{"id":13894,"date":"2020-07-06T09:05:06","date_gmt":"2020-07-06T09:05:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13894"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:01:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:01:06","slug":"13-sinais-de-uma-relacao-possessiva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/13-sinais-de-uma-relacao-possessiva\/","title":{"rendered":"13 sinais de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 num relacionamento possessivo"},"content":{"rendered":"

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es possessivas variam consoante a gravidade da possessividade. Embora por vezes possa ser um ci\u00fame ligeiro, pode chegar a um n\u00edvel em que se torna t\u00f3xico.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, no possessive relationship is healthy. Every possessive relationship starts off like a fairy tale, where you have met someone who cares deeply about you so you\u2019re not ready to look for signs that something is wrong, because it just feels good to be wanted.<\/p>\n

But if you feel like you\u2019re trapped in a relationship or the feeling of being stalked simply creeps up on you, maybe it\u2019s time to look for the signs that your partner is the possessive type.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s controlling<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ele tem a necessidade de a controlar<\/a> wherever you go, as well as when and with whom. If he\u2019s not involved in the decision making, he\u2019s text-bombing you until he is.<\/p>\n

He has ways of manipulating you into following his requests, which ultimately leads to cutting you off from your friends and family, until he\u2019s the only one you have.<\/p>\n

Partilhar \u00e9 cuidar, mas n\u00e3o para ele quando se trata de si.<\/p>\n

Ele exige saber as suas palavras-passe<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

\u201cCome on, what\u2019s the big deal? What are you hiding anyway?\u201d<\/p>\n

Social media accounts are something private that we share with our significant other when we feel like it, when we trust them in a way that they don\u2019t have the need to check up on us, because they trust us too.<\/p>\n

But demanding to know someone\u2019s passwords is neither healthy nor lovable.<\/p>\n

 Pegajoso<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

When we fall in love, it\u2019s natural that we want to spend every single moment with that person. We want to know how they feel, how they think and how they breathe.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 t\u00e3o bom, mas com o passar do tempo, aprendemos a viver separados, mas ainda assim juntos.<\/p>\n

Se ele se recusar a faz\u00ea-lo, se continuar a querer passar cada segundo do seu tempo livre consigo, tem um problema.<\/p>\n

Pedir-lhe-\u00e1 que troque os seus amigos por ele e que abandone os seus passatempos, s\u00f3 porque quer estar consigo.<\/p>\n

Ele persegue-te<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

This is not something any of us is really ready to admit. He\u2019s my boyfriend, there\u2019s no way he can stalk me.<\/p>\n

But if you find him reading your messages, snooping around your phone and browsing history, logging into your accounts or popping up unexpectedly at your workplace or the bar where you\u2019re with your friends, he\u2019s a stalker.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s not cute behavior, that\u2019s hella creepy.<\/p>\n

Obedece aos seus desejos<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If he wants to go somewhere, you go there. Compromise is a word he\u2019s not familiar with, neither does he want to get to know it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all about him, because he knows what\u2019s best for you anyway. If you don\u2019t make his wishes come true, all hell breaks loose.<\/p>\n

Altera\u00e7\u00f5es de humor<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

He\u2019s so happy you\u2019re finally with him, but the moment you mention a male colleague or a childhood friend, his mood changes.<\/p>\n

Mesmo as coisas mais pequenas deix\u00e1-lo aborrecido ou zangado<\/a>. He\u2019s happiest when you\u2019re only with him and talk only about him.<\/p>\n

Acusa\u00e7\u00f5es constantes<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He\u2019s constantly accusing you of flirting with other men, no matter whether you did or not. If you talk to a man, you\u2019re flirting.<\/p>\n

If you look at a man, you no longer love him. If you want to go out with your friends, you\u2019re just looking for a way to cheat on him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always to blame, no matter what you do and how hard you try to prove your love to him.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t respect your personal space<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re in a relationship, why do you need space in the first place?<\/p>\n

A sua ideia da mulher perfeita \u00e9 a mulher que lhe \u00e9 completamente submissa, aquela que ele pode controlar e sobre a qual sabe tudo.<\/p>\n

If you ask for some time alone, he gets offended, because it must mean you\u2019re tired of him and you\u2019re obviously hiding something. But, let\u2019s be honest.<\/p>\n

Everybody needs some \u2018me\u2019 time.<\/p>\n

Bombardeamento constante de mensagens<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re separated from him, at work or with your friends and family, he\u2019s message-bombing you constantly.<\/p>\n

Ele precisa de saber onde est\u00e1s, o que est\u00e1s a fazer, quanto tempo vais estar fora.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t have a minute\u2019s peace without him nagging and demanding your attention.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s extremely paranoid<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He\u2019s always afraid that you will leave him, that you\u2019re looking at other men and cheating on him.<\/p>\n

He needs to know why you\u2019re talking to your friends, why your colleague calls after work, why you\u2019re texting with your friends, if he is not enough, etc.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s always in a panic, in fear that his controlling is not strong enough and you will leave, and he\u2019s in fear of losing his favorite toy.<\/p>\n

Ele tem a necessidade de controlar o que vestes<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Esse vestido \u00e9 demasiado apertado, essa saia \u00e9 demasiado curta, esses sapatos t\u00eam um ar de gald\u00e9ria.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s trying to fit you into the mold of the perfect woman he has in his mind, regardless of how you feel about it and how hurtful it could be for you.<\/p>\n

Tenta separ\u00e1-lo dos seus amigos<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ele precisa de passar todos os momentos do seu dia consigo e quer que esteja dispon\u00edvel para ele no momento em que ele telefonar.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he will slowly start turning you against your friends, talking about how he doesn\u2019t like them, how they\u2019re toxic for you and how you don\u2019t need them.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s easier for him to manipulate you once you\u2019re all alone and you lose your support system.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all because he \u2018loves you\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Justificar a manipula\u00e7\u00e3o e possessividade t\u00f3xica<\/a> with love is his favorite thing. He tried to cut you off from your friends, because he knows what\u2019s best for you.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t want you to talk to other men, because he knows what they\u2019re after. He wants you isolated, because the world is cruel and he can protect you.<\/p>\n

O ci\u00fame n\u00e3o \u00e9 amor. Comportamento possessivo n\u00e3o \u00e9 amor. Lembra-te disso. Nenhum homem \u00e9 digno da vossa liberdade.<\/p>\n

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