Se andou a percorrer o TikTok nos \u00faltimos dias, deve ter-se deparado com os v\u00eddeos de Esther Perel a falar sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n
Sei que ela me fez questionar tudo o que eu pensava saber sobre o amor e as rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong><\/p>\n But let me give you a brief intro for those of you who have no idea what I\u2019m talking about.<\/p>\n Esther Perel \u00e9 uma psicoterapeuta belga e especialista em rela\u00e7\u00f5es. Entre outras coisas, ela aborda duas necessidades humanas aparentemente conflituosas: a necessidade de seguran\u00e7a e a necessidade de liberdade.<\/p>\n De facto, foi a explora\u00e7\u00e3o do paradoxo central do amor que a tornou famosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cLove rests on two pillars: surrender and autonomy. Our need for togetherness exists alongside our need for separateness. One does not exist without the other. With too much distance, there can be no connection. But too much merging eradicates the separateness of two distinct individuals.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n Mas n\u00e3o foi por isso que ela come\u00e7ou a ser popular.<\/p>\n A few days ago, TheMindHub posted several short clips of Esthel\u2019s 2017 interview on the Scandinavian talk show Skavlan, where the expert explains the psychology behind cheating, breaks the \u201cone and only\u201d myth, and gives us some hard truths about romantic love.<\/p>\n Ever since TheMindHub revived the interview, the hashtag with the therapist\u2019s name has reached 19,2M views. And the numbers continue to grow.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, what\u2019s so special about Esther Perel\u2019s views on relationships?<\/p>\n Aqui est\u00e1 um comprimido dif\u00edcil de engolir: you don\u2019t have to spend the rest of your life with one person. The concept of \u201cone and only\u201d is outdated and doesn\u2019t work so well in practice.<\/strong><\/p>\nInforma\u00e7\u00e3o de base<\/h2>\n
A ideia de uma pessoa para sempre<\/h2>\n
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