{"id":138087,"date":"2021-11-09T16:28:03","date_gmt":"2021-11-09T16:28:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=138087"},"modified":"2022-04-25T00:03:22","modified_gmt":"2022-04-25T00:03:22","slug":"o-que-e-o-codigo-da-rapariga","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-e-o-codigo-da-rapariga\/","title":{"rendered":"O que \u00e9 o c\u00f3digo das raparigas? As 10 principais regras e quando \u00e9 correto quebr\u00e1-las"},"content":{"rendered":"

I once noticed my best friend texting my ex-boyfriend. When I confronted her, she was slightly confused because she didn’t see it as a big deal. She never perceived him as a potential partner but rather as apenas um amigo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Still, I wasn’t okay with the situation. It bothered me that she was close to someone who still matters to me.<\/p>\n

Agora, sempre que se falam, ela menciona-me casualmente o assunto. Ela sabe o quanto me preocupo com isto, por isso faz quest\u00e3o de me informar sobre as conversas deles (que raramente acontecem).<\/p>\n

Ela preferiu a minha felicidade a uma potencial amizade. Porqu\u00ea? Uma palavra: c\u00f3digo das raparigas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 o c\u00f3digo das raparigas? Em que regras consiste? Podes quebrar essas regras se for necess\u00e1rio?<\/em><\/p>\n

Pois bem, meu caro leitor, se continuar a ler, ter\u00e1 todas as respostas!<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 o C\u00f3digo das Raparigas?<\/h2>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

O c\u00f3digo das raparigas significa essencialmente uma lista de regras n\u00e3o escritas que todas as raparigas seguem sem questionar.<\/strong> These rules don’t just apply to your close friends, but to all women out there!<\/p>\n

If one of them needs a tampon, you aren’t going to just stand there knowing full well that you have an extra in your purse!<\/p>\n

O importante \u00e9 que valorize as suas amizades femininas (ou potenciais amizades) acima de tudo. Nenhum amigo ou namorado pode ocupar o seu lugar!<\/p>\n

Quais s\u00e3o as regras do C\u00f3digo das Raparigas?<\/h2>\n

\"raparigas<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitas regras do c\u00f3digo feminino. No seu cerne est\u00e3o respeito m\u00fatuo<\/a> e aprecia\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Mas o que \u00e9 que isso significa realmente?<\/em><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que essas caracter\u00edsticas se manifestam no nosso comportamento?<\/em><\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 o c\u00f3digo das raparigas e como o p\u00f5em em pr\u00e1tica?<\/em><\/p>\n

Well, if you’re desperately curious about the answers, read on to find out! These are some of the rules of girl code:<\/p>\n

1. Sem pequenas mentiras brancas<\/h3>\n

Se acha que um tipo diferente de roupa de anivers\u00e1rio lhe ficaria melhor, porque n\u00e3o dizer-lhe?<\/em><\/p>\n

If you think the picture she posted on social media doesn’t accentuate her best features, why not be honest about it?<\/em><\/p>\n

You don’t have to be rude and make her feel unattractive or incapable. Just partilhar os seus verdadeiros pensamentos<\/a>, and then it’s up to her to do what she wants!<\/p>\n

2. A moral \u00e9 um conceito social<\/h3>\n

One of the major problems nowadays is girls judging each other for their sexual experiences. If you’re too experienced, you’re a ‘hoe,’ and if you’re a virgin, you’re ‘boring.’ Stop this.<\/p>\n

Does a man’s approval really matter so much that you’re willing to degrade young women who’ve done you no harm?<\/em><\/p>\n

Wouldn’t it be more fulfilling to support their bold life choices and be inspired by them?<\/em><\/p>\n

3. As palavras t\u00eam consequ\u00eancias<\/h3>\n

Ter ci\u00fames de outra mulher<\/a> is just a sign of how much you don’t appreciate yourself. It’s okay not to like someone and how they behave, but devoting your time to provide extensive commentary on their life is unnecessary and toxic.<\/p>\n

Instead of calling another girl ugly, praise her beauty! Instead of saying her success isn’t earned, congratulate her!<\/strong> You’ll see how much better you\u2019ll feel and what grandes obriga\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a> you’ll create!<\/p>\n

4. A zona proibida<\/h3>\n

If you were contemplating dating your best friend’s ex-boyfriend… stop it right now. Ele est\u00e1 fora dos limites!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Think about it: How would you feel if she came up to you and said that she\u2019s interested in someone you had a thing with? Would you be okay with it? Or would you feel like your friend has betrayed you?<\/em><\/p>\n

Some people simply belong in the forbidden zone, and you shouldn’t approach them for the sake of your friendship. Always put your friend first!<\/p>\n

5. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 lugar para palavras duras<\/h3>\n

O que fazer quando a tua melhor amiga se considera pouco atraente?<\/em><\/p>\n

What do you say when she feels that she’s n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n

I hope you don’t stay silent! In moments like these, she needs your encouragement and support the most. Think about the times you felt this way.<\/p>\n

Didn’t you desperately want someone to show you how inaccurate your self-perception was?<\/em><\/p>\n

6. Her life \u2013 her decisions<\/h3>\n

It’s not uncommon for us not to like our friend’s boyfriend. However, as much as os nossos sentimentos s\u00e3o v\u00e1lidos<\/a>, we’re still n\u00e3o pode interferir na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Express how you feel about him and state whatever it is that’s bothering you so much, but keep in mind that it’s her life we’re talking about here.<\/p>\n

7. A amizade vem com responsabilidades<\/h3>\n

If you’re having a girls’ night<\/a> out and notice your friend’s interested in a guy but isn’t entirely sure como marcar um primeiro encontro<\/a>, ent\u00e3o ser a melhor asa<\/a> que o mundo j\u00e1 viu!<\/p>\n

Help your best friend’s crush see her most extraordinary qualities. Don’t let her stand in a corner all alone and sad because she doesn’t know how to hook up with him!<\/p>\n

Remember \u2013 her happiness is your responsibility.<\/strong><\/p>\n

8. Pessoas prim\u00e1rias vs. secund\u00e1rias<\/h3>\n

One of the rules of guy code is ‘bros before hoes.’ Well, us girls aren’t any different.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 o c\u00f3digo das raparigas?<\/em><\/p>\n

Colocamo-nos uma \u00e0 outra em primeiro lugar. Nunca nos tra\u00edmos por um rapaz porque consideramos a nossa amizade a coisa mais importante, enquanto que podemos sempre encontrar facilmente outra paix\u00e3o!<\/p>\n

9. Travar batalhas em conjunto<\/h3>\n

Como \u00e9 que ages quando o teu melhor amigo se mete numa briga?<\/em><\/p>\n

Ficam de bra\u00e7os cruzados ou apoiam-na?<\/em><\/p>\n

If it’s the former, you might want to rethink your ways. Us girls need to stick up for each other. Don’t let your bestie fight her battles alone.<\/p>\n

10. A honestidade \u00e9 a melhor pol\u00edtica<\/h3>\n

Don’t even think about talking behind your friend’s back<\/a>! Whatever you have to say, say it to her face. Practice healthy communication because gossip doesn’t help solve the issue.<\/p>\n

Besides, doesn’t she deserve to hear how you feel?<\/em><\/p>\n

Isn’t your friendship strong enough to withstand anything you have to say?<\/em><\/p>\n

Estes s\u00e3o apenas os 10 principais entre muitos outros regras do c\u00f3digo da rapariga de ouro<\/a>! H\u00e1 muito mais para al\u00e9m deste conceito intrigante!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9 correto quebrar o c\u00f3digo das raparigas?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Yes…. depending on the rule.<\/em><\/p>\n

As you’re probably aware, no rule is flawless, and there are always situations where we simply have to break them.<\/p>\n

Que tipo de situa\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o essas no que diz respeito ao c\u00f3digo das raparigas? \u00c9 realmente correto trair a amiga dessa forma?<\/em><\/p>\n

Well, worry not, because all your thoughts are about to be clarified. Read on to see when it’s okay to break girl code and when it isn’t.<\/p>\n

When it’s OK<\/h3>\n

As we’ve established, breaking certain rules isn’t as bad as they paint it to be. It shouldn’t always be perceived as betrayal.<\/p>\n

Se acha isto demasiado chocante, aqui ficam algumas situa\u00e7\u00f5es que podem mudar a sua opini\u00e3o:<\/p>\n

1. Your friend doesn’t respect the code either.<\/h4>\n

Sinceramente, se your friend doesn’t care<\/a> about your feelings, you’re not obligated to respect hers either. Of course, this doesn’t mean that you should do your best to hurt her in any way.<\/p>\n

Significa simplesmente que nunca deve p\u00f4r em risco a sua pr\u00f3pria felicidade por causa dela.<\/strong> That\u2019s not \u2018bitchy\u2019 behavior<\/a>. If she once flirted with your crush, don’t feel guilty for flirting with hers (although that’s definitely not the wisest course of action).<\/p>\n

The best thing that you could do is end the friendship. There’s no point in hanging out with someone who doesn’t see your friendship as the sacred connection that it is… or at least that it should be.<\/p>\n

2. Their beef isn’t necessarily yours.<\/h4>\n

Let’s face it \u2013 we all have someone we hate. And, we usually expect our best friends to hate them, too, especially in high school. While it’s important to support them in cases of utter mistreatment, their enemy doesn’t always have to be yours.<\/p>\n

I remember struggling with my feelings towards my ex’s new girlfriend. Most of my friends loved her… even I did. But at moments when I didn’t, I never got angry with them for not ‘feeling my feelings.’<\/p>\n

That’s not a reasonable thing to expect. They have the right to like whoever they want, and so do you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. You can date their ex if they’re okay with it.<\/h4>\n

Dating your friend’s ex is a strange step to take. However, if they genuinely give their consent, what’s stopping you?<\/em><\/p>\n

Just make sure that they mean it. They may have your happiness in mind without caring how it will actually affect them. If they’re that type of person, it’s up to you to take care of them.<\/p>\n

If you sense that they still have feelings for them, don’t pursue the relationship.<\/strong> Ponham a vossa amizade em primeiro lugar. Por vezes, temos de fazer certos sacrif\u00edcios. Este seria o teu.<\/p>\n

4. Interferir nas suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es se houver abuso envolvido.<\/h4>\n

I cannot stress this enough \u2013 if you notice any sign of physical or abuso emocional<\/a> in your friend’s relationship, please do something.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Talk to her and encourage her to abandon her partner. Convince her that she deserves much better than what she’s got! You can’t do much until she realizes that she should libertar-se<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You’d be surprised how hard that can be. Women are so often subjected to ilumina\u00e7\u00e3o artificial<\/a> e, believing everything’s their fault<\/a>, they never even think of finding a way out. They believe they don’t even need it.<\/p>\n

Even when they want a way out, they don’t know how. Play your part and show them.<\/p>\n

5. If she’s really happy, let her be.<\/h4>\n

Sure, you can tell her that her outfit doesn’t suit her. But, if you see that she’s truly happy just being a rapariga da confus\u00e3o quente<\/a>, don’t be pushy.<\/p>\n

A felicidade dela \u00e9 mais importante do que qualquer outra coisa. Deixem-na vestir aquilo com que se sente confort\u00e1vel! Deixem-na fazer o que lhe agrada, por mais disparatado que pare\u00e7a!<\/p>\n

You don’t need to lie nor suppress your opinions. But think about it: Isn’t your goal to support her when she obviously feels good about herself?<\/strong><\/p>\n

When it isn’t OK<\/h3>\n

While it’s okay to break the girl code sometimes, we should remember that it exists for a reason. Certain lines should never be crossed.<\/p>\n

But what lines are those? Here’s your answer:<\/p>\n

1. Ela ainda sente algo pelo seu ex.<\/h4>\n

If your friend is still in love with her ex-boyfriend, and that still doesn’t stop you from hooking up with him, that’s not very thoughtful of you.<\/p>\n

Tal a\u00e7\u00e3o carece da empatia que caracteriza uma verdadeira amizade.<\/strong> You’re indifferent about her feelings and care about nothing but your own happiness.<\/p>\n

O facto de a sua nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o abrir velhas feridas e criar outras novas n\u00e3o lhe diz respeito porque, afinal de contas, conseguiu o que queria, certo?<\/p>\n

Even the sincerest of apologies can’t excuse your behavior. Why? Because they\u2019re just words. Your actions tell an entirely different story, and that is: you don’t care about your friendship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

2. You’re supporting her abuser\/leaving her alone to deal with them.<\/h4>\n

It’s true that our friend’s nemesis isn’t necessarily our own. However, when that nemesis so clearly does her harm, I hope you realize that it’s your job to defend her<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

You can’t leave her alone in a hurtful situation because that’s not como se trata um melhor amigo<\/a>! They don’t just leave when times are hard! They all stick together!<\/p>\n

Moreover, don’t support their abuser. This can be hard as we often don’t know como identificar abusos<\/a>, but it’s very possible to learn.<\/p>\n

O mais importante \u00e9 que deves sempre defender o teu amigo. Podes critic\u00e1-lo em privado, mas em p\u00fablico, fica sempre do lado dele!<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. She’s happy with her boyfriend, but you keep talking badly about him.<\/h4>\n

What is girl code? Essentially, if you don’t like her boyfriend, for no valid reason, here’s what you need to remember:<\/p>\n

You don’t have the right to try to convince her that he’s not the right guy. After all, you\u2019re not the one dating him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As suas prefer\u00eancias pessoais n\u00e3o desempenham qualquer papel na vida amorosa dela. A sua \u00fanica fun\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 ser honesto com ela, apoiando-a em tudo o que ela escolher.<\/p>\n

If you see that she’s happy, be happy for her. It really is that simple.<\/em><\/p>\n

4. Est\u00e1 ressentido com ela por muitas coisas, mas nunca o diz abertamente.<\/h4>\n

I know it’s not always easy to talk about what bothers you. This is why I advise you to take some time to process how you feel. Just make sure you eventually verbalize it… to the right person.<\/p>\n

Venting to someone else about a problem you have with your friend isn’t necessarily gossip. Maybe you just don’t know how to approach the problem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

O meu colega de quarto disse-me uma vez para abrir-se a outra pessoa<\/a> if I’m unable to say it to her. I can’t describe how much I appreciated her at that moment.<\/p>\n

She understands how hard it is. But, as much as that’s true, you really need to ir \u00e0 fonte<\/strong>. Porque n\u00e3o comer um gelado, p\u00f4r uma m\u00fasica na MTV e falar sobre isso?<\/p>\n

5. Queres que ela escolha entre ti e um rapaz.<\/h4>\n

In all honesty, sometimes a guy will care more about her than you. After all, he isn’t the one giving her ultimatums.<\/p>\n

Se gostasse mesmo dela, deixava-a ser feliz com ele e continuava a ser seu amigo.<\/p>\n

Don’t be surprised when she chooses him. She’s only letting go of someone who doesn’t know how to love her properly.<\/strong><\/p>\n

O problema do c\u00f3digo das raparigas<\/h2>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

People believe that girl code is discriminative towards the LGBT+ community, but that’s not really true. O que \u00e9 o c\u00f3digo das raparigas na sua ess\u00eancia?<\/em><\/p>\n

Well, if there’s a love triangle between three girls, the same rule applies: comunica\u00e7\u00e3o honesta e respeito m\u00fatuo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you have a female best friend and a girlfriend, the more the merrier! You’re not obliged to choose.<\/p>\n

This article may mostly be about friendship, but regardless of the nature of your female relationships, the core idea of girl code still stands \u2013 we are always there for each other.<\/p>\n

Conclus\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

I hope that the next time someone asks you ”what is girl code?” you are able to give them an extensive answer!<\/p>\n

Tell them about all the rules and when it’s acceptable to break them. Tell them how girls always stick up for each other and how nothing can break them apart. Tell them how we value each other’s happiness and will do anything to achieve it.<\/p>\n

Acima de tudo, diga-lhes que, apesar de o c\u00f3digo das raparigas ter alguns problemas, no fundo, existe amor e isso nunca muda.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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