-lying-in-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-lying-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-lying-in-bed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-lying-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-lying-in-bed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-lying-in-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-lying-in-bed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-lying-in-bed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 muitos mais problemas que tens de resolver por ti pr\u00f3prio. H\u00e1 muitas coisas sobre si que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o claras para si, quanto mais para outra pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>Ainda tem medo de dar um passo, por isso fecha-se em casa e espera que algu\u00e9m caia do c\u00e9u s\u00f3 para si.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso sair \u00e0 rua e ganhar coragem para o mundo real. Assim que derrubar os seus muros, ver\u00e1 a luz e tudo ser\u00e1 muito mais f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You don\u2019t know how to deal with rejection<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122485\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada no sof\u00e1 e a pensar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-and-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Isto \u00e9 t\u00e3o \u00f3bvio; est\u00e1s a sabotar-te a ti pr\u00f3prio. Assim que as coisas correm como queres e encontras algu\u00e9m que podes amar, desistes por alguma raz\u00e3o inventada.<\/p>\n<p>You do this because you are afraid of getting hurt. You are afraid that he will reject you at some point. Well, look, all of it is a part of your life. Getting hurt is something we\u2019ve all been through and it made us stronger.<\/p>\n<p>It will make you stronger, too. It will turn you into the person you were supposed to be. So, don\u2019t be scared of rejection and open your heart because your heart is strong enough to take anything that life throws at it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tem padr\u00f5es elevados<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122486\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/attractive-beautiful-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita e atraente\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/attractive-beautiful-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/attractive-beautiful-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/attractive-beautiful-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/attractive-beautiful-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/attractive-beautiful-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/attractive-beautiful-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/attractive-beautiful-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/attractive-beautiful-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esperas demasiado dos homens. Tem de compreender que ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 perfeito, nem ele nem voc\u00ea. D\u00ea-lhe alguma folga porque se ele se esfor\u00e7ar o suficiente para a conquistar, isso significa que ele gosta mesmo de si.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t obsess over his flaws because you have flaws too and he finds a way to ignore them or look the other way. When you love someone, you love him because he is the way he is.<\/p>\n<p>He is not perfect and he doesn\u2019t have to be. He is unique, like you are. Therefore, lower your expectations and don\u2019t be so harsh.<\/p>\n<p>Veja quem \u00e9 e como se pode tornar melhor antes de julgar qualquer outra pessoa.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122488\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Cant-Find-Love-No-Matter-How-Hard-You-Try-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 raz\u00f5es pelas quais n\u00e3o consegues encontrar o amor (por mais que tentes)\" width=\"1587\" height=\"2245\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Cant-Find-Love-No-Matter-How-Hard-You-Try-Pinterest.jpg 1587w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Cant-Find-Love-No-Matter-How-Hard-You-Try-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Cant-Find-Love-No-Matter-How-Hard-You-Try-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Cant-Find-Love-No-Matter-How-Hard-You-Try-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Cant-Find-Love-No-Matter-How-Hard-You-Try-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Cant-Find-Love-No-Matter-How-Hard-You-Try-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Cant-Find-Love-No-Matter-How-Hard-You-Try-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1587px) 100vw, 1587px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Although being single has its benefits, and it can be very empowering, we are not meant to spend our life alone. We are made to have someone by our side to help us when we are feeling down or to share our happy moments with. Being single is great because you can use that t3ime&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":122487,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13675","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Cant-Find-Love-No-Matter-How-Hard-You-Try-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":4,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13675","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13675"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13675\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/122487"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13675"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13675"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13675"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}