{"id":13930,"date":"2020-11-06T11:43:34","date_gmt":"2020-11-06T11:43:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13930"},"modified":"2021-11-03T16:01:40","modified_gmt":"2021-11-03T16:01:40","slug":"sinais-relacao-passivo-agressiva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-relacao-passivo-agressiva\/","title":{"rendered":"7 sinais de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 em um relacionamento passivo-agressivo"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you are dealing with passive-aggression in a relationship, you will notice that whatever your partner says doesn\u2019t match his behavior. He will say, \u201cI\u2019m fine,\u201d yet in his behavior, you will be able to detect a dose of repressed anger.<\/p>\n

De cada vez que tenta ter uma conversa aberta e honesta com ele, d\u00e1 de caras com um muro de pedra. Parece in\u00fatil tentar que ele se abra e lhe diga o que realmente sente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 secretamente agressivo. Nunca demonstra abertamente a sua frustra\u00e7\u00e3o ou admite que algu\u00e9m o irritou.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 a tentar manter a calma e a serenidade mas, de alguma forma, o seu comportamento conta uma hist\u00f3ria completamente diferente. \u00c9 poss\u00edvel detetar negatividade e raiva, por mais que ele tente disfar\u00e7\u00e1-las.<\/p>\n

As coisas que uma pessoa passivo-agressiva faz t\u00eam algumas semelhan\u00e7as com as de um narcisista dissimulado. No entanto, um narcisista dissimulado<\/a> levar\u00e1 as coisas ao extremo de uma forma muito mais t\u00f3xica.<\/em><\/p>\n

Estes s\u00e3o alguns sinais de que pode estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o passivo-agressiva<\/a>:<\/p>\n

Preferem muito mais manter a dist\u00e2ncia do que admitir que est\u00e3o zangados.<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t have an honest and open conversation with them. They will keep their distance rather than tell you what the issue is. They never admit that they are angry.<\/p>\n

Preferem guardar tudo dentro de si do que dizer o que quer que seja. Dir-lhe-\u00e3o que est\u00e3o bem, mesmo quando est\u00e3o longe disso.<\/p>\n

Eles t\u00eam as suas pequenas t\u00e1cticas para se sentirem superiores.<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Nunca fazem o que dizem que v\u00e3o fazer. Deixam-nos sempre \u00e0 espera de alguma coisa. Esperamos que nos liguem ou enviem mensagens de texto, mas nunca o fazem quando dizem que o v\u00e3o fazer, procrastinam e demoram o seu tempo porque sabem que estamos \u00e0 espera.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m esperam muito tempo antes de lhe responderem \u00e0s mensagens. Atrasam-se de prop\u00f3sito, por isso \u00e9 sempre voc\u00ea que est\u00e1 \u00e0 espera.<\/p>\n

Evitam conflitos.<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Fazem tudo para evitar uma luta, um confronto ou qualquer tipo de discuss\u00e3o acesa. Preferem muito mais concordar com tudo o que diz do que mostrar abertamente a sua desaprova\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Podem at\u00e9 culp\u00e1-lo por alguma coisa, mas nunca se pode esperar que sejam francos sobre isso.<\/p>\n

Culpam-no por tudo.<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Eles manipulam-nos para que pensemos que tudo o que est\u00e1 mal \u00e9 culpa tua<\/a>. They convince you that you are the one to blame even when you know that\u2019s far from the truth. They will even use mild language to get what they want. That’s how you know that you’re in a rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a>.<\/p>\n

They forget everything that doesn\u2019t have a direct connection to them.<\/h2>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

Like your birthday, a dinner date, something they said they would do but they never got around to actually doing and similar stuff. That\u2019s because deep down, nothing is more important than them. In the end, you end up frustrated.<\/p>\n

Podem desaprovar algo, mas nunca oferecem uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/h2>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t hesitate to say no to your plans for a weekend getaway, a new place to stay, a night on the town or suchlike, but they won\u2019t bother explaining their viewpoint or offer some kind of solution to the matter.<\/p>\n

Usam coment\u00e1rios ofensivos disfar\u00e7ados de elogios.<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Recorrem ao sarcasmo para exprimir o seu ressentimento. Tendem a dizer uma coisa e a querer dizer outra completamente oposta. E, por muito bem que embrulhem os insultos em elogios, s\u00e3o essencialmente muito ofensivos.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not easy to deal with a person who is passive-aggressive, let alone be involved with one. Don\u2019t try to give him a taste of his own medicine, as it will only make things worse.<\/p>\n

He will just deny everything and take the role of a victim. Not to mention that by acting like him you are risking becoming just like him, and that\u2019s something you surely don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t try to change him either. He can only change if he is aware of his passive-aggressive behavior and if he wants to change.<\/p>\n

Pode dizer que os sentimentos ocultos dele n\u00e3o o levam a lado nenhum, mas o mais prov\u00e1vel \u00e9 que ele se recuse a ouvi-la. Mantenha-se a si pr\u00f3pria e \u00e0s suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es em seguran\u00e7a. Se vir que ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a mudar, o melhor que tem a fazer \u00e9 afastar-se dele<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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