{"id":14014,"date":"2020-10-07T10:52:59","date_gmt":"2020-10-07T10:52:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14014"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:04:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:04:34","slug":"7-coisas-que-vao-afastar-o-homem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-coisas-que-vao-afastar-o-homem\/","title":{"rendered":"Se fizeres estas 7 coisas, vais afastar o teu homem"},"content":{"rendered":"

Has it ever happened to you that you met someone and you had a good time, but after a while, he just disappeared? You didn\u2019t have a clue why he stopped answering your texts all of a sudden. You had no idea what was going on since you had such a good time together.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que ele fantasma voc\u00ea<\/a>?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s only natural that we always blame the other one for losing interest all of a sudden. He is a jerk; he is an idiot that isn\u2019t worthy of us. We deserve better.<\/p>\n

Okay, that is all true, but have you ever looked at things from a different perspective? Have you ever thought that the problem might be you or something you\u2019re unconsciously doing?<\/p>\n

Bem, por muito dif\u00edcil que seja ouvir isto, sim, por vezes o problema \u00e9 voc\u00ea e a forma como agiu em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu par. Talvez tenha sido demasiado forte e o tenha afugentado ou talvez queira tanto namorar com algu\u00e9m que isso seja demasiado \u00f3bvio.<\/p>\n

Seja qual for o problema, veja a lista de coisas que a maioria das mulheres faz que afastam os homens:<\/p>\n

You\u2019re over analyzing everything<\/h2>\n

\"Uma<\/p>\n

Gosta tanto dele que observa todos os seus movimentos e presta aten\u00e7\u00e3o a cada pequena coisa que ele diz. Isto leva-a a analisar demasiado. Pega em cada palavra dele e analisa-a cuidadosamente.<\/p>\n

This causes you to obsess over everything he says, trying to find hidden meanings if there are any. The problem is that this leaves an impact on him and he doesn\u2019t want to be surrounded by people who make him feel that way.<\/p>\n

Persegue-o<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

You chase him instead of letting him chase you. Men like to play this game and let\u2019s face it, most women like to be chased. It gives you the thrill that you don\u2019t feel later on in a relationship.<\/p>\n

If you chase him, he will stop chasing you and you don\u2019t want that. You want him to put an effort to catch you because you are a prize he\u2019s never going to win again in his life. Find another way to keep him interested because chasing him is the wrong way to go.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> If He Wants You, You Won\u2019t Need To Chase Him<\/a><\/p>\n

You\u2019re too negative<\/h2>\n

\"Rapariga<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t shed a dark light on your relationship and don\u2019t keep asking your boyfriend negative questions. No one wants to be with Ms. Grumpy.<\/p>\n

Try to look at things from a positive perspective and nourish the nice things in your relationship and this way, you\u2019ll make him stay and you\u2019ll make him happy.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t use negative reinforcement to find out what you are interested in from him. Just ask him straightforwardly. It\u2019s better to be in an honest relationship with no hidden meaning and lies. Therefore, don\u2019t beat around the bush and ask what you want to know.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 a tentar mud\u00e1-lo<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the biggest mistake you can ever make. Don\u2019t try to change who he is<\/a> or his habits. If you accepted him for what he is in the beginning, you don\u2019t have the right to ask him to act differently now.<\/p>\n

Your acts showed that you\u2019re going to love him for who he is and it\u2019s perfectly normal that he is going to back down if you try to do the opposite.<\/p>\n

You can help and encourage him to become better, but don\u2019t try to change his core because that is just not right and it will bother him and chase him away.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re talking about your ex<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Trazer o ex para a sua nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 a coisa certa a fazer. Imagine como ele se sente quando o compara com o seu ex-namorado. Imagine o tipo de fardo que isso representa para ele.<\/p>\n

How would you feel if he did that to you? You would probably feel less worthy and his ex-girlfriend would be a huge threat, so you would probably back down. This is the exact way he feels and this is how you\u2019ll push him away.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re putting him on a pedestal<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You\u2019re making him the center of your life and he doesn\u2019t want that, especially not in the beginning. He can read your love as pure neediness and that will drive him off. He doesn\u2019t want someone by his side who is super dependent on him.<\/p>\n

He wants an independent girl who lives her life in harmony with his\u2014a girl who won\u2019t rely on him that much. Don\u2019t be emotionally dependent because it\u2019s just not attractive and it will push him away.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a drama queen<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Keep things simple because guys don\u2019t like their lives to get complicated. Don\u2019t play games with him and tease him by making yourself hard to get because guys don\u2019t like to play those games when they are in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Drama isn\u2019t the way to go\u2014drama will just push him away.<\/p>\n

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