{"id":13969,"date":"2018-02-06T13:18:19","date_gmt":"2018-02-06T13:18:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13969"},"modified":"2022-01-14T11:25:26","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T11:25:26","slug":"amar-nos-o-suficiente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amar-nos-o-suficiente\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu amo-me o suficiente para n\u00f3s os dois"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Here I am. Sitting alone in a dark room, wiping away my tears because I couldn&#8217;t find a way to hold them in anymore. <strong>J\u00e1 n\u00e3o h\u00e1 maneira de o esconder. Estou magoado.<\/strong> Estou magoado com a pessoa que mais significa para mim. Tenho estado <a href=\"https:\/\/tinybuddha.com\/blog\/what-to-do-when-you-love-someone-who-hurts-you\/\" rel=\"noopener\">magoado por algu\u00e9m<\/a> que eu pensava que estaria ao meu lado para o resto da minha vida.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Conheces a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o quando come\u00e7as a notar que algo est\u00e1 errado.<\/strong> The moment you realize that you have been the person who had kept the threads together and the person who worked so hard on keeping you both happy. But it didn&#8217;t work.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tentei tudo e o momento em que comecei a perceber que n\u00e3o havia mais nada que pudesse fazer a n\u00e3o ser encolher-me num canto e chorar foi o meu colapso final, em que decidi que j\u00e1 era suficiente.<\/strong> I am done with waiting for you to call or text me and constantly jumping whenever my phone rings, hoping that it&#8217;s you.<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/natalia-vela\/2017\/07\/im-done-waiting-for-you\/\" rel=\"noopener\"> I&#8217;m done with waiting for you<\/a> at cafes without you even showing up. I&#8217;m done being your final resort when nothing else works.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Eu era o teu saco de pancada desde o in\u00edcio<\/strong> and you didn&#8217;t know how to politely tell me that you were sick of me, so you started your passive-aggressive behavior, hoping that I would be the one to end our misery. But the only problem was that I still kept on holding on to everything we had because I wasn&#8217;t ready to throw everything away so easily.<\/p>\n<p>Se n\u00e3o fores capaz de me amar mais, ent\u00e3o, adivinha? <strong>Sou capaz de me amar o suficiente para n\u00f3s os dois.<\/strong> I don&#8217;t need you to tell me that I&#8217;m beautiful because I believe in my own beauty. I am done with being an option for you, when I can be my own priority.<\/p>\n<p>You were never able to put down some work to see me, when I was the one who would stay up until 4 a.m. just so I could finish my work for the day, because I didn&#8217;t get to do it throughout the day. <strong>Queria tanto ver-te que, sempre que me telefonavas, corria para ti, para te ver e abra\u00e7ar.<\/strong> Mas nunca mostraste qualquer tipo de excita\u00e7\u00e3o ao veres-me aproximar-me de ti.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 esse o problema entre n\u00f3s. <strong>Pensas que vou estar ao teu lado para sempre, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/strong> I&#8217;m sorry to disappoint you, but <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nao-estou-mais-tentando-quero-viver-avise\/\">I&#8217;m not going to sit around and wait<\/a> for you to realize what you&#8217;re about to lose because you didn\u2019t start treating me like I deserved to be treated.<\/p>\n<p>I know that I may seem shy and reserved, but believe me, I know my own worth too well and there is nothing that anything and no one who can tell me otherwise, not even you. I know that I was giving you myself a hundred percent when you didn&#8217;t bother to give me anything.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por agora, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 mais nada que eu possa fazer sen\u00e3o partir.<\/strong> Se acabar por encontrar algu\u00e9m digno do meu amor e afeto, algu\u00e9m que esteja l\u00e1 para mim mesmo quando as coisas se tornam dif\u00edceis, posso considerar amar outra pessoa tanto quanto <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amo-me-mais-2\/\">Eu amo-me<\/a>. But until then, I don&#8217;t want to hear a word from your selfish mouth that only knew how to take but never give.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Estou a amar-me o suficiente para n\u00f3s os dois.<\/strong> That&#8217;s why I don&#8217;t need you to be in my life anymore. I don&#8217;t need you to stay around anymore. Because I&#8217;m leaving. At least I think I&#8217;m doing you a favor this way. Goodbye.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here I am. Sitting alone in a dark room, wiping away my tears because I couldn&#8217;t find a way to hold them in anymore. There is no way I can hide it anymore. I am hurt. I am hurt by the person who means the most to me. I have been hurt by someone who&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":13971,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13969","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/sam-burriss-246643-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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