{"id":139151,"date":"2021-11-29T22:09:40","date_gmt":"2021-11-29T22:09:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=139151"},"modified":"2022-03-22T01:56:21","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T01:56:21","slug":"frases-de-gaslighting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/frases-de-gaslighting\/","title":{"rendered":"30 frases alarmantes de gaslighting a que deve estar atento"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>Do you suspect that you&#8217;re being gaslighted? Or, even worse <\/i><i>\u2013<\/i><i> that you&#8217;re someone&#8217;s gaslighter?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>If so, you&#8217;ve come to the right place.<\/p>\n<p>Depois de ler este artigo, ficar\u00e1 perfeitamente familiarizado com o conceito de gaslighting, bem como com as frases mais comuns de gaslighting que o ajudar\u00e3o a determinar a sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Tamb\u00e9m <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-aprendi-com-a-minha-amiga-que-foi-maltratada-pelo-seu-companheiro\/\">saber porque \u00e9 que este tipo de abuso acontece<\/a> em primeiro lugar, e como pode p\u00f4r-lhe cobro.<\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, continue a ler e obtenha as suas respostas!<\/p>\n<h2>What Does \u2018Gaslighting\u2019 Mean?<\/h2>\n<p><b>Gaslighting \u00e9 um <\/b><b>forma de abuso emocional<\/b><b> em que a parte abusada \u00e9 manipulada para duvidar da sua <\/b><b>mem\u00f3ria pr\u00f3pria<\/b><b> e empatizar com o seu agressor, que n\u00e3o sofre consequ\u00eancias reais dos seus actos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Essencialmente, o termo gaslighting engloba a auto-d\u00favida extrema causada por v\u00e1rios <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-tacticas-de-limpeza-que-os-narcisistas-usam-para-sugar\/\">t\u00e1cticas de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> that make you feel like you&#8217;re the one to blame.<\/p>\n<p>A confus\u00e3o interior que sente chama-se disson\u00e2ncia cognitiva. Ocorre sempre que o agressor nega o seu sentido da realidade e se recusa a oferecer-lhe valida\u00e7\u00e3o para os seus sentimentos.<\/p>\n<h2>O que significa Gaslighting numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-139168 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-drinking-coffee-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher sentam-se \u00e0 mesa a beber caf\u00e9 e a conversar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-drinking-coffee-and-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-drinking-coffee-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-drinking-coffee-and-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-drinking-coffee-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-drinking-coffee-and-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-drinking-coffee-and-talking-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-drinking-coffee-and-talking-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-drinking-coffee-and-talking-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-drinking-coffee-and-talking-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-drinking-coffee-and-talking-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-drinking-coffee-and-talking-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-drinking-coffee-and-talking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-drinking-coffee-and-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-drinking-coffee-and-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i>Simply put, it&#8217;s your partner <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-um-narcisista-se-faz-de-vitima-10-tacticas-para-recuperar-o-controlo\/\"><i>fazer-se de v\u00edtima<\/i><\/a><i> while you&#8217;re the one who&#8217;s hurting.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>They cause you to feel guilt and shame because they&#8217;re unable to face themselves and take accountability for their actions.<\/p>\n<p><b>Do not pity them. They don&#8217;t deserve the empathy they seek from you.<\/b> If you&#8217;re wondering why, buckle up because we&#8217;re about to tell you everything.<\/p>\n<h2>Como detetar o Gaslighting? Frases comuns de Gaslighting em relacionamentos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-139169 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-woman-quarrels-with-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher discute com um homem\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-woman-quarrels-with-a-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-woman-quarrels-with-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-woman-quarrels-with-a-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-woman-quarrels-with-a-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-woman-quarrels-with-a-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-woman-quarrels-with-a-man-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-woman-quarrels-with-a-man-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-woman-quarrels-with-a-man-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-woman-quarrels-with-a-man-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-woman-quarrels-with-a-man-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-woman-quarrels-with-a-man-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-woman-quarrels-with-a-man-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-woman-quarrels-with-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-woman-quarrels-with-a-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/iluminacao-artificial-numa-relacao\/\"><b>Gaslighting em <\/b><b>rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas<\/b><\/a><b> tem como objetivo aumentar a sua <\/b><b>auto-d\u00favida<\/b><b> e a fazer com que sintas simpatia pelo teu agressor.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>How, then, could you possibly know that it&#8217;s taking place?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Well, it&#8217;s not easy. You first need to educate yourself on the matter as thoroughly as you can.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, continue a ler para ver as bandeiras vermelhas a que deve estar atento e que s\u00e3o sinais claros de gaslighting.<\/p>\n<h3>1. &#8216;Why are you so paranoid?&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>Imagine this type of situation. Your partner has repeatedly cheated on you and has shown clear signs that they&#8217;re unfaithful yet again. But, when you confront them about it, they blame YOU.<\/p>\n<p><b>Isto porque t\u00eam consci\u00eancia da sua pr\u00f3pria culpa e, em vez de a admitirem, preferem faz\u00ea-lo duvidar da sua <\/b><b>pr\u00f3pria sanidade<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>2. &#8216;Stop exaggerating all the time!&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>Se o seu parceiro alguma vez lhe disse isto, o seu objetivo era <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-arte-malefica-da-transferencia-de-culpas\/\">transferir a culpa para si<\/a> all the while knowing perfectly well who&#8217;s responsible.<\/p>\n<p><b>They want to invalidate your feelings and make you feel like you&#8217;re making a <\/b><b>grande coisa<\/b><b> out of something when that &#8216;something&#8217; is clearly hurting you.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>3. &#8216;You&#8217;re the problem, not me.&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>Este \u00e9 um cl\u00e1ssico <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/frases-manipulativas\/\">t\u00e1tica de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/a> Dizem-lhe abertamente que \u00e9 voc\u00ea que est\u00e1 a causar problemas na rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Then, you proceed to defend yourself all the while thinking to yourself &#8221;What if they&#8217;re right?&#8221; <b>Beware of such thoughts because that&#8217;s precisely the gaslighter&#8217;s goal.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>4. &#8216;You&#8217;re so damaged&#8230;&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>If you happen to have mental health issues, you&#8217;re even more prone to being a victim of gaslighting. Since you already have inner struggles, it&#8217;s easier for them to add one more.<\/p>\n<p>Depois, os seus sentimentos de indignidade intensificam-se e come\u00e7a a culpar-se. Quando isso acontecer, espero que te lembres das minhas palavras:<\/p>\n<p><b>Tu \u00e9s suficientemente bom. Tu \u00e9s digno. E mereces o mundo!<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>5. &#8216;Stop blaming me&#8230; that wasn&#8217;t my intention.&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>Ao pedir-lhe que deixe de o culpar, ele diz-lhe mais uma vez que voc\u00ea \u00e9 o culpado por ter perturbado a paz da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><b>Instead of apologizing for hurting your feelings, they focus on their how&#8217;s and why&#8217;s.<\/b> Essentially, they start acting like they&#8217;re the victim, and not you.<\/p>\n<h3>6. &#8216;If you just listened to me sometimes\u2026&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>Um narcisista enfurece-o muitas vezes de uma forma que mal se pode imaginar. Quando retribu\u00edmos, ele tem a capacidade de nos fazer sentir como se tiv\u00e9ssemos come\u00e7ado a discuss\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><i>The blame is put onto you for &#8221;lacking respect&#8221; for them even when they are clearly the one trying to control every aspect of your life.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>7. &#8216;If anyone is abusive in this relationship, it\u2019s you.&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p><b>Se h\u00e1 alguma coisa que um <\/b><b>narcisista<\/b><b> \u00e9 dotado, \u00e9 conseguir evocar em si sentimentos de culpa pelos seus pr\u00f3prios actos horr\u00edveis.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Muitas vezes dir-lhe-\u00e3o que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sou-emocionalmente-abusivo-10-sinais-de-que-e-o-parceiro-abusivo\/\">\u00e9 o parceiro abusivo<\/a> at\u00e9 come\u00e7ares a questionar essa possibilidade.<\/p>\n<h3>8. &#8216;I can easily get along with others. You&#8217;re the one seeking drama!&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>Ao afirmarem que t\u00eam uma boa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com toda a gente menos consigo, completam com sucesso a sua miss\u00e3o de transfer\u00eancia de culpas.<\/p>\n<p>Em breve, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/aversao-a-si-proprio\/\">avers\u00e3o a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a> creeps up, and you start ruminating about why you&#8217;re the only one they have issues with. Are you really just dramatic?<\/p>\n<p><i>N\u00e3o. Est\u00e1 apenas a ser enganado.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>9. &#8216;Do you think anyone else would love you?&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 uma das formas mais brutais de abuso emocional. <b>Your partner makes you believe that what they feel for you is true love all the while convincing you that you&#8217;re not worthy of being loved by anyone.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>And, since you desperately yearn for love, and think you&#8217;re not going to get it anywhere else, you become dependent on your abusive partner. You feel <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sentir-se-perdido-na-vida\/\">perdido na vida<\/a>, like there is no way out\u2026 but there is!<\/p>\n<h3>10. &#8216;Aren&#8217;t you supposed to love me no matter what?&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>Your gaslighter knows you&#8217;re kind and vulnerable, so they appeal to that side of you. They want to awaken your sympathies, which would excuse their bad behavior.<\/p>\n<p>But, no. You aren&#8217;t supposed to offer anyone unconditional love. <b>A \u00fanica pessoa que merece o seu perd\u00e3o \u00e9 aquela que tem em considera\u00e7\u00e3o os seus sentimentos.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2>Frases comuns de Gaslighting em amizades<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-139170 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"um homem a falar com uma mulher\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-talking-to-a-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sim, a amizade tamb\u00e9m pode constituir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica.<i> Os amigos por vezes negam a sua <\/i><i>ponto de vista<\/i><i> and make you feel like you&#8217;re <\/i><i>exagerado<\/i><i> sobre algo que \u00e9 t\u00e3o claramente um <\/i><i>ataque pessoal<\/i><i> no seu <\/i><i>autoestima<\/i><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Para o evitar, preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s seguintes frases que os gaslighters utilizam frequentemente nas amizades:<\/p>\n<h3>1. &#8216;You are overthinking this.&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>A friend who is aware that they&#8217;ve hurt your feelings but refuses to take accountability always tries to convince you that you&#8217;re overreacting.<\/p>\n<p><i>Once again, they make you feel like you stepped into the role of a dramatic persona when, in reality, you&#8217;re just hurt, and your hurt goes unacknowledged by the one you really care about.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>2. &#8216;Can you not take a joke?&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p><i>Sabia que pode ser uma pessoa bem-humorada sem nunca menosprezar ningu\u00e9m?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>But, that&#8217;s not how it usually goes&#8230; <b>Your friend may prey on your insecurities in order to gain power, and once they destroy your self-confidence, they blame you for taking \u2018things seriously\u2026\u2019<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Espero que saibas que algu\u00e9m que realmente gosta de ti vai cuidar de ti e n\u00e3o desencadear os sentimentos que mais temes.<\/p>\n<h3>3. &#8216;Just forget about this.&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>Outra t\u00e1tica de gaslighting \u00e9 tentar minimizar os seus actos, desvalorizando-os. <b>Your abuser wants you to move on because, after all, it is only a &#8216;minor inconvenience.&#8217;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Remember \u2013 <i>nada do que sentes \u00e9 insignificante.<\/i> If you suffer through constant emotional abuse, don&#8217;t forget it, but rather take action to prevent it from happening ever again.<\/p>\n<h3>4. &#8216;God, you&#8217;re so sensitive.&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>This is a classic. Your abuser makes it a habit to offend you, but they try to make you think that it&#8217;s nothing serious, and that you are blowing things out of proportion.<\/p>\n<p><b>Well, you aren&#8217;t sensitive <\/b><b>\u2013<\/b><b> s\u00e3o dolorosas.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>5. &#8216;That&#8217;s not what happened.&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p><i>J\u00e1 alguma vez confrontou um amigo sobre o que ele fez, mas ele continuou a negar a sua vers\u00e3o da hist\u00f3ria?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Se, lentamente, come\u00e7ar a questionar o que viu, apesar de estar totalmente convencido h\u00e1 momentos atr\u00e1s, est\u00e1 a ser enganado.<\/p>\n<p>Remember \u2013 <b>when someone truly loves you, their objective won&#8217;t be self-defense, but rather helping a friend out.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>6. &#8216;Why don&#8217;t you calm down?&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>Esta tem sido sempre uma das suas frases favoritas de gaslighting. <b>Arruinam-nos emocionalmente para depois nos tratarem como lun\u00e1ticos <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-narcisista-sabe-que-o-descobriste\/\"><b>quando os descobrirmos<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>In such cases, don&#8217;t forget:<\/p>\n<p>\"<i>Uma rea\u00e7\u00e3o anormal a uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o anormal \u00e9 um comportamento normal<\/i>.\u201d \u2013 Viktor Frankl<\/p>\n<h3>7. &#8216;Be careful, she might trick you! Not everyone is your friend.&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>I&#8217;ve heard this one many times from a jealous friend. She didn&#8217;t want me to have other friends because she was lonely, so she tried to turn me against them.<\/p>\n<p><i>But, sometimes, even when you&#8217;re aware of someone&#8217;s intentions, planting a seed of doubt is very dangerous<\/i>.<i> Beware that their evil mission doesn&#8217;t succeed.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Reject anyone who doesn&#8217;t inspire kindness in you, and who doesn&#8217;t listen with joy to your stories about how much love you have for the people in your life.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>8. &#8216;Stop being so negative.&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>It&#8217;s not uncommon for your abuser to provoke extreme reactions from you only to then accuse you of ruining your friendship.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quando as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es se tornam transparentes, a sua \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 resolver o problema culpando-o a si e usando <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-obstrucao-e-um-metodo-de-tratamento-silencioso-perfeito-para-os-narcisistas\/\"><b>o m\u00e9todo silencioso<\/b><\/a><b> para vos fazer sentir culpados.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Bem, N\u00c3O \u00e9 negativo. Est\u00e1 apenas a ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/formas-de-ser-leal-a-si-proprio\/\">leal a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a> e a tentar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-maneiras-incriveis-de-aliviar-o-seu-coracao-pesado\/\">aliviar o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o pesado<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>9. &#8216;Stop taking things personally.&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p><i>Por vezes, um gaslighter ofende-o diretamente e depois contradiz as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es dizendo que n\u00e3o se trata de si.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Distanciam a a\u00e7\u00e3o do lesado e fazem-no sentir-se culpado por o acusar de algo que nunca fez (ou assim o querem fazer crer).<\/p>\n<h3>10. &#8216;What did I do that was so wrong?&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>Here, your abuser doesn&#8217;t use blame-shifting, but they rather refuse to acknowledge their actions. <b>Fingem ser a pessoa magoada, fazendo-se de desentendidos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>This type of deliberate self-victimization has only one goal in mind \u2013 <i>for you to offer them comfort and empathy when it should be the other way around. Don&#8217;t fall for it.<\/i><\/p>\n<h2>Frases comuns de Gaslighting que os pais narcisistas usam<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-139171 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/the-woman-yells-at-her-daughter.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher grita com a filha\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/the-woman-yells-at-her-daughter.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/the-woman-yells-at-her-daughter-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/the-woman-yells-at-her-daughter-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/the-woman-yells-at-her-daughter-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/the-woman-yells-at-her-daughter-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/the-woman-yells-at-her-daughter-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/the-woman-yells-at-her-daughter-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/the-woman-yells-at-her-daughter-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/the-woman-yells-at-her-daughter-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/the-woman-yells-at-her-daughter-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/the-woman-yells-at-her-daughter-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/the-woman-yells-at-her-daughter-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/the-woman-yells-at-her-daughter-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/the-woman-yells-at-her-daughter-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It may surprise you, but people are most often gaslighted by those closest to them \u2013 their parents.<\/p>\n<p>When a family member is emotionally abusing you, it&#8217;s even harder to bear. <b>Eles fazem-nos questionar a nossa <\/b><b>realidade pr\u00f3pria<\/b><b> s\u00f3 se torna mais f\u00e1cil porque, para come\u00e7ar, \u00e9 dif\u00edcil acreditar que eles abusariam de si.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Mas, infelizmente, isso acontece. D\u00ea uma olhadela a estas frases de gaslighting para o reconhecer no futuro:<\/p>\n<h3>1. &#8216;It hurts me that you even think I would do that to you.&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>O seu sentido de realidade \u00e9 mais uma vez posto em causa atrav\u00e9s de uma declara\u00e7\u00e3o de amor indireta. <b>They don&#8217;t only say that they wouldn&#8217;t hurt you, but also that you hurt them by thinking so.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s what I want you to remember:<\/p>\n<p><i>It doesn&#8217;t matter how they feel. <\/i><i>Prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/i><i> \u00e0s vossas pr\u00f3prias emo\u00e7\u00f5es. Se elas lhe disserem que algo est\u00e1 errado e que os seus pais s\u00e3o <\/i><i>invalida\u00e7\u00e3o<\/i><i> you, then that&#8217;s exactly what&#8217;s happening.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>2. &#8216;You have zero respect for me.&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>Respect isn&#8217;t magically handed over to you&#8230; it has to be earned. <i>Muitas vezes, os pais n\u00e3o se apercebem disso e exigem-no s\u00f3 porque o fizeram existir.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Well, abusive parents, by any means, do NOT deserve to be treated nicely. So, don&#8217;t ever feel guilty if you gather the strength for a confrontation.<\/p>\n<p><b>Comportamento abusivo<\/b><b> \u00e9 <\/b><b>comportamento abusivo<\/b><b>mesmo que o autor do crime seja um <\/b><b>ente querido<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>3. &#8216;I am the best friend you&#8217;ll ever have.&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p><i>Os pais gaslighting amam-no de todas as formas erradas e depois atrevem-se a dizer-lhe que ningu\u00e9m o ama mais do que eles.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t let them put ideas in your head. Don&#8217;t listen to their words, but rather, pay attention to their actions. They always reveal the most.<\/p>\n<h3>4. &#8216;I did my best to raise you. Where did I go wrong?&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>Os pais esperam que sejamos d\u00f3ceis e obedientes s\u00f3 porque nos deram \u00e0 luz. <b>Assim, mesmo quando est\u00e3o claramente a abusar de si, culpam-na por n\u00e3o cumprir o seu papel de crian\u00e7a perfeita.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Please know that it&#8217;s okay to stand up for yourself no matter who the person on the other side is. You are the most important person in your life (and those who actually care about you).<\/p>\n<h3>5. &#8216;Poor me, can\u2019t have a day of peace!&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>Jogar esta carta \u00e9 t\u00e3o comum que certamente a reconhecer\u00e1 quando a vir. <i>Sempre que se zangar com os maus tratos, eles acusam-no de lhes estragar o dia.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>I hope you know that&#8217;s not the case. They are not the victim, YOU are. But&#8230; you don&#8217;t need to stay that way&#8230;<\/p>\n<h3>6. &#8216;I can&#8217;t believe you&#8217;re so ungrateful after everything we&#8217;ve done for you.&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>When you disobey them, parents will make you feel bad most of the time by mentioning every good thing they&#8217;ve done for you. That usually encompasses providing you with food and a roof over your head.<\/p>\n<p>When that happens, know this \u2013 <b>Quando algu\u00e9m nos ama, faz as coisas para o nosso bem, N\u00c3O para as mencionar mais tarde, a fim de <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/coisas-estranhas-que-os-narcisistas-fazem-para-manipular\/\"><b>manipul\u00e1-lo<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>7. &#8216;Come on, everyone knows that&#8230;&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>Here, by using the pronoun &#8216;everyone,&#8217; your parents basically exclude you from the rest of the world. <b>The objective is to make you feel so alone that you actually start doubting the words you had uttered a few moments ago&#8230;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Saiba que isto n\u00e3o passa de uma t\u00e1tica de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o destinada a impedi-lo de continuar a explorar a verdade.<\/p>\n<p><i>Confie na sua <\/i><i>perce\u00e7\u00e3o pr\u00f3pria, e <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/validar-saber-sentir-real\/\"><i>validar a si pr\u00f3prio<\/i><\/a><i>. If it hurts you, nobody else gets to decide that it doesn&#8217;t.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>8. &#8216;Who else would put up with you like this?&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>O agressor utiliza frases de gaslighting como esta para evitar confrontar-se consigo e com ele pr\u00f3prio. <b>They want to appear as the victim who loves you deeply despite what you&#8217;re doing to them.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Moreover, they want you to stay with them by convincing you that you are unlovable. This couldn&#8217;t be further from the truth&#8230; <i>Por favor, nunca se esque\u00e7am que merecem o mundo. Assim, <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/formas-de-ser-gentil-consigo-proprio-2\/\"><i>seja gentil consigo mesmo<\/i><\/a><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>9. &#8216;But, do you remember that time when you\u2026&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>This gaslighting tactic is called &#8216;whataboutism.&#8217; Essentially, <b>o agressor muda o foco da conversa para algo que fez no passado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>O facto de ser culpado ou inocente \u00e9 irrelevante neste caso. <i>Reconhe\u00e7a apenas que a inten\u00e7\u00e3o deles \u00e9 que o seu ato errado seja negligenciado enquanto o seu ganha destaque.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>10. &#8216;Maybe I\u2019ll just find a new place to stay.&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p>A principal carater\u00edstica de uma pessoa que sofre de perturba\u00e7\u00e3o da personalidade narc\u00edsica \u00e9 fazer-se perfeitamente de v\u00edtima. Por vezes, a pessoa transfere a culpa para si, mas de forma muito subtil.<\/p>\n<p><i>When you point out their flaws, they instantly turn the suffering mode on. They want you to feel sorry for them instead of attacking them because consciously or subconsciously, they KNOW they&#8217;re the guilty one.<\/i><\/p>\n<h2>Por que \u00e9 que os narcisistas se deixam levar pelo g\u00e1s?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-139172 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher sentam-se no sof\u00e1 e discutem\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i>It depends on whether they&#8217;re aware of it or not.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, acreditam genuinamente que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sindrome-da-vitima-narcisica\/\">they&#8217;re always the victim<\/a>, and that the whole world is against them. Perhaps they aren&#8217;t even aware that they&#8217;re hurting you, and that&#8217;s why they get so defensive when you confront them.<\/p>\n<p>Por outro lado, podem estar plenamente conscientes das suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es e das suas consequ\u00eancias, mas o seu principal objetivo \u00e9 ter todo o poder nas suas m\u00e3os.<\/p>\n<p><b>Essencialmente, <\/b><b>narcisistas<\/b><b> ou vivem em nega\u00e7\u00e3o ou t\u00eam um n\u00edvel t\u00e3o baixo <\/b><b>autoestima<\/b><b> que a \u00fanica forma de se sentirem melhor consigo pr\u00f3prios \u00e9 atrav\u00e9s da manipula\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Nota: <i>The level of awareness isn&#8217;t important. You don&#8217;t have to put up with anyone&#8217;s mistreatment no matter who they are. <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-concentrar-se-em-si-proprio\/\"><i>Concentre-se em si pr\u00f3prio<\/i><\/a><i>!<\/i><\/p>\n<h2>Como \u00e9 que se enfrenta o Gaslighting?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-139173 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-sad-woman-leaning-against-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher triste encostada \u00e0 janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-sad-woman-leaning-against-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-sad-woman-leaning-against-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-sad-woman-leaning-against-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-sad-woman-leaning-against-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-sad-woman-leaning-against-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-sad-woman-leaning-against-the-window-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-sad-woman-leaning-against-the-window-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-sad-woman-leaning-against-the-window-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-sad-woman-leaning-against-the-window-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-sad-woman-leaning-against-the-window-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-sad-woman-leaning-against-the-window-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-sad-woman-leaning-against-the-window-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-sad-woman-leaning-against-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/a-sad-woman-leaning-against-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i>It&#8217;s not easy, but not impossible either.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Narcissists and sociopaths use numerous manipulation tactics to make their victim feel like there&#8217;s nothing to flee from, but rather, they&#8217;re the ones that need to fix the situation.<\/p>\n<p>But, since you&#8217;re here reading this, you possess enough awareness to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/recuperar-de-abuso-narcisico\/\">recuperar de abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a>. On the other hand, if you know someone who doesn&#8217;t, and yet is clearly manipulated, please reach out to them.<\/p>\n<p>Em todo o caso, \u00e9 assim que se pode lidar com o problema:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Conhecimento \u00e9 poder<\/h3>\n<p>You&#8217;ve already educated yourself on the most common gaslighting phrases, which might help you realize what you&#8217;re dealing with. However, you&#8217;ve only scratched the surface&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><b>Aprofundar a natureza deste <\/b><b>abuso psicol\u00f3gico<\/b><b>. Find out everything you can because that&#8217;s the first step in conquering it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I highly recommend reading Dr. Robin Stern&#8217;s book called <i>O <\/i><i>Efeito Gaslight<\/i><i>: Como detetar e sobreviver \u00e0 manipula\u00e7\u00e3o oculta que os outros usam para controlar a sua vida.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Neste livro, encontrar\u00e1 tudo o que precisa de saber sobre o gaslighting para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/recuperacao-de-abuso-narcisico\/\">ultrapassar os maus tratos<\/a> e defender-se no futuro.<\/p>\n<h3>2. What&#8217;s written down is never forgotten<\/h3>\n<p><i>Os seus pensamentos s\u00e3o facilmente confundidos quando est\u00e1 a ser manipulado. No minuto seguinte, pode esquecer-se de algo de que tinha tanta certeza. Se quer evitar que isto aconte\u00e7a, compre um di\u00e1rio para si.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Anote todas as experi\u00eancias que associar ao gaslighting, para poder analis\u00e1-las mais tarde e tirar as suas pr\u00f3prias conclus\u00f5es da forma mais objetiva poss\u00edvel. Al\u00e9m disso, isto ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/auto-cuidado-emocional\/\">ganhar paz interior<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>3. O sil\u00eancio destruir-te-\u00e1<\/h3>\n<p><i>Still, it&#8217;s hard to remain objective in this kind of situation. That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s so crucial to reach out to your <\/i><i>entes queridos<\/i><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>\u200bYou don&#8217;t have to go through this all alone. Find your support system. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/dicas-sobre-como-se-fazer-chorar\/\">Desfazer-se em l\u00e1grimas<\/a> if you must. Trust me&#8230; it will truly help you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-maneiras-a-prova-de-bala-para-curar-com-sucesso-a-sua-alma-triste\/\">curar a tua alma triste<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>4. O seu bem-estar est\u00e1 em primeiro lugar<\/h3>\n<p><i>You are aware that you&#8217;re not obligated to participate in any conversation if it harms your <\/i><i>sa\u00fade mental<\/i><i>, aren&#8217;t you?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Por isso, sempre que algu\u00e9m o fizer sentir mal, v\u00e1-se embora e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/proteja-a-sua-paz\/\">proteja a sua paz<\/a>. I know you want to defend yourself, but try to remember that blame-shifting is merely a technique to divert you from the abusive situation you&#8217;re actually in.<\/p>\n<p><b>This isn&#8217;t about self-defense. It&#8217;s about realizing what you&#8217;re currently experiencing, and deciding that you deserve much more than that.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>5. It&#8217;s okay to ask for help<\/h3>\n<p><i>If you&#8217;re unable to deal with this on your own or even with the help of your friends, then reach out to a <\/i><i>psicoterapeuta<\/i><i>. After all, when you&#8217;re undergoing abuse, that&#8217;s the best course of action to take.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t have to mention it to anyone if you don&#8217;t want to. But, if you do, don&#8217;t let them convince you that therapy is shameful.<\/p>\n<p>O seu objetivo \u00e9 cuidar da sua sa\u00fade mental e ajud\u00e1-lo a ter uma vida melhor. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/vida-mais-facil\/\">uma vida mais f\u00e1cil e feliz<\/a>. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 absolutamente nada de degradante nisso.<\/p>\n<h3>6. It&#8217;s time for a better story<\/h3>\n<p><i>Let&#8217;s take a moment. Think about the situation you are in. Have you realized what&#8217;s actually happening? Yes, you are in an ABUSIVE relationship with an <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-de-alerta-de-que-esta-a-lidar-com-um-homem-emocionalmente-instavel\/\"><i>homem emocionalmente inst\u00e1vel<\/i><\/a><i>\/mulher. T\u00eam consci\u00eancia da gravidade da vossa situa\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong. You are aware of it more than anyone. But, what I&#8217;m trying to say is that it&#8217;s high time to take action and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/acontece-finalmente-descartar-o-narcisista-manipulador\/\">rejeitar o seu agressor<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>Fight for yourself. Don&#8217;t let anything make you stay. You are capable of building a life for yourself even if you start from scratch.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tu podes fazer isto. Por favor, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/viver-para-si-proprio\/\">viver para si pr\u00f3prio<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n<p>Espero que, com a ajuda destas frases sobre gaslighting, consiga finalmente ver a sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o com mais clareza.<\/p>\n<p>Espero tamb\u00e9m que, se for realmente v\u00edtima de gaslighting, se recuse a sucumbir ao desespero que este provoca, mas que lute para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/15-coisas-que-pode-fazer-para-limpar-a-sua-energia-de-traumas\/\">limpar a sua energia de traumas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not trying to imply that it&#8217;s your fault if you struggle with it. But, please know that your main mission in life is to take care of yourself. <b>Trust me&#8230; you DESERVE it.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you suspect that you&#8217;re being gaslighted? Or, even worse \u2013 that you&#8217;re someone&#8217;s gaslighter? If so, you&#8217;ve come to the right place. After reading this article, you will be perfectly acquainted with the concept of gaslighting as well as the most common gaslighting phrases that will help you determine your situation. 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