{"id":13692,"date":"2020-09-02T08:37:26","date_gmt":"2020-09-02T08:37:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13692"},"modified":"2022-02-10T02:02:10","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T02:02:10","slug":"deu-ha-muito-tempo-agora-vira","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/deu-ha-muito-tempo-agora-vira\/","title":{"rendered":"Desististe h\u00e1 muito tempo - agora \u00e9 a minha vez"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desististe de mim quando didn\u2019t put me as your prior<\/a><\/strong>ity<\/a> mais.<\/strong> Quando eu j\u00e1 n\u00e3o era importante para ti.<\/p>\n

When everything else came before me. When you didn\u2019t care where I was or what I was doing.<\/p>\n

Quando outras pessoas estavam mais acima na tua lista de prioridades do que eu. Eu era a pessoa que devia estar no topo da tua lista e, de alguma forma, estava sempre em \u00faltimo lugar.<\/p>\n

Desististe de mim quando deixaste que o teu amor se desvanecesse.<\/strong> When you got bored, when you didn\u2019t want to try new things.<\/p>\n

When you counted on that love we got in the very beginning to stay there forever and that you didn\u2019t have to do anything about it anymore.<\/p>\n

Continuei a encontrar novas raz\u00f5es para me apaixonar por ti e novas formas de te mostrar isso. Tu escolheste viver na gl\u00f3ria da tua antiga fama.<\/p>\n

Desististe de mim quando recusou-se a fazer um esfor\u00e7o efetivo<\/a> na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Era mais divertido ficar em casa do que sair. Era mais interessante encomendar do que cozinhar em conjunto.<\/p>\n

Era sempre mais interessante passar tempo com os outros do que pensar em como passar tempo de qualidade a s\u00f3s comigo.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Why bother doing anything when we\u2019re already together?<\/p>\n

Acabaram-se as flores, as mensagens de bom dia, os beijos de boa noite, a sedu\u00e7\u00e3o. Deixaste-nos cair numa rotina de velhos casais quando est\u00e1vamos longe de ser velhos.<\/p>\n

Desistiu de mim quando se tornou irrelevante para si perder-me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When nothing I did was important to you anymore. When you didn\u2019t care where I was, whom I was with or how much I was hurting.<\/p>\n

When you didn\u2019t care if I stayed or if I left. You gave up on me in such a way that it made me wonder if I was ever really important to you.<\/p>\n

Esforcei-me tanto para nos manter juntos.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Lutei durante tanto tempo e lutei at\u00e9 n\u00e3o ter mais ar nos pulm\u00f5es, at\u00e9 n\u00e3o ter mais for\u00e7as para me levantar, at\u00e9 ficar demasiado cansada para conseguir sequer formar uma frase na minha cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

E mesmo assim os meus pulm\u00f5es continuavam a respirar por ti, as minhas pernas corriam para ti, os meus bra\u00e7os estavam abertos apenas para ti e a \u00fanica pessoa que tinha na minha cabe\u00e7a eras tu.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Estava sempre a pensar em ti, estava sempre a tentar arranjar novas formas de te fazer ver, de te fazer notar o quanto me esfor\u00e7ava e o quanto me preocupava.<\/p>\n

But you didn\u2019t appreciate me. <\/strong><\/span>You didn\u2019t care that I was always there for you. My efforts meant nothing to you.<\/p>\n

Nothing I ever did was important and nothing I did could wake the old you. It\u2019s like that guy I fell for was long-lost, only I was too blind to see it.<\/p>\n

You couldn\u2019t care less if I was happy or miserable. <\/strong><\/span>Tudo o que estava a acontecer cortava-me o cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t care if I was miserable or how much I was hurting or every time I saw that I didn\u2019t matter to you as much as I did before.<\/p>\n

That I didn\u2019t mean to you half as much as you meant to me.<\/p>\n

Fartaste-te de tudo t\u00e3o facilmente.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o fizeste nada em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso. Deixaste tudo passar como se nada fosse sagrado para ti, como se aquilo por que t\u00ednhamos passado n\u00e3o significasse nada para ti.<\/p>\n

Se algu\u00e9m colocar uma pedra no bolso, ao fim de algum tempo ela acaba por crescer no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, mas n\u00e3o consigo.<\/p>\n

Tudo \u00e9 o que quer que seja para si, tudo \u00e9 tempor\u00e1rio e n\u00e3o tem gra\u00e7a ao fim de algum tempo.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

But I didn\u2019t have that luxury, you know.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Because I\u2019m different. And when I love, I love all the way. I don\u2019t allow myself to get tired, I don\u2019t let myself get bored and I never give up.<\/p>\n

Continuo a lutar enquanto houver algo por que lutar. Enquanto fizer sentido. Lutei desesperadamente.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Lutei por ti como se a minha vida dependesse disso. Tentei e continuei a tentar.<\/p>\n

Continuei a encontrar esperan\u00e7a onde ningu\u00e9m pensou em procurar, fiquei ao teu lado quando qualquer outra pessoa j\u00e1 teria partido h\u00e1 muito tempo.<\/p>\n

I refused to believe that your love came with an expiration date. But I\u2019m done being so blind.<\/p>\n

It took me a while to realize I shouldn\u2019t fight for a man who\u2019s already got one leg out of the door.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o estavas a desistir de mim porque eu tinha feito algo de errado. N\u00e3o estavas a desistir de mim porque eu estava a ser demasiado pegajosa ou porque te tinha desiludido.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Estava a desistir porque comprometer-se com uma \u00fanica pessoa significa realmente tentar todos os dias manter o amor aceso. E isso \u00e9 demasiado para ti.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s my turn to give up.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay, I understand. You got bored, you didn\u2019t want to try anymore, you saw what I brought to the table and you hoped things would be great even when you stopped trying.<\/p>\n

And when they weren\u2019t, instead of waking up, decidiu desistir.<\/a><\/p>\n

Now it\u2019s my turn to give up<\/a>. Now it\u2019s my turn deixar de lutar<\/a> for someone who doesn\u2019t want to stay, for someone who doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m giving up on my daily task of being the only one who actually cares. Now it\u2019s my turn to do to you exactly what you did to me.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll just save my efforts for someone who will notice them. I\u2019ll just save my love for those who won\u2019t take it for granted.<\/p>\n

And I\u2019ll fight for someone who won\u2019t give up on me so easily.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/strong>\u00c9 assim que ela vai desistir de ti<\/a><\/p>\n

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You gave up on me when you didn\u2019t put me as your priority anymore. When I was no longer important to you. When everything else came before me. When you didn\u2019t care where I was or what I was doing. When other people were higher on your priority list than me. I was the one…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":120067,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13692","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/You-Gave-Up-A-Long-Time-Ago-Now-Its-My-Turn-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13692","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13692"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13692\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120067"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13692"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13692"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13692"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}