{"id":13769,"date":"2020-07-02T13:54:36","date_gmt":"2020-07-02T13:54:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13769"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:44:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:44:49","slug":"nao-conseguir-o-amor-merecido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-conseguir-o-amor-merecido\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando n\u00e3o se recebe o amor que se merece"},"content":{"rendered":"

Plenty of times, you\u2019ve caught yourself wondering why someone walks into our life if they aren\u2019t meant to stay. You wonder why God or the Universe, whatever you choose to believe is in power, sends us people who are only there for a while and then they leave us alone.<\/p>\n

You know, even when we should be chosen, even when we should be loved, even when we should be \u2018the one\u2019, sometimes we don\u2019t get the things in life that we think we deserve. And we end up feeling broken and unable to make sense out of anything.<\/p>\n

Sometimes we do everything right, we try our best, fight the hardest and put in more effort than we ever did before. And everything seems to be going well until it stops and goes straight to hell. Until all the love we deserved goes to someone else and we don\u2019t get it. Until life plays with us and knocks us down.<\/p>\n

When you don\u2019t get the love you deserve, don\u2019t despair.<\/strong> You are allowed to cry and to be hurting and to feel lost as well. You\u2019re allowed to wonder what went wrong and you\u2019re allowed to ask yourself all those \u2018what if\u2019 questions, but you\u2019re not allowed to despair.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t blame<\/a> yourself for any of it. Don\u2019t convince yourself how you\u2019re not good enough or how you\u2019re not worthy of love. Don\u2019t give up on love or fighting for the things you truly deserve.<\/p>\n

When you don\u2019t get the love you deserve, accept it.<\/strong> There isn\u2019t much else you could do anyway. Accept that you tried and it didn\u2019t work out. Accept that it was just a temporary road you both took and that at some point you came to a crossroads and were obliged to take different paths.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Stop holding onto something that could\u2019ve been, but didn\u2019t happen. Stop hoping that in the future you\u2019ll find that same love you didn\u2019t get. You will get a different love, the one that will actually be yours. Don\u2019t keep fighting for something that is already gone.<\/p>\n

When you don\u2019t get the love you deserve, seguir em frente<\/a>.<\/strong> Don\u2019t get stuck in this world you created in your head where you actually get what you think you will. Because it isn\u2019t real. You\u2019re allowed to think about it, you\u2019re allowed to feel sad, and you\u2019re allowed to go through a mourning phase but then you move on.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let your lost past ruin your future.<\/p>\n

When you don\u2019t get the love you deserve, find faith<\/strong>. Even if it seems impossible, do it. Look for it in places nobody ever thought of looking. Find it somewhere deep in your heart, in people who\u2019ve been through the same things you\u2019re going through.<\/p>\n

Encontrar a f\u00e9<\/a> that one day you\u2019ll get the love you should have, the love you truly deserve and love that will see past all others who didn\u2019t stick by your side.<\/p>\n

When you don\u2019t get the love you deserve, put all your love in the hands of God.<\/strong> Give it to someone who won\u2019t take it for granted. Give it to someone who won\u2019t make a one-way street out of it, but who will give it back to you even more.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Find consolation in something greater. And when you close your eyes, don\u2019t let them flood with tears, but thank God for saving you from what you wanted and ask Him to give you what you need.<\/p>\n

When you don\u2019t get the love you deserve, realize it wasn\u2019t meant to be. You can\u2019t fight against destiny or keep wanting something that was never meant to belong to you. The only reason it entered your life was because you needed to be taught a certain lesson, a lesson that only you attended to.<\/p>\n

Realize that holding onto something that wasn\u2019t meant to be will hold you back from getting something that was truly meant to be.<\/p>\n

When you don\u2019t get the love you deserve, remind yourself that when one door closes, it\u2019s because another is about to be opened.<\/strong> The doors that closed were the ones that didn\u2019t lead to the things you were supposed to get in life. And therefore they weren\u2019t leading you to the path you should take.<\/p>\n

Uma porta fechou-se porque merecias algo melhor do que eles tinham para oferecer. Se tiveres f\u00e9 e escolheres ser paciente, as portas para o amor que realmente mereces abrir-se-\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

When you don\u2019t get the love you deserve, it means that it wasn\u2019t yours even to begin with. It means there is something better headed your way, so instead of holding onto something that wasn\u2019t meant to be and crowding the road to you, let go. Let go so the things you actually deserve can find their way to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Quando<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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