{"id":13723,"date":"2020-06-02T10:48:38","date_gmt":"2020-06-02T10:48:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13723"},"modified":"2022-01-04T13:35:53","modified_gmt":"2022-01-04T13:35:53","slug":"pensamento-amor-amoroso-assustador-inferno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/pensamento-amor-amoroso-assustador-inferno\/","title":{"rendered":"O pensamento de se apaixonar novamente \u00e9 assustador como o inferno"},"content":{"rendered":"

It’s not easy, you know?<\/p>\n

It’s like going back to the roots, into the darkness, where everything reminds you of the pain and misery you’ve been through.<\/p>\n

Falling in love again is like a grand quest and I don’t like it. I’m scared.<\/p>\n

I’m afraid that everything will repeat itself and I am not ready for that.<\/p>\n

I know that I am exaggerating, I know that my fear doesn’t make sense most of the time, but I can’t go against myself when I know what I’ve experienced.<\/p>\n

Sei que o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 guardado e que as paredes s\u00e3o demasiado altas e espessas para serem quebradas por algu\u00e9m, nunca mais. O meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o aprendeu a li\u00e7\u00e3o. E eu tamb\u00e9m.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O amor soa t\u00e3o m\u00e1gico e maravilhoso.<\/strong> Estar apaixonado \u00e9 como saber que se \u00e9 capaz de usar o cora\u00e7\u00e3o na manga e n\u00e3o ter medo de nada, porque se \u00e9 suficientemente corajoso.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 l\u00e1 estive, j\u00e1 fiz isso.<\/p>\n

Today, love just sounds like heartache and it’s all because of you.<\/p>\n

The way your eyes sparkled every time you would tell me that you loved me and the way you smiled when I was crying, those two things didn’t go well together, because I never knew what to think of you, what to think of us.<\/p>\n

Pensava que o amor era suposto doer por vezes, que precisava de muitos cuidados e aten\u00e7\u00e3o. Pensava que, para me amares, tinha de te provar o meu valor. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Precisava de te mostrar que estava digno do vosso amor.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When it started to physically hurt, I saw that something was wrong. I saw that no matter what I did, ‘love’ never felt right.<\/p>\n

‘Love’ hurt me and ‘love’ destroyed my heart.<\/p>\n

Eu amei t\u00e3o genuinamente e t\u00e3o descuidadamente. Amei-te sem ver como eras mau para mim e, por tua causa, tenho medo de voltar a amar.<\/p>\n

I am scared to fall in love, so that man who’s trying so hard and is giving me all of his affection doesn’t stand a chance of entering my heart.<\/p>\n

I am guarded to the point where I myself can’t find my heart in this hurricane of emotions.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Estou simplesmente exausta por ter ca\u00eddo e nunca ter sido apanhada pela pessoa que espero que esteja l\u00e1 para mim e me trate como penso que mere\u00e7o ser tratada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Estou exausto de esperar tanto e nunca receber o que mere\u00e7o. Estou exausto do meu medo de ser desiludido pela cent\u00e9sima vez, s\u00f3 porque I loved ‘too much’.<\/a><\/p>\n

O meu peito est\u00e1 pesado, mas ele continua por perto, fazendo-o sentir-se um pouco mais leve.<\/p>\n

It’s like knowing that there is a cure for all of your problems, but you refuse to take it, because you have mistaken poison for a cure this entire time and you simply don’t trust your gut anymore.<\/p>\n

So here I am now, looking at the person in the mirror who’s so frightened to love, asking her if there is anything I can do for her to make it feel better, to make it hurt less.<\/p>\n

But she’s blankly looking at me because she has been drained of her energy. But she will be alright. I will be alright.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I will learn to live with my disappointments because sometimes that’s the way you learn your worth.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I will be fine, but I do need time to heal; that\u2019s crucial. I can’t fix myself overnight and I’m not even trying to. <\/strong><\/p>\n

The world tries to force me to hurry up, but I don’t care. <\/strong><\/p>\n

My heart is fragile and I don’t want it to break again. That’s why I will keep it safe in my chest for a while longer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"O<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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