{"id":13889,"date":"2020-03-06T09:37:40","date_gmt":"2020-03-06T09:37:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13889"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:52:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:52:20","slug":"5-jogos-mentais-que-os-homens-emocionalmente-inseguros-fazem-com-as-mulheres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-jogos-mentais-que-os-homens-emocionalmente-inseguros-fazem-com-as-mulheres\/","title":{"rendered":"5 jogos mentais que os homens emocionalmente inseguros fazem com as mulheres"},"content":{"rendered":"

Os homens inseguros s\u00e3o os mais perigosos porque tentam esconder a sua inseguran\u00e7a atrav\u00e9s da manipula\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

They are frustrated because they don\u2019t believe in themselves, so they seek their emotional strength through hurting you.<\/p>\n

Quando o t\u00eam sob o seu controlo, isso d\u00e1 sentido \u00e0 sua vida e pensam que controlam alguma coisa, ou, neste caso, a si, o que os faz sentir importantes.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

At first, you can\u2019t see through their insecurities because they hide them so well and you fall into their trap. When he starts showing his true face, you don\u2019t get it either, not at first.<\/p>\n

Sabe que ele tem alguns problemas e at\u00e9 pode pensar que ele est\u00e1 um pouco perdido e precisa de uma orienta\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You think you can change him and show him the right way, but you don\u2019t, you can\u2019t. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ele nunca vai mudar enquanto for infeliz consigo pr\u00f3prio e a \u00fanica pessoa que pode mudar isso \u00e9 ele e n\u00e3o voc\u00ea.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

So, you end up hurt, crying yourself to sleep because you decided to give him a chance and he took it and manipulated you into oblivion. He made you act the way he wanted and you didn\u2019t even realize it.<\/p>\n

Foi enganado como um tolo por um mestre manipulador<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Para evitar que isto volte a acontecer, para se poupar \u00e0 dor e \u00e0s l\u00e1grimas desperdi\u00e7adas, leia sobre estas manipula\u00e7\u00f5es que os homens emocionalmente inseguros infligem para a culpar a ficar com eles:<\/p>\n

Eles culpam-no<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ele culpa-a porque tem falta de autoestima, por isso faz com que as coisas sejam sobre si e culpa-a apenas para tirar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t want to face his own mistakes, so he tricks you into facing your own.<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 um tipo cl\u00e1ssico de abuso emocional porque as palavras magoam e, por vezes, magoam ainda mais do que os actos.<\/p>\n

You should\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

When this happens, it\u2019s best to get out of the conversation or don\u2019t even let him into the situation to manage to culpar-te por qualquer coisa<\/a>.<\/p>\n

This can be exhausting and it\u2019s best to find consolation with your friends. Seek their advice and don\u2019t let him corner you to attack you.<\/p>\n

They play \u2018the bait and switch\u2019 game<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Quando se est\u00e1 numa discuss\u00e3o, ele traz as armas grandes e vira a discuss\u00e3o, tornando-o a principal fonte do problema.<\/p>\n

Ele vai culpar-te, mesmo que n\u00e3o tenhas feito nada de errado.<\/p>\n

Desta forma, ele manipula-a para que fa\u00e7a o que ele quer e que queria desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n

At some point, you\u2019ll get tired of arguing and you\u2019re going to back down just because you don\u2019t want to defend yourself anymore and you\u2019ll try to prove to him that you are not guilty of anything.<\/p>\n

You should\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Never back down if you are right. Don\u2019t let someone make your life miserable.<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t be with him, then leave him because you obviously weren\u2019t meant to be.<\/p>\n

You deserve to be happy and his manipulations will make you miserable and it won\u2019t stop, ever.<\/p>\n

Eles envergonham-te<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Envergonhar algu\u00e9m pode ser extremamente perigoso, mas tamb\u00e9m tem um lado completamente diferente.<\/p>\n

A pessoa que envergonha algu\u00e9m est\u00e1 a faz\u00ea-lo devido \u00e0 sua pr\u00f3pria inseguran\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que ele te deita abaixo e te envergonha para que te sintas uma merda.<\/p>\n

The thing is, he is doing this to you because he doesn\u2019t want you to see that you are better than him. He is afraid that you\u2019re going to leave him if you realize this.<\/p>\n

You should\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Never give him the satisfaction of making you feel like crap. Don\u2019t give him a chance to make you dependent on him.<\/p>\n

\u00c9s uma mulher forte e independente e n\u00e3o precisas de ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Seja voc\u00ea mesmo e don\u2019t let anyone put you down<\/a>. Try to distance yourself from his shaming and don\u2019t let it bother you.<\/p>\n

If this starts happening on a regular basis, just leave him because let\u2019s face it, you don\u2019t need him.<\/p>\n

Eles s\u00f3 agem como idiotas<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Pensa nele como um homem perfeito que a trata como a sua princesa. Pensas que ele te quer dar o mundo, ou pelo menos age assim quando est\u00e3o sozinhos, mas no momento em que sais com ele e quando est\u00e1s rodeada pelos amigos dele, ele transforma-se num aut\u00eantico D-bag.<\/p>\n

He becomes obnoxious and you don\u2019t even recognize him. He does this to cover up his insecurities, as he feels like a bigger man when he puts someone down in front of others.<\/p>\n

You should\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Avisa-o e fala com ele sobre o assunto. Diga-lhe como se sente quando ele lhe faz isso.<\/p>\n

Give him a chance to correct his behavior and if he does it again, just leave. You don\u2019t need that in your life.<\/p>\n

They play \u2018the roller coaster\u2019 with you<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say that he\u2019s taken you out on a dinner or to a movie, or you stayed at home, but you talked and had fun.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter where you were, the important thing is that you enjoyed each other\u2019s company.<\/p>\n

Bem, no dia seguinte ele age de forma super estranha e age como se algo tivesse corrido mal quando estavam juntos.<\/p>\n

Isto faz com que pare\u00e7a que ele n\u00e3o tem a certeza do que pensa sobre si, ou se gosta de si de todo.<\/p>\n

You will try and wrap your head around this, and you\u2019ll wonder where it all went wrong.<\/p>\n

By doing so, you\u2019re giving him all the attention he didn\u2019t deserve because he tricked you into giving it to him.<\/p>\n

You should\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Talk to him once again. Ask him why he\u2019s acting like that, and if he needs someone to talk to.<\/p>\n

Se ele aceitar, \u00f3timo. Provavelmente, ele tem um problema real e quer a sua ajuda.<\/p>\n

No entanto, se ele se recusar de uma forma sarc\u00e1stica, deixe-o, porque ele n\u00e3o passa de um inseguro em busca de aten\u00e7\u00e3o que vai passar o resto da vida a manipul\u00e1-la para que o ame.<\/p>\n

If you like Maria\u2019s work, check out her new book, \u201cOn Getting Over A Narcissist\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n

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Insecure men are the most dangerous kind of men because they try to hide their insecurity through manipulation. They are frustrated because they don\u2019t believe in themselves, so they seek their emotional strength through hurting you. When they have you in their control, it gives their life meaning, and they think they are in control…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":80308,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13889","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Mind-Games-Emotionally-Insecure-Men-Play-On-Women-1.jpg",800,548,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13889","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13889"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13889\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/80308"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13889"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13889"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13889"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}