O casamento exige um trabalho constante em diferentes aspectos, como a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o e o compromisso, <\/b>criar e manter a confian\u00e7a<\/b><\/a>, etc. <\/b>24\/7 happy marriages, aka happily ever after, don’t exist, and every union is individual requiring a different approach.<\/p>\n So, the best thing you can do for your marriage is to learn to navigate through different aspects of your relationship in a healthy way and apply the guidelines that work best for YOU. This is exactly what we’re going to do today.<\/p>\n Below you’ll find all you need to know about princ\u00edpios matrimoniais, 5 linguagens do amor, ultimate <\/b>dicas de casamento<\/b>Como consertar um casamento desfeito (e quando acabar com um)<\/b>.<\/p>\n To wrap it all up in an uplifting tone, we’ll also dive into engra\u00e7ado <\/b>conselhos matrimoniais<\/b> para <\/b>rec\u00e9m-casados<\/b> e conselhos matrimoniais<\/b> cita\u00e7\u00f5es<\/b>. Pronto, firme, vai!<\/p>\n Antes de passarmos aos princ\u00edpios do casamento, tenho vontade de vos recordar o seguinte: Todos os casais est\u00e3o sujeitos a altos e baixos.<\/b><\/p>\n Establishing a healthy and happy marriage is not about reaching perfection. It’s about constant learning and evolving as a couple.<\/p>\n Todos os casais devem redirecionar a sua energia para aprenderem a livrar-se de padr\u00f5es t\u00f3xicos, a serem mais flex\u00edveis, a chegarem a um compromisso e a constru\u00edrem e manterem a confian\u00e7a.<\/b><\/p>\n A healthy marriage is a house that is built on strong pillars, while an unhealthy marriage doesn’t have a strong foundation. With that being said, here are the five pillars of marriage that are crucial for forming a strong union between spouses:<\/p>\n Love is the cornerstone of a lasting marriage. It’s all about “you and me against the rest of the world.” It’s about deep unity between two souls.<\/p>\n O amor \u00e9 paciente e bondoso. \u00c9 rec\u00edproco e altru\u00edsta.<\/i><\/p>\n Amar o seu c\u00f4njuge \u00e9 mais do que apenas dizer Eu amo-te<\/i> ou fazer-lhes ganhar o dia com cita\u00e7\u00f5es de amor emocional<\/a>. It’s about the little things happening on a daily basis and priceless moments of amor incondicional<\/a>.<\/p>\n \u201cTrust is the highest form of human motivation. It brings out the very best in people. But it takes time and patience.\u201d<\/i> \u2013 Stephen R. Covey<\/p>\n O acima <\/b>cita\u00e7\u00e3o sobre quebra de confian\u00e7a<\/b><\/a> serve de introdu\u00e7\u00e3o ao facto de o segundo pilar de uma <\/b>casamento forte<\/b> \u00e9 (e deve ser) a confian\u00e7a.<\/b> Ambos os parceiros precisam de ser capazes de confiar completamente um no outro no que diz respeito a tudo.<\/p>\n Os casais felizes sabem que um bom casamento n\u00e3o se constr\u00f3i sem confian\u00e7a. Porqu\u00ea? Porque onde n\u00e3o h\u00e1 confian\u00e7a, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 amor, respeito, compreens\u00e3o ou f\u00e9.<\/p>\n Todos estes pilares est\u00e3o interligados e desempenham um papel importante no casamento.<\/b><\/p>\n Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o desprovida de confian\u00e7a \u00e9 propensa a explos\u00f5es de ci\u00fames, comportamentos passivo-agressivos e outros elementos t\u00f3xicos que destroem lenta mas seguramente a uni\u00e3o entre os c\u00f4njuges.<\/p>\n Sem respeito m\u00fatuo, os parceiros sentem-se desvalorizados. Quando isso acontece, o casamento come\u00e7a a degradar-se. \u00c9 por isso que cada <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/b> baseia-se na confian\u00e7a e no respeito (e cada <\/b>especialista em rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/b> confirmar\u00e1 isso).<\/b><\/p>\n If you respect your spouse, then you won’t say bad things about them behind their back and won’t make them feel less worthy. You respect their opinions, and you’re ready to compromise.<\/p>\n O respeito deve estar sempre presente desde o <\/b>primeiro ano<\/b> do casamento at\u00e9 \u00e0 \u00faltima.<\/b> Partners who value one another don’t struggle to deal with problems and express their feelings in a healthy way.<\/p>\n Understanding each other’s goals, objectivos de relacionamento<\/a>A compreens\u00e3o e as diferen\u00e7as s\u00e3o a chave para formar uma uni\u00e3o harmoniosa. Sem compreens\u00e3o, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 respeito e vice-versa.<\/p>\n Being able to put yourself in your partner’s shoes is a prerequisite to non-judgmental behavior.<\/p>\n Understanding in marriage encompasses so many things, such as learning your partner’s love languages, respecting their preferences, life choices, and so on.<\/b><\/p>\n Significa compreender que o vosso casamento n\u00e3o \u00e9 perfeito, e nunca o ser\u00e1, mas nunca deixar\u00e3o de tentar ser o melhor que podem ser um para o outro.<\/p>\n In this context, faith is defined as complete trust and confidence in your spouse and your marriage. It’s that feeling of something larger than yourself \u2013 the feeling of belonging with your body, mind, and soul to another human being.<\/p>\n Sem f\u00e9, n\u00e3o se pode viver o casamento como uma unidade divina. Esta pode ser a f\u00e9 em <\/b>Deus<\/b>A vossa f\u00e9 em dias melhores, a vossa for\u00e7a e a vossa dedica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n As long as you believe in your marriage, you won’t think of destroying things with toxic behaviors. Faith is one of the most powerful forces in the universe because it’s driven by your positive thoughts.<\/p>\n Estas s\u00e3o as tr\u00eas coisas mais importantes num casamento:<\/p>\n Um grande casamento baseia-se no desejo m\u00fatuo de se comprometerem um com o outro em todos os aspectos das vossas vidas. Commitment is more than just deciding to stay together (and “tolerate” one another) for a long time.<\/b><\/p>\n It’s about making the relationship last, thinking of new ways to improve things, and being invested all the time, not only when it’s convenient for you.<\/p>\n Love is what connects two souls and serves as a promise that you’ll always be there for each other no matter what happens.<\/p>\n Amor verdadeiro<\/b><\/a> significa colocar as necessidades do seu parceiro em primeiro lugar e dar desinteressadamente sem esperar nada em troca.<\/b> Quando ambos os parceiros est\u00e3o ligados dessa forma, a reciprocidade \u00e9 estabelecida.<\/p>\n Fazer com que o seu parceiro se sinta validado<\/a> e respeitados, expressar o amor de forma criativa e ouvir um ao outro tamb\u00e9m s\u00e3o coisas importantes num casamento. Outros elementos essenciais no casamento s\u00e3o a paci\u00eancia, a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o, a confian\u00e7a, a intimidade, o sentido de humor e a empatia.<\/p>\n De acordo com o Dr. Gary Chapman, existem 5 principais tipos de linguagens do amor<\/a> que as pessoas falam. S\u00e3o explicados no seu livro As 5 linguagens do amor,<\/i> escrito em 1992. Antes de escrever o livro, passou anos a avaliar os diferentes casais que aconselhava.<\/p>\n Chegou \u00e0 conclus\u00e3o de que os parceiros se entendiam muito mal e n\u00e3o compreendiam as suas necessidades. Foi assim que descobriu as 5 linguagens do amor:<\/b><\/p>\n Tal como o nome indica, a linguagem amorosa das palavras de afirma\u00e7\u00e3o tem tudo a ver com a express\u00e3o dos seus sentimentos atrav\u00e9s de palavras faladas, aprecia\u00e7\u00e3o e elogios.<\/p>\n Se voc\u00ea ou o seu parceiro falam esta linguagem do amor, isso significa que gostam de receber Eu amo-te<\/i> mensagens<\/a>, notas de amor<\/a>, textos giros<\/a>, etc. Os elogios tamb\u00e9m est\u00e3o inclu\u00eddos.<\/p>\n A \u00eanfase desta linguagem amorosa est\u00e1 na aten\u00e7\u00e3o total. Vivemos num mundo em que pousar os nossos smartphones exige muito esfor\u00e7o e vontade. Momentos de contacto visual profundo<\/a> s\u00e3o raros ou inexistentes nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n As pessoas com a linguagem amorosa do tempo de qualidade sentem-se amadas se o seu parceiro estiver presente e concentrado nelas.<\/b> Isto significa ouvir ativamente, olhar nos olhos uns dos outros e concentrar-se em estar no momento.<\/p>\n As pessoas com esta linguagem amorosa expressam e compreendem o amor atrav\u00e9s do afeto f\u00edsico, tamb\u00e9m conhecido como toque f\u00edsico. Isto inclui fazer amor, dar as m\u00e3os, massagens, tocar no bra\u00e7o de forma afectuosa, etc.<\/p>\n Inclui tamb\u00e9m muitos mimos. Uma pessoa com o <\/b>toque f\u00edsico linguagem do amor<\/b><\/a> s\u00f3 quer estar perto do seu parceiro e sentir o seu calor e afeto.<\/b><\/p>\n Esta linguagem do amor gira em torno de fazer pequenas coisas (actos de servi\u00e7o) para o seu parceiro. Pode ser qualquer coisa, desde ajudar a lavar a loi\u00e7a a deitar fora o lixo.<\/p>\n Uma pessoa com esta linguagem amorosa tamb\u00e9m prefere demonstrar o seu afeto atrav\u00e9s de <\/b>pequenas coisas<\/b>, v\u00e1rias tarefas, e <\/b>tarefas dom\u00e9sticas<\/b>.<\/b> If your partner speaks this love language, remember to do nice things for them, and they’ll understand the depth of your ultimate love.<\/p>\n People with the receiving gifts love language feel loved if their partner showers them with gifts. But, don’t get me wrong. The emphasis is not primarily on gifts or how expensive they are but on the time and effort the gift giver put into it.<\/p>\n This love language is primarily based on the appreciation of what’s behind the gift. Look at it this way.<\/b><\/p>\n When you take time to choose a perfect gift for your loved one (or you give them a DIY gift), it means that you’re determined to make them feel special. It means that you really know their preferences.<\/p>\n Cada presente para eles \u00e9 uma recorda\u00e7\u00e3o, quer se trate de algo aparentemente trivial ou extravagante.<\/p>\n LEMBRE-SE:<\/b> Learning to speak your partner’s love language will make them feel loved and appreciated. The same thing applies to them.<\/p>\n If you want to form a happy or happier marriage, then it’s logical that you’ll have to incorporate some ‘ground rules’ into your relationship.<\/p>\n Cada casamento \u00e9 \u00fanico, com os seus pr\u00f3prios desafios, mas o que deve ser comum a todos eles \u00e9 a quantidade saud\u00e1vel de esfor\u00e7o que precisa de ser investido.<\/b><\/p>\n Cada casal tem a op\u00e7\u00e3o de lutar pelo seu casamento e continuar a procurar formas de tornar as coisas interessantes. Se estiverem dispostos a investir em si pr\u00f3prios, o seu casamento ser\u00e1 duradouro.<\/p>\n Dito isto, aqui ficam alguns dos melhores conselhos para casais casados:<\/p>\n Please keep in mind that the list above shouldn’t be treated only as a set of rules that need to be followed blindly if you want your marriage to succeed.<\/p>\n Estas s\u00e3o apenas coisas b\u00e1sicas que todos <\/b>casal<\/b> e t\u00eam todo o direito de lhe acrescentar novos elementos ou de os excluir.<\/b><\/p>\n However, you can’t exclude some important things like compromising or giving each other space because, without it, chances are your marriage won\u2019t function.<\/p>\n Here’s the ultimate truth: Life is hard and married life is no exception. Once you tie the knot, you enter the zone of problems with in-laws (and other family members), exes, kids, bills, bank accounts, trust issues, diferentes tipos de infidelidade<\/a>, etc.<\/p>\n Then, one day, you wake up and realize you’re in a legit nightmare that others call marriage. No, I’m just trying to make things less serious with a little bit of humor, so I hope I made you laugh. If I didn’t, then keep reading.<\/p>\n So, how do you fix a broken marriage? Wait, is it even possible to fix a marriage that is, let’s say, dysfunctional?<\/b><\/p>\n Um simples sim. ALERTA CL\u00cdNICO<\/b>: \u00c9 poss\u00edvel reparar um casamento desfeito se ambos os parceiros estiverem dispostos a trabalhar nesse sentido. Ent\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que se faz isso?<\/p>\n Em primeiro lugar, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio avaliar o seu casamento. Isto significa identificar os problemas que s\u00e3o a causa do seu desequil\u00edbrio numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Para o ajudar a perceber em que ponto se encontra o seu casamento, eis alguns dos principais <\/b>indicadores de um casamento infeliz<\/b><\/a>:<\/b><\/p>\n You know your marriage is no longer in the healthy zone if you feel like you’re no longer the melhores amigos<\/a> you used to be. You no longer prioritize each other’s needs, but there’s a huge gap between the two of you, both physically and mentally. However, not all hope is lost.<\/p>\n Eis algumas coisas que pode fazer para o ajudar <\/b>conserte o seu casamento<\/b><\/a>:<\/b><\/p>\n Se tudo o resto falhar, pode sempre procurar a ajuda de um <\/b>casamento autorizado<\/b> e <\/b>terapeuta familiar<\/b>, <\/b>psicoterapeuta<\/b>ou a ajuda de qualquer outro profissional de que possa necessitar.<\/b><\/p>\n Lembre-se de trabalhar os seus maus h\u00e1bitos e de lidar imediatamente com os problemas do casamento, em vez de os deixar criar um grande fosso entre os dois.<\/p>\n Os casamentos felizes t\u00eam a ver com investir no seu bem-estar, cuidar um do outro e ser companheiros de equipa em vez de inimigos.<\/p>\n Now, let’s be honest with ourselves. Thinking about ending a marriage doesn’t happen all of a sudden because this is a mental process that lasts for some time until it escalates.<\/p>\n Come\u00e7a com sentimentos de <\/b>\u00f3dio contra a sua mulher<\/b><\/a> ou marido, problemas de confian\u00e7a e outros problemas conjugais.<\/b> M\u00e9dio<\/i> afirma que o comportamento desdenhoso \u00e9 o principal fator de previs\u00e3o do div\u00f3rcio. <\/a>Isto inclui insultos, sarcasmo, revirar de olhos e todos os tipos de desrespeito.<\/p>\n It’s when you can’t think of one single reason you should stay with your spouse. You no longer see them as the person they used to be.<\/p>\n Your marriage changed, and so did you, but is this the reason to end things between the two of you? Deciding to end a marriage is not an easy decision, but sometimes it’s inevitable and the best thing to do.<\/p>\n Se a sua resposta for \"sim\" \u00e0 maioria (ou a todas) das perguntas seguintes, deve considerar a possibilidade de p\u00f4r termo ao seu casamento:<\/b><\/p>\n RELACIONADO: 15 Painful Signs Your Husband Doesn\u2019t Love You Anymore<\/a><\/p>\n N\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de que acabar com um casamento deve ser o \u00faltimo recurso. <\/b>Porqu\u00ea? Porque acabar com algo e abandonar pessoas<\/a> \u00e9 a coisa mais f\u00e1cil que pode fazer, mas lutar por ela \u00e9 a mais dif\u00edcil e vale totalmente a pena se o seu casamento ainda tiver potencial.<\/p>\n Agora, podem pensar: Mas como \u00e9 que eu sei se o meu casamento ainda tem potencial?<\/i><\/p>\n If you still genuinely love each other, you’ll be willing to do anything to make your relationship work. If you don\u2019t, you’ll make excuses or try to find happiness elsewhere.<\/p>\n Ent\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 que vai ser? Como sempre, a escolha \u00e9 sua.<\/p>\n Casamentos de sucesso<\/i> s\u00e3o constru\u00eddos para o <\/i>longo curso<\/i>. Every day brings new challenges that either strengthen or weaken your marriage. It’s up to you which outcome will prevail.<\/i><\/p>\n If you’re teammates, the balance will be guaranteed, and with it, a <\/i>casamento feliz<\/i>. Aqui est\u00e3o algumas pe\u00e7as de <\/i>conselhos sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/i><\/a> para <\/i>casais casados<\/i>:<\/i><\/p>\n 1. “A <\/b>casamento bem sucedido<\/b> requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” \u2013 Mignon McLaughlin<\/b><\/p>\n 2. “Make your faith a priority. Pray with each other and for each other. Every marriage is stronger with God in the middle of it.” \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 3. “A great marriage isn\u2019t something that just happens; it\u2019s something that must be created.” \u2013 Fawn Weaver<\/p>\n 4. “The secret to a happy marriage is if you can be at peace with someone within four walls, if you are content because the one you love is near to you, either upstairs or downstairs, or in the same room, and you feel that warmth that you don\u2019t find very often, then that is what love is all about.” \u2013 Bruce Forsyth<\/p>\n 5. “A <\/b>bom casamento<\/b> is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love.” \u2013 Pearl S. Buck<\/b><\/p>\n 6. “A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers.” \u2013 Ruth Bell Graham<\/p>\n 7. “Marriage stands the test of time when both you and your spouse work towards making things better. And we are tested the most when we face adversities. If you can sail through the adversities as one, as a team, then you have won half the battle.” \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 8. “The <\/b>grandes casamentos<\/b> are partnerships. It can\u2019t be a <\/b>grande casamento<\/b> without being a partnership.” \u2013 Helen Mirren<\/b><\/p>\n 9. “A husband and wife may disagree on many things, but they must absolutely agree on this: to never, ever give up.” \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 10. “So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s going to be really hard; we’re gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, every day. You and me… every day.” \u2013 Nicholas Sparks<\/p>\n Laughter has always been the best remedy for everything, including marriage. If you haven’t laughed in a while (and the possibility of that is really high if you’re married), then I might have something in store for you.<\/i><\/p>\nQuais s\u00e3o os 5 princ\u00edpios do casamento?<\/h2>\n
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2. CONFIAN\u00c7A<\/h3>\n
3. RESPEITO<\/h3>\n
4. COMPREENS\u00c3O<\/h3>\n
5. F\u00c9<\/h3>\n
Quais s\u00e3o as 3 coisas mais importantes num casamento?<\/h2>\n
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O que s\u00e3o as 5 linguagens do amor?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Palavras de afirma\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n
2. Tempo de qualidade<\/h3>\n
3. Tato f\u00edsico<\/h3>\n
4. Actos de servi\u00e7o<\/h3>\n
5. Receber presentes<\/h3>\n
As melhores dicas para o casamento que todos os casais devem seguir<\/h2>\n
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Como consertar um casamento desfeito<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nSinais de um casamento infeliz<\/h3>\n
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O que fazer<\/h3>\n
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Quando terminar um casamento<\/h2>\n
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As 10 melhores cita\u00e7\u00f5es de conselhos matrimoniais<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n13 conselhos de casamento engra\u00e7ados para rec\u00e9m-casados<\/h2>\n
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