{"id":13705,"date":"2018-02-02T09:10:42","date_gmt":"2018-02-02T09:10:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13705"},"modified":"2022-01-09T19:24:07","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T19:24:07","slug":"o-homem-das-cartas-devia-ter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-homem-das-cartas-devia-ter\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para o homem que deveria ter estado l\u00e1 para ela"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ela apercebeu-se de que, por vezes, as pessoas seguem caminhos diferentes, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es desmoronam-se<\/a> and that whatever you do and no matter how hard you try, the harsh truth is that sometimes it just wasn\u2019t meant to be. What she never imagined was that the end could come so suddenly, without any indication that it would happen. And the saddest thing of all is that it came when she needed you the most.<\/p>\n

She relied on you to be there for her as she was so many times for you but you were nowhere to be found. You had forgotten or you never knew what love was about. Let me tell you, so it sticks\u2014love is for better or worse. You don\u2019t just abandon someone when they are going through a rough patch.<\/p>\n

Imagina como te sentirias se ela te deixasse quando estivesses a passar por uma fase dif\u00edcil?<\/em> E tiveste mais do que uma. Ela estava ao teu lado, mesmo quando era preciso toda a positividade que ela tinha dentro de si para te ajudar a sentires-te melhor. Eras importante para ela e ela nunca quis que sentisses que estavas sozinho em tudo isto. Ela sempre se certificou de que sabias que ela te apoiava.<\/p>\n

E como \u00e9 que lhe pagou?<\/em> Ao baldar-se quando ela mais precisava de si, quando precisava que fosse a sua rocha. Podes dizer honestamente que quando te olhas ao espelho, v\u00eas um homem decente, um ser humano decente?<\/p>\n

She realized that sometimes people drift away and relationships fall apart but what she couldn\u2019t come to terms with is that a few nights before that, you swore you loved her, you swore you would be there for her no matter what, you said she was your one and only for the rest of your lives. She believed you. That\u2019s why she is wondering now: \u201cWhere did all those promises go? Where did all that love go? Who are you and where is the man I used to call my own?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

She needed you the most then. She didn\u2019t need you to solve anything or to fight her battles\u2014she just needed your presence. She needed to know that she wasn\u2019t alone in this world, that she had her greatest supporter right there just so she could lean on him and rest for a while. To have someone to make her smile when her harsh life was making her cry.<\/p>\n

E o que \u00e9 que fez em vez disso?<\/em> Acrescentaste mais l\u00e1grimas ao seu belo rosto. E durante muito, muito tempo, desde o momento em que deixaste de estar presente at\u00e9 ao momento em que ela voltou a p\u00f4r-se de p\u00e9, ela chorou at\u00e9 adormecer.<\/p>\n

As l\u00e1grimas dela assombram-no \u00e0 noite?<\/em><\/p>\n

Depois de tudo isso, ela ainda n\u00e3o lhe desejava mal. Ela diz que est\u00e1 grata por se ter ido embora quando o fez. Ensinaste-lhe que ela \u00e9 mais forte do que alguma vez imaginou ser. Ela disse que demorou algum tempo, mas finalmente percebeu que nunca foste o homem certo para ela.<\/a><\/p>\n

Em suma, ela est\u00e1 grata pelas suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es, ou melhor, pela sua falta de ac\u00e7\u00f5es, porque isso a fez abrir-lhe os olhos e v\u00ea-lo como realmente era<\/a>. Ela j\u00e1 quase n\u00e3o pensa em ti. Ela tem a sua pr\u00f3pria vida para viver e os seus pr\u00f3prios sonhos para perseguir.<\/p>\n

Do you know that she has that perfect smile on her face again? And it\u2019s all because of her. She got up when nobody thought she could. She survived everything all on her own. She became her own hero. She rebuilt her life and she reinvented herself. She is amazing. She is someone you will regret losing your whole life.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She realized that sometimes people go their separate ways, relationships fall apart and that whatever you do and no matter how hard you try, the harsh truth is that sometimes it just wasn\u2019t meant to be. What she never imagined was that the end could come so suddenly, without any indication that it would happen….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":13715,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13705","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/quinten-de-graaf-278839.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13705","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13705"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13705\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13715"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13705"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13705"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13705"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}