{"id":13887,"date":"2020-07-06T09:09:17","date_gmt":"2020-07-06T09:09:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13887"},"modified":"2022-02-27T12:33:00","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T12:33:00","slug":"6-maneiras-de-encontrar-a-paz-numa-relacao-toxica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-maneiras-de-encontrar-a-paz-numa-relacao-toxica\/","title":{"rendered":"6 maneiras de encontrar a paz depois de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Todas as pessoas que j\u00e1 se depararam com os horrores de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica sabem como isso pode ser doloroso.<\/p>\n<p>Durante todo o tempo da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, pensou que estava a viver com o seu melhor amigo e a sua alma g\u00e9mea quando, na realidade, o homem com quem vivia n\u00e3o era mais do que o seu pior inimigo.<\/p>\n<p>So, you decide to break up with him because it doesn\u2019t make any sense to hold on to something that isn\u2019t real anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Mas as perguntas s\u00e3o: <a href=\"https:\/\/pairedlife.com\/problems\/Toxic-Relationship-Recovery-How-to-Heal-from-the-Damage\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Como \u00e9 que se recupera de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o como esta?<\/a>? Como \u00e9 que se fecha e encontra a sua paz interior?<\/p>\n<p>For all of you who have been hurt and don\u2019t know what to do or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-a-uma-rapariga-que-luta-para-se-curar-apos-uma-relacao-toxica\/\">como se comportar depois de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a>A seguir, apresento algumas das formas mais eficazes de se reerguer e de curar de uma vez por todas o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Afaste-se do seu ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105625\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/lonely-woman-watching-the-sea.jpg\" alt=\"mulher solit\u00e1ria a observar o mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/lonely-woman-watching-the-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/lonely-woman-watching-the-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/lonely-woman-watching-the-sea-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/lonely-woman-watching-the-sea-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/lonely-woman-watching-the-sea-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A coisa mais importante a fazer \u00e9 manter-se afastado do seu ex.<\/p>\n<p>Dessa forma, poupar-se-\u00e1 \u00e0s l\u00e1grimas, pois n\u00e3o h\u00e1 d\u00favida de que se emocionar\u00e1 e come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a chorar assim que o vir.<\/p>\n<p>So don\u2019t contact him, no matter how much you want to.<\/p>\n<p>No teu pior momento, quando tiveres uma crise, sai e faz qualquer coisa que te fa\u00e7a n\u00e3o pensar nele, porque se agora voltares para ele, isso significa dar-lhe outra bala para te matar, porque ele falhou da \u00faltima vez.<\/p>\n<p>Pense na vida que vai ter agora que ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o faz parte da sua vida e sinta-se feliz por se ter salvado de um homem t\u00f3xico que s\u00f3 iria tornar a sua vida num inferno no futuro.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Refrescar os la\u00e7os com a sua fam\u00edlia e amigos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105631\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/happy-friends-having-lunch-together.jpg\" alt=\"amigos felizes a almo\u00e7ar juntos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/happy-friends-having-lunch-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/happy-friends-having-lunch-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/happy-friends-having-lunch-together-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/happy-friends-having-lunch-together-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/happy-friends-having-lunch-together-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you were with your ex, he convinced you that you didn\u2019t need anyone except him, so you didn\u2019t have a lot of contact with your family and friends.<\/p>\n<p>Agora que est\u00e1 de novo sozinho, certifique-se de que telefona \u00e0 sua fam\u00edlia e aos seus amigos e fala com eles sobre o que lhe aconteceu.<\/p>\n<p>They will definitely understand your situation and they won\u2019t be mad at you.<\/p>\n<p>Deep down, they know that you were head over heels for a man who didn\u2019t deserve you and that you just wanted to please him so you could have a good life.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Come\u00e7ar a frequentar o gin\u00e1sio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105633\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-working-out-in-the-gym.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a fazer exerc\u00edcio no gin\u00e1sio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-working-out-in-the-gym.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-working-out-in-the-gym-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-working-out-in-the-gym-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-working-out-in-the-gym-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-working-out-in-the-gym-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 um facto conhecido que as pessoas se sentem muito melhor depois de uma sess\u00e3o de exerc\u00edcio f\u00edsico. Ajuda-nos a sentir melhor porque nos livramos de todas as nossas m\u00e1s emo\u00e7\u00f5es e de toda a toxicidade do nosso corpo.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t like working out, you can enroll in yoga classes because that can also help you to feel better.<\/p>\n<p>O mais importante \u00e9 que sinta que pode fazer coisas que o deixam feliz e realizado e que sinta que est\u00e1 a fazer algo de bom para si.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, um b\u00f3nus \u00e9 que nessas aulas pode conhecer muitas pessoas simp\u00e1ticas que podem ser seus potenciais amigos.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t jump into another relationship<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105636\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-woman-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher a sorrir \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-woman-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-woman-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-woman-smiling-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-woman-smiling-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-woman-smiling-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A pior coisa que lhe pode acontecer \u00e9 lan\u00e7ar-se numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o logo ap\u00f3s ter terminado uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica. Querida, n\u00e3o est\u00e1s preparada para uma coisa dessas.<\/p>\n<p>Quando come\u00e7ar a sair com um novo homem, vai analisar demasiado as coisas, uma e outra vez, pensando que todos os homens ser\u00e3o t\u00f3xicos como o seu ex. Tire algum tempo para se curar e s\u00f3 depois comece uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t think that you will miss out on something if you don\u2019t start dating right away.<\/p>\n<p>Tens de aprender a amar-te de novo e depois dar o teu amor a um novo homem.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Fazer coisas que gostava de fazer antes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105638\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/relaxed-woman-reading-a-book.jpg\" alt=\"mulher descontra\u00edda a ler um livro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/relaxed-woman-reading-a-book.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/relaxed-woman-reading-a-book-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/relaxed-woman-reading-a-book-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/relaxed-woman-reading-a-book-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/relaxed-woman-reading-a-book-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tenho a certeza de que cada um de v\u00f3s tinha alguns passatempos quando era solteiro.<\/p>\n<p>Mas, pouco a pouco, deixou de as fazer porque estava ocupada com o seu parceiro e a realizar os seus desejos.<\/p>\n<p>Depois de te livrares das suas m\u00e3os t\u00f3xicas e da sua boca que te diz sempre doces mentiras, \u00e9 altura de te colocares em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/science\/2016\/03\/15\/the-33-things-that-will-make-you-happyand-the-seven-that-definit\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Fa\u00e7a coisas que o deixem feliz<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Fa\u00e7a coisas que outrora gostava de fazer, porque o far\u00e3o lembrar-se de tempos melhores.<\/p>\n<p>Think about the fact that you saved yourself from an asshole who didn\u2019t know to cherish you and that you will never let any man treat you like he did.<\/p>\n<p>Quando come\u00e7ares a fazer coisas de que gostas, ver\u00e1s muitas mudan\u00e7as positivas na tua vida.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Perdoar a si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105644\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/calm-woman-breathing-fresh-air.jpg\" alt=\"mulher calma a respirar ar fresco\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/calm-woman-breathing-fresh-air.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/calm-woman-breathing-fresh-air-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/calm-woman-breathing-fresh-air-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/calm-woman-breathing-fresh-air-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/calm-woman-breathing-fresh-air-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sei que se tem culpado por ter deixado que um homem a tratasse assim, mas tem de esquecer isso.<\/p>\n<p>Tens de te perdoar a ti pr\u00f3prio para poderes seguir em frente.<\/p>\n<p>The fact is that you didn\u2019t want anything bad to happen to you and just because it did, that doesn\u2019t mean that you were guilty of it.<\/p>\n<p>O teu \u00fanico pecado foi apaixonares-te pelo homem errado e foi s\u00f3 isso.<\/p>\n<p>So don\u2019t be too harsh on yourself and forgive yourself for all your past mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>Temos toda a nossa vida \u00e0 nossa frente e podemos fazer tantas coisas positivas para nos sentirmos muito melhor.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, life will always give you another chance to correct the things you didn\u2019t do right the first time.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105622\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/6-Ways-To-Find-Peace-After-a-Toxic-Relationship-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"6 maneiras de encontrar a paz depois de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/6-Ways-To-Find-Peace-After-a-Toxic-Relationship-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/6-Ways-To-Find-Peace-After-a-Toxic-Relationship-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/6-Ways-To-Find-Peace-After-a-Toxic-Relationship-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/6-Ways-To-Find-Peace-After-a-Toxic-Relationship-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/6-Ways-To-Find-Peace-After-a-Toxic-Relationship-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" 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The whole time of your relationship you were thinking that you were living with your best friend and your soulmate when in fact the man you were living with was nothing more than your worst&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":105648,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13887","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/6-Ways-To-Find-Peace-After-a-Toxic-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13887","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13887"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13887\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/105648"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13887"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13887"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13887"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}