Como \u00e9 que se pode estar bem com isto? \u00c9 poss\u00edvel encontrar a felicidade sem um parceiro?<\/em><\/p>\n Well, read on, and I’ll answer all of your questions\u2026 and much more.<\/p>\n De certeza que n\u00e3o.<\/em><\/p>\n It’s just that there are so many estere\u00f3tipos da solteirice<\/a> that make us feel that way. Moreover, people constantly reinforce the idea that you have to have a partner to be ‘complete.’<\/p>\n They often refer to their partners as their ‘other half,’ as if we simply cannot find happiness without them. That couldn’t be more wrong…<\/p>\n \u00c9 completo por si pr\u00f3prio e perfeitamente capaz de levar uma vida plena, mesmo que permanecer solteiro<\/a> para o resto dos vossos dias<\/strong>. You don\u2019t need a partner<\/a> para ser feliz.<\/p>\n Bella DePaulo, a social psychologist, calls this being ‘solteiro de cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/em>‘ She explains how you’re capable of leading a great life all by yourself, regardless of your relationship status.<\/p>\n Quite often, people seek partners only to not be alone. It doesn’t matter that they are unhappy and that they don’t actually love them. S\u00f3 precisam do conforto que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o lhes proporciona.<\/strong><\/p>\n Os jovens s\u00e3o especialmente propensos a instalar-se porque acreditam que ser solteiro na casa dos 20 anos<\/a> n\u00e3o \u00e9 fixe. Oh, como est\u00e3o enganados!<\/p>\n Eu sei que ser solteiro \u00e9 uma treta<\/a> \u00e0s vezes, mas s\u00f3 sai da sua solid\u00e3o quando se encontra a pessoa certa<\/a>.<\/p>\n Quer mesmo estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00f3 por estar?<\/em><\/p>\n N\u00e3o mereces a verdadeira felicidade?<\/em><\/p>\n Pensem nisto durante algum tempo.<\/p>\n De modo algum.<\/em><\/p>\n O seu estado de relacionamento<\/a> n\u00e3o nos define, nem a nossa vida termina aos 30 anos. Se for do seu agrado, pode decidir passar a maior parte da sua vida sozinho e come\u00e7ar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o aos 50 anos.<\/strong><\/p>\n Youth really is a wonderful thing, and it’s true that entering your 30s can be scary, especially when everyone around you is pressuring you into settling down with someone.<\/p>\n I can understand your struggle. I can understand that you want to experience love while you’re still living your best years. But the truth is… the youth of the heart is the only one that matters.<\/em><\/p>\n Please don’t think that you are undeserving of love or that you will never find it just because you didn’t find it until your 30s. Remember this:<\/p>\n “There are decades where nothing happens, and there are weeks where decades happen.<\/em>“<\/strong> \u2013 Vladimir Ilyich Lenin.<\/p>\n Your time WILL come. You won\u2019t be solteiro para sempre<\/a>. S\u00ea gentil contigo mesmo.<\/p>\n I know it\u2019s tiring when people ask why you\u2019re still single<\/a>, mas don’t let them convince you that your whole life is over just because you’ve reached a certain age.<\/strong> Fiddlesticks! It\u2019s okay if you\u2019re still single because you have many more years to come.<\/p>\n The goal of every long-term relationship is marriage. After all, we all want our happily ever after. However, problems arise when your marital status becomes nothing more than just that…. a status.<\/p>\n Se nos unirmos a algu\u00e9m apenas por causa do casamento, em vez de gostarmos realmente dessa pessoa, seremos infelizes.<\/strong><\/p>\n Com toda a honestidade, assentar na pessoa errada<\/a> is much worse than being single. Keep that in mind before accepting a guy’s proposal.<\/p>\n Don’t be one of those married people who despise each other yet stay together. Marry only when you find a true soulmate. That makes all the difference.<\/p>\n It\u2019s understandable that you might sentir falta de estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> or, if you\u2019ve never been in one at all, to wonder what it\u2019s like. No one is here to tell you that what you feel is wrong.<\/p>\n I\u2019m only here to show you how you can be okay with being single when you realize a few things. Here\u2019s what those things are:<\/p>\n Are you aware of how many people are in unhappy relationships? Are you aware that they stay together only because they\u2019re medo de ser solteiro<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n Once you realize that things aren’t always as good as they seem, you will feel better about your own situation.<\/p>\n Trust me, it’s better to stay alone than to be with just anyone.<\/strong> Nunca baixe os seus padr\u00f5es<\/a>mas sim esperar pelo tipo de pessoa que o far\u00e1 verdadeiramente feliz.<\/p>\n I know you feel sad because you have so much love to give yet no one to give it to. Believe me, I’ve been there.<\/p>\n I’ve felt tempted to become utterly cold because I just kept holding in all the love. It was becoming impossible to breathe.<\/p>\n I didn’t realize that there was no need for another person for my love to be released. I only had to offer it to myself. After all, who deserves it more than me?<\/strong> A rela\u00e7\u00e3o mais importante \u00e9 a que tenho comigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n You don’t have to focus on romance only. Realize that you have so many other people that love you. Don\u2019t drive them away.<\/p>\n Platonic love isn’t any less worthy of your efforts and your love. In fact, it can be much more genuine sometimes.<\/strong><\/p>\n Try focusing on them instead of on someone who either doesn’t care about you or doesn’t exist at all.<\/p>\n The truth is, you aren’t the only one who\u2019s ainda solteiro<\/a>. H\u00e1 muitas outras pessoas que partilham o seu destino e que o compreendem demasiado bem. Estenda-lhes a m\u00e3o.<\/p>\n If you don’t have any single friends, there are many apps where you can find people to connect with. If you find it hard to open up, you always have our beloved Netflix and a big list of feel-good movies to choose from!<\/p>\n Don’t stay stuck ruminating about the absence of a lover. Instead, p\u00f4r as rela\u00e7\u00f5es em espera<\/a> e encontrar novos passatempos aos quais dedicar o seu tempo.<\/p>\n Do that thing that’s always tempted you! Try playing the guitar or learning a new language. See what you’re good at.<\/em><\/p>\n In fact, you don’t even have to be good at it \u2013 just have fun and enjoy the little things in life.<\/p>\n Sei que te sentes muito triste e inconsol\u00e1vel. Pensa que ser uma mulher\/homem solteiro \u00e9 a maior maldi\u00e7\u00e3o que este mundo pode lan\u00e7ar sobre si.<\/p>\n However, I’m here to show you porque \u00e9 que ser solteiro \u00e9 uma d\u00e1diva<\/a>. Eis algumas das vantagens que adv\u00eam do seu estatuto de solteiro:<\/p>\n Spending time on your own is finally possible now that you lack a romantic partner. Maybe you will despise it at first but, eventually, you get used to it… and even grow to like it.<\/p>\n When you’re in a relationship, on the other hand, you spend most of your time with your significant other, and you often forget about your individuality.<\/strong> Por isso, cuide do seu esp\u00edrito e do seu bem-estar geral.<\/p>\n Studies show that being single unleashes your creativity more than when you’re in a relationship (generally speaking, of course). You simply have more time to devote to that part of your brain.<\/p>\n So instead of despairing, go and express yourself in any field that seems tempting to you, whether that’s singing, drawing, or writing poetry. Create your own art!<\/strong><\/p>\n This might come as a surprising benefit, but you actually save a lot of money by being single! You don’t need to go on dates every day nor buy gifts for numerous special occasions.<\/p>\n You can focus on yourself and your own needs, which, I hope, are very economical! So, rejoice in the fact that you’ve got your pockets full! Go and mimar-se<\/a>!<\/p>\n Viver a vida de solteiro ajuda-o de facto a tornar-se mais autossuficiente. Isto \u00e9 ainda mais verdade quando se ficar solteiro mais tempo<\/a>.<\/p>\n Aprende-se a viver sozinho, sem precisar de ningu\u00e9m. This is why you’re most likely to accept someone ONLY if they represent better company than your solitude. That’s real self-care.<\/strong><\/p>\n Since you don’t need to devote your time to a partner, you can actually spend more time with your loved ones.<\/p>\n Pode estar presente para os seus amigos mais do que estaria de outra forma, e nunca perde uma reuni\u00e3o familiar! \u00c9 a oportunidade perfeita para refor\u00e7ar as suas outras rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n Single life is not only okay but bloody glorious! Don’t read this with such doubt \u2013 I can sense it, you know!<\/p>\n Since my main task here is to rid you of such doubts, here’s why you should appreciate your single life more:<\/p>\n Yes, having a partner is wonderful, but the truth is you spend so much time with them that you simply don’t have any for yourself!<\/p>\n Sendo solteiro, pode finalmente refletir, reavaliar a sua op\u00e7\u00e3o de vida e ver o que pode fazer pelo seu bem-estar.<\/em><\/p>\n Pode cuidar da sua sa\u00fade f\u00edsica e mental, bem como fazer progressos a n\u00edvel intelectual. Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o significa muitas vezes a estagna\u00e7\u00e3o do eu. Bem, esta \u00e9 a sua oportunidade de florescer!<\/strong><\/p>\n Sim, somos todos indiv\u00edduos. Mas, por muito verdadeiro que isso seja, temos sempre tend\u00eancia a incluir os nossos parceiros no processo de tomada de decis\u00e3o, seja ela qual for.<\/p>\n When you’re single, on the other hand, you don’t have these problemas de relacionamento<\/a>. Sabe que ningu\u00e9m vai ficar zangado consigo por fazer algo sem o consultar. Sabes que podes fazer as tuas pr\u00f3prias coisas.<\/strong><\/p>\n Being committed to someone can often distract you from excelling at work or school. You can’t devote extra time to these activities when you have dates to arrange, can you? Well, that time is over!<\/p>\n Work extra shifts to improve your job skills and earn more money! Study all day and all night and get those perfect grades you’ve always wanted!<\/em><\/p>\n You\u2019re solteira e a arrasar<\/a>E nada o impede agora de se tornar a vers\u00e3o mais bem sucedida de si pr\u00f3prio que possa ser. Na verdade, talvez ser solteiro \u00e9 mesmo o que precisas<\/a>.<\/p>\n Esta raz\u00e3o \u00e9 semelhante \u00e0 anterior, mas permitam-me que a explique melhor.<\/p>\n When you have a partner, even if certain boundaries exist, it’s natural that they won’t be able to stay away from you for very long.<\/p>\n They will want to see you and talk to you, and you can’t blame them either! Feeling that way in a relationship is understandable.<\/p>\n Mas ser solteiro elimina todas essas obriga\u00e7\u00f5es! You can do whatever you please with your time. You don’t owe anyone any explanations for why you disappeared for days or didn’t text you first<\/a>, ou didn’t respond to any texts<\/a>. \u00c9s simplesmente livre.<\/strong><\/p>\n When we’re in a relationship with someone, naturally, we want to be committed. We (usually) don’t look for love elsewhere but rather appreciate what we already have (or at least that’s how it should be).<\/p>\n However, as a single person, you are free to meet as many people as you wish. You can flirt with them knowing full well you aren’t cheating on anyone.<\/strong> Desta forma, tem mais hip\u00f3teses de descobrir o tipo de parceiro que realmente quer.<\/p>\n Claro que sim.<\/em><\/p>\n If you\u2019re happy with it, you can enjoy singlehood for the rest of your days. N\u00e3o querer uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> est\u00e1 perfeitamente bem. Algumas pessoas s\u00e3o verdadeiramente feliz por ser solteiro<\/a>. You don\u2019t need anyone\u2019s validation.<\/p>\n On the other hand, maybe you don’t have much luck at finding love. Maybe you\u2019re manter-se inconscientemente solteiro<\/a>, ou tem h\u00e1bitos que arru\u00ednam a sua hip\u00f3tese de amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n Seja o que for, s\u00f3 importa que te lembres de duas coisas:<\/p>\n Yes, loving and being loved is a wonderful thing, but…. you don’t really NEED it.<\/strong> Life consists of so many other things that deserve your attention, so many other things to love besides a romantic partner…<\/p>\n Pode encontrar um emprego gratificante, ler livros para se perder num outro universo, cuidar de animais ou fazer o que achar que \u00e9 a escolha certa para si.<\/em><\/p>\n Whoever told you that you couldn\u2019t achieve peace if you lack a romantic relationship is lying to you and themselves… So, deixar de procurar ativamente o amor<\/a> e provar que est\u00e3o errados!<\/p>\n If you truly desire a relationship (with someone who deserves you, of course!) yet aren’t sure what to do, I’m here to tell you that it’s all actually very simple:<\/p>\n Initiate a conversation with your crush on social media or meet up in person, whatever you’re more comfortable with, and see where it leads from there. It will either work or it won’t, but at least you’ll know where you stand.<\/strong><\/p>\n If they don’t appreciate your efforts because they prefer someone who’s ‘hard to get,’ that tells you all you need to know. You’re not here to play jogos de encontros<\/a> mas sim para procurar o verdadeiro amor.<\/p>\n I know you’ve been waiting for this… the perfect quotes that will make your tough situation a little more bearable. Well, worry not, because that time has arrived!<\/p>\nSer solteiro \u00e9 mau?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDon’t settle<\/h3>\n
Ser solteiro aos 30 anos \u00e9 mau?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nDon’t give up on love<\/h3>\n
A simple \u2018yes\u2019 can alter your life forever<\/h3>\n
Cansado de ser solteiro: Como estar bem com o facto de ser solteiro<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. A solid\u00e3o em vez do fingimento<\/h3>\n
2. Deixar o amor sair<\/h3>\n
3. Deixar o amor entrar<\/h3>\n
4. Partilhar as suas m\u00e1goas<\/h3>\n
5. Descobrir passatempos emocionantes<\/h3>\n
Benef\u00edcios de ser solteiro<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Valoriza\u00e7\u00e3o do eu<\/h3>\n
2. Criatividade libertada<\/h3>\n
3. Menos bolsos vazios<\/h3>\n
4. Paz na solid\u00e3o<\/h3>\n
5. Mais tempo para os seus entes queridos<\/h3>\n
Porque \u00e9 que a vida de solteiro \u00e9 melhor: A alegria inesperada de ser solteiro<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Eleva\u00e7\u00e3o do eu<\/h3>\n
2. A bola est\u00e1 no seu campo<\/h3>\n
3. Tempo para brilhar<\/h3>\n
4. Deixou de estar agrilhoado<\/h3>\n
5. Solteiro e pronto para se misturar<\/h3>\n
Ficar solteiro \u00e9 bom?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Your life doesn’t revolve around love.<\/h3>\n
2. Se queres alguma coisa, vai busc\u00e1-la.<\/h3>\n
Ser solteiro Cita\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n
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