Worry not… things are not that simple in real life (for the majority of regular guys, of course).<\/p>\n
From going on a first date, making a few mistakes, and escaping the friendzone like a boss, to improving your flirting game\u2026 the process of getting a girlfriend requires a special set of skills.<\/em><\/p>\n Or, at least, that’s what you’ve been taught.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ent\u00e3o, hoje \u00e9 o dia em que tudo muda. Estamos aqui reunidos hoje para desmistificar o mito de arranjar uma namorada, passando por todas as 4 fases do processo (aproximar-se das raparigas<\/a>, dating, making a move, and making it official). In addition, we’ll also talk about meeting girls online.<\/p>\n If this is something that might interest you, I encourage you to keep reading because I’m sure we’ll have plenty of FUN together!<\/p>\n Here’s the uncensored truth: Todos os rapazes s\u00e3o capazes de arranjar uma namorada se estiverem dispostos a fazer um esfor\u00e7o.<\/strong> Agora, deixem-me explicar melhor.<\/p>\n This means that you don’t have to look like Johnny Depp, Robert Pattinson, or Liam Hemsworth in order to seduce a girl you like.<\/p>\n Also, you don’t need to have a six-figure salary (in most cases) in order to win a girl. I hope you noticed my sarcastic attempts in the previous sentence.<\/p>\n O que \u00e9 preciso fazer para que uma rapariga se apaixone por n\u00f3s?<\/strong><\/p>\n Convida-a para sair. Sair num encontro. Manter a conversa em curso<\/a>. Make a move on her. CLICHE ALERT: Make her feel special. And, the most important of all… be the best version of yourself.<\/p>\n Basically, winning a girl is not about pretending to be something you’re not, or reaching perfection. It’s about using all your potential and redirecting it into becoming the best version of yourself.<\/p>\n What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you see a cute or a hot girl with some ordinary guy? I bet it’s the following: Este tipo deve ser rico ou extremamente talentoso a seduzir raparigas.<\/strong><\/p>\n Seriously? Why do we have to make everything about money or some superhuman seducing skills? Why can’t a regular guy attract a good-looking female just because he CAN?<\/p>\n If you’re one of those guys wondering how to get a girlfriend with minimum effort, then I’m sorry to disappoint you, but you’re in the wrong place.<\/p>\n Here’s the truth.<\/strong><\/p>\n Se puder catch a girl’s attention<\/a> and impress her, there’s no doubt that you can win her. Getting girls is not quantum physics, even though many guys perceive it as such. I daresay that this is closely connected with their insecurities.<\/p>\n Desde as paixonetas do liceu at\u00e9 aos encontros na idade adulta, alguns rapazes nunca se livram da ideia de que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o suficientemente bons para qualquer rapariga.<\/p>\n So, they give up on pursuing a girl before they even try. Beautiful women are human beings, too, so there’s no need to over idolize them.<\/p>\n Antes de decidir abordar uma rapariga, tem de reavaliar a sua perspetiva, aumentar a sua confian\u00e7a e confiar nas suas capacidades de namoro.<\/strong> Todas estas coisas v\u00e3o ajud\u00e1-lo a aproximar-se das raparigas sem medo de ser rejeitado.<\/p>\n Getting a girlfriend is often easier said than done, but it’s not impossible. Following the right tips and boosting your dating skills is a must. Below, you’ll find four stages on how to get a girlfriend that consist of simple steps and lots of dating tips.<\/p>\n Aproximar-se e atrair o sexo oposto tem tudo a ver com a ATITUDE<\/strong>. However, remember that if you fake it, you won’t make it. Focus on accentuating your trademarks, personality, self-esteem, and other things that differentiate you from the rest.<\/p>\n Don’t try too hard. If you want to attract women like a boss, then be playful and thoughtful. Here’s exactly what you need to do:<\/p>\n A s\u00e9rio. Este \u00e9 o maior erro de que quase todos os homens s\u00e3o culpados quando se trata de fazer uma investida numa rapariga<\/a>. When they really like a girl or when they’re determined to get a girlfriend, they turn into a homem-que-est\u00e1-pronto-para-fazer-tudo-por-uma-menina-que-ele-gosta.<\/strong><\/p>\n I’m not saying that you should generally reduce your efforts or stop using deodorant. Instead, stop trying TOO hard (read: constantly going out of your way for a girl) because that’s neither hot nor healthy.<\/strong><\/p>\n Se uma rapariga lhe dissesse para fazer algo extremamente est\u00fapido por ela, f\u00e1-lo-ia? O mais prov\u00e1vel \u00e9 que o fizesses porque gostas dela!<\/p>\n Bem, n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a que isto \u00e9 um sinal de baixa auto-confian\u00e7a, o que \u00e9 um grande desest\u00edmulo e n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma carater\u00edstica impressionante (acredite em mim).<\/p>\n Stop trying too hard, but also don’t be a careless douchebag<\/strong>. Instead, be classy, stand up straight, show some style, and let her know that you know what you’re doing (even if you have no idea).<\/p>\n Okay. So, if you want to get a girlfriend, you need to make sure that women notice you, right? What is the best way to catch anyone’s attention? Let me help you with this one.<\/p>\n If your style and overall appearance give off the vibe that you’re not taking good care of yourself, or not even trying to match colors (even though this is less important), you won’t intrigue anyone.<\/p>\n I’m not saying that you should wear only suits 24\/7 or have the perfect hairstyle even when you sleep, but you should definitely work on presenting yourself in an interesting and appealing way.<\/strong><\/p>\n Lembre-se que o objetivo \u00e9 ser mais convidativo para as raparigas nos centros comerciais, gin\u00e1sios, caf\u00e9s ou onde quer que v\u00e1. A sua apar\u00eancia \u00e9 a primeira coisa que as outras potenciais namoradas reparam em si, por isso, causar uma boa impress\u00e3o \u00e9 a chave quando se trata de aprender a conquistar uma rapariga.<\/p>\n And, don’t forget the importance of trademarks. This is something that differentiates you from the rest. It could be a unique piece of jewelry, a tailor-made leather jacket, you name it. The more original, the better.<\/p>\n Antes de abordar uma rapariga, sugiro que repita as seguintes frases algumas vezes:<\/p>\n “She won’t reject talking to me. She won’t make fun of me. She’s not out of my league.”<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Nunca \u00e9 demais sublinhar a import\u00e2ncia de nos sentirmos confort\u00e1veis na nossa pr\u00f3pria pele e de sermos confiantes nos nossos pensamentos e ac\u00e7\u00f5es. Porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n Because everything starts from your mindset. If you’re wired negatively, chances are you’ll be more nervous than you usually are, and you’ll attract more negativity into your life.<\/p>\n Approaching girls with a positive vibe and confident body language is a surefire way to impress them. Most importantly, you’ll impress the universe to reward you with more positivity.<\/p>\n A confian\u00e7a \u00e9 um dos tra\u00e7os mais atractivos que se pode ter, e tudo deriva dela.<\/strong> You could be the hottest guy on the planet, but without confidence, you’ve got nothing. Ask any girl out there, and they’ll confirm the mentioned.<\/p>\n And, please do yourself a favor and avoid cliche approaches that start with an attraction killer known as “Excuse me”.<\/p>\n Instead, try to be more original. Start with a simple “Hi…” and accompany it with a thoughtful question in accordance with the situation you’re in.<\/p>\n And, yes, don’t forget to use your second strongest weapon after confidence, which is manter um contacto visual profundo<\/a>.<\/strong> Na verdade, a confian\u00e7a e o contacto visual s\u00e3o quase a mesma coisa, se me perguntarem.<\/p>\n Dica profissional: Tenha cuidado ao utilizar frases de engate foleiras<\/a>. Nem todas as raparigas gostam deles.<\/p>\n Quer saber como conquistar uma rapariga ou como fazer com que uma rapariga se sinta atra\u00edda por si?<\/p>\n Repete isto depois de mim: Don’t be generic. Be genuine.<\/strong> Congratulations, you’ve just learned the most valuable lesson of your life (I mean dating life).<\/p>\n Do not ask her generic questions straight away because if you do, you’ll be classified as an ordinary, boring guy. (A lot of girls consider this as one of the biggest dating sins.)<\/p>\n Tu pr\u00f3prio sabes que podes fazer melhor do que isso! Podes dizer algo como:<\/p>\n “Hey, I know this is totally random, but I couldn’t resist approaching you. I hope you’ll forgive me for that.”<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n I swear to you, with this sentence, you can catch the attention of any girl you want. Why? Because this approach is witty, playful, and thoughtful. Who wouldn’t want to be with a guy like that, right?<\/p>\n Isto vai faz\u00ea-la sorrir e intrig\u00e1-la, o que \u00e9 exatamente a sua inten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong> Para ganhar pontos de b\u00f3nus, elogie-a genuinamente pelo seu sorriso bonito, penteado, olhos ou qualquer outra coisa.<\/p>\n Sugiro que se mantenha no lado seguro e se limite a elogios ligeiros mas eficazes sobre os olhos, o estilo geral e a vibra\u00e7\u00e3o dela. O pr\u00f3ximo passo ser\u00e1 a arte da provoca\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Qualquer um pode provocar uma rapariga, mas nem todos sabem como provocar uma rapariga da forma correcta<\/a>. A maioria dos homens exagera e acaba por obter um efeito contr\u00e1rio. O mais importante \u00e9 que o fa\u00e7a de forma subtil.<\/p>\n Don’t be too direct or arrogant. Be witty in a playful and cute way. If you notice that she’s a little bit confused, then you can add that famous “Just kidding”.<\/p>\n So, how will you know that you’re doing it the right way?<\/strong><\/p>\n Watch how she reacts to your teasing. Does she look amused or like she regrets meeting you? It’s not that hard to differentiate between the two; I can tell you that.<\/p>\n Se uma rapariga t\u00edmida gosta de si<\/a>, she’ll laugh at all of your jokes (including the corny ones) and teasing endeavors.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, provocar \u00e9 um excelente al\u00edvio do stress e uma forma de evitar o temido sil\u00eancio constrangedor.<\/strong> Ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a relaxar e a ligar-se da forma mais natural. Sugiro que provoque as raparigas com regularidade para se tornar um profissional na mat\u00e9ria.<\/p>\n I know that you’re overly concerned with presenting yourself in the best possible light, but you shouldn’t make this only about yourself.<\/p>\n The focus should be on her because she’s the one whom you want to impress, right? Also, when a girl really likes you, ela quer que repares nela<\/a>.<\/p>\n So, what if I tell you that the less you do, the more you’ll impress her.<\/strong> Como? Simplesmente ouvindo-a.<\/p>\n A lot of guys don’t understand that this is a gift from God, and the easiest way to impress her is by simply doing nothing.<\/p>\n Veja as coisas desta forma. Quando se presta aten\u00e7\u00e3o a ela, h\u00e1 menos espa\u00e7o para cometer erros. <\/strong>Still, this doesn’t mean that you should only listen to her the whole time.<\/p>\n Talk, but talk in a wise, interesting, and entertaining way. And, add some teasing to the equation as well. And, yes, don’t forget to get her phone number or follow her on social media so that you can ask her on a date in the near future.<\/p>\n Now that you have successfully approached a girl, it’s time to focus on the dating game and boost your knowledge on how to get a girl (and keep her). Of course, before going on a date, you need to ask a girl out.<\/p>\n Learning how to get a girlfriend is all about giving her enough reasons to desire your presence. Here’s how you’ll ask her out on a date and impress her:<\/p>\n Okay, so now, you have her number or you follow her on social media. Do not (ever) come to the temptation to ask her to go out on a date when it’s too soon.<\/p>\n Mas afinal, o que \u00e9 demasiado cedo? Sem d\u00favida, a primeira vez que lhe envias uma mensagem ou lhe telefonas. Convidar uma rapariga para um encontro<\/a> shouldn’t feel like a chore. As a matter of fact, the more you rush it, the chances are you’ll ruin it.<\/strong><\/p>\n Girls don’t like to feel pressured to date anyone (the same thing applies to men). This should happen naturally; preferably after a few days of texting, teasing, and getting to know each other better in the virtual world.<\/p>\n Or, until you see that the girl is totally relaxed and she enjoys your virtual company. Making her laugh will surely help you with that. So, when that happens, it’s the right time to ask her out on a date.<\/p>\n Sugiro que o fa\u00e7a das tr\u00eas formas seguintes (ou de qualquer outra forma que considere interessante):<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2022 Ask her out in person<\/p>\n \u2022 Ask her out via text<\/p>\n \u2022 Ask her out through a letter<\/p>\n I know. You’re probably not that fascinated with my vintage suggestion of sending her a letter to ask her out. However, if you’re anxious about doing it in person, and texting her is too basic for you, then sending her a letter is a brilliant idea.<\/strong><\/p>\n Whichever option you choose, don’t overcomplicate it. Make it as simple as you can: “Would you like to go on a date with me? Yes or no?”<\/em><\/p>\n Hooray! Let’s assume that she agreed to go on a date with you. Well, if you followed all of the steps above, why wouldn’t she, right?<\/p>\n So, now we have other “problems” to deal with.<\/strong> Uma delas s\u00e3o as ideias para encontros. \u00c9 f\u00e3 de encontros noturnos<\/a> ou preferes namorar durante o dia? Espera, o que \u00e9 que ela prefere?<\/p>\n You’ll have to find out, so make sure to ask her a few questions about her dating preferences because you don’t want to disappoint her. You want her to enjoy spending time with you.<\/p>\n Para o ajudar, eis algumas algumas ideias para o primeiro encontro<\/a> pode sugerir:<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2022 Cook together (or cook for her)<\/p>\n \u2022 Go hiking<\/p>\n \u2022 Take a walk<\/p>\n \u2022 Go bowling<\/p>\n \u2022 See a drive-in movie<\/p>\n \u2022 Go to the beach<\/p>\n \u2022 A bike ride<\/p>\n If you’re both indecisive, you can write a few date ideas on a piece of paper and choose one. That would be really fun.<\/p>\n Girls love feeling special (I mean, who doesn’t, right?). So, that is why you need to be a true gentleman. That’s one of the most important pieces of conselhos para homens no primeiro encontro<\/a>, so don’t forget it.<\/p>\n Compreendo que conhecer uma rapariga pela primeira vez pode fazer com que nos sintamos ansiosos, porque queremos que tudo corra o melhor poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n Still, there’s no need to hyperventilate too soon. Instead, focus on boosting your gentleman skills. What does this mean?<\/p>\n Significa que deve ser carinhoso, atencioso e protetor com ela, n\u00e3o s\u00f3 no primeiro encontro, mas sempre<\/strong>. And, yes, don’t forget to elogi\u00e1-la<\/a> porque Deus sabe que ela provavelmente passou algumas horas a escolher a sua roupa e a maquilhar-se para esse encontro.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o faz ideia do quanto significa para n\u00f3s quando algu\u00e9m elogia os nossos esfor\u00e7os (todos os treinadores de encontros lhe dir\u00e3o isso).<\/p>\n Now, don’t get me wrong. Being a gentleman is not only about complimenting. It’s about listening to her, opening doors for her, making her laugh to help her relax, and being thoughtful. Basically, it’s about caring about how she feels when she’s with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n And, trust me, if you genuinely care about her, she’ll notice it.<\/p>\n Conversas no primeiro encontro<\/a> are probably the second most important thing on first dates (after your confidence) because they are the main indicator of compatibility. Everything stems from your vibe and the way you connect (or don’t connect) with one another.<\/p>\n Ent\u00e3o, quais s\u00e3o os melhores temas para falar num primeiro encontro?<\/strong> Podem falar sobre os vossos interesses comuns, o vosso estilo de vida, prefer\u00eancias, planos para o futuro, etc. Al\u00e9m disso, n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de apimentar a conversa com sentido de humor.<\/p>\n A t\u00f3nica deve ser colocada em expressar-se de uma forma interessante, o que o ajudar\u00e1 a nunca ficar sem t\u00f3picos de conversa. Isto inclui perguntar perguntas interessantes para o primeiro encontro<\/a> em vez de coisas aborrecidas que a v\u00e3o tornar numa prostituta.<\/p>\n Dito isto, aqui est\u00e3o algumas perguntas que a v\u00e3o intrigar e ajud\u00e1-lo a manter a conversa a fluir:<\/strong><\/p>\n O que \u00e9 que h\u00e1 de interessante que eu deva saber sobre si?<\/em><\/p>\n Se o dinheiro n\u00e3o fosse uma preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 que faria todos os dias?<\/em><\/p>\n Qual \u00e9 o seu principal obst\u00e1culo numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/em><\/p>\n Se pudesses escolher um ano da tua vida para refazer, qual seria e porqu\u00ea?<\/em><\/p>\n Normalmente segue a sua cabe\u00e7a ou o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o quando toma decis\u00f5es?<\/em><\/p>\n H\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m alguns temas que devem ser definitivamente evitados num primeiro encontro:<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2022 Bragging about your financial status<\/p>\n \u2022 Complaining about your job<\/p>\n \u2022 Politics<\/p>\n \u2022 Money<\/p>\n \u2022 Religion<\/p>\n \u2022 Your exes<\/p>\n Remember to keep things light, and don’t reveal too much information about yourself.<\/strong> Guarde algumas coisas para outro encontro tamb\u00e9m. Al\u00e9m disso, as mulheres s\u00e3o loucas por homens que t\u00eam uma vibra\u00e7\u00e3o misteriosa que paira \u00e0 sua volta.<\/p>\n Don’t make the mistake of being too pushy or too direct when it comes to flirting. A arte de seduzir raparigas<\/a> should be treated as such, which means you shouldn’t rush things.<\/p>\n Concentre-se primeiro no flirt verbal.<\/strong> Provoque-a, escolha palavras divertidas, fa\u00e7a-a sorrir.<\/strong> Repita isto algumas vezes e, depois, passe lentamente para a fase seguinte do flirt, que \u00e9 o flirt f\u00edsico.<\/p>\n Quando se trata deste tipo de flirt, \u00e9 preciso ser o mais subtil poss\u00edvel (pelo menos no in\u00edcio). Os toques subtis s\u00e3o o seu melhor amigo, porque as mulheres adoram o tipo de homem que est\u00e1 algures entre o mau e o bom rapaz.<\/p>\n Assim, pode tocar-lhe no ombro quando lhe explica algo, escovar-lhe o cabelo e tocar-lhe acidentalmente no pesco\u00e7o, ou pode afast\u00e1-la ligeiramente de si quando ela o provoca.<\/strong><\/p>\n There are multiple moments in which you can use the power of a subtle touch, so do it wisely. If you notice that she’s reciprocating, then you know you’re doing it right. Then, you know she’s comfortable with physical contact.<\/p>\n However, if her response is negative, then you should pull away and perhaps try again later. Maybe she’s just shy or needs more time to relax around you.<\/p>\n Uma coisa \u00e9 certa: o facto de ela gostar da sua companhia \u00e9 uma das maiores Sinais de que o primeiro encontro foi um sucesso<\/a>.<\/p>\n After asking her out on a date to subtly flirting with her on a date, we’ve come to the main fun part, which is making a move on a girl, a.k.a., closing the deal.<\/p>\n At this stage, you either go all in or you go home. Okay, there’s also something in between, and it’s called being stuck in the friendzone. So, let’s see.<\/p>\n Here’s some of the most valuable humble advice by a female species (me): Se ela te ligar, mano<\/a>Ent\u00e3o, pense duas vezes antes de avan\u00e7ar.<\/strong> If you don’t trust me, you can ask your female friends about this.<\/p>\n Have you already been on a few dates with her and you still haven’t kissed? Do you keep texting her, but she seems hesitant to text back sometimes?<\/p>\n Then, I can surely confirm to you that you’ve been stuck in the most dreaded place of one-sided romance, known as the friendzone. It’s when you’re going out of your way to impress her, help her with things, and be there for her, but sadly, she sees you only as a friend.<\/p>\n I’ll be honest with you. Once a girl starts seeing you as her friend instead of a potential lover, chances are really low that this will change anytime soon.<\/strong><\/p>\n No entanto, nem toda a esperan\u00e7a est\u00e1 perdida! Sair da friendzone<\/a> ainda \u00e9 poss\u00edvel, mas requer muita paci\u00eancia. Se quer que ela o comece a ver como um potencial amante, tem de se tornar desafiante e misterioso.<\/p>\n O mais importante \u00e9 deixar de lhe telefonar e enviar mensagens em excesso.<\/strong> Concentre-se na sua pr\u00f3pria vida, saia da sua zona de conforto e torne-se o melhor que pode ser.<\/p>\n In other words, you need to give her the opportunity to miss you. Once you do that, she’ll reconsider her decision of seeing you only as a friend.<\/p>\n Mas, antes de decidires beij\u00e1-la, tens de te certificar de que ela quer mesmo ser beijada por ti. Como \u00e9 que sabe isso?<\/strong><\/p>\n Does she keep looking at your lips or playing with her hair while giving you that “kiss me” look?<\/em><\/p>\n Is it evident that she’s having the time of her life with you (okay, maybe I over exaggerated it a bit, but you get the idea).<\/em><\/p>\n Ela inclina-se quando fala com ela?<\/em><\/p>\n Se a sua resposta for sim, ent\u00e3o estes s\u00e3o alguns dos principais sinais de que uma rapariga quer que a beije.<\/strong> Still, don’t force it. Wait for that special moment of comfortable silence when you’re both looking deeply into each other’s eyes and slowly leaning toward one another.<\/p>\n When that happens, kiss her like you really mean it (and, I really mean it). Don’t do it just for the sake of doing it. Express your ultimate affection in that first kiss and every single one after it.<\/p>\n \u00c9s um daqueles tipos que t\u00eam uma vontade incontrol\u00e1vel de repetir, ap\u00f3s cada primeiro encontro, o seguinte: “I want to see you again.”<\/em> What’s actually wrong with this sentence?<\/p>\n It\u2019s undertone. It’s like saying to a girl: “Hey, I want to see you again. I don’t ask you whether you want to see me.”<\/em><\/p>\n Uma melhor alternativa seria algo mais neutro como:<\/strong> “I really enjoyed the time spent with you, and I think we should do this again sometime.”<\/em><\/p>\n Depois disso, espera que ela diga algo do g\u00e9nero:<\/strong> “Yeah, I really enjoyed it, too, and I can’t wait to make more memories with you.”<\/em><\/p>\n Remember that there’s a fine line between a nice guy who is trying to get another date and a guy who is indirectly forcing a girl to go on another date with him.<\/p>\n Be the former type of guy and you’ll keep her interested. Actually, do you know what’s the best of all? It’s the last part of your sentence; “we should do this again sometime”.<\/strong> This indicates that you’re not quite sure when this will happen, and also you’re casual about it.<\/p>\n Isto \u00e9 exatamente o que todas as raparigas precisam de ouvir, porque o far\u00e1 parecer um desafio. Isso ir\u00e1 preservar a emo\u00e7\u00e3o da persegui\u00e7\u00e3o e o interesse dela em ir a um segundo encontro ou a qualquer outro encontro consigo.<\/p>\n A isto chama-se psicologia inversa e funciona sempre.<\/p>\n By keeping things exciting between dates, I don’t mean texting her every second to send her funny memes or corny jokes. Instead, you should choose a more subtle method that is always more effective.<\/p>\n Don’t share every single second of your life with her, but make her curious. Don’t text her all the time, but allow her to miss you first.<\/strong> Be busy sometimes, but don’t forget to text her back later.<\/p>\n Encontre o equil\u00edbrio entre fazer-se de dif\u00edcil e estar presente para ela.<\/strong> I know it’s easier said than done, but I’m sure you can do it. I believe in you, so there’s no need to doubt yourself.<\/p>\n Here’s another worthy piece of conselhos para encontros<\/a>: Don’t rush with perguntas sujas<\/a> and other “spicy tools”.<\/strong> Espere pelo momento certo para entrar em modo de sexting. A melhor aposta \u00e9 deixar que as coisas aconte\u00e7am naturalmente.<\/p>\n You don’t want to be one of those guys who are only interested in hooking up with her. You’re here to learn how to get a girlfriend, so there’s no need to ruin your future meet-ups with impulsive decisions.<\/p>\n Just listen to your intuition and you’ll definitely know when the right time to do certain things is because our guts never lie.<\/p>\n So, you’ve been dating for some time now, and you’re finally ready to make things official. You want to call her your girlfriend, and you want to be her boyfriend.<\/p>\n Perhaps you already introduced her to your friends, but you still haven’t had the talk about your relationship status. Here are a few things to pay attention to at this stage.<\/p>\n Don’t make the same mistake as half of your fellow male species have. Don’t force a relationship with the girl of your dreams only for the sake of reassuring yourself that she’s yours. Don’t rush with those alcunhas ador\u00e1veis para uma namorada <\/a>porque podes afast\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n First, you need to make sure that you’re on the same page. Does she want to be in a relationship? Have you ever talked about it in the first place?<\/p>\n If yes, then you can slowly start making things official and feel free to act as a legit couple. You’re free to Netflix and chill with your new girlfriend for the rest of your life without feeling guilty about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n Estou a brincar!<\/strong> Este \u00e9 um aspeto a que deve prestar especial aten\u00e7\u00e3o. Evite a armadilha de cair numa rotina porque, se o fizer, levar\u00e1 algum tempo a sair dela.<\/p>\n Don’t overthink things… give her space, be independent, be available (but not too available)… and the list goes on and on. No, you won’t need to memorize all those dating rules and relationship advice by heart in order to get a girl and keep her. I say: Let it flow.<\/p>\n Keep going on fun dates, and keep winning her. Just because you’re a couple now, this doesn’t mean that you should stop trying to impress her.<\/p>\n That’s another mistake many guys make. Se queres ficar com ela, continua a lutar por ela.<\/strong> A parte de aprender a arranjar uma namorada \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m aprender a mant\u00ea-la.<\/p>\n RELACIONADO: 9 Sinais de que ela est\u00e1 te testando para decidir se voc\u00ea \u00e9 material de namorado<\/a><\/p>\n Basically, you can find a girlfriend anywhere in real life, of course. From grocery stores, coffee shops, and museums, to parks… every place is an opportunity to meet someone new.<\/p>\n For example, if you’re going to the gym, you’ll meet girls who also value physical activity and a healthy lifestyle. Sharing similar interests is always a plus when it comes to compatibility.<\/p>\n Furthermore, you can always meet girls online, and below, you’ll find valuable tips on how to get a girl in the virtual world.<\/p>\n Est\u00e1 a pensar como conseguir uma rapariga online, por exemplo, no Tinder ou noutras aplica\u00e7\u00f5es e sites de encontros? Claro que sim, porque conhecer pessoas online \u00e9 a forma mais f\u00e1cil de ENCONTRAR uma rapariga.<\/p>\n Still, this doesn’t mean that it’s the easiest way to WIN a girl (but, you can always try). Here’s how you can meet girls online, and a few things you need to pay attention to:<\/strong><\/p>\n Aposto que existem mais tipos de s\u00edtios de encontros, por isso n\u00e3o deixe de fazer a sua pesquisa. No entanto, a forma mais popular de conhecer potenciais parceiros em linha \u00e9 atrav\u00e9s de sites de encontros online<\/strong> como o Tinder, OkCupid e semelhantes.<\/p>\n S\u00edtios de interesse especial<\/strong> are also a great way to meet people who are interested in the same things as you (hobbies, sports, TV series, music) and so on. If you’re looking for a girl who shares your passions, then this is the best way to meet her.<\/p>\n If you’re a gamer, sites de jogos online<\/strong> are your savior. Talk to other players, ask them if you could add them on social media, and voil\u00e0, you have a potential date.<\/p>\n E, sim, \u00e9 sempre poss\u00edvel encontrar raparigas nas redes sociais, como o Facebook ou o Instagram.<\/p>\n No mundo dos encontros online (e nas redes sociais), a primeira coisa em que as pessoas reparam \u00e9 no seu perfil. Por isso, a sua primeira impress\u00e3o depende muito da forma como se apresenta no seu perfil.<\/p>\n \u00c9 claro que deve acentuar os aspectos positivos do seu estilo de vida e da sua personalidade. O seu perfil deve ser aut\u00eantico, INTERESSANTE e divertido.<\/p>\n A sense of humor is more than welcome because a girl needs to know that she’ll have plenty of fun texting you.<\/strong> Don’t forget to highlight one thing; that you’re looking for a relationship.<\/p>\n Desta forma, as raparigas v\u00e3o lev\u00e1-lo a s\u00e9rio e saber\u00e3o quais s\u00e3o as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es de namoro. Al\u00e9m disso, certifique-se de que utiliza as melhores fotografias suas.<\/p>\n If you have photos of yourself where you’re doing fun things (visiting interesting places), then stick to those.<\/strong> Se quiser impressionar as raparigas, tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o pode deixar de tirar boas selfies.<\/p>\n O seu perfil deve ser a ess\u00eancia da sua personalidade, que pode expressar atrav\u00e9s da forma como se veste, das suas actividades, passatempos e afins.<\/p>\n So, once you find a girl whom you would want to approach online, make sure to “get to know her first”. There are so many things you can learn simply by observing her profile.<\/p>\n Preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o aos seus gostos\/desgostos, \u00e0 forma como se expressa, ao seu estilo de vida e a outras coisas que resumem a sua personalidade geral.<\/strong> Pode parecer hilariante, mas isto ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a conceber uma estrat\u00e9gia antes de lhe enviar uma mensagem.<\/p>\n If she has visited the same place as you, this is the perfect conversation topic for the two of you. Or, if you notice that she’s a shy girl, you shouldn’t be too direct. Instead, give her a few days to accept you as her new online friend (and potentially something more).<\/p>\n As you’re reading her profile, don’t forget to elogiar a sua fotografia<\/a>, but please don’t write something like: “Beautiful”. Instead, be more authentic and pay attention to details.<\/p>\n Don’t be one of those guys who can’t think of anything more original than saying “Hi”. If you ask me, this is the biggest online crime you can commit in online dating.<\/p>\n Ser mais espec\u00edfico e \u00fanico quando se trata de iniciadores de conversa<\/a>.<\/strong> Pode sempre fazer um coment\u00e1rio espirituoso sobre algo relacionado com ela, ou fazer-lhe uma pergunta ponderada que a fa\u00e7a pensar.<\/p>\n Concentre-se em impression\u00e1-la com a sua abordagem \u00fanica e sentido de humor.<\/strong> Don’t type the first thing that comes to your mind, but make an effort to make it sound fun and inviting.<\/p>\n No one wants to hang out with a person who isn\u2019t even trying to make things interesting in the texting world. Also, don’t forget to apimentar tudo com emojis de namorico<\/a> porque as raparigas adoram-nas!<\/p>\n D\u00e3o uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o caseira a todas as conversas e tamb\u00e9m t\u00eam o poder de aumentar o flirt dos seus textos. Tudo depende do contexto em que os est\u00e1 a utilizar.<\/p>\n I strongly suggest evaluating a girl’s texting signs before asking her out. Why? Because girls will literally let you know if they’re interested via their first text.<\/p>\n They won’t tell you directly, but there will be some sinais de texto de que ela gosta de si<\/a>, tais como os seguintes:<\/strong><\/p>\n \u2022 Replying immediately<\/p>\n \u2022 Sending you novel-length texts<\/p>\n \u2022 Sending lots of emojis<\/p>\n \u2022 Expressing herself in an interesting way<\/p>\n Se notar alguns ou todos estes sinais de mensagens de texto nos padr\u00f5es de mensagens dela, ent\u00e3o tem luz verde para levar as coisas para outro n\u00edvel.<\/p>\n And, worry not… convidar uma rapariga para sair por SMS<\/a> n\u00e3o \u00e9 t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil como parece, especialmente se souber que ela gosta mesmo de si e que vai querer conhec\u00ea-lo melhor pessoalmente.<\/strong><\/p>\n Here’s one cute and fun way to ask a girl out over text: \u201cI\u2019ve been gathering courage for some time to ask you on a date, so I\u2019d be grateful if you could be so kind as to put me out of my misery.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n I know. The virtual world can be cruel at times, and success in dating is not guaranteed. However, this doesn’t mean you should pull away instantly after a bad experience.<\/p>\n N\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de que a rapariga certa (a sua potencial alma g\u00e9mea) tamb\u00e9m anda \u00e0 sua procura. Por isso, tudo o que tem de fazer \u00e9 continuar a procur\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n “Only the absolutely determined people succeed.”<\/strong><\/em> \u2013 Audrey Hepburn<\/p>\n Sometimes, you’ll meet a girl who will seem unrealistically awesome on dating profiles and online conversations, but when meeting her, you might go home disappointed. That is why you need to lower your expectations when you start dating.<\/p>\n Nunca se pode saber o resultado de conhecer algu\u00e9m online, mas pode-se sempre dar uma oportunidade. A determina\u00e7\u00e3o e a paci\u00eancia s\u00e3o mais do que desejadas quando se trata de tudo isto.<\/p>\n Ser um bom namorado<\/a> \u00e9 tudo sobre querer faz\u00ea-la feliz.<\/strong> If you want to make her smile, you’ll find a way to do it. If you want her to trust you, you’ll never make her doubt your words or actions.<\/p>\n As rela\u00e7\u00f5es n\u00e3o s\u00e3o uma quest\u00e3o de regras impostas que os casais seguem cegamente e vivem felizes para sempre.<\/strong> You’re bound to experience constant ups and downs, but what matters is your willingness to fight for your relationship.<\/p>\n Por isso, deixe fluir e aproveite cada segundo do novo cap\u00edtulo da sua vida com a sua namorada. Desfrute de todos os momentos rom\u00e2nticos de m\u00e3os dadas, enviando-lhe hist\u00f3rias rom\u00e2nticas para adormecer<\/a>A primeira vez que fazem coisas juntos, e muitas gargalhadas.<\/p>\n Always be on the lookout for new ways to make her feel special and strengthen your bond. Also, don’t forget to ask her to join your group of friends and close people. If you want to fazer a sua namorada feliz<\/a>e, depois, faz com que ela fa\u00e7a parte da tua vida.<\/p>\n \u00c9 a quest\u00e3o, “How to get a girlfriend?”<\/em> ainda est\u00e1 na tua cabe\u00e7a? Ent\u00e3o, aconselho-te a leres tudo mais uma vez. Pronto, foi uma piada foleira.<\/p>\n Here’s what I wanted to say, actually: Don’t wonder, but start doing. Don’t overthink, but think positively.<\/strong><\/p>\n Don’t be overly self-critical when it comes to meeting new girls. Your vibe greatly depends on how you feel about yourself. The truth is, you don’t even have to say anything to a girl because your vibe is the biggest indicator of your personality.<\/p>\n Bem, quando se trata do mundo virtual, o seu perfil assemelha-se \u00e0 sua vibra\u00e7\u00e3o, por isso certifique-se de que se apresenta da melhor forma poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\nComo \u00e9 que posso fazer com que uma rapariga se apaixone por mim?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nReavaliar a sua perspetiva pode ser necess\u00e1rio<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nComo arranjar uma namorada: 4 etapas para se tornar namorado dela<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nSTAGE 1 – Approaching girls (the right way)<\/h3>\n
1. Deixar de se esfor\u00e7ar demasiado.<\/h4>\n
2. Arrase com o seu pr\u00f3prio estilo (com a adi\u00e7\u00e3o de algumas marcas registadas).<\/h4>\n
3. Aborde-a como um chefe.<\/h4>\n
4. Ser genu\u00edno.<\/h4>\n
5. Provoca-a da forma correcta.<\/h4>\n
6. A aten\u00e7\u00e3o deve centrar-se nela.<\/h4>\n
STAGE 2 – The dating game<\/h3>\n
1. Convid\u00e1-la para um encontro (na altura certa).<\/h4>\n
2. As ideias criativas para encontros devem ser uma prioridade.<\/h4>\n
3. Boost your ‘gentleman skills’.<\/h4>\n
4. Escolher sabiamente os temas de conversa.<\/h4>\n
5. Namoriscar com ela de uma forma eficaz e subtil.<\/h4>\n
STAGE 3 – Making a move<\/h3>\n
1. Fugir da friendzone (se necess\u00e1rio).<\/h4>\n
2. Beija-a como se estivesses a falar a s\u00e9rio.<\/h4>\n
3. Don’t force another date.<\/h4>\n
4. Manter as coisas excitantes entre os encontros.<\/h4>\n
STAGE 4 – Making it official<\/h3>\n
1. Don’t force a relationship.<\/h4>\n
2. Deixar fluir (e continuar a conquist\u00e1-la).<\/h4>\n
Como \u00e9 que se pode encontrar uma namorada?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nComo arranjar uma namorada online<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Aderir a s\u00edtios de encontros em linha, s\u00edtios de interesses especiais ou s\u00edtios de jogos em linha.<\/h3>\n
2. Fa\u00e7a com que o seu perfil de encontros (ou de redes sociais) se destaque dos restantes.<\/h3>\n
3. Read a girl’s profile before sliding into her DMs.<\/h3>\n
4. Impressione-a com a sua abordagem original.<\/h3>\n
5. Avaliar os sinais de envio de mensagens de texto.<\/h3>\n
6. Keep up the effort and don’t give up.<\/h3>\n
Como \u00e9 que se faz uma namorada feliz?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEnt\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que se arranja uma namorada?<\/h2>\n
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