So, how do you know when you’ve crossed limites da rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>? Isn’t befriending a person an innocent act since it lacks sexual infidelity? After all, you’re simply having conversations. That can’t cause harm to any of the involved parties. Or, can it?<\/p>\n Essencialmente, um caso emocional \u00e9 um caso que car\u00eancias intimidade f\u00edsica<\/b><\/a>e \u00e9 antes marcada por uma forte liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you find that you’ve reached a higher level of intimacy with your friend instead of your current romantic partner, what you’re experiencing isn’t simply a platonic relationship.<\/p>\n Furthermore, if you can’t seem to talk to your partner about how much you appreciate your friendship with this person, it’s probably because you perceive it as much more.<\/p>\n Perhaps your partner isn’t at all aware that you have conversations with them, or they know of it superficially because you don’t dare to reveal any words you exchanged with them.<\/strong> Isto porque se apercebe do significado inadequado que t\u00eam para si.<\/p>\n Besides, your partner would instantly recognise that you seem to share something they can’t quite name, but what definitely lacks in your relationship. Let’s be frank \u2013 you wouldn’t seek another person if you managed to find all you desire in your romantic partner.<\/p>\n Raramente se sabe quando se est\u00e1 no meio de um caso emocional. Pode durar anos sem que se apercebam do quanto est\u00e1 a enfraquecer a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n However, they mostly sense that something is not quite right. So, if you harbor doubts about the true nature of one of your friendships, you’ve come to the right place.<\/p>\n If you closely observe your own behavior when you’re in the presence of your friend, you will eventually gain clarity. There are numerous signs of emotional infidelity that can assist you with that. Now, stay with me and let’s take a closer look!<\/p>\n You may attempt to conceal the truth from others as well as from yourself, but you can’t disregard the feeling. A qu\u00edmica sexual intensa<\/a> \u00e9 toda a confirma\u00e7\u00e3o de que precisa.<\/em><\/p>\n When you gaze upon them, it’s not a friend you see. When you poke fun at each other, you aren’t just enjoying their company.<\/strong> O tens\u00e3o sexual<\/a> \u00e9 bastante evidente, embora se recuse a admiti-lo totalmente.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o gosta de se sentir como um parceiro de trai\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>, so you convince yourself that you aren’t flirting, but rather participating in harmless, friendly teasing.<\/p>\n Sente-se incapaz de confiar no seu parceiro? N\u00e3o consegue ser vulner\u00e1vel com ele?<\/p>\n If your friend is able to offer you what your partner isn’t, it\u2019s natural for you to start seeking them out whenever you’re in need of empathy and support.<\/strong><\/p>\n Regardless if it is an everyday struggle or a life-changing traumatic experience, you’re uncomfortable sharing it with your lover. Why? Because you know you won’t get neither validation nor understanding from them.<\/p>\n J\u00e1 alguma vez deu um passeio com eles e recusou deliberadamente falar disso ao seu parceiro? Nunca lhe conta a dura\u00e7\u00e3o e a natureza das suas conversas?<\/em><\/p>\n If so, it’s due to sentimentos de culpa<\/a>.<\/p>\n You’re not concerned that the friendship might be ruined. You’re rather concerned about how you would explain your actions. A oculta\u00e7\u00e3o de algo \u00e9 o primeiro sinal da sua inadequa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n Prefere continuar a receber o melhor dos dois mundos. As long as you hide it, you don’t have to deal with your faulty relationship nor the fact that you’re hurting both of them<\/strong> porque mesmo que o seu parceiro n\u00e3o fa\u00e7a ideia, ele consegue senti-lo.<\/p>\n You aren\u2019t quite ready para confrontar o seu parceiro<\/a> sobre o que o perturba. Os problemas s\u00e9rios da rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e3o claramente presentes, mas a outra parte ignora-os.<\/p>\n Maybe you feel neglected by your partner while your secret close friend understands what you’re going through perfectly.<\/p>\n You feel as if talking to them is a solution to your problems, but the truth is \u2013 your problems are only becoming more enormous by the day.<\/strong><\/p>\n Everything that drove you to become an emotional cheater is still there, and moreover, other issues have appeared as well \u2013 lies and disrespect.<\/p>\n \u00c9s tu que normalmente os contactas primeiro? Encontra sempre, de alguma forma, um tema adequado para conversar?<\/em><\/p>\n Perhaps you’re not fully conscious of your actions, but a part of you is aware of how wrong they are. This is why it’s not particularly easy to start a conversation with them. Por isso, procura-se a desculpa perfeita, tentando n\u00e3o parecer demasiado ansioso.<\/strong><\/p>\n When you finally start talking, though, it is as effortless as a conversation can be. You devote a lot of time to them, and you always return to them because talking with your partner simply can’t compare.<\/p>\n It\u2019s fairly evident how connected you two are. You invest your emotional energy in each other practically every day.<\/p>\n This is not because you don\u2019t desire such closeness with your partner. You\u2019ve just witnessed many times by now how they don\u2019t possess the ability that your friend does.<\/strong> Pode estar apaixonado por eles, mas isso n\u00e3o faz qualquer diferen\u00e7a.<\/p>\n Love isn\u2019t always enough. What you seek is primarily friendship, and you\u2019ve found that with your caso emocional<\/a> parceiro.<\/p>\n When you are in this person’s company, you feel utter peace. There is no awkwardness nor pretense in order to please each other.<\/p>\n You get along so well because you’re similar.<\/strong> Nunca tens de te preocupar com a possibilidade de os aborreceres com as tuas provoca\u00e7\u00f5es. Pelo contr\u00e1rio, isso excita-os e eles excitam-no a si tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n You share the same sense of humor, make each other’s day by sending hilarious memes, and offer tenderness when your day isn’t all that enjoyable.<\/p>\n Essencialmente, s\u00e3o como dois melhores amigos que juraram guardar segredo.<\/strong> T\u00eam medo de se perderem um ao outro e, por isso, ficam ambos em sil\u00eancio.<\/p>\n Alguma vez os viu namoriscar com um colega de trabalho<\/a>, and suddenly get filled with anger? You know you’re taken yourself, and you have no right to them, but you can’t bear to see them interested in someone other than you.<\/em><\/p>\n Worst of all, you can’t even tell them what a dreadful feeling that is. You can’t tell anyone. You might be acting like a couple without actually being one, but you never express your inner desires. You suffer in silence.<\/p>\n You feel as if your actions don’t count as long as you don’t turn them into a confession. But really, everything you do is a confession.<\/strong><\/p>\n Do you get oddly upset when they don’t return your phone calls, or when they reply to your text hours later? Why do you think that is? Why do you need their presence so much?<\/em><\/p>\n Nunca verbaliza realmente as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, mas elas tornam-se evidentes no que diz a seguir. Sente-se como se possu\u00edsse o seu parceiro amoroso da mesma forma que possui o seu parceiro rom\u00e2ntico.<\/strong><\/p>\n When they slip away from your fingers, you feel powerless. You know they aren’t quite yours, and they can do as they please. This is why you simply turn your distress into a witticism, secretly wishing things were different.<\/p>\n Since you’re spoken for, eventually you realise that you’re not the only relevant party. This forces you to distance yourself from your friend, and to treat them as you would any other.<\/p>\n You yearn for closeness again, but you’re very well aware that you can’t have it, at least not how you once did.<\/strong><\/p>\n Se esta decis\u00e3o representa um enorme problema para si, ent\u00e3o o afeto que sente por eles \u00e9 maior do que pensa. O que precisa talvez seja de uma reavalia\u00e7\u00e3o atenta da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica.<\/p>\n Os casos emocionais s\u00e3o verdadeiramente complexos. Nunca \u00e9 f\u00e1cil lidar com eles. S\u00e3o causados por problemas de relacionamento e trazem consigo outros problemas.<\/p>\n Como \u00e9 que \u00e9 estar num caso? Como \u00e9 que os parceiros de um caso agem? Como \u00e9 que terminam o namoro?<\/em><\/p>\n Bem, essencialmente, h\u00e1 quatro fases de um caso emocional<\/a>. Se quiser saber mais sobre eles, continue a ler.<\/strong><\/p>\n A presen\u00e7a de um outro parceiro requer, em primeiro lugar, uma necessidade n\u00e3o satisfeita. S\u00e3o eles que asseguram a satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o das suas necessidades.<\/strong><\/p>\n Perhaps your partner is too cold, and you’re in need of uma pessoa emp\u00e1tica<\/a> who can understandingly listen to you. Or, perhaps they just don’t understand your sense of humor.<\/em><\/p>\n De qualquer forma, est\u00e1 exausto pela falta de algo que deseja tanto que est\u00e1 pronto para o procurar noutro lugar.<\/p>\n Forming a new friendship has finally fulfilled all your needs. You’re in uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/a> with your partner, all the while receiving the things they\u2019re unable to give you from someone else.<\/strong><\/p>\n N\u00e3o h\u00e1 limites estabelecidos. A intimidade<\/a> sente-se no seu mais alto n\u00edvel. Qualquer tipo de hesita\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 inexistente.<\/p>\n You rarely admit that this is wrong simply because you\u2019re unaware of its seriousness. You may care about both parties, but just not enough to do right by them.<\/em><\/p>\n You finally admit to yourself that what you’re doing is wrong, and you take action towards remedying it.<\/p>\n You’re having a hard time abandoning your friend, but you do lower the level of closeness.<\/strong> You think all issues will be solved by distance, but you don’t realise how confused your friend must be, and how, technically, you are still an emotional cheater.<\/p>\n You don’t realise that the best option would be ending the friendship, or rutura<\/a> com o seu amante principal.<\/p>\n You can’t do it anymore. Hiding how you feel takes strenuous efforts, and you’re finally prepared to sort your problems out.<\/p>\n Ou conversa com o seu parceiro para melhorar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ou abandona-o para come\u00e7ar uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o com o seu amigo.<\/strong><\/p>\n Seja como for, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 mais mentiras. Encontra a sua paz, mas um dos seus parceiros vai sofrer muito.<\/p>\n A resposta \u00e9 sim.<\/em><\/p>\n I’m certain that when you hear the word ‘affair’, what instantly comes to your mind is sexual intercourse. This is, after all, the most discussed type of adultery, and utterly unforgivable at that.<\/p>\n A ideia de que o seu amante est\u00e1 fisicamente envolvido com outra pessoa f\u00e1-la sentir-se t\u00e3o miser\u00e1vel quanto se pode sentir. Sente que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 pior forma de trai\u00e7\u00e3o do que um caso sexual. No entanto, quando experimenta a infidelidade emocional, v\u00ea como estava enganada.<\/em><\/p>\n I don’t wish to compare one painful situation with another. I am merely here to show you how emotional cheating can be just as hurtful.<\/p>\n Sex doesn’t necessarily involve emotional intimacy of any sort while an emotional affair is a much deeper connection with someone who’s NOT your partner.<\/p>\n Think about it. You get so intimate with your friend that you share with them all you somehow can’t reveal to your partner. And, you don’t even confess that this friendship exists in the first place.<\/strong><\/p>\n A batota implica<\/a> concealment, and it’s not only sex that you can conceal. If you find yourself more connected to your friend than your lover, you have a problem.<\/p>\n The answer is YES, assuming the relationship involves all we had previously mentioned. Truth be told, this new \u2018digital\u2019 era of as mensagens de texto e as redes sociais tornaram os assuntos emocionais mais acess\u00edveis<\/a> do que antes.<\/em><\/p>\n \u00c9<\/em> isn’t that relevant, though, which means you sustain your emotional affair. You can meet up regularly, or do nothing but text each other. It’s all the same \u2013 you’re cheating on your partner.<\/em><\/p>\n Not looking at someone’s eyes while talking doesn’t alter the fact that you’re exchanging details which are specifically meant for your primary lover.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, if you’re ever tempted to text someone something \u201csensitive\u201d thinking it will have no harmful effect, I plead with you to think again.<\/p>\n You aren’t just friends. You are rather giving that person hope all the while knowing you will never want any serious involvement with them. Moreover, you are disrespecting your primary partner to whom you should offer all of your affection.<\/p>\n Por vezes.<\/em><\/p>\n Normalmente, mant\u00eam-se emocionais, precisamente porque as pessoas n\u00e3o v\u00eaem neles qualquer mal, como acontece com os casos sexuais.<\/strong> Noutras alturas, por\u00e9m, transformam-se em problemas f\u00edsicos.<\/p>\n It\u2019s hard to say because each situation is very specific. People cheat a lot, but as we\u2019ve established, they aren\u2019t always ready to face themselves. They are guilt-ridden, so they don\u2019t proceed to the next level.<\/p>\n If they do proceed, however, it\u2019s because the sexual desire towards their affair partner has become stronger than the guilt, or else the guilt is nonexistent altogether.<\/p>\n Bastante comum.<\/em><\/p>\n You’ve either started it yourself, or you surely know someone who has. A lot of people engage in conversations with others thinking it lacks meaning, so they simply proceed.<\/p>\n Talvez uma mulher esteja a enviar mensagens de texto a um rapaz que est\u00e1 claramente apaixonado por ela. Ele est\u00e1 constantemente a elogia-a<\/a>e, por vezes, at\u00e9 exprime diretamente os seus sentimentos. Considera-o apenas um amigo, o que lhe diz, sem se incomodar com o seu amor por ela.<\/em><\/p>\n She doesn’t mention it to her boyfriend in order not to hurt his feelings, but she continues to talk to the guy, bringing their connection to a whole new level.<\/em><\/p>\n Pe\u00e7o desculpa por inform\u00e1-lo, mas est\u00e1, de facto, a ter um caso emocional.<\/em><\/p>\n This is why it’s so common. People perceive it as merely a talk when it’s really infidelity.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o necessariamente.<\/em><\/p>\n You may be inclined to think that someone’s tendency for trai\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/a> \u00e9 um sinal de falta de amor pelo seu parceiro. O seu racioc\u00ednio \u00e9 v\u00e1lido e verdadeiro em determinadas situa\u00e7\u00f5es. No entanto, isto pode tornar-se muito mais complexo do que isso.<\/p>\n Essencialmente, um caso emocional acontece devido a duas raz\u00f5es poss\u00edveis:<\/p>\n A person can enter an emotional affair even if they’re in love with their partner, but their relationship has many underlying issues. They are aware of the issues at present, but they don’t see them as deal-breakers.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, procuram solu\u00e7\u00f5es FORA da rela\u00e7\u00e3o prim\u00e1ria. Tanto o confronto como o abandono s\u00e3o op\u00e7\u00f5es que se recusam a escolher.<\/p>\n In this case, there’s nothing in need of fixing in your relationship. You just have feelings for someone other than your partner. Since it’s an affair of the heart, you can’t help but constantly seek them out.<\/em><\/p>\n You don’t depart from your lover because you care for them.<\/strong> Causing them pain is the last thing you want, but you’re completely unaware that that is inevitable whichever choice you opt for.<\/p>\n Reflicta sobre as suas pr\u00f3prias raz\u00f5es e tome uma decis\u00e3o em conformidade. De qualquer modo, ponha fim ao caso.<\/p>\n Trusting your partner again after you’ve been emotionally cheated on isn’t easy. However, it isn’t impossible either. If you both put in the necessary effort to strengthen the bond between you, you will eventually succeed.<\/p>\n You’re not obliged perdoar<\/a> e esquecer de imediato. No entanto, pode tentar compreender a origem prim\u00e1ria do problema e como evitar que volte a acontecer.<\/strong><\/p>\n Eis alguns passos que pode dar para o conseguir e reconstruir a confian\u00e7a na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>:<\/p>\n If you are the one who is emotionally cheating on your partner, you’re probably filled with guilt. While you really ARE the guilty party, holding on to that emotion will benefit neither you nor your partner.<\/p>\n Don’t dwell on self pity. Your focus, then, will be on the past. Isn’t your goal to nurture the relationship you thought was doomed to end?<\/strong><\/p>\n Em vez disso, basta assumir a responsabilidade pelos seus actos. Admite que foste tu que optaste por todas as formas erradas de lidar com os problemas. Admite, e depois procura formas de recuperar o que quase perdeste.<\/em><\/p>\n You do realize that the problems in your relationship arose by you refusing to talk, right? If you do, then it’s time to do things a bit differently.<\/em><\/p>\n If you feel that your partner’s actions or words somehow cause you distress, do not suppress it. You’ve seen that suppression brings nothing good.<\/p>\n Saiba que as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o v\u00e1lidas e que merece ser ouvido.<\/p>\n Afinal, nunca foi culpado por se sentir como se sentia, mas sim pelas ac\u00e7\u00f5es que tomou POR causa do que sentia.<\/strong><\/p>\n Fez amizade com uma pessoa nova? V\u00e1 e conte ao seu parceiro sobre isso. Talvez demore algum tempo a ganhar novamente a sua confian\u00e7a, mas pode come\u00e7ar por nunca mais ter segredos.<\/p>\n Of course, this doesn’t mean that you have no right to a private life. You may be in a relationship, but first of all, you are an individual. It’s perfectly understandable to not want to share certain details with anyone, including your partner, too.<\/strong><\/p>\n You don’t have to give o seu telem\u00f3vel para inspe\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>. You don’t need to unfollow all attractive people on social media for them to trust you again. These are rather unhealthy methods.<\/p>\n No entanto, se esses pormenores envolverem algo que possa desrespeitar a sua cara-metade, ent\u00e3o esconder n\u00e3o \u00e9 a melhor op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong> You’re allowed to have friends, but if you feel strangely about them, perhaps it’s time to finally depart from your partner.<\/p>\n Seeking out a therapist is not a shameful step to undertake. After all, what’s more relevant than your own mental health?<\/em><\/p>\n Conversar sobre como se sente em terapia de casais<\/a> bem como fora dela. Evitar isso \u00e9 precisamente a raz\u00e3o pela qual se chegou a esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Remember that it will be greatly difficult to improve your relationship, but since you’ve taken all these steps, it’s clear how much you care about one another.<\/p>\n O caso pode ter sido uma quebra de confian\u00e7a, mas \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m uma oportunidade para renovar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong> Desta vez, criem um la\u00e7o que nenhum problema poder\u00e1 quebrar.<\/p>\n Naturalmente, nem todos os amigos t\u00eam um objetivo oculto. \u00c9 perfeitamente poss\u00edvel amar platonicamente algu\u00e9m<\/a> e n\u00e3o desejar um envolvimento sexual ou rom\u00e2ntico.<\/em><\/p>\nO que \u00e9 um caso emocional?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n10 sinais de alerta de um caso emocional<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Sente-se atra\u00e7\u00e3o sexual.<\/h3>\n
2. If you’re sad, you come to them.<\/h3>\n
3. Teme que o seu parceiro descubra.<\/h3>\n
4. Queixa-se do seu parceiro a ele.<\/h3>\n
5. Encontra sempre uma raz\u00e3o para se aproximar.<\/h3>\n
6. Tem uma forte liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional.<\/h3>\n
7. You’re practically best friends.<\/h3>\n
8. Sente ci\u00fames.<\/h3>\n
9. Fica-se ligeiramente possessivo.<\/h3>\n
10. You’re close, yet distant.<\/h3>\n
Fases de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Algo est\u00e1 a faltar na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/h3>\n
2. Come\u00e7a a procurar outra pessoa.<\/h3>\n
3. Estabelece limites com eles.<\/h3>\n
4. Abandona-se uma das rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/h3>\n
Um caso emocional \u00e9 adult\u00e9rio?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nAs mensagens de texto s\u00e3o um caso emocional?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nOs casos emocionais transformam-se em casos f\u00edsicos?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nQu\u00e3o comuns s\u00e3o os casos emocionais?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nUm caso emocional \u00e9 amor?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. You’re not satisfied with your current relationship, although you love your partner.<\/h3>\n
2. You’re satisfied with your relationship, but seem to love someone else.<\/h3>\n
Como reconstruir a confian\u00e7a depois de um caso emocional?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Responsabilizar-se.<\/h3>\n
2. Exprimir livremente o que o incomoda.<\/h3>\n
3. N\u00e3o ter mais segredos.<\/h3>\n
4. Tentar aconselhamento matrimonial.<\/h3>\n
How Do You Know It\u2019s Just Friendship?<\/h2>\n
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