{"id":13711,"date":"2020-06-02T09:25:05","date_gmt":"2020-06-02T09:25:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13711"},"modified":"2022-01-13T00:17:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T00:17:00","slug":"o-gajo-7-coisas-nao-quer-saber","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-gajo-7-coisas-nao-quer-saber\/","title":{"rendered":"Se o teu homem faz estas 7 coisas, ele n\u00e3o quer saber de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No fundo, todos n\u00f3s desejamos o amor. Todos queremos ser amados porque n\u00e3o fomos concebidos para estarmos sozinhos.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 uma necessidade insaci\u00e1vel que temos de satisfazer, uma necessidade de amor e de companhia.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s true that we were born alone and that we die alone, but going through our life alone just isn\u2019t right.<\/p>\n<p>I know it\u2019s hard to be alone, but believe me, it is better being alone than in an unhappy relationship, pretending that you are happy.<\/p>\n<p>No one deserves to be someone\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/verdade-recusar-o-plano-de-reserva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">plano de reserva<\/a> porque todos n\u00f3s temos o nosso par e precisamos de o encontrar.<\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t settle and don\u2019t be blind on purpose to avoid being alone.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let him fool you by pretending to love you. That is not love, that is nothing but the pain you will feel at some point. Believe me, you\u2019re better off alone.<\/p>\n<p>Mereces algu\u00e9m que te mostre que te ama. Merece algu\u00e9m que apoie as suas palavras e n\u00e3o as atire para o ar sem sentido.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/prefiro-ficar-solteiro-escolher-contentar-me-com-menos-merecimento\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Prefiro ficar solteiro do que contentar-me com menos do que mere\u00e7o<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Se acha que n\u00e3o \u00e9 a primeira escolha dele, leia estes sinais para ter a certeza e deixe-o em paz:<\/p>\n<h2>1. Ele envergonha-a em p\u00fablico<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92121\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public.jpg\" alt=\"homem a envergonhar a namorada em p\u00fablico\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-embarrassing-her-girlfriend-in-public-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s say you have a situation in public and he is there with you. If he doesn\u2019t take your side and stick up for you, his feelings for you are not real.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t have the courage to defend someone he allegedly loves, there is something wrong in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Or if he does something to embarrass you, tells a joke at your expense or wants to look like a big shot in front of his friends by making snarky comments about you, he doesn\u2019t give a damn about you.<\/p>\n<p>Provavelmente, \u00e9 uma coisa \u00e0 parte, s\u00f3 para matar o tempo. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/deixar-um-homem-que-nao-te-merece\/\">Deix\u00e1-lo imediatamente<\/a> porque mereces muito mais.<\/p>\n<h2>2. He doesn\u2019t bother to kiss and make up after a fight<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92122\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-using-her-phone-during-night-while-lying-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a usar o telem\u00f3vel durante a noite, deitada na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-using-her-phone-during-night-while-lying-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-using-her-phone-during-night-while-lying-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-using-her-phone-during-night-while-lying-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9s tu que d\u00e1s sempre o primeiro passo? Acho que pega sempre primeiro no telem\u00f3vel e envia-lhe uma mensagem ou telefona-lhe depois de se acalmar.<\/p>\n<p>First of all, it\u2019s completely normal that couples fight, but if you are always the one who makes it all better, then something is wrong.<\/p>\n<p>It can\u2019t be that he is that stubborn that he doesn\u2019t want to be the one to say sorry first.<\/p>\n<p>To test if he is just stubborn or he couldn\u2019t care less if you make up or not, next time you have a fight, don\u2019t touch your phone after you cool off.<\/p>\n<p>Deixe-o dar o primeiro passo e veja quanto tempo vai demorar e se ele se vai dar ao trabalho de atender o telefone ou aparecer primeiro.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t, there\u2019s your reason to dump the bastard who only wastes your time.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Ele quer que mudes a tua apar\u00eancia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92123\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Man-and-woman-are-standing-separately-with-arms-folded.jpg\" alt=\"Homem e mulher est\u00e3o de p\u00e9, separadamente, de bra\u00e7os cruzados\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Man-and-woman-are-standing-separately-with-arms-folded.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Man-and-woman-are-standing-separately-with-arms-folded-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Man-and-woman-are-standing-separately-with-arms-folded-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t have the right to tell you what to wear and what not to wear.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t have the right to tell you how to do your make-up, or whether it is too much or not enough.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso ter o controlo da sua vida e tomar as decis\u00f5es que lhe dizem respeito.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to wear revealing clothes or clothes that cover you up, there shouldn\u2019t be anyone who has the power to stop you. If he does these things to you, you don\u2019t need him at all.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Apresenta-o como um amigo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92124\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-group-of-friends-sitting-on-a-park-bench.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos sorridentes sentados num banco de jardim\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-group-of-friends-sitting-on-a-park-bench.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-group-of-friends-sitting-on-a-park-bench-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-group-of-friends-sitting-on-a-park-bench-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Bem, isto \u00e9 uma enorme bandeira vermelha! Quando ele te leva a sair e te apresenta \u00e0 fam\u00edlia ou aos amigos pelo teu nome ou, pior ainda, como amiga dele, n\u00e3o \u00e9s definitivamente a namorada dele.<\/p>\n<p>He is probably embarrassed of you, your behavior or the way you look, but the most common reason is that he is just terrified of commitment and you don\u2019t need that. You need a real man who will be proud of having you as his girlfriend.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Ele \u00e9 abusivo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92125\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-at-table-and-arguing.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado \u00e0 mesa e a discutir\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-at-table-and-arguing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-at-table-and-arguing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-at-table-and-arguing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ningu\u00e9m tem o direito de o magoar de forma alguma, especialmente f\u00edsica ou emocionalmente.<\/p>\n<p>Alguns homens s\u00e3o t\u00e3o cobardes e escondem-se por detr\u00e1s desse exterior duro, quando a verdade \u00e9 que s\u00e3o t\u00e3o fracos e inseguros.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, provam a sua for\u00e7a atacando aqueles que pensam ser mais fracos do que eles. Se ele alguma vez lhe puser as m\u00e3os em cima, deixe-o nesse mesmo instante.<\/p>\n<p>You mustn\u2019t endure violence\u2014no one should. You shouldn\u2019t be afraid of anyone, let alone a wuss like him.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Ele nunca est\u00e1 l\u00e1 para ti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92126\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Couple-ignoring-each-other-in-living-room-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"Casal ignora-se na sala de estar em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Couple-ignoring-each-other-in-living-room-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Couple-ignoring-each-other-in-living-room-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Couple-ignoring-each-other-in-living-room-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You have no support whatsoever. When something is bothering you and you\u2019re feeling down, he should be there for you to make you feel better.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t even have to say anything, it\u2019s enough that he is by your side. He should next to you and listen to what you want to get off your chest.<\/p>\n<p>If he disappears in the times when you need him the most, then sorry, but he doesn\u2019t give a damn about you or your problems.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nunca-foi-necessario-sair\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Estou indo embora porque voc\u00ea nunca esteve l\u00e1 quando eu precisei de voc\u00ea<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>7. Evita falar sobre o futuro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92127\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-man-and-woman-sitting-on-the-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"casal homem e mulher sentados no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-man-and-woman-sitting-on-the-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-man-and-woman-sitting-on-the-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-man-and-woman-sitting-on-the-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todos os f\u00f3bicos de compromissos fazem isto. Assusta-os falar do vosso futuro juntos porque n\u00e3o o v\u00eaem no deles.<\/p>\n<p>For now, you are something casual and he doesn\u2019t want to be too attached.<\/p>\n<p>Se mencionar o vosso futuro juntos, ele evitar\u00e1 falar sobre isso ou mudar\u00e1 o assunto para outra coisa. Se continuar a insistir em falar, ele ficar\u00e1 irritado e zangado.<\/p>\n<p>Se o seu homem faz isto frequentemente, ent\u00e3o ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 para si. Deixe-o e d\u00ea a si pr\u00f3pria outra oportunidade de amar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92117\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-Your-Guy-Does-These-7-Things-He-Doesnt-Give-A-Damn-About-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se o teu homem faz estas 7 coisas, ele n\u00e3o quer saber de ti\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-Your-Guy-Does-These-7-Things-He-Doesnt-Give-A-Damn-About-You-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-Your-Guy-Does-These-7-Things-He-Doesnt-Give-A-Damn-About-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-Your-Guy-Does-These-7-Things-He-Doesnt-Give-A-Damn-About-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Deep inside, we all crave love. We all want to be loved because we weren\u2019t designed to be alone. There is this insatiable need that we have to satisfy, a need for love and company. It\u2019s true that we were born alone and that we die alone, but going through our life alone just isn\u2019t&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":92118,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13711","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-Your-Guy-Does-These-7-Things-He-Doesnt-Give-A-Damn-About-You.jpg",800,546,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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