{"id":14053,"date":"2020-04-07T13:14:31","date_gmt":"2020-04-07T13:14:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14053"},"modified":"2022-01-24T15:57:52","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T15:57:52","slug":"parabens-a-rapariga-perdida-queria-mesmo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/parabens-a-rapariga-perdida-queria-mesmo\/","title":{"rendered":"Parab\u00e9ns, perdeste uma rapariga que realmente queria ser tua"},"content":{"rendered":"

Como \u00e9 que conseguiste perder uma rapariga que realmente queria ser tua?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que afastar algu\u00e9m<\/a> who\u2019d do anything to be with you? She needed just one reason to stay.<\/p>\n

Ela precisava apenas de uma pequena prova de que existe um futuro feliz para ela e de que lhe vais arranjar um lugar na tua vida, mas isso era, obviamente, pedir demais.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que ela sempre quis foi a ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t care about your flaws or your past. She didn\u2019t care about what others told her.<\/p>\n

She wanted you to be good so she believed you have good sides just waiting to come to the surface. She didn\u2019t care for anything in this world other than you.<\/p>\n

Ela queria amar-te. Queria estar ao teu lado. Queria ver a tua mensagem quando acordasse e queria adormecer a pensar em ti. Ela queria que fosses feliz.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

She wanted to have a future with you, to hold your hand in front of everyone and proudly say \u201cThis is the guy I love and the guy who loves me.\u201d She didn\u2019t want much. She just wanted to freely love you and to be loved by you.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que tinhas de fazer era trat\u00e1-la bem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o havia necessidade de lhe dar estrelas, mesmo que ela mereciam-nos<\/a>. N\u00e3o havia necessidade de presentes caros nem de nada que fosse pedir demasiado.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 precisavas de a tratar bem. S\u00f3 precisava de lhe mostrar que ela \u00e9 importante para si, de lhe mostrar que gosta dela, de lhe dizer o quanto ela significa para si e como quer as mesmas coisas que ela para voc\u00eas os dois.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que precisavas era de um pequeno esfor\u00e7o para que ela ficasse na tua vida.<\/p>\n

But that was too much to ask, wasn\u2019t it?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even \u2018basic\u2019 things, even the smallest effort, even the things she deserved to get were too much for you to give to her?<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t ready to do anything for her, regardless what she did for you.<\/p>\n

You just weren\u2019t on the same boat as she was. You didn’t care as much as she did. But you should have.<\/p>\n

Recusaste-te a escolh\u00ea-la.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When she saw no one else she could be with, you chose to keep your options open and hold her at arm’s length\u2014too scared to lose her but too afraid to commit as well.<\/p>\n

Tu aparecias na vida dela ocasionalmente e ela s\u00f3 te tinha na vida dela \u00e0s vezes.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o estava disposto a deixar passar todas as outras oportunidades. Queria ter as suas op\u00e7\u00f5es em aberto. Pensou que talvez merecesse muito mais do que ela tinha para oferecer e que era demasiado ego\u00edsta e voraz.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, ela era t\u00e3o altru\u00edsta quando se tratava de te dar o seu amor.<\/p>\n

Voc\u00ea didn\u2019t make her your priority<\/a> nem valorizou os seus esfor\u00e7os.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tudo o que ela fez, f\u00ea-lo por voc\u00eas os dois. Ela tentou e tentou. Ela continuou a encontrar esperan\u00e7a em s\u00edtios onde ningu\u00e9m pensou em procurar.<\/p>\n

She stuck by your side even when any other normal person would\u2019ve walked away a long time ago.<\/p>\n

But you never saw any of it. Or at least you didn\u2019t bother seeing it. You never acknowledged any of her efforts nor did you bother thanking her for fighting so hard for you. Instead, you took it all for granted.<\/p>\n

You thought she\u2019ll stay by your side even if you don\u2019t give her anything. That she\u2019ll fight for you just because. Well, you thought wrong.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ela cansou-se<\/a> of fighting for someone who didn\u2019t care if he lost her or not.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Admite, estavas indiferente. Ou pelo menos pensavas que eras. Disse a si pr\u00f3prio que n\u00e3o tinha sentimentos por aquela rapariga e que havia outras melhores do que ela. Ela estava l\u00e1 para aumentar o seu ego e para ser o seu plano de reserva.<\/p>\n

You thought that\u2019s all she’ll ever be to anyone. But you thought wrong once again.<\/p>\n

Perdeste-a quando a fizeste implorar pelo teu tempo. Perdeste-a quando lhe mostraste you couldn\u2019t care less for her feelings<\/a>. Perdeste-a quando te recusaste a fazer um esfor\u00e7o para lutar por ela.<\/p>\n

Demorou algum tempo a perceber que estava a lutar por algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o se importava de a perder.<\/p>\n

De facto planeado para ficar<\/a>mas tu afastaste-a.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Afastaste-a com o teu comportamento de merda, por n\u00e3o a apreciares, por a tomares como garantida, por a fazeres sentir-se sozinha mesmo quando ela estava contigo.<\/p>\n

Parab\u00e9ns, perdeu uma rapariga \u00fanica na vida<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You lost a girl who wanted to be yours. You lost a good girl\u2014one who just needed your love and appreciation and nothing more. You lost a girl who could\u2019ve made you happy if you just let her.<\/p>\n

You lost a girl any other man would die to have. You lost a girl you\u2019ll be looking for in every other girl that comes along from now on.<\/p>\n

Nenhuma das outras raparigas ser\u00e1 boa para ti como ela foi. Nenhuma das outras raparigas te amar\u00e1 como ela o fez.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t treat you with respect, won\u2019t look at you with admiration as she did.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t make sacrifices as big as she did, nor will they stay when you show them your bad sides. No one will be as silly as she was.<\/p>\n

But you know what? You did this one good thing for her. You let her go and open a space for someone who\u2019ll appreciate her and love her the way she deserves to be loved. Who would\u2019ve thought\u2014in the end you did something right.<\/p>\n

\"Parab\u00e9ns,<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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